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Shymm3x:
Lol, why are you making it about me? I don't know ol'girl and her Raiden hubby.

Tell her to turn to Zangief and start catching whatever metal/iron that's thrown at her with her teeth. She signed up for it, and it's her responsibility to help the guy change his ways.

I am not making it about u. Its a style of writing.

DollyParton1:
I am not making it about u. Its a style of writing.

Hmmm, dolly the beautifully endowed.

Anyway, that style of writing where the subject matter is made about the second person looks like an indictment.

Off topic:

Are you still following the Power series?

For the man to resort in to throwing things, then it nesns 'madam'aint calm enough. She needs to really come down with all coldness, she should have by now known things get oga high up, once you know your mans weaknesses, handling such shouldn't be trouble, they two need to get serious pastoral counseling, they really need to get churchy you know!!

DollyParton1:
Dont get it twisted. Getting my spouse to give me what I want through what ever means of sweet talking or something else is different from tip toeing around my spouse because I don't want him to get angry.

I don't know why i 'm thinking you don't know what you are talking about anymore.

for a man to be temperamental, there must be someone or something that is upsetting him.
whether you tip toe or not. If you as a woman is the principal key why your spouse is angry, you still hold the key to make him calm.

Richy4:
I don't know why i 'm thinking you don't know what you are talking about anymore.

for a man to be temperamental, there must be someone or something that is upsetting him.
whether you tip toe or not. If you as a woman is the principal key why your spouse is angry, you still hold the key to make him calm.

It seems to me that you are putting the blame solely on the wife.
Definition of temperamental: "a person liable to unreasonable changes of mood"
It is not ok to be temperamental neither is it a crime. But it is ridiculous when you hang the responsibilities of keeping everything together solely on the woman because according to you "she owns the key to his heart"
For a man to be temperamental, there definitely must be someone or something fueling it. I totally agree. But how does he act when someone phuts him in that position at work or else where? He throws metals at them too?

There is no relationship where the partners dont get each other angry. It is normal and expected. But how is it handled?
Temperamental people dont get angry normally, they pick the slightest thing that people would ignore normally to react on. And when they get angry they go ape shįt. Things get crazy , scary and ugly. What I dont get is why you and your group of "men" have refused to realise that its a two ways thing. The man needs to work on himself first. Seek professional help or whatever help that he sees fit. Then we can talk about the wife being careful around him. Its no fun living the rest of your life picking your words and actions so that the other person won't throw metals at you. And the man keeps acting freely like a total ass while justifying it with "I am temperamental" bullshit. That to me is total bondage.

Are you gonna say the same thing if tables were turned and the wife was the temperamental one instead?

crowns2:
Some people are naturally quarrelsome. And they find it very easy to pick a fight. Such people will never let any issue or wrong they notice to slide. No ,it must always be addressed. If your friend's husband is an easy going, mature fellow then a change in food menu wouldnt have been an issue at all.
I don't understand why people hold on to another person's wrong for the rest of their Life without looking inward at themselves to see where they went wrong themselves. Only to continue moaning and moaning. Life is to short I can't see myself living with such character.

Chop kiss jare.... I
They have refused to analyse the suitation very well.
A man goes ape shįt cos of change in food menu, and u start blaming the wife.
Truely life is indeed hard for an average Nigerian woman.

Let her stay maybe one of these day,he will break her head or beat her to death.

Hmmmm, typical my friend story. All the same, if the hubby is hot tempered then he stutters also so she shouldn't;

1.Talk back
2. Wait to do the routing good that keeps the peace

She should;

1. Discuss her intentions on certain key issues before carrying it out
2. Pray and constantly remind her hubby of his love for her
3. Share this pic with him and possibly encourage he makes it his screensaver.