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I saw this post https://www.nairaland.com/2356801/cheating-husband-not-worst-thing#34411074

And it got me thinking....
What really is the worst thing that can happen to a marriage
Cheating ?
Nagging ?
Finances mismanagement ?
Emotional Abuse ?
Physical Abuse ?
Inlaws interference ?
Exes resurfacing as friends ?
Becoming less attractive to your Partner ?
Kids arriving in quick succession
Kids not coming immediately

Ok I have run out of ideas,do include if you come up with something ......

Pick 3 choices in order of priority and state your reasons
Let's go!

Cc: Lalasticlala

kids not comming...that the worst

Aww I can't imagine ,but you know some couples actually decide to get the marriage stabilised before they welcome their patter of tiny feet

Jboyossai:
kids not comming...that the worst

death

1. Irreconcilable Difference. 2. Shortage of finance for Family Administration. 3. See the First To Comment.

Inlaws interference. And so shall a man leave his father and mother and joined to his woman and the two become one. Interference from either the man's family or the woman's family leave's a very negative mark in any marriage. Every other challenge can be managed and can be over come with support from each other. Even inlaw's interference can be over come, but the impression (usually wrong becuase emotions instead of reasing supersedes) already dented the union.

IMO , (1) kids nt coming immediately



(2) Inadequate / lack of finance 4 d family's upkeep


(3) Cheating

Well these seems the worst to me but if there have been other issues it gives the one alive an opportunity to move on and start afresh

Enegod:
death

GeneralQuamdeen:
1. Irreconcilable Difference.
2. Shortage of finance for Family Administration.
3. See the First To Comment.

IMO irreconcilable differences is just a broad term for so many hidden issues.......
Finances *lack* can cripple an otherwise healthy marriage

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