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Re: Am I Taking Advantage Of Her? Please Judge Me! by UnimkeAk(m): 7:24am On Jul 12, 2015 |
Bonapart: So ur God says u should go around calling pple foolish. 1 Like |
Re: Am I Taking Advantage Of Her? Please Judge Me! by SleekyPosh(m): 7:25am On Jul 12, 2015 |
haul: LMAO |
Re: Am I Taking Advantage Of Her? Please Judge Me! by emperorzz(m): 7:26am On Jul 12, 2015 |
Bros mi. It's obvious u are big enuff to have sex, so, nna...wey ur own ggalfrnd? 1 Like |
Re: Am I Taking Advantage Of Her? Please Judge Me! by Nobody: 7:28am On Jul 12, 2015 |
Op. You are taking advantage of the needy. Which is a very bad thing to do. You are also an opportunist You are seeking immediate reward for the help you are rendering, meaning it is not genuine and from your heart it was borne out of selfish intentions. It's only a weakling that does such. Learn to help freely and unconditionally, in that way your reward might be greater than puss..sy which you can always get elsewhere. Its obvious you just want to swindle her fanny.If you need fanny go out and hussle it. You pass across as an Opportunist, A weakling and Lazy FannySwindler. Leave the girl alone and Help Unconditionally. I don't see anything wrong with the lady staying with a guy for help because guys do understand better compared to girls. Even if she stayed with a lady, she could still be exploited sexually, morally, emotionally and otherwise. If you think she is silly, wait until you are in a critical and similar scenario when you have no other option than to approach the opposite sex or those you will never have imagined you will approach. After series of turn down by fellow mates. "I had rather swindle the fanny of a consenting outsider rather than that of my employee, visitor, neighbour or those that look up to me for help". FannySwindler 2015. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Am I Taking Advantage Of Her? Please Judge Me! by UnimkeAk(m): 7:29am On Jul 12, 2015 |
Samfigo1: U aint taking advantage of her. Women have done worst Aslong as u don't rape her; you deserve that piaks. |
Re: Am I Taking Advantage Of Her? Please Judge Me! by kritikali(m): 7:30am On Jul 12, 2015 |
OP, whcich school abeg? |
Re: Am I Taking Advantage Of Her? Please Judge Me! by leykeh: 7:31am On Jul 12, 2015 |
l: e don happen to one of my paddy in ur sch b4 and d girl later use am do yeye |
Re: Am I Taking Advantage Of Her? Please Judge Me! by leykeh: 7:32am On Jul 12, 2015 |
Graccccccccy: Graccccccccy...it happend in Oke ose |
Re: Am I Taking Advantage Of Her? Please Judge Me! by adanny01(m): 7:36am On Jul 12, 2015 |
Samfigo1: Na usual shakara, abeg climb the tin. You should hv told her honestly its not because she is staying with you but because you developed feelings for her. She needs consolation and you didnt give her. The rule book says a girl must atleast make an attempt to resist the 1st time. She kissed, what else. If you try again she wont cry. Kill dat konji before the konji go kill you. You don make konji catch me sef. However, after that konji goes away, you will be stuck with her. It'll be improper to continue living together and cant srnd her packing too. She is definitely taking advantage of you but wants you to feel you are. |
Re: Am I Taking Advantage Of Her? Please Judge Me! by icekoko(f): 7:36am On Jul 12, 2015 |
Do to others what u will want someone to do to you! Its a good thing u agreed to help her, People do more than u have done, Don't spoil it let God reward you. This girl may be of Tremendious help to u tomorrow. All this people advicing u to force her or tell her to leave ur house don't listen to them, The are only deceiving u. Listen to ur inner mind I'm sure u have a Conscience. |
Re: Am I Taking Advantage Of Her? Please Judge Me! by Bonapart(m): 7:37am On Jul 12, 2015 |
UnimkeAk:you're stupid 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Am I Taking Advantage Of Her? Please Judge Me! by emperorzz(m): 7:39am On Jul 12, 2015 |
Haaaa! I know wa happened. Dis babe has been doin d same tin to ur neighbour for two weeks, so, he threw her out but culdnt admit he haasn't slept wit her cos he's already told evryone she's his galfrnd. hmnn. smh. Now na ur turn. Now its ur turn. Take ur decision. If I were u, and ddnt care how my neighbour wil feel, and I really admire d babe, i'll blow her mind, take her seriozly, pamper her and stop touchin her. One day soon. She serve u d 'groves' on a platter of gold. Trust me! 2 Likes |
Re: Am I Taking Advantage Of Her? Please Judge Me! by Kolade354(m): 7:49am On Jul 12, 2015 |
emperorzz:Mumu samfigo1 this is the best advice..........Aparty weyrey! |
Re: Am I Taking Advantage Of Her? Please Judge Me! by alt3r3g0: 7:53am On Jul 12, 2015 |
Is it possible the girl that the girl's resistance was what got her kicked out in the first place so she is trying not to make the same mistake and get kicked out again twice? From what she said "you are only doing this because i am staying here" is obvious that she is feeling used by the OP and so he is taking advantage of her (from her own point of view). Why the lady will chose to keep jumping from one guys house to the other beats me. In my days you could approach any campus fellowship and they could help sort out accomodation issues. There was a time i had to accomodate a lady in my crib. First night she went close to the wall, i took my pillow and slept on the rug. Second night she insisted that i join her on the mattess that it was big enough. I did and stayed my lane. Third night she was the one that "jarupaing" to my corner and the rest is history. We never dated, it was obviously no strings attached, and many years later we are still friends. Summary of the matter...help if u want to help. If u cant without the sex, put her out now cos u will still do so after u force ur way there. |
Re: Am I Taking Advantage Of Her? Please Judge Me! by Kylez(m): 8:02am On Jul 12, 2015 |
tdayof: Yeah, will unveil the YouTube link as soon as my label sends it to me. Thanks for asking bro. |
Re: Am I Taking Advantage Of Her? Please Judge Me! by missKiffy(f): 8:12am On Jul 12, 2015 |
starlingslimnet:Hehehehe 1 Like |
Re: Am I Taking Advantage Of Her? Please Judge Me! by nebukadnezzari(m): 8:20am On Jul 12, 2015 |
Deejavuu: HAVE YOU EVER SEEN A HUNTER'S TRAP B4? COS I HAVE SEEN A LOT. THE LAST TIME I WENT HUNTING BACK IN 1998 I SAW MY COUSINS TRAP CATCH A MAD MAN. HE ALWAYS CAME AROUND THE TRAPS TO PILFER OUR MEAT UNTIL HE BECAME THE BUSH MEAT THAT VERY DAY BEFORE OUR VERY EYES AFTER COLLECTING HIS LOOT HE GOT ENSNARED IN A TRAP HE DIDNT SEE. YES WE DIDN'T FREE HIM AND HE DIED THERE AND DECAYED. What I'm tryna say is YOU CANT WALK INTO A TRAP AND EXPECT NOT TO GET CAUGHT,EVEN IF IT WASNT MEANT FOR YOU...NOT POSSIBLE! olosho spirit dey the girl blood. Hostel no dey again Hostel has been made very cheap these days. She should keep fvcking her benevolent host that's all she has to do. How will you meet a total stranger and just move into his house only to move into his friends house just cos u had misunderstanding with the initial host. O.P IF YOU NO FU:CK THAT LADY OF THE NIGHT, YOU BE MUMU. Are you running a charity organisation 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Am I Taking Advantage Of Her? Please Judge Me! by Krismart(m): 8:21am On Jul 12, 2015 |
My guy I think u are very stupid for letting her sleep on ur bed for 4-5 days without immigration. she no see school hostel enta. mtsheeeeew 1 Like |
Re: Am I Taking Advantage Of Her? Please Judge Me! by Nobody: 8:22am On Jul 12, 2015 |
Aare2050: what are you doing here? |
Re: Am I Taking Advantage Of Her? Please Judge Me! by Nobody: 8:28am On Jul 12, 2015 |
missKiffy:happy Sunday. |
Re: Am I Taking Advantage Of Her? Please Judge Me! by nebukadnezzari(m): 8:28am On Jul 12, 2015 |
misspicy: #shorniyen 1 Like |
Re: Am I Taking Advantage Of Her? Please Judge Me! by KingsleyBuubba(m): 8:32am On Jul 12, 2015 |
Itchy itchy.... Op., as far as she's ur man's gf u F. And 2. The first time u touched nd kissed her u wud ve utilized d advantage nd do ur poka poka. But u didn't, dats anoda F. U sef, u no get woman Dat ur guy myt be watching u like nollywood so watch him back. For d babe dnt throw her out, just try nd send her back to her bf if he refuses to accept her. Hahhahahha, u don mini-marry be dat. |
Re: Am I Taking Advantage Of Her? Please Judge Me! by icemania: 8:38am On Jul 12, 2015 |
Bro u aint doing notin wrong, its the cost of doing business, aint no free lunch in free town. She better put up or get put out, my 2 kobo. |
Re: Am I Taking Advantage Of Her? Please Judge Me! by UncleJudax(m): 8:40am On Jul 12, 2015 |
funsho4man:Court! |
Re: Am I Taking Advantage Of Her? Please Judge Me! by nebukadnezzari(m): 8:40am On Jul 12, 2015 |
MrDoGood: This your story sorry experience is far different from what the op is going thru. Your moniker is the only thing holding me back from giving you a hailstorm of bashing. You know the type that Moses unleashed on Egypt. |
Re: Am I Taking Advantage Of Her? Please Judge Me! by deavicky(m): 8:40am On Jul 12, 2015 |
donbenedict:Yes. During my days in school, I used to ve this friend success. She had accommodation problem so she move in with me for one semester. We slept on the mattress for that period and nothing happened. Though she felt bad about it, like maybe she not attractive to me. but I call that discipline. And not to take advantage of her even if she may had had wanted. |
Re: Am I Taking Advantage Of Her? Please Judge Me! by Aare2050(m): 8:43am On Jul 12, 2015 |
deracathy:ahahahaaaa Deracathy don't mind me o, i'm just trying my best to buy more land for my proposed school, you know what i'm talking about na. and u too, what are you doing here? or do you know the gal in question? |
Re: Am I Taking Advantage Of Her? Please Judge Me! by daclint(m): 8:57am On Jul 12, 2015 |
Bro you're taking advantage of her, wait a minute did u say u slept off when she was crying?!, you're heartless oo, dude u should've apologized to her. 2 Likes |
Re: Am I Taking Advantage Of Her? Please Judge Me! by oochi123(f): 8:57am On Jul 12, 2015 |
MrDoGood:. Oh my God. U re such a nice man. Feel like crying now. Some of us have stories to tell in the future wen it comes to accommodation. Its gud to be gud cuz it pays. Also experienced something similar in de university then. bt tnk God for some gud n mature guys out there.Enjoy ur Relationship wit dat wonderful family.ve a blessed Sunday. 2 Likes |
Re: Am I Taking Advantage Of Her? Please Judge Me! by Deexxy: 8:58am On Jul 12, 2015 |
xtervaganza: My sermon should not be a pain in your neck. It's my fhuucking opinion. |
Re: Am I Taking Advantage Of Her? Please Judge Me! by nebukadnezzari(m): 9:00am On Jul 12, 2015 |
Jollyjoy: #shoroniyen I came across thousands of girls like this in my university days , the last one my friend accomdated her and she screwed every guy in our compound XCEPT ME in his room. and when we went on hols his house was burgled and that of most guys she slept with all of whom just used padlock on their doors. She was the creepy type. |
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