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Am in my late 20's, I live in my sister's flat, I have my room, while this my younger brother, who is 22 years sleeps in sitting room, but he kept his clothes in my room, although he stayed in my room when he first arrived but I later sent him out of the room because he was too lazy to keep the room tidy, but I leave the key with him whenever I want to go out because of his clothes, but I have been suspecting that he has been bringing girls into my room(on my bed).

I caught him red handed today, I kept a pack of condom in my room, as am trying to find my second wallet tonight, I discovered that someone has torn the pack of condom and removed two. I immediately called him, but he didn't deny it, am confused, although, i have given him a serious warning not to let such repeat itself, but am also thinking of reporting him or I should just pack his bag out of the room, i don't know what to do..

Mature advice please

Late 30's and you still living with ya sister..if you have gotten ya own apartment that would have being ya younger brothers' room you staying..so give it a thought..he's 22years old not a kid...

I'm only here to mind your grammar.

In your late 30's still living with your sister
So you too bring girls into your sisters house. Is your sister married? Is she your elder sister or younger sister?

I think your brothers parole with girls should be the least of your worries

U know what?,just pack out of the house n leave the room for him but caution him on the kinda lifestyle he's trading...bro u're better than where u subjected urself to,stop prostituting ur time.
Modified: op I commented on late 30's,but looking up now,I saw late 20's...how comes?

It's okay as long you will not be intimidated by ur younger brother girlfriends. Ur broda must be alpha male getting all d chicks first ..lol so, he sud be d one having d room while u sud be at d palour.

Mind you, dont hate ur brother cuz you will do more than him if u were to be in his possition.

Hmmmm

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30 years and still squatting? You and your younger bro need JESUS.

You are in your late 30s and still squatting with your sister. am sure your sister is not married. you should be ashamed of yourself. you are suppose to be married with kids and be a role model to your younger brother. all of you need deliverance. Haba things dey happen for this country seriously. May God have mercy on us all.

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no, it's not proper. you should know this already without even asking us. he's bringing girls into your room to have sex with them and you're asking if it's proper. he has no respect for you or for your sister who's allowing him to stay in her house

Although, he sleeps in my little nephew room sometimes, but he prefer sitting room because of dstv and PS4

@Sakleplus
would you rather that your brother fukc these babes in the sitting room (where he normally sleeps)?!

that's a rubbish,let his bags join him in sitting room and always lock ur room,and dont giv him your key again and if anybody ask u the reason why u take such action,let him explain by himself

akinloluwao:
You are in your late 30s and still squatting with your sister. am sure your sister is not married. you should be ashamed of yourself. you are suppose to be married with kids and be a role model to your younger brother. all of you need deliverance. Haba things dey happen for this country seriously. May God have mercy on us all.

What the ef!!

SMH....@ this post, and other similar posts
This one has more whatever....is why I am quoting it

OP....biko continue living with your sister,,,there is NO shame in that....esp if you have no other place to go, cos of lack of money or a job,
It is a blessing you have a sister with a place for you to stay
Do not go and live under the bridge okay?
Pay no mind to posts that will not help you

About your brother? I am not a guy and so I dunno how sharing condoms and all work...
However the age difference should make your brother respect you ....he is
Anyway.....
Here is hoping that before long you would have gotten your own place

Meanwhile in my family we are late bloomers....live at home like babies, no pressure, all love...when/ whether making money or not
So it is fine
Wait for your time...it will come
Ignore some of the wise words here....they are just that, words

I wish I could slap your brother for you though....I itch, to do that
Cheers

akinloluwao:
You are in your late 30s and still squatting with your sister. am sure your sister is not married. you should be ashamed of yourself. you are suppose to be married with kids and be a role model to your younger brother. all of you need deliverance. Haba things dey happen for this country seriously. May God have mercy on us all.

Is marriage some form of achievement?


You are the people causing problems in this Continent and the world as a whole. If he does not have means, should he add more liabilities to himself?

You that don't need God can marry for him and fend for his family.

Person dey claim ownership on top another person house. Fear God abeg. You sound like a difficult person.



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milychocs:
What the ef!!

SMH....@ this post, and other similar posts
This one has more whatever....is why I am quoting it
OP....biko continue living with your sister,,,there is NO shame in that....esp if you have no other place to go, cos of lack of money or a job,
It is a blessing you have a sister with a place for you to stay
Do not go and live under the bridge okay?
Pay no mind to posts that will not help you
About your brother? I am not a guy and so I dunno how sharing condoms and all work...
However the age difference should make your brother respect you ....he is
Anyway.....
Here is hoping that before long you would have gotten your own place
Meanwhile in my family we are late bloomers....live at home like babies, no pressure, all love...when/ whether making money or not
So it is fine
Wait for your time...it will come
Ignore some of the wise words here....they are just that, words
I wish I could slap your brother for you though....I itch, to do that
Cheers

yomi007k:
Is marriage some form of achievement?
You are the people causing problems in this Continent and the world as a whole. If he does not have means, should he add more liabilities to himself?
You that don't need God can marry for him and fend for his family.

sadly this is why so many women (and men) are marrying donkeys everywhere, and living miserable lives. to these people marriage is a do or die issue, by any means necessary!

Bro. Let's look at it this way.

If someone is accommodating you, you should learn to accommodate another person.

He is your blood. As long as he wash the bed spread on each use, he stays.

If you get your own flat, pay the rent/ bills then you deserve much respect from him and he can't dare something like that. But if both of you are free loaders, i think you should learn to share.

Richy4:
Bro. Let's look at it this way.
If someone is accommodating you, you should learn to accommodate another person.
He is your blood. As long as he wash the bed spread on each use, he stays.
If you get your own flat, pay the rent/ bills then you deserve much respect from him and he can't dare something like that. But if both of you are free loaders, i think you should learn to share.

even if the guy has his own place and the younger bro was sleeping on his couch, what does this got to do with respect? would you rather he fukc these gals on your couch?! the bedroom is the only safe place to "jam"

MRBrownJ:
even if the guy has his own place and the younger bro was sleeping on his couch, what does this got to do with respect? would you rather he fukc these gals on your couch?! the bedroom is the only safe place to "jam"

OK let me ask you this question.
if you are an only son and your mom and dad got one bedroom apartment. You are 23 or more
will you take your girlfriend to their room because it was the best place according to you" jam"

Chief, to me it's not wrong.
Just draw lines... Etc Do not Bleep more than your gf in my room.
He is matured chief. Don't be a bad brother to the young man.
You expect him to do it on the couch.
He respects you enough to be sleeping in the sitting room so you just want to chase him completely out of the room.
My concern is not your age while living in your sisters house because apparently it cannot be your joy staying there up till now. That's even if you mind at all.
So to me, draw a line and tell him it must be his gf (one girl) and one girl only. To me, that is fair, reasonable, sensible and just.

To cap it all up, let's strive to stay away from sin. Hell is real.

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Y not...u fvck the girls 2gether

1: both of you need Jesus!
2: you both should keep your sexcapades out of your Sisters house, at least give her that respect!
This is my POV, you may not agree with it but that's why I am me and you are you!

Op u be fvck up nigga. U no sabi body

While am busy cooking beans OP is busy cooking stories

The two of U should urgently confess your sins and repent. Condoms are not meant for pre-maritital sex, (ie fornication) its evil and God hates it. It can only be used for family planning or prevention of STD in a marriage relationship. Repent Jesus comes soon