₦airaland Forum

'Linda' is the woman in 63-year-old controversial artist and grandfather Charly boy. And through her, Charly says he sees... long before Caitlyn Jenner came along. The story he shared about Caitlyn continues below:

I must ask you this question. In our pursuit for happiness, do we focus on the dictates of life based on our social environment or on our own personal need of what individually makes us happy? For the past few days the global social media has been agog with Bruce Jenner sex change, he now wishes to be called Caitlyn.

Surfing through some of our local blogs, I have read some yahoo yahoo comments from Nigerians who feel that their yeye comments are really of any importance in the decision taken by this great Olympian, now, the gender bender.

Yes, I saw Bruce Jenner Vanity Fair interview. I read it over and over, it sounded so gutsy, sincere, truthful and so free. Bruce had always been married, had kids, and a successful career but for a long time he had never been happy and content with being a man. Sometimes we find it difficult understanding what prompts one to make those kinds of changes that are physically and emotionally permanent and we start to speculate, Maybe he wanted to rebrand, wanted to put himself back into serious reckoning again. Yes, sometimes it can be about the drama and the almighty dollars who is to say.

However, It just may be devoid of all those and just be a spiritual journey to finding self, purely a pursuit of happiness, about being free, and finding strength to be that which makes one feel complete irrespective of who's ox is gored!

My take:

It is not one’s masculinity or femininity alone that defines one’s identity, it is the harmony between the two that determines how comfortable and integrated one’s identity is going to be. In other words, shocking as this may be to the more macho in our midst, inside some men, lies an unexpressed woman. And even more shocking is the proposition that the object of masculine identity development is not the elimination of this woman, but acknowledging the existence of, and fine-tuning the feminine side with the masculine part of the identity. In other words, blending the two fundamental principles of yin and yang to influence our behavior.

The “masculine woman” has become more socially acceptable than the “feminine man”, who is still an object of derision. And herein lies the root of the gender conflict. Women find it easy to pursue their masculinity; men find it disagreeable to even acknowledge, let alone pursue their femininity. A few people have been able to find that balance and I am happy that Linda lives here, in me? Yesoooooo!
So to those of you in your personal pursuit for happiness whatever it is, climb every rainbow and follow every star till you find your dream.


http://www.lailasblog.com/2015/06/through-linda-i-see.html

I really don't understand this man!

Did they say 21 million Nigerians are mad the other day ..Well this is an Empirical evidence

why this man no wan gree go T b Joshua now ?? his deliverance is due

this man is just exclusively dumb, crazy and deranged

End time man.... Darele madness no strong reach this man own

Attention prostitutes

Ok

charlie boy is an attention seeker

Cute women!

slys:
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slys:
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mustydeen:
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CHANGE!

Birds of a feather...
Whatever rock your boats!

Area father seeking attention.

Alter Ego my Black Behind.

Naso craze dey start!

Mtcheeww

Werey indeed. My God, what people would do to find happiness if u would define it that way *phew*

This man is a old pig, how can someone celebrate such stupidity

Identity crisis.

Weird

This man is different shades of crazy

THREAD CLOSED.

It is now confirmed: This man has gone maaadddd!!

Another scandal from a a maniac

Our Daddy has gone mad again.

Madness at it peak.
mtheeeww




Iranu!

Birds of the same feathers

50 shades of madness

And to think this man is a grand dad? SMH

this man has great issues, those who live with him are really trying can't deal. Just wondering if his grand kids will be proud to call him their grandpa






It's not my business though
GAY ALERT
The “masculine woman” has become more socially acceptable than the “feminine man”, who is still an object of derision. And herein lies the root of the gender conflict. Women find it easy to pursue their masculinity; men find it disagreeable to even acknowledge, let alone pursue their femininity. A few people have been able to find that balance and I am happy that Linda lives here, in me? Yesoooooo!

Rumpelstiltskin:
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Just stop there, or you mean electronic?

Chill what does this man do for a living