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My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated / Guy Shares Pics With Cousin & People Are Reacting With The Way He Is Holding Her / Is My Brother Lusting Over Me???? (2) (3) (4)
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Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by blakky97(m): 11:58am On Jun 26, 2015 |
BornnAgainChild:Sex is the only solution for someone in need of it! It actually has no substitute. None whatsoever! Be real! |
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by Jonwesley(m): 12:03pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
This thread has rather created enemies among Nairalanders than what it was meant for. People fighting and insulting each other due to difference in opinions. OP, I sensed that U were much into teenage sex. And this has affected ur way of life. See, we form habits, but habits make us and determine our end. Marriage is a whole lot more and with a child that came as a result of endless spontaneous sporadic sex and forced a marriage when all things were not ready, the challenge will be enormous but surmountable. People of your age most times have an unusual sexual urge which is now worsened by your early expedition while in your teens. Your hubby then could Bleep as if it was a sport you both were in, he may have someone else he was into, she may be his love but your situation cut off his dreams. I'm sure that friend is back in his life because she has not found a replacement. Right now you are a burden to him. Stuffs do happen. Certainly your hubby is into another woman. Please prove me wrong. My advise is just watch him as an abandoned specie, and focus on urself, baby, business and ur school. While believing of him doing stuff outside ur marriage develop tenacity not to be provoked until the situations catch up with him. His cover up or hidden affections will not last. Then stay away from his cousin, please avoid him like a plaque. It's a woeful thing for U to have been close to him. U are just a naive girl on sex and relationships. Your husband is more experienced than you and he's on top of his game. Finally marriages after honey moon goes through a lot of challenges. It's not a bed of roses. If U still think it's sex sex, your are sitting on a long thing. Now face ur abandonment with prayers, spiritual inclination to God that ordained marriage. Meanwhile was it a church wedding, and due to unwanted pregnancy it's most unlikely. Prayer is the key. Don't do any other thing to bring you to a fault that will brush his ego to throw U out, or divorce. And try to tame that ur libido by focusing on what I emphasized earlier on, or create a natural way to stimulate yourself to coming and reduce the sexual pressures till he retraces his steps. He will come back loving U and I bet U he will confess what happened to him. Keep watching now. You will thank me then, seriously! |
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by yurmieP(m): 12:05pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
My Advice 2 u is try sit him down nd talk 2 him again,bt pray b4 doin so...nd if derez no change,u can forward d matter 2 ur mature minded pastor or ur mature minded relative(mostly 4rm his own family(men) or som1 u knw he is used 2 in ur own relativ(men))...bt d adultery tin, iz a no go area 4 u o |
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by askakim(m): 12:05pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
Seduce your husband then, Go n get some seductive wears n wear it when both of you are in the house...Men don't like the wife wearing wrappers(iro), he will fall for it |
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by Iman24: 12:12pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
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Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by nkemdi89(f): 12:12pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
blesoh:Not always, you should know less is more and have seen situation where husband cautions wife for dressing too sexy especially when they have third party in the home. When you are not adding any quota to the development of the home financially do you think dressing sexy will serve as a panacea to your marital problem? 1 Like |
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by nkemdi89(f): 12:15pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
blakky97:Adult you think sex is everything ba. |
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by Udstar(m): 12:18pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
Sister, d devil is at work. Sex is wat pleases d Lord wen it is done by couples. D bible says dat no partner should deny another of his or her body. Ur hubby denying u sex is not of God, it is d devil's handiwork in order to make u fall into temptation n den ur marriage will be destroyed. The advice now are: 1. Pray a violent prayer in d holy ghost knowing fully well dat d devil is at work. Again I say, "pray". if possible "fast". 2. U lusting after ur cousin is a sign dat d devil is winning, but it is not too late. Restructure ur mindset about sex, sex is not d only thing dat prompts marriage. Don't be lusting for sex all d time, wen d lust comes n u know dat ur hubby is not gonna satisfy u, channel d such sex drive to doing d things of God immediately because if u continue with dat lust for sex, d devil will provide an opposite sex dat will do it with u. U will regret it forever. 3. Be born again genuinely n kill dat spirit of lust with d word of God. Getting married is not d solution to lust. Even if ur husband will be having sex with u everyday, as far as dat lust is in u there will come a time dat u will leave ur husband n be flirting. BE BORN AGAIN GENUINELY N KILL DAT SPIRIT OF LUST. * I'll involve ur case in my prayers by God's grace 1 Like |
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by mradjoy(m): 12:18pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
nkemdi89:Good point from you thumbs up 1 Like |
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by mradjoy(m): 12:21pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
Udstar:Ride on pastor |
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by Xfemt(m): 12:22pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
there is notin u can do in dis case cus hes tired of u in d incense too much of ur kitten don tire am. what u need do now is get engage in a busines venture that ll kip u busy and forget him. ignor him nd pretend u dont care about him i bet u he ll come back to his sense u give him too much attention cut it off nd mind u dont do it with malice nd make sure ur love no fade pretend as if every tin is fine but in d long run jst pretend u care less if e continue den pack and stay with me |
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by blakky97(m): 12:24pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
nkemdi89:come on kid, you just dont get up and tell a sexually active person to keep sex off the mind like that. I mean... sex is not everything but a living thing cant stay away from it. ask those randy fathers and reverend sisters. theyll tell you. |
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by optimismlaz(m): 12:25pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
Pls dont do that it will destroy ur marriage rather learn how to dress sexually, let ur dressing and apperances do d talking, cook good foods for him. Prayers is also needed. For more info. 08038957315 |
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by wolenla(m): 12:28pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
Na house u still dey |
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by Udstar(m): 12:30pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
mradjoy:pastor is an extra load o o, I will be happy if am called a Child of GOD. |
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by Ghost01(m): 12:32pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
If you were a 'he', OP, I would've advised you to go get yourself a sex doll. You life will never remain the same after that. |
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by mradjoy(m): 12:41pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
tearoses:Now this is what I called wisdom! is your name Esther? Because you sounded like that Esther in the Holy Bible, full of wisdom. I've said this before n will always say it that if women can think n reason like men, then most of our marital problems is 50% solved already, pls kip it up. |
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by Classicman47(m): 12:42pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
biaka1994: Sis pls by all means do what will make you happy. At the end of the day, its our individual lives we are living. And those who are telling u "kill the lust" may nt have had the chance to walk in ur shoes. Altho the big question is this, what if ur said husband's cousin does not feel the same way as you? What then happens? U gonna seduce him or what? These are just my thots. Apart from these just go ahead and enjoy ur life. U only live once u know. |
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by mannyiyke: 12:43pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
biaka1994:u're letting ur husband down so much that u can discuss ur sex life with his cousin. To be frank with u, Op, u've been eyeing his cousin for a very long time instead of discussing d issue with ur hubby very well. |
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by mradjoy(m): 12:44pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
Udstar:We are all children of God na, but not all are pastors |
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by damiloladuke: 12:48pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
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Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by Udstar(m): 12:52pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
mradjoy: Ya dats true. But why did u call me a pastor? |
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by Classicman47(m): 12:57pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
Don't want to sound judgemental but going by ur story it seems to me the man has "seen you finish". As in "see finish syndrome" seems to be the problem here. U did mention that even BEFORE u got married that u were both having sex almost every minute of the day. That is enough to make any man wanna take a break. I don't know about you but I think the man deserves to recover from all that work. He is not a machine you know. Now don't take it personally. He will still come round. |
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by raffite: 12:57pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
[size=14pt]Some will cheat no matter how good things are but there some who will never cheat no matter how bad things are. [/size] 1 Like |
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by mt77: 12:59pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
Flee from temptation(that's what Joseph did when Potiphar's wife wanted him). Note doing it with his cousin's will destroy your marriage,you and possibly his cousin's marriage . Be wise now so that you won't say it was the devil. |
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by mradjoy(m): 1:02pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
Udstar:Aren't you a Pastor? Signature=Christ in me and you confirmed it by saying you'll pray for op. Now tell me, who are you really, pastor, prophet, Imam or just being good? |
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by nkemdi89(f): 1:04pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
blakky97:Do you believe you can still make your points without trying to abuse someone? The problem most young people lack is the ability to communicate, why would you abuse me? I dnt knw the way or manner you were brought up or what you are experiencing emotionally or psychologically at the moment, you shouldn't just come to a thread and start insulting people, or has that solve the problem on ground? Or will you derive joy if I replied in an offensive manner? |
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by Udstar(m): 1:07pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
mradjoy: All my life, everywhere I go, people call me pastor. People ranging from my friends, primary school friends, secondary school friends, my neighbours, my church members, university colleagues and now YOU. |
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by jadelyn007(f): 1:09pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
Lmao at people who say forget about sex, focus on kids, work blahblahblah. Truth is, nothing can replace the urge for sex. I don't know how long you can stay without it but when u reach your threshold I know u'll find a way to satisfy yourself. Again I think your husband has some form of sexually transmitted disease he is hiding from you. Probe him a lot more or ask that you both go to the hospital to check for the cause of his sudden zero libido. If he refuses then something is fishy, that's how they all are when they know something is wrong with them. They refuse to go with you to the hospital for checkup. Insisting they are perfectly fine. They would even turn it against you for suggesting such. Forget all this bullshiiiiit about dressing sexy, not nagging, been clean, cooking and all that. Its men who patronise prostitutes not ghosts. A man that want to have to have sex with you will do that irrespective. |
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by oluwadamilolah(f): 1:15pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
biaka1994:nice move, Pls be careful of pms. 1 Like |
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by blakky97(m): 1:16pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
nkemdi89:I dont see anywhere I insulted you. im playing with you its all about differences in our sense of humour I thought tou played along when you called me adult. its nice. we learn everyday. im so sorry I insulted you. how uncouth! how manner forsaken! I promise it wont happen again. |
Re: Lusting After My Husband's Cousin by ezechima132(m): 1:18pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
biaka1994: its happening to me too, i dont enjoy sex with my wife any more, she is 6 months preg, she is now the one requesting for sex, i have a high sex drive i have another lady am planning marrying this christmass, the cause of this is that my wive has a very very very loose vagina, men i dont enjoy anythinf from it 1 Like |
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