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Signs That Your Child Is Being Sexually Abused by jseak(m): 6:55am On Jul 24, 2015 |
[img]http://4.bp..com/-JbhfXE3dZP4/VbHQYiQe4xI/AAAAAAAAKU0/EeiDqBjNB8U/s1600/%253D%253Futf-8%253FB%253FQWZyaWNhbiBDaGlsZC5qcGc%253D%253F%253D-777633[/img] Child sexual abuse (CSA) is when a child becomes a sexual partner for an adult and/or is being engaged by an adult in some explicit activities. The Nigeria media in recent times have reported an increased number of child abuse and those are the once that are able to get to the media. Most parents get so busy or at random decide to leave their kid(s) in care of house helps, neighbor, relatives, friends, or even teachers who may abuse them. Older kids may not report the abuse, because they are scared of or want to protect their abuser and/or they simply do not believe they will be taken seriously. As a parent, you have to always look out for signs of your child being abused especially when s/he enjoys being around a particular adult. Keep in mind that, though, depending on the abuse type, some kids might be enjoying it thereby having a bond with the abuser. This should trigger you to always check your child for signs of abuse immediately such adults comes around your child. Signs that your child is being sexually abused 1. Your child suddenly finding it difficult to walk or sit, maybe due to genital or anal pain. Be quick to examine why a child who was perfectly okay, all of a sudden is finding it difficult to walk or sit. Do this by checking his/her privates. 2. The person you left your child with gives you unconvincing/conflicting explanations for bruises/injuries on your child. 3. That neighbor, friend or relative that likes spending time alone with your child. 4. Be wary of someone who buys your child expensive gifts for no special reason. 5. Someone your child afraid of and/or do not want to be alone with. These and many others should raise your suspicion that your child is being abused sexually. If you have any additional signs, drop them below for the benefit of all. Source: http://www.abdoolwahab.com/2015/07/signs-that-your-child-is-being-sxually.html 30 Likes 12 Shares |
Re: Signs That Your Child Is Being Sexually Abused by Unseen(m): 7:00am On Jul 24, 2015 |
So on point Although everything stated is not always a case of abuse............... but them follow. Modified: Abeg what's the big deal with FTC? Because for every topic on front page ftc will be celebrated. Well here, am too fly for such Secondary/Jambites/Jobless peeps attitude. 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Signs That Your Child Is Being Sexually Abused by Nobody: 7:07am On Jul 24, 2015 |
Yamuna 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Signs That Your Child Is Being Sexually Abused by delishpot: 7:33am On Jul 24, 2015 |
If Yerima of Zamfara is close to your new born baby girl.......be very afraid Thighing is allowed in his field. *FEEL FREE TO GOOGLE ..... THIGHING* OP, very true. 25 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Signs That Your Child Is Being Sexually Abused by frodobee: 7:35am On Jul 24, 2015 |
Op on point. Also, uncle, aunt or relation that your child likes to stay or play with in secrecy, not just the one he fears. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Signs That Your Child Is Being Sexually Abused by kinglekan: 7:38am On Jul 24, 2015 |
Nice one @OP Parents generally need to learn the act of parenting, it takes more than carrying your child for 9months during pregnancy, feeding, clothing and providing basic needs. Parents should learn to be fully involved in the lives of their kids, that's the only way they would be able to detect changes and signs to act on. Make out time to talk and have fun with them. Discussions should not be limited to the dinning table as the manner of some. That way the child feels a stronger bond and would find it easier to open up to his/her parent. 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Signs That Your Child Is Being Sexually Abused by funlord(m): 7:53am On Jul 24, 2015 |
Child abuser! Equals 6 feet deep tins 4 my side! 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Signs That Your Child Is Being Sexually Abused by donholy28(m): 7:59am On Jul 24, 2015 |
Don't forget to buy gun...to shoot d person once discovered 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Signs That Your Child Is Being Sexually Abused by Nobody: 10:16am On Jul 24, 2015 |
delishpot: Mehn.....we learn everyday o. Never heard of this until now.....Islam is one "interesting" religion. 1 Like |
Re: Signs That Your Child Is Being Sexually Abused by delishpot: 10:19am On Jul 24, 2015 |
MsPat: You are welcome. |
Re: Signs That Your Child Is Being Sexually Abused by IYADARA(f): 10:45am On Jul 24, 2015 |
I didn't know space booking could be so fun.......ready to throw tantrum too ...... check out if ur child suddenly become aggressive,secretive and seperative* 1 Like |
Re: Signs That Your Child Is Being Sexually Abused by Hitter(m): 11:16am On Jul 24, 2015 |
Pedophiles! With this points now I go turn "area pedophile investigator" 2 Likes |
Re: Signs That Your Child Is Being Sexually Abused by haiti007(m): 11:17am On Jul 24, 2015 |
what if a child abuse an adult |
Re: Signs That Your Child Is Being Sexually Abused by ITSAWRAPP: 11:17am On Jul 24, 2015 |
Parents should learn to pay more attention to their kids |
Re: Signs That Your Child Is Being Sexually Abused by jamex93(m): 11:18am On Jul 24, 2015 |
to all parents please do ensure DAT u have gun at home for emergency purpose thanks 1 Like |
Re: Signs That Your Child Is Being Sexually Abused by ijbeauty(f): 11:18am On Jul 24, 2015 |
Check out those uncles that always call your lil daughter"my wife" Seriously, I don't trust any of them, even if their intentions are genuine, I still feel this thingy with that word "my wife" for a lil babe. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Signs That Your Child Is Being Sexually Abused by Sicozone(m): 11:18am On Jul 24, 2015 |
Gud |
Re: Signs That Your Child Is Being Sexually Abused by pstnicodemus(m): 11:18am On Jul 24, 2015 |
when person call your child idiot, it's still child abuse 3 Likes |
Re: Signs That Your Child Is Being Sexually Abused by opeflio: 11:19am On Jul 24, 2015 |
Thanks for the tips 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Signs That Your Child Is Being Sexually Abused by Nobody: 11:19am On Jul 24, 2015 |
Once in a while, Parents should check their son's anal porosity... Because 'ASS DRILLERS' are now on the loose!! 6 Likes |
Re: Signs That Your Child Is Being Sexually Abused by steppin: 11:19am On Jul 24, 2015 |
NL and their signs sha. |
Re: Signs That Your Child Is Being Sexually Abused by Nobody: 11:20am On Jul 24, 2015 |
Well written op and lastly a guy dat always carry ur baby girl often,kissing&touching her**dat type of guy can rape her** |
Re: Signs That Your Child Is Being Sexually Abused by wunmi590(m): 11:20am On Jul 24, 2015 |
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Re: Signs That Your Child Is Being Sexually Abused by money121(m): 11:20am On Jul 24, 2015 |
thnks op |
Re: Signs That Your Child Is Being Sexually Abused by DanWrites(m): 11:20am On Jul 24, 2015 |
There are nice people who just love kids without any intent to abuse them. There are horrible people too with terribly sick brains that kids are not safe with. 1 Share
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Re: Signs That Your Child Is Being Sexually Abused by HDee(m): 11:20am On Jul 24, 2015 |
True. |
Re: Signs That Your Child Is Being Sexually Abused by Nobody: 11:20am On Jul 24, 2015 |
eemm,, I don't have a child in fact I am still a child,,, Hope this thread will still be in existence when I have one.. |
Re: Signs That Your Child Is Being Sexually Abused by Jamexjulius(m): 11:21am On Jul 24, 2015 |
K |
Re: Signs That Your Child Is Being Sexually Abused by beyoncausme: 11:22am On Jul 24, 2015 |
TRUE... 1 Share
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