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Re: How To Divulge Your Weaknesses Or Dark Side/Past To Your Partner. by MizMyColi(op): 9:36pm On Jul 11, 2015

Dyt:
Deep sigh
I didn't bother to read cos I was so sure I won't understand a thing, good she made do with a clear subject

This is a rather unfair assertion sad

Have you ever read a write-up from me which was rather cumbersome to you, for which you asked an explanation and I declined?

Re: How To Divulge Your Weaknesses Or Dark Side/Past To Your Partner. by Nobody: 9:36pm On Jul 11, 2015*

MizMyColi:
Gosh, could you please stop displaying your ignorance and being all smiles about it?

If you do not understand and you truly desire to, why don't you ask questions?

Or you're purposely on the thread to put my, and the efforts of the original writer down?

I would ignore this comment if it were made by some random person, but for a person who emerged Mr NL, this goes to show how much intellect you possess.

see this one o undecided

I believe I'm not the only one, saying the same thing undecided

Miz "Fountain of intellect " undecided

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Re: How To Divulge Your Weaknesses Or Dark Side/Past To Your Partner. by Dyt(f): 9:41pm On Jul 11, 2015

MizMyColi:
This is a rather unfair assertion
Have you ever read a write-up from me which was rather cumbersome to you, for which you asked an explanation and I declined?

This is not to make you feel bad or throw me grammers grin

Its actually me making jest of myself
Calm down, read and then just laugh at me
Like clown

*pulls her cheek*

Re: How To Divulge Your Weaknesses Or Dark Side/Past To Your Partner. by Nobody: 9:41pm On Jul 11, 2015*

But you know the peculiar way you write push away the casual reader; to understand your words require one to be really willing to understand. grin

That's why you're YOU; YOUR style.

My dear, a lot of us suffered from the wrong and hurtful manner we were brought up....Thank God some of us were courageous and ourselves enough to recondition our minds for success and sane development. Many just couldn't turn the tide around.

Well, I admire the fact many of us can now discuss these issues; I've always pretended all was OK until I couldn't hide the reverse.

I love your simplicity. Your naturalness. Your simple being, without fake or foreign adornment. And that's what makes your soul very beautiful. All beautiful things are natural.

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Re: How To Divulge Your Weaknesses Or Dark Side/Past To Your Partner. by bellong: 9:42pm On Jul 11, 2015

I don't think anybody should marry anyone you don't know full details about.

The essence of courtship is to find a unique strategy in understanding and unraveling the true heart of a potential spouse. In this age that keeping the past a secret is the norm, at least it was championed here, it falls on everybody to dig deep into a potential spouse in order to have a detailed information about him/her.

Like I always advise, if you don't know everything about your potential spouse, don't marry him/her. You must have all the information, both past and present including future plans sef, to make a free and informed decision about the relationship.

One thing I have discovered over the years is that we can truly know someone during courtship if we are not blinded by emotions. No one ca n pretend for long, there is something that gives him/her away.

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Re: How To Divulge Your Weaknesses Or Dark Side/Past To Your Partner. by MizMyColi(op): 9:46pm On Jul 11, 2015

Dyt:
This is not to make you feel bad or throw me grammers
Its actually me making jest of myself
Calm down, read and then just laugh at me
Like clown

*pulls her cheek*

Lmao
The thought of what to say had already formed in my head...
Then I saw your siggy.

I just thought to go ahead and yarn sha grin

Re: How To Divulge Your Weaknesses Or Dark Side/Past To Your Partner. by MizMyColi(op): 9:48pm On Jul 11, 2015

Tomfrench:
see this one o

I believe I'm not the only one, saying the same thing

Miz "Fountain of intellect "

Waow!
Thanksss cheesy

Re: How To Divulge Your Weaknesses Or Dark Side/Past To Your Partner. by Nobody: 10:47pm On Jul 11, 2015

Tomfrench:

Now, this is what I call,

Constructive CRITICISM!!!

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Re: How To Divulge Your Weaknesses Or Dark Side/Past To Your Partner. by 1after: 12:27am On Jul 12, 2015

MizMyColi:
Waow!
Thanksss

Sis, Stop coming to politics section, they will corrupt your mind. The section is for warriors, politicians and tribalist. Lol

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Re: How To Divulge Your Weaknesses Or Dark Side/Past To Your Partner. by donephi(m): 8:53am On Jul 12, 2015

I had to read this piece 2ice to fathom where u re coming from and where u re going to...

Will pencil down my thought soon.

Kindly reply my Pm dear.

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Re: How To Divulge Your Weaknesses Or Dark Side/Past To Your Partner. by sauceEEP(m): 9:00am On Jul 12, 2015

No need to form, this write-up makes no sense to me. undecided

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Re: How To Divulge Your Weaknesses Or Dark Side/Past To Your Partner. by Joromi1: 1:56pm On Jul 12, 2015

sauceEEP:
No need to form, this write-up makes no sense to me.

That's a slap in the face of whoever sponsored your education

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Re: How To Divulge Your Weaknesses Or Dark Side/Past To Your Partner. by An0nimus: 1:58pm On Jul 12, 2015

Joromi1:
That's a slap in the face of whoever sponsored your education

Defender of the universe tongue

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Re: How To Divulge Your Weaknesses Or Dark Side/Past To Your Partner. by sauceEEP(m): 2:02pm On Jul 12, 2015

Joromi1:
That's a slap in the face of whoever sponsored your education

OK,now scram!!!

Re: How To Divulge Your Weaknesses Or Dark Side/Past To Your Partner. by MizMyColi(op): 5:44pm On Jul 13, 2015

@All
I have modified the heading now.
Looks like the major issue stemmed from the heading for this thread.
Hopefully, everyone can understand now.

Re: How To Divulge Your Weaknesses Or Dark Side/Past To Your Partner. by Lero15(m): 7:16am On Jul 31, 2015

Dyt:
Deep sigh
I didn't bother to read cos I was so sure I won't understand a thing, good she made do with a clear subject

In my small life, I have seen lots and to some extent Love does matter a lot, I have foolishly loved that I kept forgiving this same guy, he only needs to say sorry and we are back.

But yes I can
Can I really date a killer/abuser?
Hell noooo
I am too pretty to be disfigured
Runs away

Proof?

Re: How To Divulge Your Weaknesses Or Dark Side/Past To Your Partner. by Lero15(m): 7:21am On Jul 31, 2015*

1after:
Sis

MizMyColi

Re: How To Divulge Your Weaknesses Or Dark Side/Past To Your Partner. by Jamean(f): 9:41am On Jul 31, 2015

ahsekeena:
I kept reading and reading but still couldn't get a message.

Same here

Rather ambiguous and lost coherence

Re: How To Divulge Your Weaknesses Or Dark Side/Past To Your Partner. by MizMyColi(op): 9:42am On Jul 31, 2015

Lero15:
Hehe... I wish too.

Cc MizMyColi

Good Morning

That's not what it ought to be, ideally.
Besides, what makes you think I'm not a warrior?

There are many shades to the Miz you know on NL dear.

Re: How To Divulge Your Weaknesses Or Dark Side/Past To Your Partner. by Dyt(f): 11:27am On Jul 31, 2015

Lero15:
Proof?

Let your imagination be the judge
kiss

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Re: How To Divulge Your Weaknesses Or Dark Side/Past To Your Partner. by Lero15(m): 8:49pm On Jul 31, 2015*

MizMyColi:
Good Morning

There are many shades to the Miz you know on NL dear.

Lols

Re: How To Divulge Your Weaknesses Or Dark Side/Past To Your Partner. by Lero15(m): 8:51pm On Jul 31, 2015

Dyt:
Let your imagination be the judge

Hehe... Too much of everything is not good undecided

Re: How To Divulge Your Weaknesses Or Dark Side/Past To Your Partner. by MizMyColi(op): 3:41am On Aug 01, 2015

Lero15:
Lols... Actually, the warrior part, I forgot to strike it out.

Pardon me, miss.

Good Morning

How do you mean?
Let me even understand you better.

Re: How To Divulge Your Weaknesses Or Dark Side/Past To Your Partner. by jackpot(f): 5:37am On Aug 01, 2015

The message in the thread wasn't fully developed. It ended abruptly. Only thing I subconsciously got there is knowing when to reveal a past.

Re: How To Divulge Your Weaknesses Or Dark Side/Past To Your Partner. by jackpot(f): 5:43am On Aug 01, 2015

MizMyColi:
@All
I have modified the heading now.
Looks like the major issue stemmed from the heading for this thread.
Hopefully, everyone can understand now.

not yet. Reading the message, I felt like I'm walking in a maze. In fact, the message was a maze and I can't help it being mazed.

If most people keep saying the same thing, then something may be wrong after all. Think abourrit.

Sorry for being blunt.

Re: How To Divulge Your Weaknesses Or Dark Side/Past To Your Partner. by Lero15(m): 9:35am On Aug 01, 2015*

MizMyColi:
Good Morning

How do you mean?
Let me even understand you better.

Now you do.

Morning

Re: How To Divulge Your Weaknesses Or Dark Side/Past To Your Partner. by MizMyColi(op): 9:41am On Aug 01, 2015

Lero15:
I quoted the guy word for word and cc you.
So I should have stricken out the "warrior" part out of his post.

Morning

But I'm a politician.
Plus, there is a subsection for tribalists.

Re: How To Divulge Your Weaknesses Or Dark Side/Past To Your Partner. by Lero15(m): 9:48am On Aug 01, 2015*

MizMyColi:
hi

Re: How To Divulge Your Weaknesses Or Dark Side/Past To Your Partner. by MizMyColi(op): 10:35am On Aug 01, 2015*

Re: How To Divulge Your Weaknesses Or Dark Side/Past To Your Partner. by Lero15(m): 12:07pm On Aug 01, 2015

MizMyColi:
Well unlike most people who act like NL doesn't matter to them, I admit that it does.

I've seen myself grow, learn, become wiser...all because of the calibre of folks I've met here.

I never believed I would do politics on NL.
Infact, I first started out based on pity for Jona. I used to think of the pol section warriors as inhumans, not to be triffled with. I used to be irritated too!

But it's a different ball game today.
I think my involvement has a lot to do with the divine, because I don't know how I ported from romance and family to politics.
Sounds weird right?

Well, this is where I am now.
This is where Life's journey has brought me.
I might totally lose interest tomorrow, but for now and today, I intend to make the most and best of it.

Nice piece... All for me cheesy

I'm honoured cool

Re: How To Divulge Your Weaknesses Or Dark Side/Past To Your Partner. by MizMyColi(op): 12:20pm On Aug 01, 2015

Lero15:
Nice piece... All for me

I'm honoured

Lool
I think you're worth it.

Not everyone deserves this kind of explanation from me.

It boils down to discernment. That way, you beat the supposedly wise at their game.

Re: How To Divulge Your Weaknesses Or Dark Side/Past To Your Partner. by Lero15(m): 12:32pm On Aug 01, 2015

MizMyColi:
Lool
I think you're worth it.

Not everyone deserves this kind of explanation from me.

It boils down to discernment. That way, you beat the supposedly wise at their game.

Ooh... Thanks

Happy new month.

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