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I was in the bank today and I was sitting with a nursing mum(fine woman), the baby started crying and bam! She pulled out her bosom and started feeding the baby in the bank!!!! I was a bit mad and irritated why should a woman expose her bosom in such manner and in public for that matter!!
All this while I dey para for my mind as if na my wife, but I forgot that just some minutes ago I walked pass a lady in a see through dress and see the way all men's eyes (including yeye me!) Was following her in admiration! And here we(me and most of the people in the bank both male and female) are looking angrily at a married woman who was feeding her crying/hungry baby!
So to my questions, guys why do we frown at Ladies feeding their babies in public and yet admire ladies on see through dress?

Would be back to read and comment when you construct simple and correct sentences.

Well.... I don't think anyone would say putting on those dresses is okay. When Guys look at them, they don't admire, they lust after them.
Breastfeeding in public places is not bad, not doing enough to cover the bosoms is. Women know how they can reasonably cover themselves on such occasions.

I have three children, I breast fed all of them in public and I never for once saw anyone annoyed with it, na dem go dey beg me to answer the pikin sef.....

So OP, I think the problem is you!

repogirl:
I have three children, I breast fed all of them in public and I never for once saw anyone annoyed with it, na dem go dey beg me to answer the pikin sef.....

So OP, I think the problem is you!

after checking your profile, I doubt you have 3 kids

op u no even see anything. Where i work there are plenty nursing mother, they go just dey bring out the breast like say we men no dey. And when they wan jist about their sex and all with their husband some times ah dey shout ' ah dey here oh' so they go know say man dey. I'm adapting to it.
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repogirl:
I have three children, I breast fed all of them in public and I never for once saw anyone annoyed with it, na dem go dey beg me to answer the pikin sef.....

So OP, I think the problem is you!

Funny but true.

repogirl:
I have three children, I breast fed all of them in public and I never for once saw anyone annoyed with it, na dem go dey beg me to answer the pikin sef.....

So OP, I think the problem is you!

Ma I was not the only one who was mad at the lady some people were also mad at her. One lady had to give her scarf to cover her bosom!

masterchi:
op u no even see anything. Where i work there are plenty nursing mother, they go just dey bring out the breast like say we men no dey. And when they wan jist about their sex and all with their husband some times ah dey shout ' ah dey here oh' so they go know say man dey. I'm adapting to it.
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Funny but true.

But is it bad for them to breast their babies?
And concerning the sex matter women get A1 for that filed!!!!

ChappyChase:
But is it bad for them to breast their babies?
And concerning the sex matter women get A1 for that filed!!!!

let them be, they are rendering a great service to the nation. just that seeing the breast is overrated.

agarawu23:
after checking your profile, I doubt you have 3 kids

well...blessed are those who have not seen but believe.....its very true.

repogirl:
well...blessed are those who have not seen but believe.....its very true.

wow , you gat a good look then. love that

agarawu23:
wow , you gat a good look then. love that

thanks.

masterchi:
op u no even see anything. Where i work there are plenty nursing mother, they go just dey bring out the breast like say we men no dey. And when they wan jist about their sex and all with their husband some times ah dey shout ' ah dey here oh' so they go know say man dey. I'm adapting to it.
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Funny but true.

Yeah , very funny.

repogirl:
Yeah , very funny.

that moment when you hear 'madam u no go breastfeed that baby' and u are wondering if they wan see the ish or sincerely concerned about the welfare of the kid. lolx

I'm talking as a lady and a mother. And i seriously condemn both. Yes,a lil cleavage sometimes(very few times)but not revealing stuffs like that. And as a mum,i didnt even breastfeed in front of my brother,how much more bringing out the thing in public like that. I know babies dont know location,they want to eat immediately,but you can try pacify a lil or look for somewhere a lil private. You can even back the public at worst

MizTyna:
I'm talking as a lady and a mother. And i seriously condemn both. Yes,a lil cleavage sometimes(very few times)but not revealing stuffs like that. And as a mum,i didnt even breastfeed in front of my brother,how much more bringing out the thing in public like that. I know babies dont know location,they want to eat immediately,but you can try pacify a lil or look for somewhere a lil private. You can even back the public at worst

repogirl:
I have three children, I breast fed all of them in public and I never for once saw anyone annoyed with it, na dem go dey beg me to answer the pikin sef.....
So OP, I think the problem is you!

.. Na married women full romance section oh

Fizboy:
.. Na married women full romance section oh

I ain't married sir

MizTyna:
I ain't married sir

Thought Ur post stated u were.. I for fear oh

nah its nor fair its dark

looking for a little hiding place is better.Sometimes ur child will cry like say tomorrow no dey...na to open am yeye use small handkerchief cover your breast.

masterchi:
that moment when you hear 'madam u no go breastfeed that baby' and u are wondering if they wan see the ish or sincerely concerned about the welfare of the kid. lolx

But one thing that always baffles me is; what do we gain exactly by looking? Okay after seeing the ish, what does it add to you? That's always my mindset about this. Seeing it won't add or remove anything from me so why bother

MizTyna:
I ain't married sir

Proud single mum, huh? Things don change finish! No pun intended.

MizTyna:
I ain't married sir

When you've started nursing a baby, you'll understand why women breastfeed their babies in public.

Women and their babies no send us. The best tin na to carry face comot. I feel for the fathers if they are present. Other men be checking out their wifey.

steppin:
Proud single mum, huh?
Things don change finish!
No pun intended.

'Is it Ur single ?' Hian!

agarawu23:
after checking your profile, I doubt you have 3 kids

why do u doubt her?! My sista inlaw has 4kids and she is slimmer and look younger than her...and her kids are very wild and stubborn! They work her up 247! ...esp d1 they call daduu!!

Stop doubting...it wears 1down!

i honestly don't get d analogy or contradiction or wateva is being passed across here men...........

AgapeCharis:
When you've started nursing a baby, you'll understand why women breastfeed their babies in public.

*deep sigh*

steppin:
Proud single mum, huh? Things don change finish! No pun intended.

Aii,i'll wear a sack and put ashes on my head or something. Happy?

repogirl:
I have three children, I breast fed all of them in public and I never for once saw anyone annoyed with it, na dem go dey beg me to answer the pikin sef.....

So OP, I think the problem is you!

u get three kids and ur figure still dey like dat?
how come?

nairalife2013:
why do u doubt her?! My sista inlaw has 4kids and she is slimmer and look younger than her...and her kids are very wild and stubborn! They work her up 247! ...esp d1 they call daduu!!

Stop doubting...it wears 1down!

that's cool. I like that
you know some ladies aren't packaging after birth. some have just 1 kid but you Will think they are in menopause.

good morning