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hello my fellow nairalanders, how una dey. i want you guys to help me with your humble comments insult and bashing is welcomed....

i don't know if this is happening to just me or there are other guys out there it happens to. i tend to give up easily in a relationship when things are not working out or when we're having too many issues. the next thing that comes to my mind when things isn't working out is to break up and part ways with the girl and she ends up feeling heartbroken.

right now as i type the babe am dating things ain't working out between us like we do not complement each other, we quarrel virtually everyday. the recent quarrel we just had was somehow my fault and that of her fault. i ended the relationship but she kept begging and saying we could still work things out if we try one more time.

what surprises me about these babe is that i have threatened to break up with her time without numbers but she always end up crying and begging for me not to leave. to be frank i have never dated a girl like her before and have never been loved like that before, i love her so much but the problem is how do i stop the frequent quarreling that we always have.

most times what causes the quarreling is communication,understanding and lack of trust. i don't trust her and she doesn't trust me either and often times i read meanings to certain things she does, like she not been open to me in terms of communication she calls often i also call but all i get is monosyllabic response when talking to her and it pisses me off.

i am so confuse right now don't know what to do, i need your advice. mind you all have sat her down in several occasions and talked sense into her but she doesn't change she only stops it for a while and goes back to her old habit again.

please drop your comments.......thank you

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u ain't mature to be in a relationship bro,just focus on making yourself better first.

Juwon so u had to bring our issues to nairaland abi And this is not Juwon.Op are we twice ?coz this is exactly wat am facing

akom0908:
u ain't mature to be in a relationship bro,just focus on making yourself better first.

The relationship could help him grow you know when she is pressing all his buttons but this will require a new level of commitment and a willingness to be accountable for his own contribution to the relationship not blaming the other party for everything.

#bro, I av to say u aint emotionally matured yet to handle a relationship.
Work on dat first.

She kept goin bak to doin woteva u told her to stop because u can't change anyone until she sees reasons on her own to put an end to those habits. It is either u live wit it(if u can) or get out of d relationship.

#wld be back to add more.

bro port

quarreling and mistrust.... r u sure dats a relationship dats difinitely a war zone(northeast).... if u guys r quarrelling at dis stage imagine Wat will happen Wen u take d relationship to d next level.... oboy onto d next one....she is not d one bio....