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Often times, they hardly admit their flaws.

You'll hear "C. Ronaldo and Steve Job was born out of wedlock" "Children are bundle of joy" "I think its God's will".

Morestill most say "any man that loves me must allow me move in with my child".

I'm not an advocate of abortion. But this trend is becoming the norm.

Let's hear your experiences and opinion.

Morning peeps!

The deed is already done. You want them to condemn themselves or feel guilty for d rest of their lives?

Its simple, so u don't judge them, they've heard worse nd aren't ready to take urs....

Nd frankly speaking,our society is responsible 4d devlish act of dumping babies after death, "u stigmatize single mothers"

Is being a single mother a crime?

Religion doesn't support child out of wedluck, likewise abortion, same as sex b4 marriage.....so what makes you all different 4rm single mothers?

b4 will de disown their child

single moms are bcomin a sort of pride/joy celebs are doin it, nobody is askin u to condemn ursef but pls a thing of embarassment, dnt make it feel like a thing to b proud of.

i used to work in a bank and was in charge of documents. many gals forms i worked with they were over 35 and still single. it is beta to be a single mom. dan being a 40 year old single lady still praying for mumu miracle.

They cannot wait forever for "Responsible men"!

i love and adore single mothers...they are the best

Why won't they justify their actions? If they give me cutlass to clear a place, won't I clear my side first?
Ask some single moms & they surely will have stories to tell.

......becoming a single mom b4 25yrs dats 4ked up! if ur re above 30 you've earned the right.
those judging should realize that in today's time,necessity overpowers morality!

parrygee:
Often times, they hardly admit their flaws.

You'll hear "C. Ronaldo and Steve Job was born out of wedlock" "Children are bundle of joy" "I think its God's will".

Morestill most say "any man that loves me must allow me move in with my child".

I'm not an advocate of abortion. But this trend is becoming the norm.

Let's hear your experiences and opinion.

Morning peeps!

it is nobody business,they dont owe any1 any EXPLANATION for having a baby.I dont c anytin wrng in having a baby as long u cn take care of the baby

They only do that to make them appear they are happy but it really burns them inside.

parrygee:
Often times, they hardly admit their flaws.

You'll hear "C. Ronaldo and Steve Job was born out of wedlock" "Children are bundle of joy" "I think its God's will".

Morestill most say "any man that loves me must allow me move in with my child".

I'm not an advocate of abortion. But this trend is becoming the norm.

Let's hear your experiences and opinion.

Morning peeps!

Hmmm. One can't blame them anyways. If parents are to separate, one of them have to be committed to..or stand firmly with the child..not as a matter of law but as of love. Even though the love isn't complete(cuz every child deserves d love of a father and a mother)..this is d secret behind early widows with children that grow up and do well and mothers who emotionally choose to stand by her child after a divorce.

Its different from a mother who has d custody of the child yet harbours bitterness against the father or shift blames to the father, its the children of such parents that constitute gangs as wayward children..the children are not blind or deaf..they know what mummy says to them about dad and it has a deep impression on their mind as they grow..they may even never forget such words or attitudes of bitterness. I had friends like that when we were kids who complains about how their mother always tanish their fathers image b4 them(their fathers are irresponsible truly)..some of them are wayward now.

Besides, I've noticed from d few experiences I've seen that there's lesser trouble in the relationship of a new man+a woman with a kid; than a man with a kid+ a new woman

Nice analysis from the poster above.
(No vex, I no fit call your name).

I'm of the opinion you don't throw a baby with the bath water.
Some learn lessons after the incidences, while some could have been in abusive relationships/marriage, hence, reasons to go by such titles.

One thing I know for sure, majority of them are better to be with, either dating or hanging around or even marriage. They seem more knowledgeable and matured.
Life would had taught them enough. Except some few with loosed heads though.

First of all, why are there single mothers? Single parents? Even if you are not married during the conception and birth of the baby, you shouldn't have to raise the child alone!

We shouldn't blame one without the other. It's take 2 to malke a baby!

They are way better than ladies that abort countless times. At least they gave life to the baby,against all odds.

They shouldn't be condemned. On the other hand,the act shouldn't be encouraged.
BTW,am talking about single mothers,that conceived out of wedlock.

dating a single mom is a big fkin problem of its own with lots of branches, best advice for them : don't date them unless you're ready for the problems that comes with them.