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Cheating as a way of life in Nigeria is getting ridiculously normal and it would be wise as a man to watch out for signs in your wife-to-be to help you avoid stories that touch the heart.

There are several types of character a lady would possess that would tell if she is a potential cheat.

These classifications are basically from my personal observation.

Let's take the ride.

1: The lady with an above average-female sexual urge...

These kind of women may not necessarily be nymphomaniacs but they have libidos higher than the average female. They are the type that often disturb their boyfriends for se.x and more se.x
Generally women tend to be reluctant in engaging in marathon sexual acts say for four hours or more at a session. So when you have a wife-to-be who would gladly oblige you a series of marathon love making almost everyday. My advise to guys is to go back and reconsider your decisions because I bet it would be hard keeping up to such expectations as you grow older. Women who do not hold back a bit anytime sex is initiated is also a likely suspect.
The only exception to this scenario is when they man is way younger than the woman.


The number two on the list...


2: The women who always needs affirmation from men concerning their appearance:

These type of women are those type that dresses provocatively with sole purpose of turning the stare of the male folks to their body.

---- Let me quickly point out here that there are (some) girls who loves dressing scantily not basically to attract eyes. They just love putting on what is comfortable.-----

The type I mean in this situation are the women or ladies who would dress co-operately and still manage to leave one or two buttons undone exposing their cleavages or the type that would still manage to put that provocative slits on their skirts to expose their fresh laps.

These group also comprises of those women that after dressing gorgeously would still not feel confident until a guy have told them that they are beautiful.
I used to live with a certain woman that would always demand the opinion of any male around as to how she looks anytime she finishes with her make-up. Its not a bad thing to seek the opinion of your spouse as to how one looks but when the lady can not move and feel confident about her looks without confirmations from males telling her how beautiful or sexy she looks, my fellow guys its a bad sign... My advise... RUN! Or you would live with a women who would cheat on you sooner or later to prove to herself she still got the vibes in her.



The third on the list....but not the least


3: The woman or lady with numerous male (just) friends:

I will start this by telling a short story of a friend of mine who was engaged to a young lady but was worried about the number of male friends who usually check on her with tales that they are members of same church or choir, or course mates. My friend took his curiosity further and played detective but his findings proved her friends were normal and abnormal in the sense that she has relatively fewer female friends from the same church, choir and school.
He ended the relationship later on and it turned out it was a good moves because one of the supposed casual friend graduated to be her next boyfriend and as I write this, the same lady has dated like three other males since I started taking note.

These set of women are not really particularly popular but manage to have a mind blowing number of male friends and the number keep on increasing in a ratio that is non correlative like having 45 male friends to 5 females.

Secondly their best friends are mostly females among their very few female friends

Exceptions:
A popular lady on the other hand are less likely to cheat. A popular lady would have a relative number of friends from both sexes say 150 males 80 females or 150 females and 80 males.
A Tom-boy, that is a lady that behaves like a boy in her young life therefore has mostly males as friends are also less likely to cheat because they are usually very loyal and passionate.


So guys when your fiancé has all the names of guys in her contact list but very scanty female friends yet she claims they are just friends? Its time to reconsider your stance because you might be living with a serial cheat all your life.



Conclusion:

To be fair men are many more times likely to cheat than a woman In my opinion and I think a reasonable topic addressing the issue would read

"ways to make a man to stop cheating"



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Op hmmm any lady that doesn't have the fear of God can cheat any day any time.
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natas22:
Op hmmm any lady that doesn't have the fear of God can cheat any day any time.
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I thought about it and I actually removed it from the original article for the sake of avoiding long read. Good observation and point.

Hmmmm.... Dis male (just) frnds z always a problm!