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Beremx:
Madam,you are very heartless! This is no way to talk to someone who is broken hearted. Is this the kind of advice you give to a fellow woman who is about loosing her man to another woman?

Chai! Very wicked comment!

Abeg no reply me o!

Gosh this is sickening!

I am very glad to be heartless in this case. If I see a child playing with fire, I will give him or her a soild laidi.... I will not rub the child's head.

WTF do you mean by 'she is loosing her man to another woman'

A lady meets a guy 6 months ago and is saying lose her man? Who dash her man?

Chillisauce:
Chinekeh
All this for one person?

easy tiger!

Done out of e-love mammi

bellong:
Well you have a point with the a disgrace to the family part.

The guy am sure behaved same way in the presence of the other girl. It is an age long tactic used to prey ladies..

If this lady has a loving/normal family, is she not a disgrace to them?

@Berem asking if it was my sister... she will get resounding words or slaps

Her subsequent responses did me in; See the lovely advices yourself and tearoses gave her... yet she is going on that she likes the way he makes her feel? Really in a 6 month relationship That is filled with him cheating, confessing to have slept with her and sexting girl 2 in her presence?

What feeling does she like?

Beremx:
Bukatyne even said the Op has nothing to offer to potential husbands?

Very wicked comment I tell ya!

If she has something to offer them, she will not cast her pearls before a swine.

She will end the crazy relationship, seat back to evaluate on what made her fall for him and learn

Then she will take time off the dating scene and heal

Thereafter repackage herself and move on.

She is here asking if she is the side/main chic

Takuology 101

I need to even develop a meter for measuring a guy's heart

bukatyne:
I am very glad to be heartless in this case. If I see a child playing with fire, I will give him or her a soild laidi.... I will not rub the child's head.

WTF do you mean by 'she is loosing her man to another woman'

A lady meets a guy 6 months ago and is saying lose her man? Who dash her man?

Sister Bukky is now dishing the "F" word....

bellong:


Sister Bukky is now dishing the "F" word....

She will marry this guy and tomorrow start expecting miracles when the poor guy has shown his true colors for the beginning.

Kimoni:
From her subsequent posts, she has gotten to that stage where she isn't thinking straight anymore and will not heed to any gentle words

Reading those words from her, you are either too annoyed to advise her so you let her stray or you tell her some bitter truths

I hope she reads it all and makes some useful decisions for herself

They are always beclouded by "love" at this stage and lose their sense of good judgement

I hear

TV01:
Bukatyne


TV

God help us

bukatyne:


She will marry this guy and tomorrow start expecting miracles when the poor guy has shown his true colors for the beginning.

Of course, she will. The sex is good.

Not easy to find a better beast on bed.

bellong:


Sister Bukky is now dishing the "F" word....

She's backsliding The world is indeed coming to an end. . BeeKay, clean up your diction. Leave the swearing to us degenerates.

Timbuktou:
She's backsliding The world is indeed coming to an end. . BeeKay, clean up your diction. Leave the swearing to us degenerates.

Sprinkles holy water on her while rebuking the 'demons'....


The saints were once sinners... Never too late to turn back.


Saw a funny inscription on a church... "Sinners are welcome here.."

bellong:
Sprinkles holy water on her while rebuking the 'demons'....


The saints were once sinners... Never too late to turn back.


Saw a funny inscription on a church... "Sinners are welcome here.."

Please, sprinkle responsibly o. Don't let that thing burn my skin off

I hear the Good News is for sinners first, aye? They should just remember to not remain in sin.

Timbuktou:
Please, sprinkle responsibly o. Don't let that thing burn my skin off

I hear the Good News is for sinners first, aye? They should just remember to not remain in sin.

You should rather be scared of the demons coming at you than the water...

bellong:
You should rather be scared of the demons coming at you than the water...

Coming at me ke? Wetin I do dem?

Where is thy Op

She has left the post?

Thumb up to bukatyne and co

Strong advice

Timbuktou:
Coming at me ke? Wetin I do dem?

No vacuum in space... Dem go need temporary or permanent accommodation... Remember the gadarene..

bellong:
No vacuum in space... Dem go need temporary or permanent accommodation... Remember the gadarene..

I assure you, I'm well occupied. No shance for dimunz. Abeg give another map.

Timbuktou:
I assure you, I'm well occupied. No shance for dimunz. Abeg give another map.

Please leave him and walk away and someone who u deserve will come tour way. It won't stop even in marriage nd don't let him.decieve you and don't expect to change him. Walk away or prepare to come back here again and complain you want divorce

Hell leave the hell out of him
You only feel you have something to lose because it's obvious you have not been zipping up.
Make sure if you enter another relationship you zip the hell up
They are a thousand and one good guys out there you are interested in knowing if he loves you .
And pls step up your game this una guy got no attachment of respect for you, you don't want to be in a life long relationship with this nitwit.

martijez:
Leaving him is not the problem,buh wah if the next is worse than him,for how long will I keep "leaving",for how long will I keep running instead of facing my fears,he made me promise to never leave him.....

tearoses:
You are approaching this totally the wrong way. You are making yourself look clingy, whiny and very annoying too

Why are you calling the girl? What business do you have with her?

The more you call her, the more she reports to your bf and the more he takes her side as the victim & pushing them closer.

Is it by force that you must go out with this man? He came to see your parents, yet is sex chatting another woman . . . .

He has made it clear that you are both sharing him and he is not ready for a mono relationship. What more do you want him to tell you? The writing is on the wall. He is a boyfriend to both of you.

So stop disrespecting yourself & stop selling yourself short.

You cant force a man to love you, no matter how much you rant or battle with the opposition. Even if he marrys you, his mind is elsewhere.

Respect yourself pls. He clearly doesnt respect you or the relationship.

Well said!!! The concluding part of her message drives me mad..."I love this guy so much" and so what Of what essence is the love when he doesn't feel same for you? I trust my kind, the same speed the love takes to develop is the same it uses to depart.

The guy can never be faithful to you so don't force the relationship to be. Before what you will fear the most happens which is dumping you, end the relationship and move on.

bellong:
Sprinkles holy water on her while rebuking the 'demons'....


The saints were once sinners... Never too late to turn back.


Saw a funny inscription on a church... [/b]"Sinners are welcome here.."[/b]

Loool.