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searching4love:
[b]You girls are fond of extorting gullible men in different forms and turn down sexual advances thinking you are wise.

A guy approaches u to woo u and instead of telling him NO u saw him as a potential MAGA due to his interest in u. He fix a date with u and u insist on meeting him at an eatry so u can spend his money and take away food to satisfy your unending hunger. When such guy have a one on one moment with u and u turn down his sexual advances how do u expect him to recover all the money u extorted from him Eventually he feels cheated and try to force his way on you and u scream rape after the deed is done without letting people know how much u extorted from him in your quest to satisfy your longer throat My point is that until Nigerian girls change their money hungry mentality and stop seeing men as a financial prey, they can never escape been molested by men seeking revenge. Nigerian girls are thieves who will stop at nothing to extort men in the disguise of fake love and at the end turn down his advances. I dont pity such girls and i never will. Note: i am not in support of men who rapes little children or fathers who molests their daughters. My opinion is strictly about Hungry Nigerian girls.

This is why i keep advocating that foreign girls are better wives/girlfriends. If u want peace of mind, go for a foreign girl.

#Team foreign girls [/b]

For you to have such tots u re a rapist nd I'l definitely look into ur matter

maiahsaiah:
For you to have such tots u re a rapist nd I'l definitely look into ur matter

who gives a fuckkk about what u think useless minion

PapaOyoyo:
Lol, how she dress? And im sure na one of those winners chapel people. Their dressing na wa

Lol una no serious o...

just about that time. a timely topic I will say, just when front page is full of rape cases..... ladies /guys..... read and learn a 2 or 5 things. Shalom.

Tallesty1:
Thank you op for this wonderful post.

Y'see sometimes we humans like tempting the devil and the people around us and are always ready to put the blame on whoever is unfortunate enough to be used by the devil.

I remember a man that slapped his wife for pising him off all the time.

As usual, everyone around was blaming the man for not "being man enough" to walk away. Some even suggested that he go for "anger management program".

It was then that one man asked the people why they don't tell the woman to also go for a "stop pising him off program"

Something similar also happened at the place I stay, a lady wore a tiny skirt that was meant for a 10yr old girl. The skirt tore when she was trying to climb bike.

As usual, instead of blaming herself for wearing a tight skirt, she blamed the okada guy for not bending the bike well enough.

I am not supporting rapist, in fact I abhor them seriously but what have you as a lady done to protect yourself?

Sometimes I read some childish stories online about people that allow kissing and romancing but no sex! Like seriously?

So if the man should loose control and bleep heavens out of her, she will scream rape and win the always available sympathy of the society.

Guys, you people should learn to control yourselves, I know it is hard but it is possible. Also make your intentions know.

If you are inviting a girl over, please make sure she knows what she's coming for.

Finally, get one girlfriend and stay faithful. It is hard but it is possible and the best way to build yourself for marriage, staying faithful there nah must.

Also remember that some girls are taking advantage of this rape "thingy" to get on guys.

They will enjoy sex with you and claim rape afterwards.

Another thing is, stop dating underaged girls.

They always say "rape" when their parents find out that something is going and you can't blame them because they gotta give excuse.


Happy Sunday 2 y'all.

Sir,do you know that you are the most sensible man on NL? Yes you are because you typed with you number 6 and you shared the blames to the appropriate quaters...God bless you,
by the way,are you Tallest from petosh's house?

Larryfly:
From your moniker, it shows that you ve really been a victim of such girls. I hope you dont rape them. Stop justifying rape my brother. If you dont know how to woo a woman without spending money foolishly tell me let me teach you.

I don't wanna comment on this trend but u pushed me so what you are saying now is that his wrong but he makes more sense than you

flaky66:
extremely silly

when a male tells a female her ugly part she will quickly respond like you did. No chop any man money if you will not give him what he want or have you done dat before

Same way a friend of mine accused me of trying to rape in my school days. She visited ,I just came back from lectures still dressed ,she sat on a chair I also went and sat on her legs,her face changed the voice became sober. She started ,don't try this while myself was not even thinking of anything like that.
To make it worse , someone knocked at the door when I opened it was a male friend of mine,she looked at the two of us and didn't say anything,but I know what was going on in her mind.That happened in Nov 2013,she said she was disappointed in me that I planned to rape her with my friend who was a squatter in my room. We went our separate ways .
Coming to May 2014,she remembered the so called rapist again because she was in a fix that only I alone can help her solve. She said I know we have not been the best of friends lately but let's put everything aside and get back as we used to. Am not trying to justify a guy raping a girl but most of the girls that play the victim actually faked it when nothing happened . We still friends and I keep asking her why come back to a guy who claimed wanted to rape you in the past,she wouldn't answer.

Amazo:
Do you have any idea how many decently dressed women have been raped? Even women, in extremely culturally strict societies, who wear full-cover veiling clothing have been raped sometimes. Rapë isn't about what a woman wears or doesn't wear. Rapë is about shameless men who are mentally sïck and have no self control! Stop deceiving yourself with the dressing issue - it's not the underlying cause of rapë.

you partially rit girls Sud dress decent not sagging their b**bs

searching4love:
[b]You girls are fond of extorting gullible men in different forms and turn down sexual advances thinking you are wise.

A guy approaches u to woo u and instead of telling him NO u saw him as a potential MAGA due to his interest in u. He fix a date with u and u insist on meeting him at an eatry so u can spend his money and take away food to satisfy your unending hunger. When such guy have a one on one moment with u and u turn down his sexual advances how do u expect him to recover all the money u extorted from him Eventually he feels cheated and try to force his way on you and u scream rape after the deed is done without letting people know how much u extorted from him in your quest to satisfy your longer throat My point is that until Nigerian girls change their money hungry mentality and stop seeing men as a financial prey, they can never escape been molested by men seeking revenge. Nigerian girls are thieves who will stop at nothing to extort men in the disguise of fake love and at the end turn down his advances. I dont pity such girls and i never will. Note: i am not in support of men who rapes little children or fathers who molests their daughters. My opinion is strictly about Hungry Nigerian girls.

This is why i keep advocating that foreign girls are better wives/girlfriends. If u want peace of mind, go for a foreign girl.

#Team foreign girls [/b]

U make brain!!!!!

Best way to avoid most rape cases (except in weird cases of child rape) is to set a distance btw urself and his money. Give urself respect especially if u have no intention to submit to his advances.
Many men are poor and poverty affects d mind. They get to feel they shud be rewarded for anything they spend on d lady......and if they don't get dia reward, they take it by force.......after all life is a continous struggle for them anyway.

Also ladies shud learn to keep a very decent distance in relating with guys they have no intention of shagging. No unnecessary hugs, kisses, suggestive sms, sitting on his bed, rubbing his head and chest, holding hands on d streets, sitting on his laps etc. Even if he has no desire to do the do, d devil ..... and his friends will put ideas in his head.

Ladies, if u have no plan to open ur legs, keep ur hands and emotions to urself...and stay far away from his money....Even if he begs u to spend it with him, say no.

obstead200:
U make brain!!!!!

Best way to avoid most rape cases (except in weird cases of child rape) is to set a distance btw urself and his money. Give urself respect especially if u have no intention to submit to his advances.
Many men are poor and poverty affects d mind. They get to feel they shud be rewarded for anything they spend on d lady......and if they don't get dia reward, they take it by force.......after all life is a continous struggle for them anyway.

Also ladies shud learn to keep a very decent distance in relating with guys they have no intention of shagging. No unnecessary hugs, kisses, suggestive sms, sitting on his bed, rubbing his head and chest, holding hands on d streets, sitting on his laps etc. Even if he has no desire to do the do, d devil ..... and his friends will put ideas in his head.

Ladies, if u have no plan to open ur legs, keep ur hands and emotions to urself...and stay far away from his money....Even if he begs u to spend it with him, say no.

Say NO, Lol

Naija girl?

To many of you making reference to girls who extort money from guys and dress scantily, I agree that people should take the necessary precautions that they can to protect themselves. Like not standing in front of a busy road to avoid getting crushed by an oncoming trailer. But the incidence of rape is more than that. A man who wants to rape a woman will do so, whether or not she's decently dressed or has taken money from him. No matter what the scenario may have been, no woman or person deserves to be raped. There's no justification at all. Even if that person stole all the valuables in your home or wore pants and bras alone in front of you, he/she doesn't deserve to be raped. Many of you wouldn't think about touching your sisters if she dressed provocatively, why would it be any different with the young boy/ girl out there. Rape is like murder, it is born from sheer evil and lust. Give yourselves time to really reflect on the matter itself, like think really deep. This isn't just about "Naija women this, Naija women that." This is fighting to ensure a safer world for our daughters and sons. May God grant us the heart of love, because only with the presence of love and conscience, including self control, can we be able to fight this battle.

emusmith:
Biblical/ Wisdom Ways To Avoiding "RAPE" At All Cost In A Filthy World


Good Morning Y'all. I woke up to see a very cool thread on FP regarding this topic. Different views, yea! "What's God's view?", I thought.

The Bible offers a whole package of counsels to young folks and older ones too.
The complains God gets to receive are so because most of the times, humans either are ignorant, nonchalant or disobedient.

"Keep yourself from the wickedness in the world", don't channel blames, be smart and run for your life. You have just one life to live.


3. Dress decently always.

Yea, they'll say, "what concerns anyone with my mode of dressing". I can state with facts that the wife of Potiphar actually lusted after Joseph because he had a "good stature" and was good to look upon. (6 packs plenty). In those days, servants don't wear shirt again. She almost lured the young man. So, your dressing is important too. "You shouldn't wear a tiny, flabby skirt to visit a guy you know is sexually active"It is just COMMON SENSE. Should that one be taught you? I thought they now have "tights"?
If you are "very courageous" (big b**bs), Wisdom says "Don't advertise it by using weak or no bra". What people advertise is a clue to what they want to give. Do you want to give it? Some times, they wear buttoned shirt and you know that those "pawpaws" would want to peep- MY POINT IS, Use Wisdom rather than complaining unnecessarily.


Good Morning & Happy Sunday.

OP, you try o!

Very nice piece indeed. But since you are a man, I am waiting for the day someone like you will write a piece preaching to your fellow lads to stop raping women.

"Ladies, stop visiting man", "stop dressing like that", "Be Godly", "blah blah blah"

We have heard you people, We are also tired of hearing it, ehn? I want to believe that every wise girl takes all these precautions. Inasmuch as I feel it's good to educate ladies about what or what not to do to avoid rape, all the constant advice is beginning to make it look like we are the bad guys here, or like we actually encourage or enjoy the nonsense. It's supposed to be the other way round. On FP every week, there is supposed to be a thread fully dedicated to condemning the act, and damning the perpetrators to hell too.

So OP, we are very grateful for the advice, thank you. But being a man, please try and do a piece for the men too. Yea, I see about 2 sentences where you said rape is bad. But they need more than that, they need an epistle, with scriptural backing like you did up there.

I really hope you dont take my suggestion the wrong way. Like I earlier said, it was indeed a nice piece. Just that I'm tired of hearing this kind of advice, and would really love to see someone actually address the root cause of the matter. In the end, this advice cannot apply to helpless 5 year olds who know nothing, but are victims of sexual molestation

SAY NO TO RAPE! SAY NO TO RAPE! BUT YOU EEDIOT NAIJA WOMEN WILL NOT SAY NO TO MONEY AND MATERIALISTIC THINGS


I DON'T BLAME YOU WOMEN! I ONLY BLAME YOUR STUPIDITY AND IGNORANCE

A GUY WILL APPROACH YOU, WHY NOT TELL HIM NO! THAT YOU DON'T WANT A RELATIONSHIP BUT INSTEAD YOU FRIENDZONE HIM AND START TAXING HIM AS IF HE IS YOUR FATHER

WHY WON'T HE RAPE YOU AT THE END TO COLLECT HIS GAIN

AND YOU STVPID WOMEN WON'T TALK OR EVEN REPORT HIM TO THE NEAREST POLICE ( BECAUSE YOU KNOW WHAT YOU DID) BUT RATHER COMING HERE AND TALKING TRASH

maiahsaiah:
For you to have such tots u re a rapist nd I'l definitely look into ur matter

for you to think u have caught a MAGA and accept isi ewu, Pepesoup, money and you think you will go free sorry if you have fallen a victim

BabyDaddy20:
Excluding minors.
99% of rape victims are at fault.
I'm not in support of rape tho.

People really need clarification by legal experts as to what amounts to r.ape. The legal position is what really matters to society at large. Sure sex with a minor below the age of consent is automatically rape. But others are not so clear. Fact is if a girl says no and keeps saying no and you still hold her down, deprive her of liberty to leave or threaten and forcefully have any form of sex with her, then it's rape. Simple. That you both were petting heavily or she wore skimpy clothes, is no excuse before the law.

As long as the venue of the alleged 'rape' was the guy's house or hotel room, and as long as the evidence of the so-called rape boils down to the girl's unverifiable accusation, then I will ALWAYS give the guy the benefit of the doubt. Even if my own sister is involved, I will still support the guy. Period. Unless there is video or audio evidence to the contrary.

Stupidity should never be encouraged. If you know you are not willing to have sex with a guy, and you are not really sure what might happen if you end up in seclusion with him, do not visit him in his house.. In fact, if it is a hotel room, then may God punish you if you come and scream rape. You have no business visiting a hotel room in the first place unless you know what you want. We have to encourage decency and common sense, otherwise more demonic girls will keep using false rape accusations to tarnish innocent men's reputations.

Eureka123:
To many of you making reference to girls who extort money from guys and dress scantily, I agree that people should take the necessary precautions that they can to protect themselves. Like not standing in front of a busy road to avoid getting crushed by an oncoming trailer. But the incidence of rape is more than that. A man who wants to rape a woman will do so, whether or not she's decently dressed or has taken money from him. No matter what the scenario may have been, no woman or person deserves to be raped. There's no justification at all. Even if that person stole all the valuables in your home or wore pants and bras alone in front of you, he/she doesn't deserve to be raped. Many of you wouldn't think about touching your sisters if she dressed provocatively, why would it be any different with the young boy/ girl out there. May God grant us the heart of love, because only with the presence of live and conscience, including self control, can we be able to fight this battle.

This is you trying to justify...

It's like you saying, 419ers can trick you into bring real money for their fake money.
Most people fall because they themselves are greedy.

What am I saying? Play your part by "holding your side".

If you beg him for cash, he will assume you owe him unless he is your legitimate bf.

BabyDaddy20:
Excluding minors.
99% of rape victims are at fault.
I'm not in support of rape tho.

You want them to pounce on you abi?

emusmith:
This is you trying to justify...

It's like you saying, 419ers can trick you into bring real money for their fake money.
Most people fall because they themselves are greedy.

What am I saying? Play your part by "holding your side".

If you beg him for cash, he will assume you owe him unless he is your legitimate bf.

You too are missing the point. I don't know about people who go to extort money from other people. My father taught my siblings and I up, with the mind frame of independence. I speak now of why any reasons given by a rapist doesn't stand. Think about it, forcing yourself on someone against their will. Where is the soul and the heart? Is it any better than murdering the person next to you just because he did something bad to you?? Do you not see how far more in-depth and delicate this matter is? All we are and have been doing here, is beat around the bush. At the bold part in your mention, all I was saying there is that Rape is not an option at all to any of those situations, if truly people had conscience and a heart filled with love. Rape is evil, no matter which perspective you choose to view it from.

Lilyomi:
I love this write up especially da decent dressing. Whether we like it or not, men are moved by wat they see. Unfortunately, dressing almost naked attracts mostly boys. Men are attracted to women of class. A working woman who is decently dressed.

And this is coming from a woman? Brilliant! a considerate and Rational observation.

But some women will disagree, they would argue that it does not matter what they wear or how they are dressed, I am confused

Eureka123:
You too are missing the point. I don't know about people who go to extort money from other people. My father taught my siblings and I up, with the mind frame of independence. I speak now of why any reasons given by a rapist doesn't stand. Think about it, forcing yourself on someone against their will. Where is the soul and the heart? Is it any better than murdering the person next to you just because he did something bad to you?? Do you not see how far more in-depth and delicate this matter is? All we are and have been doing here, is beat around the bush. At the bold part in your mention, all I was saying there is that Rape is not an option at all to any of those situations, if truly people had conscience and a heart filled with love. Rape is evil, no matter which perspective you choose to view it from.

Rape is not an option, Will that solve the problem? You're only stating the obvious. Everyone knows that including them...

IF THEY HAVE A HEART OF LOVE? Do you know how to put love in their hearts? If No, stop discussing problems. Discuss solutions.


My thread is not a Publicity for No Rape because it's a waste of time...I can only preserve myself and any lady who cares to apply the message of this thread.

otiigba1:
And this is coming from a woman? Brilliant! a considerate and Rational observation.

But some women will disagree, they would argue that it does not matter what they wear or how they are dressed, I am confused

Don't mind them, theirs is to say, "Say No To Rape" as if that will solve the menace or change the hearts of those rapists.

Larryfly:
From your moniker, it shows that you ve really been a victim of such girls. I hope you dont rape them. Stop justifying rape my brother. If you dont know how to woo a woman without spending money foolishly tell me let me teach you.

i suspect he is been hurt by nigerian girls/women quite a lot, and he still has a thing or two to learn about wooing women
digressing, what about when a female pays one a visit expecting sex and did not get it from a male and she terms him a WEAK man, JEW man some times even concludes that the male is GAY, for been Gentle man enough not to take of advantage her? This happens to me numerous times

What would be your opinion on that?

[size=17]Good one op. I'd add one more;

Don't ask for positions you are unqualified; if a man will help you get a job or admission you don't qualify for he can rape you because he is morally bankrupt anyway and so are you . Stop seeking backdoors to anything, you will pay for it through the door (if uno wat I mean)..... If you can't be hardworking and disciplined then ud most likely be sexually harassed regularly. The unilag girl is an example, she didn't deserve the admission but she wanted to runz it[/size]

.

But the bible itself endorsed rape. Kill all the men and take the women as spoils of war, have the OP forgotten ?

searching4love:
who gives a fuckkk about what u think useless minion

Filthy words from a filthy person,I'm not surprised

emusmith:
Don't mind them, theirs is to say, "Say No To Rape" as if that will solve the menace or change the hearts of those rapists.

seriously! I don't get it.

Now what happens when a woman visit me expecting sex, and didn't get it and she resorts to saying that i am a weak man, i am a jew man, even to the extent of saying i must be gay just because i was a gentleman enough not to take advantage of her or refuse to take engage in sex with her.

This has happened to me numerous times.

misspicy:
Sir,do you know that you are the most sensible man on NL? Yes you are because you typed with you number 6 and you shared the blames to the appropriate quaters...God bless you,
by the way,are you Tallest from petosh's house?

lols, thanks.


And bless you too my dear.



Huh Who's petosh??

Hizzy:
for you to think u have caught a MAGA and accept isi ewu, Pepesoup, money and you think you will go free sorry if you have fallen a victim

If that is what u wish for me,here's my wish 4 u: I pray u jump off a cliff and get hit by a plane on the way down and survive at d bottom of a canyon 4 27 dayd b4 some possums eat u!!!

maiahsaiah:
Filthy words from a filthy person,I'm not surprised

Suck my dick bittch