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My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated / Guy Shares Pics With Cousin & People Are Reacting With The Way He Is Holding Her / Is My Brother Lusting Over Me???? (2) (3) (4)

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Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by Omotayor123(f): 10:21am On Jun 26, 2015
Toks2008:



Please dont also forget to look good and
get rid of that after child birth baby bump.

Wear crazy bumpshots and try to look as though you never drop one because guys foolishly always want to see their wives looking the way they met her before child birth.crazy i guess.
You dey Trycheesy
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by Nobody: 10:21am On Jun 26, 2015
Jst hush it right there! Am nt idle ok. Do u knw wat it means 4 u 2 be lying on d same bed wit a man 4 2 months wit out u pipol Gettn intimate nd yet he is comfortable wit it.
sonofananimal:



NIGERIA WOMEN ARE WORST THAN ANIMALS angry

YOU SEE WHAT I AM TALKING ABOUT undecided

THE SOLUTION IS RIGHT IN FRONT OF YOU, BUT YOU WANT A EASY WAY OUT.

YOUR OWN SITUATION NA IDLENESS CAUSE AM. OFF YOUR MIND OF YOUR HUSBAND, CONCENTRATE ON SOMETHING LIKE BUSINESS, AND TAKE CARE OF YOUR PHYSICAL STRUCTURE ( MOST WOMEN AFTER THEM DON DROP TWO PINKIN, DEM GO JUST DEY FAT LIKE COWangry ) YOUR BELLE AND BREA&T DON FALL FINISH YOU COME EXPECT YOUR HUSBAND TO DEY ENJOY LIKE BEFORE?

GO ENJOY YOUR HUSBAND COUSIN SEE WETI GO HAPPEN TO YOUR LIFE?



GUYS BEWARE OF NIGERIA WOMEN.
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by sunkanmiisaac(m): 10:23am On Jun 26, 2015
What si there is this pray to God so that u can be attractive to him again then u suppose to know what he like,do it and make sure u dress properly .

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Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by Nobody: 10:23am On Jun 26, 2015
No
adjoviomole:
I will just ask you this question.was. Your husband present with you in the labor room during your delivery?
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by xynerise: 10:24am On Jun 26, 2015
omaji53jeremiah:
may be you are over demanding for sex, and is beginning to wear him out.
Crap! There are other ways to satisfy a lady on bed without stress.

@Op

The first thing you need to do is to quench the fire of lust for his cousin.

Your husband might be going through psychological stress or health related issues and you need to ask questions about that. Take your time and "listen" to his gestures and attitude towards your actions.

Is he cheating? Well, this question should be running down your mind and you are right for having that thought.

Make him your best friend first. Forget all this red pant and white bra means of seduction grin

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Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by OgeniBravo: 10:24am On Jun 26, 2015
By the way, who is Lalasticlala?
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by VISTIN(m): 10:25am On Jun 26, 2015
Sister, I feel your pains, especially when you're doing your best to remain faithful to your marital vows.
I want you to know that every marriage has it's peculiar challenge that must come at a particular time. This is the time for your love for God and your marriage is being tested.
I know you might have been praying, but you can do better. People have gone through worse and the marriage eventually came out better and stronger.

Your hubby's cousin appearing now is a big trap by the devil to destroy you, your reputation and marriage. Let him be, avoid him like leprosy. I mean it.

Meanwhile, be careful whom you share this with, watch out the kind of Pastor you may be dealing with. These days are evil and a lot of advisers there.

Meanwhile, in your prayers, search your conscience and confess wahtever error to God - past or present.

Nothing is impossible. Please, try some sensible things N/landers shared. Don't give up, you're a winner. See you victorious.

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Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by IYANGBALI: 10:25am On Jun 26, 2015
Na dis kind letter dey always sweet Lalasticlala
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by lalasticlala(m): 10:26am On Jun 26, 2015
IYANGBALI:
Na dis kind letter dey always sweet Lalasticlala

shocked
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by ElFenomeno1: 10:27am On Jun 26, 2015
Take his cousin down.... Do it real fast, what are you waiting for? grin
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by Nobody: 10:27am On Jun 26, 2015
Am a fan of gud clothes. Sum tyms wen we r in d bedroom he'll b d one 2 tell mi girlie wear clothe small cos I luv being pant n bra wink
neutrotoba:
one question... how do you dress for ur husband these days
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by IYANGBALI: 10:27am On Jun 26, 2015
OgeniBravo:
By the way, who is Lalasticlala?
he is security guard on nairaland grin

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Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by eginacyril(m): 10:28am On Jun 26, 2015
pls try n get rid of d lust, also pray for intimacy in ur marriage

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Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by IYANGBALI: 10:29am On Jun 26, 2015
lalasticlala:


shocked
see as your eye be like tinubu own grin

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Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by omo17(m): 10:30am On Jun 26, 2015
If u av tried all d method above n it's not working , den use juju grin grin
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by Pope22(m): 10:30am On Jun 26, 2015
biaka1994:
Please I just need your advice or advices which ever of them. I met my husband in 2013 things were going on well and sweet. We normally make love almost every minute of the day so much dat I got used to it. When we got married and I got pregnant my husband became so cold towards sex I thought maybe he was scared of my pregnancy. Some times i'll have to beg him to make love to me. After much begging he'll reluctantly do it. I gave birth and I thought things would change but it's all the same. I keep begging and begging embarassed I have just decided to be myself and take my mind of it. The only person I talk to is his cousin and have become so close to him that am beginning to lust after him he is married tho but he lives close to us. Just this evening I nearly kissed him and I felt so embarrassed. Please guys help me it's Getting out of hand. What do I do? sad sad Please no bashing we all are humans and we do silly things atimes.




Cc: Lalasticlala

If my cousin's wife shld tell me this kind of tin, i wil create good quite time and place and discuss wit my cousin instead of keepin it and allowing the sex-starved wife to be getting close to me; having known wat might happen at d end. That ur husband's cousin is not a good brother, as a matter of fact, he is happy with wat is happening in ur marriage. Am even suspecting he is the one using spiritual means to divert ur husband's sexual attention so that u wil come to him and its happening since he cant talk to his brother as a brother.


Stay away frm him. You women are always escalate problems.

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Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by Nobody: 10:30am On Jun 26, 2015
biaka1994:
Please I just need your advice or advices which ever of them. I met my husband in 2013 things were going on well and sweet. We normally make love almost every minute of the day so much dat I got used to it. When we got married and I got pregnant my husband became so cold towards sex I thought maybe he was scared of my pregnancy. Some times i'll have to beg him to make love to me. After much begging he'll reluctantly do it. I gave birth and I thought things would change but it's all the same. I keep begging and begging embarassed I have just decided to be myself and take my mind of it. The only person I talk to is his cousin and have become so close to him that am beginning to lust after him he is married tho but he lives close to us. Just this evening I nearly kissed him and I felt so embarrassed. Please guys help me it's Getting out of hand. What do I do? sad sad Please no bashing we all are humans and we do silly things atimes.




Cc: Lalasticlala
So because things are not smooth in your marriage, you want to destroy his cousin's own abi? Read the writing on the wall. Your husband could be having an affair. The earlier you investigate and clear this issue with him, the better for you. bye.
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by Nobody: 10:30am On Jun 26, 2015
vickylala239:


Pls what is chubby?? Let Mi learn abeg

Or is it chokky Dat u wntd to write?
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by Edusouls(m): 10:30am On Jun 26, 2015
end time women, u re lusting for ur husbands cousin, sex is all ur problem and all u live for,the fact is that u re a spoilt cheat,sex maniac and u have no shame..if u have not even started cheating with him self..kai women of nowadays are calamity..
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by omojeesu(m): 10:31am On Jun 26, 2015
Sin is knocking at your door, please, dont open. Reconcile with your hub!
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by sukkot: 10:32am On Jun 26, 2015
[b]truth of the matter is he does not find you sexually appealing again. all the sex you should have had throughout the course of the marriage, you had it all in the first two years and now he is bored and tired of it. you should have presented yourself better. you should have played hard to get everytime he made sexual advances to you. make him desire you and long for it. space it out. dont let him get tired of it. dont give it to him all the time. but in your case you were just yanshing every minute, no restraint. he has fully explored you se-xually. there is no more desire there any more. and in cases like this, 9 times out of 10, the desire can never return once it is gone. he is finished with you sexually.

another thing is that a few men get turned off permanently from women when they see them pregnant. some men see it as disgusting. the nose gets bigger, she is spitting everywhere, farting alot, looks unrecognizable, walks funny, stomach starts getting black lines and is wrinkled permanently after birth etc etc so this could be your case. the famous elvis presley could never bring himself to have s-ex with his wife after she got pregnant. he never touched her after that.

however there is that 1 in 10 chance ( very slim ) that it may return but you have to undergo drastic physical transformation to where he sees you as a new person.

or better yet you can both seek a higher path and stop living for the flesh ? maybe you can both unite in the LORD and live for him and not for your flesh ?[/b]

these are all options

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Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by cupidhero(m): 10:32am On Jun 26, 2015
Seduce your husband so he can end up having sex with you or just find a way to RAPE him I'm sure he would do the same if he was in your shoes.

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Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by Sunnypa11(m): 10:32am On Jun 26, 2015
Konji of endtime
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by BornnAgainChild(f): 10:33am On Jun 26, 2015
biaka1994:
I have done dat so many times all he tells me is I won't tell him wen 2 do it n wen not to. Bro am getting tired. I wanted 2 walk out but I take a glance @my baby nd I hv a 2nd thought. Its rili weighing me down.

Well the truth might be bitter but then it obviously means his getting it elsewere,i'd advice you dont ask him for it again,just pretend and overlook him am sure his consciences would prick him,engage yourself with your kids affairs,try something new dress hot and take your baby out,and please try GET your your husbands cousin out of your mind,thats a NO NO,may God see you through
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by PreciousBro: 10:33am On Jun 26, 2015
biaka1994:
We normally make love almost every minute of the day so much dat I got used to it. When we got married and I got pregnant my husband became so cold towards sex

I think with this, it got to you so bad that you think the flow of s3x will continue with the same frequency.

I'm sure you don't give him a breathing space, wanting it like you used to, a grown up married lady should know better. You bringing it here asking for advise is lame, what do you want us to tell you huh, cheat on him ?

I think you don't want an advice, but to be deceived, something to help justify why you wanna/should bang his. Cousin(that's if you haven't already).

Pathetic!
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by lalasticlala(m): 10:33am On Jun 26, 2015
IYANGBALI:
see as your eye be like tinubu own grin

lol, let me cover it cool but i havent read your contribution to this topic
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by talk2bity: 10:34am On Jun 26, 2015
I must say that ur husband has not been trying at all.witches uses lust to destroy homes.having feeling for ur husband's cousin will not only destroy ur home but it will destroy his home and also their relationship with ur spouse.my advice here is that u call ur spouse sit with him and discuss the problem with him.u need to be prayerful.ask urself wether there is something u were doing that u don't do it now.i pray u get the solution to this problem.
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by blesoh(f): 10:34am On Jun 26, 2015
Pretend as if u dont care about sex,dress very sexy u'll see him coming for it.
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by Youngzedd(m): 10:34am On Jun 26, 2015
biaka1994:
I have done dat so many times all he tells me is I won't tell him wen 2 do it n wen not to. Bro am getting tired. I wanted 2 walk out but I take a glance @my baby nd I hv a 2nd thought. Its rili weighing me down.


Your husband is a boy. Running away from his responsibility.

Two of you should go and see a consultant. As others suggested, find out the root cause of the problem.

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Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by Nobody: 10:35am On Jun 26, 2015
The world is not a fair place.

The other day another woman was complaining of how her husband demands too much sexx from her.

Today, another is complaining how her hubby no dey do her again.

What a world.

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Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by Nobody: 10:36am On Jun 26, 2015
sonofananimal:



NIGERIA WOMEN ARE WORST THAN ANIMALS angry

YOU SEE WHAT I AM TALKING ABOUT undecided

THE SOLUTION IS RIGHT IN FRONT OF YOU, BUT YOU WANT A EASY WAY OUT.

YOUR OWN SITUATION NA IDLENESS CAUSE AM. OFF YOUR MIND OF YOUR HUSBAND, CONCENTRATE ON SOMETHING LIKE BUSINESS, AND TAKE CARE OF YOUR PHYSICAL STRUCTURE ( MOST WOMEN AFTER THEM DON DROP TWO PINKIN, DEM GO JUST DEY FAT LIKE COWangry ) YOUR BELLE AND BREA&T DON FALL FINISH YOU COME EXPECT YOUR HUSBAND TO DEY ENJOY LIKE BEFORE?

GO ENJOY YOUR HUSBAND COUSIN SEE WETI GO HAPPEN TO YOUR LIFE?



GUYS BEWARE OF NIGERIA WOMEN.
Poverty is indeed a disease.
RIP in advance.
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by Acidosis(m): 10:36am On Jun 26, 2015
I see you finally getting laid by your robust cousin-in-law. I see you moaning and screaming in bed.


And then




I see your hubby with a rifle




I see infidelity photos on the internet




And finally




I see you in the village with a granny.

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