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Re: Ladies, What's Your Take On This (photo) by enoqueen: 7:23am On Jul 21, 2015

No.

Most times it doesn't end well and the men usually takes advantage of it.

Take Yetunde and Baba Tea as a case study.

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Re: Ladies, What's Your Take On This (photo) by banme(m): 7:36am On Jul 21, 2015

Merlissa:
Future

emmmm, ok

Re: Ladies, What's Your Take On This (photo) by Creamish(f): 7:47am On Jul 21, 2015

raayah:
Not in Nigeria,, girls that express their desire for men are called oloshos.

They are not husband material.

Depends on the man's maturity level. Only kids will view a bold lady as an "Olosho".

Personally, I dont see anything wrong in approaching a man U fancy. It's not like Ur straight up asking for s3xx.. It starts with an introduction..and then U become friends... etc.

That's how I met my man.

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Re: Ladies, What's Your Take On This (photo) by Nobody: 7:50am On Jul 21, 2015

Creamish:
Depends on the man's maturity level. Only kids will view a bold lady as an "Olosho".

Personally, I dont see anything wrong in approaching a man U fancy. It's not like Ur straight up asking for s3xx.. It starts with an introduction..and then U become friends... etc.

That's how I met my man.

Word
I think its villagers that think its promiscuity for a woman to ask a man out

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Re: Ladies, What's Your Take On This (photo) by LeoFish92(m): 8:05am On Jul 21, 2015

i like girls that know what they want and go for it

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Re: Ladies, What's Your Take On This (photo) by dyabman(m): 8:09am On Jul 21, 2015

It's not wrong but simply not normal ..

Re: Ladies, What's Your Take On This (photo) by Swissheart(f): 8:09am On Jul 21, 2015

Re: Ladies, What's Your Take On This (photo) by Nobody: 8:09am On Jul 21, 2015

9ja gurlz can feel fly & pompous over this matter.

Re: Ladies, What's Your Take On This (photo) by smudge2079(m): 8:09am On Jul 21, 2015

Merlissa , dat day will come.

Re: Ladies, What's Your Take On This (photo) by justi4jesu(f): 8:10am On Jul 21, 2015

Not to most Nigerian guys with their archaic mentality undecided

Re: Ladies, What's Your Take On This (photo) by Nobody: 8:10am On Jul 21, 2015

Am not a Lady, but will like to say is none African. but in other continents it might be ok. wink

Re: Ladies, What's Your Take On This (photo) by Nobody: 8:11am On Jul 21, 2015

I think ladies dont do it here because its not in our custom. An average naija man will look down on such a lady as being too cheap and he will want to play a 'fast game' on her. As for me, there is no big deal in it.

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Re: Ladies, What's Your Take On This (photo) by Oscar4real(m): 8:12am On Jul 21, 2015

Not bad

Re: Ladies, What's Your Take On This (photo) by alakare(m): 8:12am On Jul 21, 2015

is not wrong

Re: Ladies, What's Your Take On This (photo) by Nobody: 8:13am On Jul 21, 2015

it is done here

Re: Ladies, What's Your Take On This (photo) by Islie: 8:13am On Jul 21, 2015

There is nothing wrong in a lady feeling a guy
Knowing who he is
Knowing how he would react to being asked out since she is no stranger to him
Knowing how matured the guy is to understand that she isn't a slut but expressing her mind

To ask the guy out

Re: Ladies, What's Your Take On This (photo) by bluntspade: 8:13am On Jul 21, 2015

I started blushing the day it happened to me its not bad sha its called courage

Re: Ladies, What's Your Take On This (photo) by martineverest(m): 8:13am On Jul 21, 2015

no....it might be seen as a sign of prop promiscuity but it depends on d way d girl go about it

Re: Ladies, What's Your Take On This (photo) by oismail(m): 8:14am On Jul 21, 2015

Approaching a lady inappropriately is wrong too

Message--
You can go for anything in as much you are doing it in good faith and taking the appropriate move and timing!

We have to leave our old cultures behind us and we have to stop living in the past. For the ladies, don't approach a #PlayBoy at your own peril, if you take my advice you will thank me later

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Re: Ladies, What's Your Take On This (photo) by coolshegs10(m): 8:14am On Jul 21, 2015

There's no big deal in it ...but d gal must hv studied d guy well o cos some guys can take for granted.
It has happened to me bfor and will still happen ..

Re: Ladies, What's Your Take On This (photo) by OsoDupe(f): 8:14am On Jul 21, 2015

RickRichards:
Nope. I think it's a good thing, so women can learn what rejection feels like. If more women made the first move, we'd have a well-rounded society.
*I'll just be like: "excuse me!"...and catwalk away.*

dogwalk will fit u guys better.

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Re: Ladies, What's Your Take On This (photo) by richard870(m): 8:15am On Jul 21, 2015

Nah!, its cool
Reminds me of how a lady approached me in a BRT bus .It was very pleasant and polite

Re: Ladies, What's Your Take On This (photo) by jauntty: 8:15am On Jul 21, 2015

PunkyVeer:
I don't have it in me to blatantly ask a guy out. I'm too old skool. I'd just show him with my actions that I am. You know, smile at him, talk up a storm, be subtly flirtatious, etc. But to say it to him straight away? Hells to da noh!

Epic.

Re: Ladies, What's Your Take On This (photo) by nairalandbuzz(m): 8:15am On Jul 21, 2015

I was approached in my secondary school days by a lady... In 1997 to b precise... No big deal

Re: Ladies, What's Your Take On This (photo) by Merlissa(op): 8:15am On Jul 21, 2015

smudge2079:
Merlissa , dat day will come.

I have done it before..

Not once

Re: Ladies, What's Your Take On This (photo) by alfakoro1(m): 8:16am On Jul 21, 2015

Absolutely Right. But the woman pride in them will not let most of them. They end up in their parents house for long.

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Re: Ladies, What's Your Take On This (photo) by Nobody: 8:18am On Jul 21, 2015

Merlissa:
As for me, it's not wrong..

I'd totally ask him out

Re: Ladies, What's Your Take On This (photo) by malonephill(m): 8:18am On Jul 21, 2015

Tallesty1:
I personally would never listen to any lady that approaches me for a relationship. That's the shortest route to heartbreak. Run bro.

Na so we dey hear. Listen bro, you will fall in love with time and she will leave you when you have fallen.

Let's assume she came to you because you have six packs, then she will definitely leave you when she sees a guy that has six packs and nice beard.

Same thing will happen to the other guy when she sees another one that has six packs, nice beard and good sense of humor.

She'll continue like that until she loses them all then she'll go back to beg God for a guy that has just a dick.

I have seen alk bro.

Any girl that has the guts to ask a guy out is a cheat. Simple

And it kills to hear her used the same scope she used on you to woo another guy.

Guys also do these things

Re: Ladies, What's Your Take On This (photo) by delectablegyal(f): 8:18am On Jul 21, 2015

Merlissa:
As for me, it's not wrong..

I'd totally ask him out

liar.

Re: Ladies, What's Your Take On This (photo) by nerodenero: 8:19am On Jul 21, 2015

I agree with you.

My position is this: most immature guys tend to feel the lady in question is promiscuous for asking them for a date. With that at the back of their minds, they shy-away.

My first girlfriend asked me on a date and while it lasted, I treated her with a whole lot of respect. It was a one time experience and subsequently, I had to make the first moves with other ladies. I think most men made women shy-away from making the first move, although some ladies too are always ego-driven too.

RickRichards:
Nope. I think it's a good thing, so women can learn what rejection feels like. If more women made the first move, we'd have a well-rounded society.
*I'll just be like: "excuse me!"...and catwalk away.*

Re: Ladies, What's Your Take On This (photo) by Nobody: 8:19am On Jul 21, 2015

f for frog

Re: Ladies, What's Your Take On This (photo) by yahmohy27: 8:19am On Jul 21, 2015

Depends ,well trained ladies don't need to but ,,,,,ehmm oh yes lipsrsealed

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