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Am I Taking Advantage Of Her? Please Judge Me! by Samfigo1(m): 8:39pm On Jul 11, 2015
Nairalanderz I hail thee....
Goodday everyone , I want to share what I am going through at present, I want your advice or better still judge me I could be wrong with my action.
I have been cohabiting with a lady for a week now, before I move on let me share how the cohabitation began.
This girl came to our house when she was seeking admission to a school close to my house, one of my housemates accommodated her, he claimed the girl was his girlfriend, eventually, the girl got admitted into the school and started living with the guy but after two weeks they had misunderstandings the girl had no where to go, this lady in question since she came into the house I have taken her as my sister and my friend so we had good rapport. After the misunderstanding with her boyfriend she walked up to me and told me she wanted to leave her boyfriend's room for my room and that it won't last long just for mean time I concurred with immediate alarcrity I told her no qualm after consulting her boyfriend about her plan, the guy said he has no problem as regards her plan. The following day she packed her things inside my room, I thought I was dreaming, I started mulling on what to do, someone I have taken as my sister chei! Kongi na bastard you know now.... I kept calm, that night we were discussing she started telling me stories on the same matress with me, suddenly, I kept mute I was not responding to her super story I was even facing down because I was trying to pack my John Thomas I didn't want her to see the kind of press up it was performing, she thought I had slept so she kept quiet. After few minutes I did as if I jarupaing Lol. pardon me sleep walking or unconcious turning anyhow (you should have understood) I put one of my hands across, lo and behold it rested on her bossoms I was thinking she would throw away my hand but she didn't, that was why I drew her closer and we started kissing, pressing and the likes but whenever I wanted to go down low she would say stop and I would sluggishly take my hand off her, after 4-5 days I could not control the urge, I said to myself tonight I must enter this girl, when night came we started as usual when I was about going down she said stop I did as if I didn't hear, I was trying to unclothe her, she was still saying stop but I turned deaf ears when I was about to remove her undies she started crying profusely I was like what the hell! Did I beat you? She did say a word other than crying after few seconds she said ''it's because I'm staying here'' my blood that was flowing for 140km/min just slowed down and I left her on the matress and slept off. The following day she did not leave and this sexual urge was unresistable. Nairalanders am I taking advantage of her? or was she trying to form? If I asked her to leave she has no place to go what can I do?

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Re: Am I Taking Advantage Of Her? Please Judge Me! by Kylez(m): 8:42pm On Jul 11, 2015
Eye See... shocked

Anticipate the video SPENDOE! by your's faithfully, Kylez! It's hot!

Sneak Peek : wink

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Re: Am I Taking Advantage Of Her? Please Judge Me! by Nobody: 8:43pm On Jul 11, 2015
I only think people cook beans don't know they cook stories too.

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Re: Am I Taking Advantage Of Her? Please Judge Me! by vjsmiles: 8:48pm On Jul 11, 2015

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Re: Am I Taking Advantage Of Her? Please Judge Me! by donbenedict(m): 8:49pm On Jul 11, 2015
Can a boy and a gurl sleep on d same bed and nothn will happen?

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Re: Am I Taking Advantage Of Her? Please Judge Me! by eghuan1(m): 8:52pm On Jul 11, 2015
starlingslimnet:
I only think people cook beans don't know they cook stories too.

chai!!! this your comment na wa o. e go pain O P ooo..

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Re: Am I Taking Advantage Of Her? Please Judge Me! by Deexxy: 8:55pm On Jul 11, 2015
Op if you can't keep a woman in your house without seeing her as a means to satisfy your sexual urge please kindly tell her to leave.

You're definitely taking advantage of her. Women are weak and they can easily fall for such advances.

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Re: Am I Taking Advantage Of Her? Please Judge Me! by Samfigo1(m): 8:56pm On Jul 11, 2015
starlingslimnet:
I only think people cook beans don't know they cook stories too.
No be only cook na fry I fry am... Why not walk by if you have nothing to say

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Re: Am I Taking Advantage Of Her? Please Judge Me! by MzOnajin1(f): 8:57pm On Jul 11, 2015
Lol, no u were not taking advantage, u were only making use of d opportunity

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Re: Am I Taking Advantage Of Her? Please Judge Me! by samdolad(m): 8:58pm On Jul 11, 2015
Bros control ur konji o & if u cannot den let her find another place to sleep

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Re: Am I Taking Advantage Of Her? Please Judge Me! by SkinnyDude(m): 8:58pm On Jul 11, 2015
nna men....i want to ask you. apart from accommodating her, do you also feed her?

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Re: Am I Taking Advantage Of Her? Please Judge Me! by samdolad(m): 9:01pm On Jul 11, 2015
Bros control ur konji o & if u cannot den let her find another place to sleep. Bt why d girl sef dey allow romance bt she no want d koko gangan? If una continue like dis, its jst a matter of time b4 una collabo o cheesy

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Re: Am I Taking Advantage Of Her? Please Judge Me! by Ufranklin92(m): 9:04pm On Jul 11, 2015
bros u dey try
Re: Am I Taking Advantage Of Her? Please Judge Me! by Nobody: 9:04pm On Jul 11, 2015
hmm!
Re: Am I Taking Advantage Of Her? Please Judge Me! by Nobody: 9:08pm On Jul 11, 2015
Op sori to say bt u are a terrible liar,what abt the b.f?u tink he is dumb ah?so the guy accept to his g.f staying in anoda guy room without tinking twice? The gal allowed u to romance her even when she knew her b.f is in dat same house? They have misunderstanding so she packed out? Guy ur lie is outdated...am nt falling for this.

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Re: Am I Taking Advantage Of Her? Please Judge Me! by IamLEGEND1: 9:12pm On Jul 11, 2015
Objectively speaking, the girl shouldnt have started what she couldnt finish.
i dumped one shawty like dat bcoz of that nonsense, she will come over without me even asking...

just to maintain my Mr.Nice-guy charade, i will sit on a stool while she takes the couch.

Before you know it, bae is gonna get up & come sit on badt man's lap and begin some sweet smooching and mild gyrations of the pelvic region.

Bae is gonna pull badt man's shirt off while kicking off her heels.

bae is gonna sexìly catwalk her way unto badt man's bed and enticingly bid badt man to come join her.

Na so i go waka go dat bed...

Before you say "JACK", na so diz girl go start to dey push my hands inside her underwear...

After badt man invests in a solid 20-30mins of HOT pre-intimacy, and he is pretty sure that bae is already losing her shìt and probably somewhere around cloud 10*missing text*

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Re: Am I Taking Advantage Of Her? Please Judge Me! by Samfigo1(m): 9:17pm On Jul 11, 2015
SkinnyDude:
nna men....i want to ask you. apart from accommodating her, do you also feed her?
it's a joint thing but I do the larger part... Coz i see it as helping ones neighbour!

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Re: Am I Taking Advantage Of Her? Please Judge Me! by jamex93(m): 9:18pm On Jul 11, 2015
yes o my brother u r


just imagine if she is your sis



this is one of the reasons y gals tink all guys r after sex



my gay change


e no good

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Re: Am I Taking Advantage Of Her? Please Judge Me! by Samfigo1(m): 9:22pm On Jul 11, 2015
Jollyjoy:
Op sori to say bt u are a terrible liar,what abt the b.f?u tink he is dumb ah?so the guy accept to his g.f staying in anoda guy room without tinking twice? The gal allowed u to romance her even when she knew her b.f is in dat same house? They have misunderstanding so she packed out? Guy ur lie is outdated...am nt falling for this.
na chop and clean mouth d guy dey do... Na casual bf... Na my guy I sabi am!

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Re: Am I Taking Advantage Of Her? Please Judge Me! by drmikeadams(m): 9:31pm On Jul 11, 2015
My broad use persuasion or u go enter voice mail...she wan do shakara and na normal tin.
Re: Am I Taking Advantage Of Her? Please Judge Me! by SkinnyDude(m): 9:39pm On Jul 11, 2015
Samfigo1:
it's a joint thing but I do the larger part... Coz i see it as helping ones neighbour!
nice... i would have called you a maga... i know how much i spend on feeding myself.
doesn't she have parents? even if money no dey... she can stay in school hostel. it is not expensive. my school takes 10k every year

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Re: Am I Taking Advantage Of Her? Please Judge Me! by yilly(f): 9:40pm On Jul 11, 2015
ask ur "John Thomas" to stay calm. and u shouldn't Hv ignored her like dat, she will definitely think dat way, even I, would do dat.

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Re: Am I Taking Advantage Of Her? Please Judge Me! by ebamma(m): 9:41pm On Jul 11, 2015
My guy ,

You are not taking advantage of her,


Next time, When Its like 1pm, try to remove her pants enter am again,


If she no gree,

Tell am say



I resemble Jesus Christ for your eye





Shey you wan come stay for free house chop free food,.



I tell you say I be charity organisation?

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Re: Am I Taking Advantage Of Her? Please Judge Me! by xtervaganza(m): 11:18pm On Jul 11, 2015
Deexxy:
Op if you can't keep a woman in your house without seeing her as a means to satisfy your sexual urge please kindly tell her to leave.

You're definitely taking advantage of her. Women are weak and they can easily fall for such advances.
abeg save your sermon for your church



The girl was responding to his moves ffs! What do you expect?



And as for you op, if you no kpansh dat babe I will never forgive you. She's forming but I want you to give her time, don't rush her or rape her



Na u go enjoy the pinny well at last

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Re: Am I Taking Advantage Of Her? Please Judge Me! by Nobody: 11:44pm On Jul 11, 2015
YESSSSS

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Re: Am I Taking Advantage Of Her? Please Judge Me! by Bonapart(m): 11:44pm On Jul 11, 2015
1: you're foolish
2: you're stupid for not knowing that you're foolish
3: you've taken more than advantage but you're now extra advantageous
4: fornication is a sin before God
5: God is watching you
resist that urge before it hinders your destiny



You wey you no quote me na you do well pass


Read my signature

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Re: Am I Taking Advantage Of Her? Please Judge Me! by exemen: 11:44pm On Jul 11, 2015
bobo....... u are taking advantage of her ..... just be carefull...... women are delicate

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Re: Am I Taking Advantage Of Her? Please Judge Me! by Nobody: 11:45pm On Jul 11, 2015
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Re: Am I Taking Advantage Of Her? Please Judge Me! by Aare2050(m): 11:45pm On Jul 11, 2015
Wait let me ask IFA

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Re: Am I Taking Advantage Of Her? Please Judge Me! by omanifrank(m): 11:46pm On Jul 11, 2015
brb

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