Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / NewStats: 3,161,449 members, 7,846,880 topics. Date: Saturday, 01 June 2024 at 05:34 AM |
Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Family / My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? (27286 Views)
‘Family Cut Me Off Because I Married A Woman On Wheelchair’ / “I Married My Boyfriend Who Infected Me With HIV Because I Love Him” —woman Says / I Married Someone I Don't Trust. What's The Way Out? (2) (3) (4)
(1) (2) (3) ... (9) (10) (11) (12) (Reply) (Go Down)
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by SirAweezy(m): 12:08pm On Jun 22, 2015 |
kandiikane: The guy seems caring and loving from her post... not egotistical, not all men cook, run errand for the house, besides if you mention preek around right? Do you know who she is meeting with Next? All I'm saying no matter what her hubby deserves a second chance, the only man that doesn't cheat is the only man that fears God greatly. Not the principled ones, nor the so call realist. I've seen little of men, even pastors that covers themselves under the grace of God to manipulate church women. So many things I'd like to say from the this real world of marriage. It is never the way you painted. You just have to make it work if you want it. But it's a choice. 7 Likes |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by kandiikane(m): 12:16pm On Jun 22, 2015 |
SirAweezy: So, because you meet someone who is caring and loving , you should overlook the cheating because of caring and loving. If your wife was the "ultimate" housewife, will you overlook her affairs. I mean as long as she cooks and cleans for you, it is all good right? Life does not work like that, daddy! Just because as a friend you give me money does not mean you have the right to maltreat me. The next preek could even be better, no one should sell themselves short. Infact, I find that people who seem very caring and loving but have evil habits are the worst kind. Those are the ones who will poison you slowly without you knowing. And it is the one that tends to hurt even more. Very sly and conniving set of humans. They are only wearing a mask. 5 Likes |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by SirAweezy(m): 12:29pm On Jun 22, 2015 |
kandiikane: I can't overule your point they are making sense. But her marriage is too young, she needs to find a way to forgive. But she if can't it's okay. Same advise I'll give to my daughter. Two months and you want to quit.? No! 2 Likes |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by kandiikane(m): 12:34pm On Jun 22, 2015 |
SirAweezy: Two months? Absolutely. I feel it is way easier to quit now than let's say 10, 15years of marriage. 8 Likes |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by SirAweezy(m): 12:38pm On Jun 22, 2015 |
kandiikane: The earlier you know your partner, the better for you. This can make him/her adjust to settle down to reality quickly. What happened to the op is redeemable. And not a close ended one. 1 Like |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by kandiikane(m): 1:07pm On Jun 22, 2015 |
SirAweezy:Every act of cheating is redeemable until ashawo galore part 4. 3 Likes |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by Nobody: 1:15pm On Jun 22, 2015 |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by Dlionsheart: 2:26pm On Jun 22, 2015 |
@op, welcome to the world of reality. |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by Chinum: 2:26pm On Jun 22, 2015 |
focus7: Tomorrow when the devil decides to use some hunk to tempt ur wife I hope u will return d favour by following ur advice. 3 Likes |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by Stillfire: 2:32pm On Jun 22, 2015 |
Nonso23: Is that not how you people like your girls- very vulnerable, defenseless and powerless. Look on the bright side, she wouldn't question your 'authority' and the decisions you make like we stubborn, 'frustrated' feminists. 4 Likes |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by damiso(f): 2:32pm On Jun 22, 2015 |
Indeed you will.. I hope you are able to sort this out and take whatever decision you feel works best for you. 1 Like |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by ABEngine(m): 2:32pm On Jun 22, 2015 |
classicB: Carrier you mean Aero, Arik or MTN? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by Chinum: 2:41pm On Jun 22, 2015 |
ttoniaben: This mode of reasoning is too outdated. CHANGE IT!!! |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by simpleseyi: 3:09pm On Jun 22, 2015 |
I don't know why some of you are begging this woman to take things easy while she is spiting fire. She can go and file a divorce if she wants to, there are several women waiting at her door step, ready to jump on her bed once she is out. the husband has several bedmates already, so he will not miss our dear angel wife if she finally decides to leave, the guy will just call any of his numerous bedmates to keep him warm. It's men's world, take it or leave it. If you wan waka, I beg waka quick quick make person wey wan do come do. This however, does not mean that I support adultery in any form, but an adulterous husband is not the worst thing on earth. If the poster tells her mother, she will be surprised that her mother will tell her (poster) several times that her (poster) father had different side chicks in the past and probably still have side chicks till date, yet the she (poster's mother) will not consider divorce. Some frustrated ladies here that are advising the poster to separate and divorce her husband are going through worst situation. Some of them are married to serial cheaters, some have caught their husbands in bed with their dirty maids, some of their husbands have several children from different women outside wedlock, some are married to unrepentant wife beaters, yet they will not consider divorce but they are here giving senseless advices. Who knows, one of the husband's mistresses may even be here, giving divorce advice, waiting for the wife to move out so that she (mistress) can jump in. The adulterous husband deserves a severe punishment even from us the men folks because he is painting all of us as adulterers and giving us a very bad image. Adultery is a sin against God and man, but divorce itself is also a sin. 4 Likes |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by ttoniaben: 3:40pm On Jun 22, 2015 |
Chinum:who is this one? 2 Likes |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by Daresh(f): 5:19pm On Jun 22, 2015 |
Haywhymido: This is the stewpidest thing i have ever read 3 Likes |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by Daresh(f): 5:21pm On Jun 22, 2015 |
simpleseyi: People like you believe a womans life revolves around a man. If another woman jumps into his bed nko? Aren't they already there? You think she can't build a happy fulfilled life without a man? Abeg give chance jor. 8 Likes |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by simpleseyi: 5:38pm On Jun 22, 2015 |
Daresh: You are getting me wrong. My own idea is that marriage is an institution that needs to be protected. Not running out of marriage at the slightest disagreement. The videos this lady saw were recorded before their marriage, technically, the guy was single then and has not committed any offense in the presence of law. The fact that they were preparing for marriage does not mean that they were married. Can a woman go to court and ask the magistrate to separate them because her now husband was flirting before they got married? Do you think the magistrate will listen to such excuse for divorce? The marriage is an institution that needs to be protected and guided jealously by both the man and the woman. Not that a woman will be threatening divorce just because the husband used to have several bedmates before marriage. I am against divorce in any form except the marriage is becoming life threatening, only the living has spouse. 5 Likes |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by seedord247(m): 6:04pm On Jun 22, 2015 |
I'd have advice the OP to listen to kandikane and the so called obfuscated feminist, but too bad none of em of have a valid relationship more less of a marriage. They prolly want the OP to join their horrendous Clique of false lesbianism And don't get it twisted.. It's a man world. 2 Likes |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by Tundeiab(m): 8:53pm On Jun 22, 2015 |
SAMBARRY:Na joke I dey o You don dey vex be that o. |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by Tay16(f): 9:31pm On Jun 22, 2015 |
SirAweezy:by going far you mean the recording part or the having an extra-marital affair part? 5 Likes |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by Amis(f): 12:21am On Jun 23, 2015 |
simpleseyi: True talk my bro...there no perfect being anywhere to err is human... |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by Haywhymido(m): 5:15am On Jun 23, 2015 |
Daresh:dat's ur opinion n u r entitled to av such, since u r human being but to me dat silly opinion of urs doesn't count. Good day 2 Likes |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by Nobody: 7:18am On Jun 23, 2015 |
2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by Stillfire: 12:00pm On Jun 23, 2015 |
Nonso23: I would like to move this conversation to this thread. https://www.nairaland.com/2068013/women-development-nigeria-since-pre-colonial/3#35061500 |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by Nobody: 6:44am On Jul 07, 2015 |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by Ama80(f): 8:38am On Jul 07, 2015 |
Yr hubby appeared to b d naughty type dat was y he got married to ur type" bookish n unworldly" and not his type.d reason he did dat was bcs he has a bad life n needs u to mak him better.u hav ur job cut out Fr you in earnest,d earlier u start,d better.pls stop sniffing around as u might find d worst.but do confront him and observe if he is remorseful n willing to change.pls take it easy,it might b an addiction he is fighting to drop. |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by Galaxydon1(m): 8:54am On Jul 07, 2015 |
agarawu23:agara ewu. Read the story again. Dull brain. EWU Agara. |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by Stillfire: 6:28pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
Nonso23: Lol, I don't even have that time again for nairaland. I have a lot on my plate as well. I shouldn't even be here lol. Don't even worry abeg. I have a hundred page protocol to read, see me on NL chatting nonsense. God help me. |
(1) (2) (3) ... (9) (10) (11) (12) (Reply)
9 Things Teenagers Don’t Want To Hear From Adults / Pregnant Wife Pranks Husband That Her Water Broke / Twins Have A Special Connection: Fact Or Myth
(Go Up)
Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 69 |