jarkbauer:
About 6 months ago my wife started refusing sex. In the last 6months we have had sex only 4 times. I asked her why and she told me her libido is dead. She doesn't feel like having sex. I am at loss. Any woman with this kind of problem. To help her, I asked if she has any fantasy we could fulfill just to spice our sex life and she told me she doesn't have any sexual fantasy.she hardly think about sex. That's why ask in another thread if women usually have sexual fantasy. We are married for 2 years and have 2 kids.

O.P ur wife is a Lesbian try and investigate

KanwuliaJara:
She sees you as a brother na!
If you know and understand anything about the female mind and body, you will not find it strange!

Sex in marriage is ALWAYS the first to go!

Women get really tired, especially after children and bleeding for over 30 years or more.

Time to get a "galfriend" or manage your situation as best as you can!

Their marriage is just 2 yrs old. Is it normal for her sex drive to just die like that?

mARRIED FOR TWO YEARS AND TWO KIDS?NOTHIG DIMINISHES LIBIDO THAN STRESS,SHE IS FACING STRESS, AND IF SHES WORKING AND TAKING CARE OF THE KIDS,IT CAN COMPOUND IT,YOU GET HER A GOOD MAID TO ASSIST HER IN CHORES,SHE WILL REGAIN IT BACK.

jarkbauer:
About 6 months ago my wife started refusing sex. In the last 6months we have had sex only 4 times. I asked her why and she told me her libido is dead. She doesn't feel like having sex. I am at loss. Any woman with this kind of problem. To help her, I asked if she has any fantasy we could fulfill just to spice our sex life and she told me she doesn't have any sexual fantasy.she hardly think about sex. That's why ask in another thread if women usually have sexual fantasy. We are married for 2 years and have 2 kids.

Ama80:
I'm one of such women whose libidos are dead long time ago and yes a lot of things contributed twds dat;1 my husband's unfaithfulness,2 poor sexual motivations in d bed.etc.so op tell us wat u did dat killed her libido

Madam pls recruit me to spice up ur sex life once again! Lol!

If the libido is dead, then activate the mondus bilado. That one dey reserve bench.

midolian:
hmmmmm...

stay off now

2 kids in 2 yrs? Bro, it's enough to slow her down.

unmask:
what is there to keep in the marriage when one of the strong points is dead......if my wife tells me her libido is dead after two years of marriage, then I would rightly inform her that the marriage is dead......

you guys should not waste your time telling him to communicate.....what does he need to communicate about...... "baby let's just try or baby let us make a time table"

ok

Ama80:
stay off now

hahahaha..I haven't said anything yet

Sabrwahaqqo:

I have the feeling you're just anatha pampered kid or that you watch movies too much or you have an overdose of fairy tales running in yo blood. Kid, your opinion doesn't work in reality. There is no time.

I wonder at the breed of men we have now, taking ur wife out on a date and appreciating her is too much work now...na wa oo, when you were wooing her, did you not do all the things I suggested and more, but now that shez a wife and has gone thru agonising labor more than once to bring your kids to the world, it is now "those things are fairytales" "watching too many movies"

I have been where the ops wife has been, especially after I had my 3rd kid, and the suggestions I made are what helped me back along the path of finding lovemaking pleasurable once more

Hmnn

@Op....I guess you and your wife are of the same age!!!
Sincerly from experience,this coulda been the reason
1. Your wife started having sex at a very tender age vis--a-vis very many partners in the past ( high milage)
2. Your blokus is small and u lacked the technigue to bleep wide abuna!!
3. She was molested while young
4. Love is on holiday, maybe u're broke at the e moment


Solution:: have a heart to heart talk with her and be willing to forgive no matter how horrible the revelations from her turn out to be, reassure her u still love and ready to help on her weakness, Lay down ur weakness too and be willing to work on urself

She must have been hurt or something, I think you need to still speak with her more, also check ur breadth, bad breadth can be a turn off for a woman, it's just 2 years, u guys have not even started yet, I have seen 15 years marriage that is still going very strong, you will think they just got married, my brother please even na to beg her, she will resurrect the libido, though women don't always be in the mood for it, but that a libido is dead? When she never reach menopause. God will help your marriage o

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jarkbauer:
About 6 months ago my wife started refusing sex. In the last 6months we have had sex only 4 times. I asked her why and she told me her libido is dead. She doesn't feel like having sex. I am at loss. Any woman with this kind of problem. To help her, I asked if she has any fantasy we could fulfill just to spice our sex life and she told me she doesn't have any sexual fantasy.she hardly think about sex. That's why ask in another thread if women usually have sexual fantasy. We are married for 2 years and have 2 kids.

Do you have money? Lack of money can kill libido.

All woman are like that.95% of them.

All woman are like that.95% of them .

jarkbauer:
About 6 months ago my wife started refusing sex. In the last 6months we have had sex only 4 times. I asked her why and she told me her libido is dead. She doesn't feel like having sex. I am at loss. Any woman with this kind of problem. To help her, I asked if she has any fantasy we could fulfill just to spice our sex life and she told me she doesn't have any sexual fantasy.she hardly think about sex. That's why ask in another thread if women usually have sexual fantasy. We are married for 2 years and have 2 kids.

Oga!!! 2 years and 2 kids Na you kill the libido na...
U no let the woman rest fa..You just dey sama her left, right & centre. Hian!!!
If in 2 yrs, you have had 2 kids, then wait make she recover small na, haba!!! You sef

jarkbauer:
About 6 months ago my wife started refusing sex. In the last 6months we have had sex only 4 times. I asked her why and she told me her libido is dead. She doesn't feel like having sex. I am at loss. Any woman with this kind of problem. To help her, I asked if she has any fantasy we could fulfill just to spice our sex life and she told me she doesn't have any sexual fantasy.she hardly think about sex. That's why ask in another thread if women usually have sexual fantasy. We are married for 2 years and have 2 kids.

Your wife is having a health problem called Hypoactive Sexual Desire Disorder .HSDD. It affects women from 18-59years. It similar to men's dysfunctional erectile syndrome.
A medical personnel with good knowledge of women health can restore her back to good quality sexual health, because there re several factors that led to it, just like there factors that lead to temporary to permanent impotence in men

jarkbauer:
About 6 months ago my wife started refusing sex. In the last 6months we have had sex only 4 times. I asked her why and she told me her libido is dead. She doesn't feel like having sex. I am at loss. Any woman with this kind of problem. To help her, I asked if she has any fantasy we could fulfill just to spice our sex life and she told me she doesn't have any sexual fantasy.she hardly think about sex. That's why ask in another thread if women usually have sexual fantasy. We are married for 2 years and have 2 kids.

tell her to go to these Cele churches they have a way of bathing women and fingering them

that might awaken the dead libido

bu op was your wife circumcised

julietchic:
2Kids in 2years!
Maybe u no sabi Bleep.

HBD.LLNP

Hmmn.

Assuming all issues are Ok, I mean no fight or disagreement, then the problem is simple. Women's nature can make them easily forget about sex.

What she & the husband needed to do is revive the sex drive.

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jarkbauer:
About 6 months ago my wife started refusing sex. In the last 6months we have had sex only 4 times. I asked her why and she told me her libido is dead. She doesn't feel like having sex. I am at loss. Any woman with this kind of problem. To help her, I asked if she has any fantasy we could fulfill just to spice our sex life and she told me she doesn't have any sexual fantasy.she hardly think about sex. That's why ask in another thread if women usually have sexual fantasy. We are married for 2 years and have 2 kids.

Could be a hormone inbalance it happens to me. She needs to see a Dr

Although I am not married, I think a vacation will bring back her libido. However, if that doesn't work, get a sweet young girl to satisfy yourself and let her deal with her dead libido.

2years of marriage with 2kids how her libido no go die...u ur own too much..

She has been managing your little shaft .,.now that her punary has gone wide due to child birth so no need for the stress., Go and enhance your third leg but if you don't know how, quote me.

midolian:
hahahaha..I haven't said anything yet

u better not

Ama80:
u better not

I dare not dear.. How is the family?

jarkbauer:
About 6 months ago my wife started refusing sex. In the last 6months we have had sex only 4 times. I asked her why and she told me her libido is dead. She doesn't feel like having sex. I am at loss. Any woman with this kind of problem. To help her, I asked if she has any fantasy we could fulfill just to spice our sex life and she told me she doesn't have any sexual fantasy.she hardly think about sex. That's why ask in another thread if women usually have sexual fantasy. We are married for 2 years and have 2 kids.

U mean 2 yrs with 2 kids? you are d one that killed the libido

midolian:
I dare not dear.. How is the family?

fine.we r derailin ds thread.@op pls look inward fr solution.self assesment will help