The culture shock on this forum...arghhh ! Could never live in Naija again.....I think I Iost brain cells

Tahtah:


Really, I understand ur argument as follows:

Quote, " she met Imonitie in the university. He was a year ahead of her. They started dating, but she warned him that there would be no sex until they got married. Later, she learnt that the man had dated one of her friends, which imonitie confirmed. So, since that time, they ended d relationship.the week that the incident happened, she said both of them met again on BBM, and he started persuading her to let them go out again. On that Friday, he called her n said he was taking her to see a movie. After the movie, they went clubbing in d Lekki area, where he raped her.

She wouldnt hv accepted the guy's invite (rapist), cuz it might be risky- going to see a movie; clubbing with him. Risk in this situation, implies there might be possibility of bad incidents like rape, robbers attack, clubbing/movie assaults which every other person might experience from a third party/ what have you. It is in the view, that Mr Demmocrate asserts that she would hv avoided this, by simply saying NO to the invite. Mr Demmocrate didn't say that what the rapist did is good. But she could save herself this stress cus of these funny guys we have nowadays in our society

Hmmm am impressed with your analyses it says so much about your iq. When I was going through your write I was amazed good one bro.
Back to the girls issue, let's assume we are girls and think like them I mean the smart once.
You hang out with a guy to a movie and the movie ended by 9 pm which a normal and responsible girl would tell you its late time to go home
The same girl stayed so late with a guy she knew jumps from one girl to another will rape history.
The same girl wants to go home by 12 am what if the guy allowed her to go and she got arrested by our 9ja police and got raped on the process or caught by armed robbers on the way and still gang rape her.

The same girl that said she is a virgin suppose to know I love and love you from guys is just sex let's be honest thats what majority of guys wants from girls and suppose to know clubbing at late hours knowing fully well she is a virgin might get drunk and get raped.

incomplete story...where is page 2 ??

Demmocrats:
She caused it still outside by 12 am have you ever seen a decent girl outside by that time.
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u sir r an idiot

Demmocrats:


Hmmm am impressed with your analyses it says so much about your iq. When I was going through your write I was amazed good one bro.
Back to the girls issue, let's assume we are girls and think like them I mean the smart once.
You hang out with a guy to a movie and the movie ended by 9 pm which a normal and responsible girl would tell you its late time to go home
The same girl stayed so late with a guy she knew jumps from one girl to another will rape history.
The same girl wants to go home by 12 am what if the guy allowed her to go and she got arrested by our 9ja police and got raped on the process or caught by armed robbers on the way and still gang rape her.

The same girl that said she is a virgin suppose to know I love and love you from guys is just sex let's be honest thats what majority of guys wants from girls and suppose to know clubbing at late hours knowing fully well she is a virgin might get drunk and get raped.

Mr Democrats, I understand. The problem is just a gap of understanding- lack of argumentative skills

1. What the rapist did is really wrong- facing the music
2. The victim is deflowered now according to the source, which she could hv saved her virginity. If she had weighed up all the pros n cons by saying No to his( the rapist) invite
3. Please guys, it is high time we observed the social etiquette. It is expected of guys- No to rapism- rape. Girls are our mothers. Let's respect them.

tracyfemmmm:

u sir r an idiot

I guess you are a minor and I know in real life you won't have the guts to say such.

Please ask your self did you read the write up and secondly freedom of speech that's human right.

Ask your self apart from FTC guy how come I have more likes than others.

Lastly what the guy did is wrong but the blame is still.on the girl.knowing fully well the type of person she was hanging out with. Please stop your hate speech makes you look small.you attack an argument with facts not insults that's how responsible and mature people behave.
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Tahtah:


Mr Democrats, I understand. The problem is just a gap of understanding- lack of argumentative skills

1. What the rapist did is really wrong- facing the music
2. The victim is deflowered now according to the source, which she could hv saved her virginity. If she had weighed up all the pros n cons by saying No to his( the rapist) invite
3. Please guys, it is high time we observed the social etiquette. It is expected of guys- No to rapism- rape. Girls are our mothers. Let's respect them.

Bro hmmm so much wisdom from you. Deep down what they guy is totally wrong oh God will bear me witness but majority of blame lies on the girl.
Bro I stand up from my seat and greet you, so much wisdom and the way you analyse matters

Its better to reason with your brain than heart majority of guys attacking me reason with heart.even with all the hate talks I still love them
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I am quite surpised at your generalisations, assumptions and mostly off-point comments but its all good. I'll let them slide.

Each to their own and thanks for your candid advice.

Demmocrats:


The part you said the parents knows the guy so that have faith in him, girl are you seriously going into that to believe that bullshit seriously speaking have you not seen in a scenario were male cousin rapes female cousin oh and the two parents have trust/faith what ever you call it.
Gal how can I say it, girls and boys can never be friends unless the guy or the girl or both part have a strong relationship with God which is impossible this days.
Is she a baby relationship 101 you dont go to or hang out with a guy in his place if you are not ready for sex in her case was party which is even worse because they can drug her and gang rape her which the most lame girl in Nigeria knows.

The gbagada thing you said, i know lag wella and 8pm in lag is like morning and even the friend you called i can bet my life its a guy that came and picked you up.
So you think he works for ekene dili chukwu so any time you are stranged he comes snd pick you even local transport service like BRT get paided. My sister dont do anything without a reason or purpose we are not women that do things without a reason and in case his after your puna and when he gets it or gets tired of it he moves on for another lame chicks out there that wants free rides and free party.

So sorry for my last comments but thats the onlyway to make you girls wise up.
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Darkchocolate:
I am quite surpised at your generalisations, assumptions and mostly off-point comments but its all good. I'll let them slide.

Each to their own and thanks for your candid advice.

Girl I gave you advice because I have sister won't want any of them go through such thing as rape that's why any girl I see I do give her the same advice I would give to my blood sister.
To be frank the guy that raped her if she is my sister I swear with my grand parents grave I will shot the idiot.
But I still blamed her knowing fully well the guy had history of rape and decided to hang out with him.

Pls be safe and just know majority of guys want sex unless the guy has serious relationship with God and please always keep close relationship with God.
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azimibraun:
Is rape even sweet sef? When the ID comes and the Ego and Super Ego cannot stop it... you know the rest. this is purely Psychological and a touch of divinity and upbringing (Nature/Nuture).

Sigmund Freud...thanks for reminding me one of my best topic back then in school.

wolesmile:





http://www.punchng.com/metro-plus/30-year-old-graduate-rapes-sickle-cell-woman/

Madness unlimited. He shd face d music

Demmocrats:


Let me ask you a simple question when you see me in real life would you have the guts to say those words to me.

Secondly what the guy did is wrong but still blame the girl because from the write up if you have a thinking brain you have to fault the girl.

Thirdly real mean don't rape and I have never done that.

I have never raped any girl in my life God forbid and I was not the one that raper you please note that one.

Finally abusive words makes you look so small my sister try to attack an argument with no abusive words you would have had value to me if you did that.
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I will tell you these exact words to your face if you had opened your mouth in my presence to blame her being raped.

Why should she not be out after midnight? What do u mean a decent girl shouldnt be out? What is indecent about clubbing?

Instead of you the place the blame where it should be and say a decent man doesn't rape instead you are blaming her. How stupid daft and insensitive you are.

You are very lucky you didnt say that in my presence I would have spat on you, you fool.

Nawa o, na Konji dey worri am.

You can do everything but where ever you go, you have to tell everyone "hey guys, I'm a sex offender and I need a house / job".

HungerBAD:
Rapists are a funny breed.

They get their kicks from hearing women beg and cry. These guys are sick, and unfortunately in Nigeria, they usually settle outside the court and are never jailed. In the United States for instance, after you serve your jail time,your name is put into the National Data of Sex Offenders,and you will NEVER find a Job again.

You will never be able to rent a House/Apt, you will need to register as a sex offender anywhere you go to. In short you are finished.

One day Nigeria will get there, and these rapists will start receiving their punishments.

Daresh:


I will tell you these exact words to your face if you had opened your mouth in my presence to blame her being raped.

Why should she not be out after midnight? What do u mean a decent girl shouldnt be out? What is indecent about clubbing?

Instead of you the place the blame where it should be and say a decent man doesn't rape instead you are blaming her. How stupid daft and insensitive you are.

You are very lucky you didnt say that in my presence I would have spat on you, you fool.

It'd simple what's your location am ready to abandon what am doing to see you do that. Please your location and the more the anger the more I know some dude raped you.
More abusive words the more you show me how small you are girl.
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Daresh:


I will tell you these exact words to your face if you had opened your mouth in my presence to blame her being raped.

Why should she not be out after midnight? What do u mean a decent girl shouldnt be out? What is indecent about clubbing?

Instead of you the place the blame where it should be and say a decent man doesn't rape instead you are blaming her. How stupid daft and insensitive you are.

You are very lucky you didnt say that in my presence I would have spat on you, you fool.

Your location please

Daresh:


I will tell you these exact words to your face if you had opened your mouth in my presence to blame her being raped.

Why should she not be out after midnight? What do u mean a decent girl shouldnt be out? What is indecent about clubbing?

Instead of you the place the blame where it should be and say a decent man doesn't rape instead you are blaming her. How stupid daft and insensitive you are.

You are very lucky you didnt say that in my presence I would have spat on you, you fool.

See how small your brain is he went clubbing with a guy she knows has history of raping women no wonder a guy raped you.
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Daresh:


I will tell you these exact words to your face if you had opened your mouth in my presence to blame her being raped.

Why should she not be out after midnight? What do u mean a decent girl shouldnt be out? What is indecent about clubbing?

Instead of you the place the blame where it should be and say a decent man doesn't rape instead you are blaming her. How stupid daft and insensitive you are.

You are very lucky you didnt say that in my presence I would have spat on you, you fool.

Am still waiting for the location to meet your dumb ass and ask your self apart from FTC guy why did I get so much like from other people that think with there brain not with there heart.
Addresses still waiting let's know who will see who and apologize
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Orikinla:

[size=28pt]YOU ARE EVIL.
THE WORLD WILL BE A BETTER AND SAFER PLACE WITHOUT EVIL PEOPLE.[/size]

Dude go back and read my earlier post before casting aspersions here..

Snipes009:
The lady has 60% of the blame. Why getting lured by your ex to a party?? Ladies need to take note. Once you are done for good, move on. The same person you knew 1 year ago might have changed within months. Unfortunately, she was a virgin and never let the guy reach there before they broke up. Sorry ooo

Blame the girl? Howww? By not the man having a sence of maturity and control to control himself, by not willing to take a NO as a NO? Stop displaying niger local sence., always looking for a way to push the blame to the girl. there is no reason on earth why rape should ever be justified. It is only an animal that can force himself on a woman.

[quote author=SaiBuharii post=36144790]Followed him to shopping mall, Party, back of car etc. There is more to this story abi ooooooo?

Coolcash1:
The week that the incident happened, she said both of them met again on BBM, and he started persuading her to let them go out again. On that Friday, he called her and said he was taking her to see a movie.

“After the movie, they went clubbing in the Lekki area, where he raped her. She told us that she was not feeling strong. She said she remembered being walked out of the club to the back of Imonitie’s car.

“But when she opened her eyes, it was daytime, and he was on top of her at the back of the car. That was when the struggle started. He beat her up, squeezed her neck, while she begged him that she was a virgin, and he should not rape her. But he ignored her pleas and after the act, he gave her some tissues to clean the blood.”

Honestly, I blame the lady. The lady committed two grievous offences;

1. Met the guy on BBM and accepted a night out with a stranger

2. What is she doing outside late in the night. Yoruba will say omo ta bi ni ile ire kin rin rin oru (A child that comes from a good house does not go out in the middle of the night).

Sorry o...Ladies please be careful and always use your HEAD and not Emotions.

#straight face

Why don't you call a spade a spade. Rape is wrong and should never be justified. Whether she decides to spend her night in a club should nt be your concern, it is very wrong for someone to be taken advantage of sexually. I honestly don't understand the mindset of some people.

Demmocrats:


Am still waiting for the location to meet your dumb ass and ask your self apart from FTC guy why did I get so much like from other people that think with there brain not with there heart.
Addresses still waiting let's know who will see who and apologize
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So for your mind you believe I will give you my address so I can look at your dirty smelly self? Or you think I fear fools like you? Olodo na only for woman bodi you go get strenght. Ode. FYI if a human being ever raped me, you can be rest assured that person will not be alive to even go to cell sef

Daresh:


So for your mind you believe I will give you my address so I can look at your dirty smelly self? Or you think I fear fools like you? Olodo na only for woman bodi you go get strenght. Ode. FYI if a human being ever raped me, you can be rest assured that person will not be alive to even go to cell sef

Laugh my ass off mehn so much hate, hmmm I wonder me and you who is the real fool.
The one that easily tricked by men and the one that thinks so much and about to become a financial giant.
Lolz girl so much anger I sense daddy problems may be his the one that raped you Lil
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Demmocrats:


Laugh my ass off mehn so much hate, hmmm I wonder me and you who is the real fool.
The one that easily tricked by men and the one that thinks so much and about to become a financial giant.
Lolz girl so much anger I sense daddy problems may be his the one that raped you Lil
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I wish you knew my Dad then you will understand my anger towards rapists. He is man I know that strives to empower women. He is the first man I know that actually believes in equality of the sexes. He is the perfect man and I modelled my husband after him. Not everyman is a potential rapist like you. Blaming the victim is WRONG on every level and I HATE ppl who shame victims

Daresh:


I wish you knew my Dad then you will understand my anger towards rapists. He is man I know that strives to empower women. He is the first man I know that actually believes in equality of the sexes. He is the perfect man and I modelled my husband after him. Not everyman is a potential rapist like you. Blaming the victim is WRONG on every level and I HATE ppl who shame victims

So sorry for calling your dad, am sorry for that please let's stop all.this hate talk its not part of me please. Once again am sorry for calling your dad I don't do such but you fail to understand my points.
I never said the raping was right its so wrong but part of the blame is still with the gal for knowing fully well that the guy was a rapist and still hanging out with him at bad hours.
Something's I do wonder why gals like bad and abusive guys.

Lastly please so sorry for.calling your dad I went so low for doing that pls let's be pals OK
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Daresh:


I wish you knew my Dad then you will understand my anger towards rapists. He is man I know that strives to empower women. He is the first man I know that actually believes in equality of the sexes. He is the perfect man and I modelled my husband after him. Not everyman is a potential rapist like you. Blaming the victim is WRONG on every level and I HATE ppl who shame victims

Am not a rapist just the opposite pls before sex or contact happens it involves two parties and her case she knew the guy was a beast and knowing full well she is a virgin and still went for the guy. Gal the faults still with the gal.
Seriously any relationship the foundation is not of God all this things are bound to happen.
Please if I called you any name you didn't like so sorry about that its unlike me.
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wolesmile:





http://www.punchng.com/metro-plus/30-year-old-graduate-rapes-sickle-cell-woman/

God will Judge evryone one day.

wetin carry her go back of the car? abi steering dey there?

Omotayor123:
Like mother like son.. And what happened to going down on his knees to proposed Hehehe!!!

The guy should be hanged. He's a beast in human clothing.

Case closed.

In fact that mother irritates me the more with that silly explanation or excuse. She's pathetic. The simple truth is that the son is a serial rapist and needs being put away for the good of every other decent beings, period.

Demmocrats:


Bro one thing I know if you see me in real life you start by addressing me with Sir, I don't blame you and the rate of anger in you shows you or your relation experienced such type of rape.
I reasoning person would have asked why I made such statement than using abusive which only makes you look so so small to me.
I keep on telling small dudes like you that using abusive words only makes you look small which you are to me.

When you are ready to think and behave like a mature person then I will give you reasons just like I gave others that quoted me in a mature way.
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mature people dont make immature comments like yours. May your entire generation be raped!

She knew she is a virgin, and she had to party into late hours. I believe she had expected it coming.... pardon my judgment sha