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Married Men And Women: Is It A Must You Take Dinner With Your Spouses? by msmon(m): 5:14pm On Jun 25, 2015
Spouses taking dinner together is a common act in a lot of families so much so that the wife will wait for the husband if he comes back very late in the day.

Is it a must spouses take dinner together?

Kindly share your thought.

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Re: Married Men And Women: Is It A Must You Take Dinner With Your Spouses? by bukatyne(f): 5:26pm On Jun 25, 2015
msmon:
Spouses taking dinner together is a common act in a lot of families so much so that the wife will wait for the husband if he comes back very late in the day.

Is it a must spouses take dinner together?

Kindly share your thought.

Late dinner is not advised (getting fat things)

However, it is ideal for spouses to wait for one another (if they can)

The wife can eat early and prepare little fruit salad for when the hubby comes

She watches and catches up with him while eating and they eat the fruit salad together

That way, they eat together grin

Same thing if the wife is the one coming late.

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Re: Married Men And Women: Is It A Must You Take Dinner With Your Spouses? by mystiqueDZ(f): 5:30pm On Jun 25, 2015
msmon:
Spouses taking dinner together is a common act in a lot of families so much so that the wife will wait for the husband if he comes back very late in the day.

Is it a must spouses take dinner together?

Kindly share your thought.
It is necessary,not compulsory....

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Re: Married Men And Women: Is It A Must You Take Dinner With Your Spouses? by msmon(m): 5:38pm On Jun 25, 2015
bukatyne:


Late dinner is not advised (getting fat things)

However, it is ideal for spouses to wait for one another (if they can)

The wife can eat early and prepare little fruit salad for when the hubby comes

She watches and catches up with him while eating and they eat the fruit salad together

That way, they eat together grin

Same thing if the wife is the one coming late.


I agree with u. It's funny to know that some families take it is so serious to the point that the wife won't take dinner if the circumstances warrant that.

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Re: Married Men And Women: Is It A Must You Take Dinner With Your Spouses? by bukatyne(f): 5:39pm On Jun 25, 2015
msmon:


I agree with u. It's funny to know that some families take it is so serious to the point that the wife won't take dinner if the circumstances warrant that.

That might be the foundation laid out.

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Re: Married Men And Women: Is It A Must You Take Dinner With Your Spouses? by ronald4lif(m): 5:43pm On Jun 25, 2015
Not when I'm dead hungry. I'll eat and she can eat whenever she's back. But when I'm less hungry I'd wait. Eating together always wouldn't add more flare to our romantic life, there are better ideas of building and sustaining romance.

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Re: Married Men And Women: Is It A Must You Take Dinner With Your Spouses? by Nobody: 5:45pm On Jun 25, 2015
Well.....It's not compulsory but it's really nice for spouses to eat together, It makes the marriage more fun and romantic....... Though I don't agree with the fact that the wife eats late because of her husband.

If the man is the type that gets back late from work, then they can eat together during the weekend.

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Re: Married Men And Women: Is It A Must You Take Dinner With Your Spouses? by Vision4God: 5:54pm On Jun 25, 2015
Somtyms d job of one may b so dmandin dat d only tym de hv 4 dscusin is wen eatin togeda.
Anyways it dpends on wat d couple hold as family values.

Btw I hv a neigbo hu confessed his ordeal wt anoda woman yle eating his wife's fud. D fud was so sweet dat he dint realise wat he was sayin. If she hadnt sat dwn to eat wt him hhhhmm I gues dat part wont hv bn xposed

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Re: Married Men And Women: Is It A Must You Take Dinner With Your Spouses? by msmon(m): 5:56pm On Jun 25, 2015
adeh39:
Well.....It's not compulsory but it's really nice for spouses to eat together, It makes the marriage more fun and romantic....... Though I don't agree with the fact that the wife eats late because of her husband.

If the man is the type that gets back late from work, then they can eat together during the weekend.

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Re: Married Men And Women: Is It A Must You Take Dinner With Your Spouses? by Nobody: 5:57pm On Jun 25, 2015
msmon:

Thumb up!

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Re: Married Men And Women: Is It A Must You Take Dinner With Your Spouses? by msmon(m): 5:57pm On Jun 25, 2015
ronald4lif:
Not when I'm dead hungry. I'll eat and she can eat whenever she's back. But when I'm less hungry I'd wait. Eating together always wouldn't add more flare to our romantic life, there are better ideas of building and sustaining romance.

Now, the thread is becoming interesting, dead hungry lolz.
Re: Married Men And Women: Is It A Must You Take Dinner With Your Spouses? by favouredon(f): 8:50am On Jun 26, 2015
It is not a must but it is kinda romantic and tends to bring couple close together. Sometimes, u discover that u catch up on little chats that we tend to overlook because of busy schedules. I and my hubby eat together most times but when we can help it, we eat separately.

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Re: Married Men And Women: Is It A Must You Take Dinner With Your Spouses? by Nobody: 8:56am On Jun 26, 2015
ronald4lif:
Not when I'm dead hungry. I'll eat and she can eat whenever she's back. But when I'm less hungry I'd wait. Eating together always wouldn't add more flare to our romantic life, there are better ideas of building and sustaining romance.

Na wa for u ooo....u re too harsh undecided

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Re: Married Men And Women: Is It A Must You Take Dinner With Your Spouses? by freecocoa(f): 9:03am On Jun 26, 2015
I guess whoever has to wait for someone else to eat isn't really hungry.

I don't even see eating together as a way of bonding.

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Re: Married Men And Women: Is It A Must You Take Dinner With Your Spouses? by Wendy80(f): 9:11am On Jun 26, 2015
My hubby will say hungry neva catch that spouse grin

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Re: Married Men And Women: Is It A Must You Take Dinner With Your Spouses? by ronald4lif(m): 9:58am On Jun 26, 2015
zaragal:


Na wa for u ooo....u re too harsh undecided

What did I do
Re: Married Men And Women: Is It A Must You Take Dinner With Your Spouses? by Nobody: 10:28am On Jun 26, 2015
ronald4lif:


What did I do

Jst greeting u ni grin
Re: Married Men And Women: Is It A Must You Take Dinner With Your Spouses? by Jamean(f): 10:47am On Jun 26, 2015
Well, to a large extent the answer to this question is subjective.

1. Do the couple enjoy eating together, bearing in mind that personality differs. I know of someone close who says she can't stand eating with someone even when she gets married. Personally, I prefer to eat with someone.

2. Does the couple's daily work activity allow for that communion time? If one does an 8-5 job and the other is self employed.

Based on the above, eating together is a good idea because of the bond it creates rather than to satisfy the stomach. I will advise that it is not made mandatory being a basic need for human survival.

The partner waiting for the other eats lightly incase it's gonna be a long wait and the partner waited for encourages the other by not arriving home and saying 'I am not hungry'

It should be out of love and due consideration.



Bia MarvellousGod your attention is needed here.

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Re: Married Men And Women: Is It A Must You Take Dinner With Your Spouses? by Nobody: 11:13am On Jun 26, 2015
Jamean:
Bia MarvellousGod your attention is needed here.
lol.. answer on my behalf na.
Re: Married Men And Women: Is It A Must You Take Dinner With Your Spouses? by tranxo(m): 11:23am On Jun 26, 2015
msmon:
Spouses taking dinner together is a common act in a lot of families so much so that the wife will wait for the husband if he comes back very late in the day.

Is it a must spouses take dinner together?

Kindly share your thought.




adeh39, Omotayor123, lalasticlala, ishilove.
In marriage, there is no rule cast in iron. No two marriages are the same, so the couple should decide what is best for them. Too many comparisons destroy marriages cos if the act does not come naturally, the day one person does not wait for the other, kasala go burst.

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Re: Married Men And Women: Is It A Must You Take Dinner With Your Spouses? by Omotayor123(f): 11:41am On Jun 26, 2015
msmon:
Spouses taking dinner together is a common act in a lot of families so much so that the wife will wait for the husband if he comes back very late in the day.

Is it a must spouses take dinner together?

Kindly share your thought.




adeh39, Omotayor123, lalasticlala, ishilove.
No, it's definitely not a Must. But I must say it's a good idea. As it strengthen their love bond & compels the spouses to always want to be home before dinner.
Re: Married Men And Women: Is It A Must You Take Dinner With Your Spouses? by ronald4lif(m): 11:44am On Jun 26, 2015
zaragal:


Jst greeting u ni grin

Oh I see. I salute you too. Had thought you were a trouble maker. wink
Re: Married Men And Women: Is It A Must You Take Dinner With Your Spouses? by Nobody: 11:47am On Jun 26, 2015
Yes and No

- when there are files on the table
- when there is a laptop
- when there are stuff to be done...reconciliation etc
- when she would be watching forever - India movie in the bedroom
- when kids have assignments to do
- when you need to watch national assembly members fighting themselves
- when Buhari is about to announce the names of ministers

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Re: Married Men And Women: Is It A Must You Take Dinner With Your Spouses? by Feranmicharles(m): 11:48am On Jun 26, 2015
Even Jesus took the last super with his disciples,and what was d result Betrayal and denyal angry

To me,is nt a must

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Re: Married Men And Women: Is It A Must You Take Dinner With Your Spouses? by kayc0(f): 11:49am On Jun 26, 2015
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Re: Married Men And Women: Is It A Must You Take Dinner With Your Spouses? by Adesiji77: 11:49am On Jun 26, 2015
It fosters good communication and bonding between a couple.

It can be challenging when both spouses work full time though.
Re: Married Men And Women: Is It A Must You Take Dinner With Your Spouses? by Minet16(m): 11:51am On Jun 26, 2015
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Re: Married Men And Women: Is It A Must You Take Dinner With Your Spouses? by emillionaire: 11:52am On Jun 26, 2015
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Re: Married Men And Women: Is It A Must You Take Dinner With Your Spouses? by ayusco85(m): 11:53am On Jun 26, 2015
Personal choice

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Re: Married Men And Women: Is It A Must You Take Dinner With Your Spouses? by Nobody: 11:54am On Jun 26, 2015
msmon:
Spouses taking dinner together is a common act in a lot of families so much so that the wife will wait for the husband if he comes back very late in the day.

Is it a must spouses take dinner together?

Kindly share your thought.













its good. but not compulsory
Re: Married Men And Women: Is It A Must You Take Dinner With Your Spouses? by Nobody: 11:55am On Jun 26, 2015
msmon:
Spouses taking dinner together is a common act in a lot of families so much so that the wife will wait for the husband if he comes back very late in the day.

Is it a must spouses take dinner together?

Kindly share your thought.





SOMETIMES, YOU GET THE FEELING OF EATING ALONE WERE THERE IS NO DISTURBANCE OF KIDS SPOON BASHING THE TABLE AND NOISE UP AND DOWN ESPECIALLY THE WOMAN ASKING FOR FAVOUR angry


IS GOOD TO EAT ALONE
Re: Married Men And Women: Is It A Must You Take Dinner With Your Spouses? by bogolobango(m): 11:55am On Jun 26, 2015
Baby three gbosa for u u sabi better thing


Tuale

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