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patrickdarlins:
thats almost impossible my dear....25% out of 100%...no na....so u mean she shouldnt tell the fiancee??

patrickdarlins:
and what if the fiancee refused to get along with the marriage rites...what will u do?

jashar:
Move on with life as hard as it may be.

Is he the only man in the world?

RoyalRoy:
[color=#000033] As long as there is at least a percentage of having babies then just zip it.


Yea.... Zip It.

A man may not want you just for procreation alone but for companionship and other things.

Telling him is just like giving him a heart ache.

The most natural thing is that he will want to leave....but then if the heart is involved then it makes it a hard decision.

Keep praying for a miracle and hopefully things will go your way.


If it doesn't.....then don't be mad if he looks for other alternatives.

Cheers!! [/color]

patrickdarlins:
men are are everywere......good men are scarce now...hope u know...and besides...time is not on her side..

jadelyn007:
there is almost nothing in life is 100% certain, there is a 50% chance that we'll see tomorrow, their is also a 50% chance we won't live to see tomorrow. Do we then focus on d 50% negative? 25% is different from no chance at all.

mymz:
And if it were you and i in this situation for example, would you still advice i "zip it"?

jashar:
Na by force to marry? Leave time alone joor. So, because of time she should just marry anyhow shey?
I don't believe that. I'd take being single and happy any day any time than being married and made to feel miserable.
It's hard o, but if bro can't deal with issue, she should free him instead of getting married to him and the guy would feel trapped and coerced into the marriage.

jnrbayano:
Not telling her husband-to-be is akin to giving him grade A poison.

It is criminal.

ahnie:
Clears throat**It takes a strong man to hear such damaging truth.i 'll tell him.

patrickdarlins:
who wears the shoe...knows were it pinches...

mcdokwe:
Don't know for sure, but I might suspend the marriage plans and seek solutions with her or just go ahead with the marriage with hope ways would be found... But if she knows and never tells me about a problem as gross as this and after marriage I get to find out, hmmm

freecocoa:
She should tell him, this is not the type of thing you keep from your intended.

patrickdarlins:
ur reasons for telling him please...

patrickdarlins:
your reasons please...

mymz:
And if it were you and i in this situation for example, would you still advice i "zip it"?

cococandy:
iys pretty obvious isn't it? Not everything needs explanation

RoyalRoy:
[color=#000033] My dear I won't wanna know..... Really a woman with 25% chance is definitely not barren!!!
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bukatyne:
The husband to be should know what he is up against so he is making an informed decision

patrickdarlins:
what happens to the remaining 75%??.....they are not telling u its 50-50 oo......oga wetin u de talk??....almost impossible seems impossible....seriously...

bellong:
Not telling him is laying a foundation of deception. What gives the people this idea that every guy is first interested in the woman becoming a baby factory than in her alone first?

If she doesn't tell now, they will still go for medical tests after marriage and the truth would be revealed. Better face the demon now than be put to double annointing of shame, rejection and regret.

babyosisi:
O gini kwa

sniperr007:
It's easy to advise ger to tell him but put ursef in her place, its very hard.

To me, she shud hit him abt d issue but coming out 100%, I no fit sabi.

RoyalRoy:
A man may not want you just for procreation alone but for companionship and other things.

RoyalRoy:
Telling him is just like giving him a heart ache.

...bellong...dey regulate go jor !

babyosisi:
Hehehehehehehehe!! Njokusboy and timbuktou what do you say to this