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| Re: Signs That Your Child Is Being Sexually Abused by hvq229(m): 1:26pm On Jul 24, 2015 |
good post. a few more things. Don't assume because the (alleged) abuser is a trusted member of the family and/or the community they can't be an abuser. If a child tells you he or she is being abused don't ignore it or not believe the child's report. Don't wait to report abuse until you can prove it. It's not your job to investigate merely to report abuse.. If there are clear signs of abuse and the child denies it don't accept the child's denial as truthful. Children as well girls and women in rape cases as well are far more likely to falsely deny abuse, sexual assault, rape then they are to falsely report it. If a child, girl, woman recants don't assume they were lying in the first place. More likely they are lying when they recant. And with the girls especially the abuser is usually within the family or a male member of the household |
| Re: Signs That Your Child Is Being Sexually Abused by Bode2: 1:27pm On Jul 24, 2015 |
ddami:so, you know wetin they dey do there. Hmmn, so many peepers! |
| Re: Signs That Your Child Is Being Sexually Abused by lastchild: 1:33pm On Jul 24, 2015 |
Omotayor123:do male children stand any risk of abuse? |
| Re: Signs That Your Child Is Being Sexually Abused by Nobody: 1:33pm On Jul 24, 2015 |
We learn indeed. Googled it too MsPat: |
| Re: Signs That Your Child Is Being Sexually Abused by unphilaz(m): 1:35pm On Jul 24, 2015 |
jseak: |
| Re: Signs That Your Child Is Being Sexually Abused by Nobody: 1:46pm On Jul 24, 2015 |
Bode2:Lol,, am just an observer,, learning new things everyday.. |
| Re: Signs That Your Child Is Being Sexually Abused by adedayourt(m): 2:37pm On Jul 24, 2015 |
ddami:bad pikin! water u goin der to do i tink i might av to place ur fone under arrest den ![]() |
| Re: Signs That Your Child Is Being Sexually Abused by Nobody: 2:45pm On Jul 24, 2015 |
adedayourt:Daddy please I won't do it again,,,, but you also said sex education is good for children.. |
| Re: Signs That Your Child Is Being Sexually Abused by Mudarris: 2:56pm On Jul 24, 2015 |
MsPat:What brings in religion in to this? |
| Re: Signs That Your Child Is Being Sexually Abused by sweatlana: 3:00pm On Jul 24, 2015 |
delishpot:I'm just hearing this for the first time. Islam is down right evil. Tufiakwa |
| Re: Signs That Your Child Is Being Sexually Abused by adedayourt(m): 3:12pm On Jul 24, 2015 |
ddami:Sex education is good wen u get it with a positive mind NOT wen u wana gatecrash into sexuality section it to prove a point. (o fe ya omo buruku momilowo abi) i we nt gree fr u i ll get u a nokia touch light tomoro nd colet dis frm u |
| Re: Signs That Your Child Is Being Sexually Abused by Nobody: 3:41pm On Jul 24, 2015 |
MsPat:What is your problem with islam, the writer was talking about how to identify signs of child abuse and you dey rant islam.?? Retard! ![]() |
| Re: Signs That Your Child Is Being Sexually Abused by lawisong(m): 4:28pm On Jul 24, 2015 |
What if ur child is a boy dat is being molested by an adult female. How do u know by checking his genitals? Abi d female go suck am till it's red before u fit detect? Na question i ask because no be only girl child dem dey molest. |
| Re: Signs That Your Child Is Being Sexually Abused by Omotayor123(f): 4:43pm On Jul 24, 2015 |
lastchild:Yeah.. Very. The comments on one of my thread about first tym sexual experience for guys made me realize dat. |
| Re: Signs That Your Child Is Being Sexually Abused by professore(m): 5:04pm On Jul 24, 2015 |
this is okay |
| Re: Signs That Your Child Is Being Sexually Abused by Teeboy15(m): 8:34pm On Jul 24, 2015 |
delishpot:Mehn... dat shit is so f.u.cking annoying n irritating. Islam is a shi.tty n stupid prevet-filled religion. Prophet Mohammed (curse of God be upon him and his loyal descendants) was/is an as.shole. I jst dunno wat to say, am so pained. Imagine dis: Thomas Ahmed wrote a new note: The Prophet Muhammad practiced THIGHING on his Child-Bride, Aisha!! ?.... Now let us see how it is practiced on a female child and who began this evil practice. According to an official Fatwa issued in Saudi Arabia, the prophet Muhammad began to practice thighing his child-bride, Aisha when she was six years old until she reached nine years of age (Fatwa No. 31409). The hadith, which was quoted earlier, mentioned the prophet Muhammad started performing literal sex with Aisha ONLY when she reached the age of nine (Sahih al-Bukhari, book 62, hadith No. 89). Therefore, Muslim scholars collectively agree, by virtue of divine example, a child becomes an adult, available for sexual intercourse as soon as she reaches the age of nine. Likewise, the Shari’a allows any of the faithful to marry a six-year-old child. According to the fatwa, the prophet Muhammad could not have sex with his fiancée, Aisha when she was six due to her small size and age. However, the fatwa said that at age six, he would put his penis between her thighs and massage it gently because he did not want to harm her. Imagine a man of fifty-one removing the clothes of a six-year-old girl and slipping his erect penis between her thighs, rubbing her until he ejaculated and his semen ran down her thighs. To this day, this is considered a benevolent act on the part of the adult male “not wanting to harm her.” What harm could be inflicted upon a young girl mentally and emotionally if not a grown man showing her his penis and stripping her of her clothes and rubbing his male organ between her legs? Of course the twisted mind that does such an evil to a female child, would not hesitate to ejaculate on her body. And if this sexually perverted evil frame of mind committed such an act upon a child, the pedophile would not stop at ejaculating on her. His evil desire would go further and rape the child before she was a mature adult. This is exactly what Muhammad did to Aisha when she was yet a child of nine. Before she reached puberty, he began to have sex with her. Let us see what the fatwa said about the prophet of Islam and his child-bride, Aisha.“Praise be to Allah and peace be upon the one after whom there is no [further] prophet. After the permanent committee for the scientific research and fatwas (religious decrees) reviewed the question presented to the grand Mufti Abu Abdullah Muhammad Al-Shamari, the question forwarded to the committee by the grand scholar of the committee with reference number 1809 issued on 3/8/1421(Islamic calendar). The inquirer asked the following:‘It has become wide spread these days, and especially during weddings, the habit of mufakhathat of the children (mufakhathat literally translated means “placing between the thighs of children” which means placing the male erected penis between the thighs of a child). What is the opinion of scholars knowing full well that the prophet, the peace and prayers of Allah be upon him, also practiced the “thighing” of Aisha - the mother of believers - may Allah be pleased with her?’After the committee studied the issue, they gave the following reply: ‘It has not been the practice of the Muslims throughout the centuries to resort to this unlawful practice that has come to our countries from pornographic movies that the kofar (infidels) and enemies of Islam send. As for the Prophet, peace and prayers of Allah be upon him, thighing his fiancée Aisha. She was six years of age and he could not have intercourse with her due to her small age. That is why the prophet peace and prayers of Allah be upon him placed his penis between her thighs and massaged it lightly, as the apostle of Allah had control of his penis not like other believers’” (Fatwa No. 31409).Thighing of children is practiced in many Arab and Muslim countries, notably in Saudi Arabia, Yemen, Iran, and the Gulf countries. These countries are notoriously known for this evil practice. There are many more such evil practices like altamatu’a bil almufakhaza (pleasure from sexual contact with her thighs), altamatu’a bil almuka’aba (pleasure from sexual contact with her breasts), altamatu’a bil alsagirah (pleasure from sexual contact with a baby girl), altamatu’a bil alradi’ah, (pleasure from sexual contact with a suckling female infant), (Reported by Baharini Women’s Rights Activist, Ghada Jamshir). These are all different styles practiced on the female child by placing the male erected penis in different parts of the child’s body for getting sexual pleasure... A QUOTATION FROM MY NEW BOOK THE CHILD BRIDE AND THE OLD MAN OF ARABIA, http://www.publishamerica.net/product47237.html |
| Re: Signs That Your Child Is Being Sexually Abused by Mudarris: 9:43pm On Jul 24, 2015 |
Teeboy15:Bros, may God have mercy on your soul... Ameen |
| Re: Signs That Your Child Is Being Sexually Abused by delishpot: 10:30pm On Jul 24, 2015 |
Teeboy15 na so we see am o |
| Re: Signs That Your Child Is Being Sexually Abused by delishpot: 10:38pm On Jul 24, 2015 |
kaeforum:Isnt that child abuse? |
| Re: Signs That Your Child Is Being Sexually Abused by Teeboy15(m): 12:22pm On Jul 25, 2015 |
Mudarris:He already has. |
| Re: Signs That Your Child Is Being Sexually Abused by Mudarris: 3:25pm On Jul 25, 2015 |
Teeboy15:I don't see that |
| Re: Signs That Your Child Is Being Sexually Abused by Teeboy15(m): 3:32pm On Jul 25, 2015 |
Mudarris:Young man do we av a problem here? |
| Re: Signs That Your Child Is Being Sexually Abused by Mudarris: 3:34pm On Jul 25, 2015 |
Teeboy15:Wondering @ d level of your Islamophobia |
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