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Please bro move on wit ur life. God has saved u. U can transfer all d luv u ve 4 her 2 sm 1 else. Tho it's nt goin 2 b easy,buh u jst ve 2 try

churchkilo:
the op said wife to be ,not a girlfriend but someone he has already made up his mind to spend the rest of his life ,I don't know how he came to know that the said lady is meant for him either through revelation or whatever and the enemy came in to steal,kill and destroy his joy but he has the right up and say no to the enemy or let him do the harm

Wife to be doesn't translate to wife automatically$a "wife" that can do that should be kick out or what did your bible said about Adultery?

God's wisdom is but foolishness to men,u want an eye for an eye,tooth for tooth but He that instituted marriage says no

tuffgongjo:
oh,common you yan was rubbish to say the least$I don't applaud shiit like that.

God's wisdom is but foolishness to men,u want an eye for an eye,tooth for tooth but He that instituted marriage says no

churchkilo:
and who told you I am waiting for you applause

guy just accept say your reply no make sense abeg. Even God no want make we be mumu... How can you advise someone to accept that kind of girl back? I sure say even God no happy with your reply..

churchkilo:
God's wisdom is but foolishness to men,u want an eye for an eye,tooth for tooth but He that instituted marriage says noGod's wisdom is but foolishness to men,u want an eye for an eye,tooth for tooth but He that instituted marriage says no

one reason the bible supports Divorce is Adultery,right? And once a Cheat always a cheat.

churchkilo:
God's wisdom is but foolishness to men,u want an eye for an eye,tooth for tooth but He that instituted marriage says noGod's wisdom is but foolishness to men,u want an eye for an eye,tooth for tooth but He that instituted marriage says no

Prey!Oloshos take note!

churchkilo:
I think you should forgive her,and if you so truly love her still take her to he your wife if only she makes up her mind to forget about the other guy completely.though it's a difficult decision to make, you can ask God for the grace as both of you put everything behind you.

Is it because you are called 'churchkilo' that you giving this type of strange advice?

How would he know that she has made up her mind to forget the other guy?
Someone he took care of like that and yet she betrayed him, and got pregnant for another guy, he should accept her back?

Even Jesus will slap him if he tries that!

Op, find a way to collect your properties, forgive her and move on with your life- you will find someone better!

hmm just run away. do you want to marry a woman who is pregnant for another man? think o!

@JeffreyJamez, olofofo...lol. Meanwhile what happened to your I'll-do-anything-for-my-lafy talks? Talk is cheap, huh?


@Poster, she has moved out of your life, so unless you are willing to forgive and forget, let her be and move on too.

PrettySpicey:
@JeffreyJamez, olofofo...lol. Meanwhile what happened to your I'll-do-anything-for-my-lafy talks? Talk is cheap, huh?


@Poster, she has moved out of your life, so unless you are willing to forgive and forget, let her be and move on too.

Oh I can do that.... but not when She's getting nailed by an ex ....that automatically puts me in Avengers mode!

The girl is no longer interested in you. Don't chase after someone who does not value you. You are actually lucky you got to see her true colours before you got married. Imo it is good riddance to bad rubbish

Sorry for the heartbreak, but that girl is a biitch. just forget her like u lost ur money...others will come later. u may take solace in fvcking prostitutes and runaway bitches like us. Keep ur head straight, bro

Ditch the Biitch and move on with your life.

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Young03:
bro, go back to their family n collect ur bride price back


end d marriage, cus she is already feeling ashamed of herself

Did you read this story at all ? No marriage there oga

ganiberry:
Good morning to you all,

I need your advise on what to do in this matter. Please note that it is a true life story and a resent happening.

I met her in 2013 and we started dating, the relationship got serious and we agreed to be more committed to each other. I proposed marriage and she accepted. I took care of her, rented a room and a parlour for her in Ajah furnished the room and she was living comfortably.

I took her to Ghana and Dubai on vacation at different times and everything was going on smoothly.

I went to Abuja to work for one month in April on offical assignment and the whole story changed. Her ex-boyfriend called her that he was in town from South Africa and asked her to see him. They had mis-understanding before the guy went back to base in South Africa. The reason for the mis-understanding was that the guy had relationship with her roommate and she caught them.

The guy apologised to her when they met at the hotel and requested them to continue the relationship. Then the next thing was that they started having sex to the extent that she stayed with the guy for a while in the hotel and visit her subsequently.

I came back and i suppose the guy had gone back to South Africa by then. I observed that my girl did not allow me to touch or have anything to do with her.

I gave her some money to start a business but rather than using the money for the purpose, she used the part of the money to pack all my belongings in the house and ran to the east. Meanwhile by this time she had switched off her phone. She was only speaking to her brother. Who later decided to visit her in the east.

Then the bubble busrst, she was pregnant and since she did not know what to do, she ran away and packed all my properties. I love her so much and even up till now i still find it difficult to get over it.

When i eventaully spoke with her through her brother, all she could say was that i should forgive her. Please advise me on what to do. I still thinking so much about her. The relationship that is almost two years. All her family members have known me and i was taking care of them also. They got to know about this and were all supprise at her behaviour. But she still not talking to me. She will only put on her phone call some people and swiched off again. I have not been able to speak with her after the first one through her brother, even if i tried to call and her phone was ringing, she will not pick before switching off.

I wonder why she had to allow somebody that has not contributed any dime to her welfare to impregnate her without proposing marriage or introdusing her to his family members. She said she had called the guy in South Africa and he said okay. He has not called since then to tell her what to do.

Please i need your advise. No abuse please and note that this is not a nollywood story. The incident happened just last week.

Thank you.

You better forget her and move on. Use your head. God damn it.

But if you are ok with her unfaithfulness and won't mind raising another man's child go ahead.

Dont use it against her and the child in the future when 'the love' has left your eyes and brain

Goodluck.

Op you are still a learner,one yeye dey smell chop you like this,you come still dey ask for advise,abeg ask her to send you her acct no so you can pay in some money for her again.it's called love.nonsense.

elantraceey:
You know what to do so do it, Forget about her and move on , just see all you did for her as a charity work , you'll get someone better.

Elan, The great One