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How Do I Confess To My Fiancee I Have Been Sleeping With Our Chief Bride's Maid by Nobody: 8:38am On Aug 01, 2015 |
I and my fiancee have been dating for 5years. I love her and respect her, because of that I decided to propose to her.. Our wedding is around the corner and I have a secret which I don't intend to take into our marriage. I have being sleeping with her best friend for 6 months now who happens to be her chief bride's maid to be and confident and I am not proud of it.. How do I tell my fiancee of my evil acts without hurting her or changing her love towards me... Please help me, I am confused, should I tell her after our marriage? |
Re: How Do I Confess To My Fiancee I Have Been Sleeping With Our Chief Bride's Maid by VaselineJelly: 8:41am On Aug 01, 2015 |
By ha a new mesdis ben, den wen she is still screem in excite, tell ha, "bae, i slept wit..." 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Confess To My Fiancee I Have Been Sleeping With Our Chief Bride's Maid by Tallesty1(m): 8:41am On Aug 01, 2015 |
Bleep it man. You don't need to confess anything. Stop what you are doing with her friend and move on. Chances are she's bleeping someone aside, some girls even go last match 2days before their wedding but that's no reason anyways. Just cut all ties with her friend and stay faithful. Some things are better left unsaid 11 Likes |
Re: How Do I Confess To My Fiancee I Have Been Sleeping With Our Chief Bride's Maid by Nobody: 8:42am On Aug 01, 2015 |
you already a terrible husband before marriage. pls repent 3 Likes |
Re: How Do I Confess To My Fiancee I Have Been Sleeping With Our Chief Bride's Maid by Bugatie(m): 8:44am On Aug 01, 2015 |
Am not sure you wanna do that. Just don't cheat on her again! 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Confess To My Fiancee I Have Been Sleeping With Our Chief Bride's Maid by Nobody: 8:47am On Aug 01, 2015 |
that's bad man, if you tell her she might vote to cancel the wedding and if you don't tell her and she gets to know, that's gonna be worse. my advice, don't tell her and put a stop to your act of fornication before it evolves into adultery. and make sure you come to an agreement with the chief bridesmaid to keep your (the both of you) secret, then draw a line you'll promise yourself not to cross. God help you... |
Re: How Do I Confess To My Fiancee I Have Been Sleeping With Our Chief Bride's Maid by OmaBliss: 8:49am On Aug 01, 2015 |
[size=15pt]Your case is terrible! U not married to her yet and u already cheating. Haba! If u decide to stop cheating on ur fiance with her friend and don't bother telling ur fiance anything. Do u think her friend would agree to it? I bet she'll use it to blackmail u one way or the other so u had better tell her and know ur fate.[/size] 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Confess To My Fiancee I Have Been Sleeping With Our Chief Bride's Maid by jamex93(m): 8:56am On Aug 01, 2015 |
u get mind ooooo na which kind husband u b self |
Re: How Do I Confess To My Fiancee I Have Been Sleeping With Our Chief Bride's Maid by gabazin080(m): 9:01am On Aug 01, 2015 |
Just tell her the way you told us 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Confess To My Fiancee I Have Been Sleeping With Our Chief Bride's Maid by Gurgle(f): 9:04am On Aug 01, 2015 |
~Screams OP please, if this story is true can you remove your profile picture Don't want the news of you and the chief bridesmaid's murders to be FP tomorrow morning... 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Confess To My Fiancee I Have Been Sleeping With Our Chief Bride's Maid by 1miccza: 9:05am On Aug 01, 2015 |
Tallesty1: Absolutely right |
Re: How Do I Confess To My Fiancee I Have Been Sleeping With Our Chief Bride's Maid by CEtoO(f): 9:06am On Aug 01, 2015 |
Baby i've done something wrong. Its been pricking my heart n i dont knw how to tell u cuz i'm scared of losing u. God knows i love u n i promise never to do it again. Baby i know i'm d worst being on earth n i'm not proud about it. Pls 4give me 4 sleeping with ur best frnd/chief brides maid. I know i know i know U can slap me, insult me; i deserve it. I promise never to do it again. Its bcuz of d guilt in me that i dont wanna keep this a secret. Pls my love 4give me. *wow!!! I don write one scene out o 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do I Confess To My Fiancee I Have Been Sleeping With Our Chief Bride's Maid by LEvuls(m): 9:09am On Aug 01, 2015 |
Gurgle:he look very young ..don't think its his story ![]() |
Re: How Do I Confess To My Fiancee I Have Been Sleeping With Our Chief Bride's Maid by Gurgle(f): 9:12am On Aug 01, 2015 |
LEvuls: Hmm good! anyway at least somebody else who has committed the same atrocity may find some good advice here |
Re: How Do I Confess To My Fiancee I Have Been Sleeping With Our Chief Bride's Maid by LEvuls(m): 9:16am On Aug 01, 2015 |
Gurgle: Well good for them but as for me ![]() |
Re: How Do I Confess To My Fiancee I Have Been Sleeping With Our Chief Bride's Maid by Gurgle(f): 9:17am On Aug 01, 2015 |
Re: How Do I Confess To My Fiancee I Have Been Sleeping With Our Chief Bride's Maid by elantraceey(f): 9:21am On Aug 01, 2015 |
If you love that Lady , tell her now!!! please save her from unnecessary emotional trauma when you guys finally get married that then it will be more difficult for her to walk away. Please shut up and don't mention respect, how can you respect someone and still screw her BEST FRIEND for six months under her nose ![]() There's a 98% chance that if you don't tell her now , that wicked friend of hers will use this to hurt her later, please spare her that trouble I beg you. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Confess To My Fiancee I Have Been Sleeping With Our Chief Bride's Maid by Nobody: 9:22am On Aug 01, 2015 |
Gurgle:Haba... Are you praying for my death?? |
Re: How Do I Confess To My Fiancee I Have Been Sleeping With Our Chief Bride's Maid by elantraceey(f): 9:24am On Aug 01, 2015 |
Tallesty1: I'm so disappointed in this post. Did you skip the part that she's not just some random girl but the lady's best friend? You think it will be easy to just cut ties with her like that? 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Confess To My Fiancee I Have Been Sleeping With Our Chief Bride's Maid by LEvuls(m): 9:24am On Aug 01, 2015 |
Re: How Do I Confess To My Fiancee I Have Been Sleeping With Our Chief Bride's Maid by Gurgle(f): 9:25am On Aug 01, 2015 |
insycarc: No but you would be playing with fire to leave it there when you haven't told your wife |
Re: How Do I Confess To My Fiancee I Have Been Sleeping With Our Chief Bride's Maid by Gurgle(f): 9:31am On Aug 01, 2015 |
LEvuls: why don't you smile in your picture |
Re: How Do I Confess To My Fiancee I Have Been Sleeping With Our Chief Bride's Maid by LEvuls(m): 9:34am On Aug 01, 2015 |
Gurgle:Wil start smiling once I see u smile ![]() |
Re: How Do I Confess To My Fiancee I Have Been Sleeping With Our Chief Bride's Maid by Gurgle(f): 9:35am On Aug 01, 2015 |
LEvuls: Hmmmmm! |
Re: How Do I Confess To My Fiancee I Have Been Sleeping With Our Chief Bride's Maid by Gurgle(f): 9:36am On Aug 01, 2015 |
LEvuls: btw your ceiling and my ceiling look exactly the same |
Re: How Do I Confess To My Fiancee I Have Been Sleeping With Our Chief Bride's Maid by LEvuls(m): 9:38am On Aug 01, 2015 |
Gurgle:What re u smelling ![]() |
Re: How Do I Confess To My Fiancee I Have Been Sleeping With Our Chief Bride's Maid by LEvuls(m): 9:41am On Aug 01, 2015 |
Gurgle:Bae they're your ceiling...actually don't have ceilings ![]() |
Re: How Do I Confess To My Fiancee I Have Been Sleeping With Our Chief Bride's Maid by Nobody: 9:44am On Aug 01, 2015 |
I'm more interested in knowing how you pulled that off.. Like someone said, chances are your fiancé is also sleeping with someone else and her bestie is trying to help you get even .. Hoes ain't loyal like that. |
Re: How Do I Confess To My Fiancee I Have Been Sleeping With Our Chief Bride's Maid by Gurgle(f): 9:46am On Aug 01, 2015 |
LEvuls: Lol what so what do you call the top of the room |
Re: How Do I Confess To My Fiancee I Have Been Sleeping With Our Chief Bride's Maid by Tallesty1(m): 9:48am On Aug 01, 2015 |
elantraceey:Chill lady, the lady is an enemy, she wouldn't have bleeped her best friend's husband-to-be if she was a good friend. Secondly, considering what would be at stake should he confess his sins then I believe it's better kept the way it is, "secret". You don't necessarily have to confess to a pastor to receive forgiveness, do you? Repent and move one. It is simple as that What you don't know do not hurt you........... Cutting all ties with the lady is the best option if you ask me because the guilt feeling(if she's got conscience) will keep her away from them and safe them from future mistakes ![]() |
Re: How Do I Confess To My Fiancee I Have Been Sleeping With Our Chief Bride's Maid by LEvuls(m): 9:49am On Aug 01, 2015 |
Gurgle:Room-Tops ![]() |
Re: How Do I Confess To My Fiancee I Have Been Sleeping With Our Chief Bride's Maid by mirinda2132(m): 9:50am On Aug 01, 2015 |
My broda better give ur fiancee a good treat and confess to her. Pray she forgives you. |
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