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emusmith:
Rape is not an option, Will that solve the problem? You're only stating the obvious. Everyone knows that including them...

IF THEY HAVE A HEART OF LOVE? Do you know how to put love in their hearts? If No, stop discussing problems. Discuss solutions.


My thread is not a Publicity for No Rape because it's a waste of time...I can only preserve myself and any lady who cares to apply the message of this thread.

If you say so.

maiahsaiah:
If that is what u wish for me,here's my wish 4 u: I pray u jump off a cliff and get hit by a plane on the way down and survive at d bottom of a canyon 4 27 dayd b4 some possums eat u!!!

sorry na where way de plane go crash. Plane na people way get enof money de enter amm so if I enter plane it crashed na only me de inside ammm see evil you are praying to happen in Nigeria

Gentolany:
[size=18pt]stop reading song of solomon[/size]

Haba Gentolany na God put am inside Bible nah.

The objective lesson of Songs of Solomon is how those courting can be faithful to each other despise pressures from a third party. Remember that the king took the shepherd to his palace but still her heart was always beating for the shepherd and she never fell for the king. Moral lesson: be faithful to one person and stop accepting gifts that might make you a prey one day.

Nice contributions from:

emusmith
Tallesty1
Amazo
MadCow1

et al that I can't mention. Those on this topic (90%) have displayed high level of maturity and comments here show that we are all against rape which is a good sign (regardless of the root cause). But I shudder at the idea of molesting toddlers? I simply refuse to see the reason or excitement behind such a dastardly act.

Let's take the word to the streets for those that don't have access to the like most of do. And lastly let's help our sisters HEAL. It's really a burden for them to bear.

Shalom.

flaky66:
extremely silly

how can that be stupid? The guy gave his opinion, he obviously feels that way regardless,

You people are not ready to solve this problem, guy says how he feels instead of taking his feelings on board? You say he is stupid

hadura29:
Greed greed greed on the part of girls.... If you know you won't do, don't chop the guys 50kobo, but to them, every guy na client..


Our African morals of dressing we should imbibe it on our ladies.. Hmmmm


I don talk my own..

I need Alomo Abeg...

Bros, Alomo this early morning?

dfrost:
Haba Gentolany na God put am inside Bible nah.

The objective lesson of Songs of Solomon is how those courting can be faithful to each other despise pressures from a third party. Remember that the king took the shepherd to his palace but still her heart was always beating for the shepherd and she never fell for the king. Moral lesson: be faithful to one person and stop accepting gifts that might make you a prey one day.

Nice contributions from:

emusmith
Tallesty1
Amazo
MadCow1

et al that I can't mention. Those on this topic (90%) have displayed high level of maturity and comments here show that we are all against rape which is a good sign (regardless of the root cause). But I shudder at the idea of molesting toddlers? I simply refuse to see the reason or excitement behind such a dastardly act.

Let's take the word to the streets for those that don't have access to the like most of do.

Shalom.

@Emboldened......... Jungle Justice can be good sometimes

dasphinx1:
Bros, Alomo this early morning?

Bros werin I go do na, wey be say redemption camp traffic wan pai me.... Need to console myself na....

emusmith:
So true!
The part of underage girls lying you raped them when caught is revealing. You hear them say #say no to rape...but that is not a gospel as it doesn't change anyone. You change things! Avoid things you can avoid.

How do you know underage girls are lying? Maybe you should stop sleeping with underage girls. Plus, they can't be lying if the law states that you should not be having sex with them.

DrKlever:
most rape victims actually asked for it. a lady visited me in school last nite till around 11pm, ask me does she need anyone to tell her its late already she requested for fried rice and chicken cuzz she is hungry. i went and borrowed money from a friend bcuz i didn't av enough cash on me. got her food and drink, we talked
and she leaned on me whille we were in bed with her boobs half exposed same as her butts cause my eyes really fed on em. after some time, a sharp guy considered the time nd money wasted for a poor student and the beaming green light almost getting me blind, so i decided to dance to the tune as i could no longer resist the temptation. i started touching her boobs and other sensitive part of her body
each time i did she would say stop it and beat my hand.i was resilient and continued till she later gave in. when we were doing it she moaned and said stuff like more more! only for her to start crying after d whole thing that i had sex with her against her will. i'm sure she wud tell sum1 she was raped, won't she?. the moral is that, do not tempt.. even the bible says don't tempt yoursellf or others cuz guys have hormones and nott impotent.i'm not in any way condoling rape cuzz its bad but ladies know when and who to visit and don't cry foul when u become a victim of circumstance. thanks!

You are a ra.pist. She said no and you continued? Do you think every individual has the energy to continue saying no, most times victims end up giving in. I am quite certain you used some form of force to get what you want.
Your azz will one day be a temptation for one big man like that. Say Amen!

Eureka123:
To many of you making reference to girls who extort money from guys and dress scantily, I agree that people should take the necessary precautions that they can to protect themselves. Like not standing in front of a busy road to avoid getting crushed by an oncoming trailer. But the incidence of rape is more than that. A man who wants to rape a woman will do so, whether or not she's decently dressed or has taken money from him. No matter what the scenario may have been, no woman or person deserves to be raped. There's no justification at all. Even if that person stole all the valuables in your home or wore pants and bras alone in front of you, he/she doesn't deserve to be raped. Many of you wouldn't think about touching your sisters if she dressed provocatively, why would it be any different with the young boy/ girl out there. Rape is like murder, it is born from sheer evil and lust. Give yourselves time to really reflect on the matter itself, like think really deep. This isn't just about "Naija women this, Naija women that." This is fighting to ensure a safer world for our daughters and sons. May God grant us the heart of love, because only with the presence of love and conscience, including self control, can we be able to fight this battle.

The same thing over and over again. Now you have turned the message over the head of the messenger and he now looks insensitive and excuse seeking. Why do some of you ladies never face the facts that the sinking ship of morality contains both rape and indecent exposure (nudity) and his advise (extortion) as well. You are always apt to condemn one and excuse the other, why. One is not saying that nudity causes all rape but it contributes to some so why don't the womenfolk give it a benefit of doubt.

Using your example. If you stand at a busy road long enough you will eventually get knocked down. That is one of the reasons why people build houses. It is simply silly to live a life totally reactionary and always at the mercy of the actions or inactions of others. A lady will only elicit my sympathy if she lives and acts proactively and yes my relations will get the caution of their lives if they behave irresponsibly. This is the subject being discussed.

emusmith:
Biblical/ Wisdom Ways To Avoiding "RAPE" At All Cost In A Filthy World


Good Morning Y'all. I woke up to see a very cool thread on FP regarding this topic. Different views, yea! "What's God's view?", I thought.

The Bible offers a whole package of counsels to young folks and older ones too.
The complains God gets to receive are so because most of the times, humans either are ignorant, nonchalant or disobedient.

I hate all form of molestation to the core. It's sinful. Those involved in it are heartless. Yes! God knowing all that then warned, "Keep yourself from the wickedness in the world", don't channel blames, be smart and run for your life. You have just one life to live.

Why Is Rape A Sin?

First and foremost, it is forcing yourself on someone AGAINST THEIR WILL. God Himself never forced humans to accept Christ. That's why Love has no trace of force in it. The formula of Love should be: Love= Patience × Kindness.



Note: AGAINST THEIR WILL.

If any guy or lady forces him/herself on another, such should be punished by the law.

If it's not against their will, it's not RAPE!

See: Adam and Eve were not "RAPED" by the serpent. They were not forced into disobeying God that's why God did punish them likewise. They mutually consented to the lies of Satan- They did, against all arguments, they did. They got served as a product of one act of flirtation. You and I are witnesses

I'm very selective when it comes to visiting ladies myself. Don't look surprised when I say I have turned down some Invitation Offers & Appeals, because I see ahead! But some ladies, whether they don't o or wants to actually commit you into their lives, I dunno!

Let's quickly check out 7 BIBLICAL/WISDOM WAYS OF AVOIDING RAPE AT ALL COST IN A DIRTY WORLD.

Note: MY PERSPECTIVE IN THIS THREAD IS SEEING IT THROUGH GOD'S EYES. If you're not going to see it that way, don't misquote. Today na Sunday.

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1. Embrace Godliness

Godliness is the act of obeying God's command in everything you do. If God says, "Abstain from fornication and its likes". Abstain! If you don't, there are usually consequences. (This doesn't JUSTIFY the act) There is punishment to the offender(like the serpent was punished) but then you've been affected (A whole generation was affected through Adam's negligence and blame passing). Do your part and God WILL protect you. I know godly a girl who could have been a victim but her godliness saved. It's a long story- the man's manhood dropped like a pack of cards suddenly! The next morning, the non sense man called her a "witch". Haha! What people can't demystify, they mystify, lol! She only did bind his manhood in Jesus Name. God saw her INNERMOST HEART DESIRE & PRAYER then came in to help (He searches the heart, remember. Not the mouth)


2. Don't visit a male unless you're so sure of him.

Oh, while I was in the university, I had this circle of girl friends in my estate then. They sleep in my room. We laugh and play like siblings. We are so sure of ourselves. They don't need anyone to preach "rape" to them when it gets to us. The same with you, ladies. Don't visit a guy unless you're at least, 75% sure of him. Many chicks like experiment, that's where they meet their waterloo.


3. Dress decently always.

Yea, they'll say, "what concerns anyone with my mode of dressing". I can state with facts that the wife of Potiphar actually lusted after Joseph because he had a "good stature" and was good to look upon. (6 packs plenty). In those days, servants don't wear shirt again. She almost lured the young man. So, your dressing is important too. "You shouldn't wear a tiny, flabby skirt to visit a guy you know is sexually active"It is just COMMON SENSE. Should that one be taught you? I thought they now have "tights"?
If you are "very courageous" (big b**bs), Wisdom says "Don't advertise it by using weak or no bra". What people advertise is a clue to what they want to give. Do you want to give it? Some times, they wear buttoned shirt and you know that those "pawpaws" would want to peep- MY POINT IS, Use Wisdom rather than complaining unnecessarily.


4 Read the handwriting on the wall and follow its signal.

Especially in the scenario where a girl visits a guy; you go to his house and the posters on his walls are that of naked women. Maybe, you see him as a Sex Addict and YET, he is the only one in that whole department qualified to be your READING MATE! Hmmm...I laugh in Hispanics! Only you waka come! Enough handwriting in the sick wall, ceiling and door yet you ignore it. God always give signals and warnings. THAT DOESN'T JUSTIFY RAPE- the law will punish him if caught, but your insensitivity and inaction can have you pay a huge personal price.


5. Check your inner circle of friends.

Perhaps, you are like me, who condemn every form of molestation. You should be like me too in the friends you keep. Your friends (who are into you) are drunks, clubbers and smokers and you- a faithful, innocent girlfriend of theirs opens your door for them late in the night. I do not condemn anyone but I think you're at the risk of getting laid, against your PERFECT WILL, some day. It all happens fast but trust me, the friends you harbour can hurt you more. Remember the age long maxim, "keep your enemies close but your friends closer". Friendship is a burden, sometimes.



6. The average male gives money for sex, you CAN'T re-invent the will. Don't try to- Flee!

Speaking of PERFECT WILL, most girls are living with a guy and allowing sex because of the money he has and that is not their PERFECT WILL. The money is covering up for all that. I was by a suya spot one evening, a young, grown up girl came by and jokingly pleaded the malam to give her some "free" suya, that malarm openly asked her if she will open her legs. Yes, he is not learned, unexposed and all. I later bought for her, free. No strings. Not everyone is like me. Many girls are opening their legs for their dinner. They don't have a will talk less of having sex against their will. This topic is highly relative, ok.



7. Don't Visit A Guy Whose Presence Causes You "heat"- Don't deceive yourself.

Still buttressing, you can't deceive yourself- EMOTION IS HOT, KNOWLEDGE IS COLD. You can't step on hot coals and expect not to be burnt. Life is not a movie theatre. You ain't Usher (walking on live coals). I know my "soft spot" honestly. In a normal day, there is something I'll see in a lady that may move me. I shouldn't be behind a closed door with such. You should also avoid such UNHOLY MEETINGS. Anything can happen in such scenes. Have you ever had sex and be feeling bad you had it? That sex came about due to your IMPERFECT & WEAK WILL. The guy touches the girl, she says "No please." He does it again, "No, stop it!" But she still sits on the bed seriously watching a movie...hmm! If sex happens and she calls it "rape", what do you say to that? You stand up and walk out. He begs and apologizes. In fact, don't even visit at all!

"Avoid all appearances all evil", the Bible warned.

From day 1, your heart if it's in your hand, will tell you (with time) if a guy can hurt or rape you and you will streamline your relationship with such a person.


CONCLUSION: Rape is evil. It is committed by heartless people. The law punishes everyone indulging in it. Rape is FORCING yourself to have sex with someone. In rape, more often than not, the girl screams and wants to run by any loop. If she is on the bed, enjoying and asking for more. Is that rape? That's IMPERFECT SEX. It's not Rape because you were not COERCED as you failed to heed to these SEVEN WISDOM TIPS.

Good Morning & Happy Sunday.

Please help me preach!!!""""

emusmith, opalu and others thumbs up. Like God have hands in this awareness, one of the Bible verses the pastor in the Church I went to today use was 2 Samuel chapter 13.

I discovered that rape has been an issue of centuries as the story happens during King David reign around 3,000 years ago. I also discovered that rape cases has been a case of let it go and this has been with family, love and trusted ones.

I am thinking of creating a similar thread like RAPE: The biblical Account or something like that but I may push it for next week.

I believe anyone inspired can create a thread on the Bible account or Muslim brethren if any in their Holy book. It high time we stand to voice out against rape and encourage the victims. These recent stories bring to my memories many rape cases I had known of.

Larryfly:
So the summary of this epistle is that we shuldnt really blame men that rape girls because they have spent heavily on them. Rather we should blame the opportunist who saw a willing spender who thinks he can buy anything by throwing cash around. Is that what you are saying this sunday morning?

No! What he is saying is, from my understanding, is Responsibility on the side of females.. do not accept gifts you are not willing to give sex for,( meanwhile am far from condoning rape) to prevent an ugly situation.

hadura29:
Bros werin I go do na, wey be say redemption camp traffic wan pai me.... Need to console myself na....

Omo mehn, that traffic na die!!! i don escape am since yesterday morning. It is well.

Back to thread, #NoToRape!!!!!

Tallesty1:
Thank you op for this wonderful post.

Y'see sometimes we humans like tempting the devil and the people around us and are always ready to put the blame on whoever is unfortunate enough to be used by the devil.

I remember a man that slapped his wife for pising him off all the time.

As usual, everyone around was blaming the man for not "being man enough" to walk away. Some even suggested that he go for "anger management program".

It was then that one man asked the people why they don't tell the woman to also go for a "stop pising him off program"

Something similar also happened at the place I stay, a lady wore a tiny skirt that was meant for a 10yr old girl. The skirt tore when she was trying to climb bike.

As usual, instead of blaming herself for wearing a tight skirt, she blamed the okada guy for not bending the bike well enough.

I am not supporting rapist, in fact I abhor them seriously but what have you as a lady done to protect yourself?

Sometimes I read some childish stories online about people that allow kissing and romancing but no sex! Like seriously?

So if the man should loose control and bleep heavens out of her, she will scream rape and win the always available sympathy of the society.

Guys, you people should learn to control yourselves, I know it is hard but it is possible. Also make your intentions know.

If you are inviting a girl over, please make sure she knows what she's coming for.

Finally, get one girlfriend and stay faithful. It is hard but it is possible and the best way to build yourself for marriage, staying faithful there nah must.

Also remember that some girls are taking advantage of this rape "thingy" to get on guys.

They will enjoy sex with you and claim rape afterwards.

Another thing is, stop dating underaged girls.

They always say "rape" when their parents find out that something is going and you can't blame them because they gotta give excuse.


Happy Sunday 2 y'all.

your an intelligent man indeed

Eureka123:
To many of you making reference to girls who extort money from guys and dress scantily, I agree that people should take the necessary precautions that they can to protect themselves. Like not standing in front of a busy road to avoid getting crushed by an oncoming trailer. But the incidence of rape is more than that. A man who wants to rape a woman will do so, whether or not she's decently dressed or has taken money from him. No matter what the scenario may have been, no woman or person deserves to be raped. There's no justification at all. Even if that person stole all the valuables in your home or wore pants and bras alone in front of you, he/she doesn't deserve to be raped. Many of you wouldn't think about touching your sisters if she dressed provocatively, why would it be any different with the young boy/ girl out there. Rape is like murder, it is born from sheer evil and lust. Give yourselves time to really reflect on the matter itself, like think really deep. This isn't just about "Naija women this, Naija women that." This is fighting to ensure a safer world for our daughters and sons. May God grant us the heart of love, because only with the presence of love and conscience, including self control, can we be able to fight this battle.

see contradiction, its simple! do you agree with grown up females accepting gifts from males that they are not willing to give sex for?

BabyDaddy20:
Excluding minors.
99% of rape victims are at fault.
I'm not in support of rape tho.

Exactly

Lilyomi:
I love this write up especially da decent dressing. Whether we like it or not, men are moved by wat they see. Unfortunately, dressing almost naked attracts mostly boys. Men are attracted to women of class. A working woman who is decently dressed.

Please preach o!!!!!!!

opalu:
7 OTHER WAYS TO STOP YOURSELF FROM BEING A RAPIST

1. STOP EVERY INORDINATE THOUGHTS
Men and women who rape others did not start out as rapists from the inception. They only start by allowing those subtle sexual feelings crop up in their minds about their nieces, cousins, colleagues and neighbours.
And lust when mature becomes sin.

2. STOP BEING ALONE WITH SOMEONE ELSE WHEN CHARGED
Why I didn't say 'opposite sex' is because there are increasing number of people who rape others who are of the same sex as them. So when you are charged, just go and urinate and from there just go out from there. Bible says flee every APPEARANCE of evil. Or else you become a rapist. Hope u heard the story of a Lecturer serving term in Kirikiri who took a young admission seeker to Office very early? He would have just gone outside into the car leaving the girl in the office, his m@nhood would have calmed down.

3. FULL YOUR MIND WITH PURE MUSIC AND MATERIALS

Bible says those who sow the wind will reap the whirlwind. You cannot be feeding constantly on "put off the light ooo, ogede ti gbono...." and not force the ogede on someone when given the slightest opportunity. Whatever is pure an of good report, think of such always because pure actions proceed from pure minds.

4. DO NOT WATCH PORNOGRAPHY UNDER ANY GUISE
Every time couples who come for couselling ask me if it is right to watch porn just to learn the skills there. Truth is that that was how many of them end up becoming porn addicts. Evil spirits of rape and immorality are easily transferred from those demon-possed prostitutes

To be continued after Church

If no girl or guy pose for a pornography video or pictures there wont be anytin to ponder on why is there pornography?

DEGREE2466:
That is good.

Rape is bad.

Girls should be warned because 70% of rap cases are caused by them directly or indirectly.

Having bad friends either same or opposite sex: If a guy who discusses with his friend about women and he is certain that his friend is like a goat that sees all girls as yam, the moment he sees any girl with that badoo of a friend, all he will just conclude is that this is another yam to be eaten whether you appear decent or not

exactly was trying to explain all dis in one lecturer rape thread and some were spillin out trash

Favolly:
OP, you try o!

Very nice piece indeed. But since you are a man, I am waiting for the day someone like you will write a piece preaching to your fellow lads to stop raping women.

"Ladies, stop visiting man", "stop dressing like that", "Be Godly", "blah blah blah"

We have heard you people, We are also tired of hearing it, ehn? I want to believe that every wise girl takes all these precautions. Inasmuch as I feel it's good to educate ladies about what or what not to do to avoid rape, all the constant advice is beginning to make it look like we are the bad guys here, or like we actually encourage or enjoy the nonsense. It's supposed to be the other way round. On FP every week, there is supposed to be a thread fully dedicated to condemning the act, and damning the perpetrators to hell too.

So OP, we are very grateful for the advice, thank you. But being a man, please try and do a piece for the men too. Yea, I see about 2 sentences where you said rape is bad. But they need more than that, they need an epistle, with scriptural backing like you did up there.

I really hope you dont take my suggestion the wrong way. Like I earlier said, it was indeed a nice piece. Just that I'm tired of hearing this kind of advice, and would really love to see someone actually address the root cause of the matter. In the end, this advice cannot apply to helpless 5 year olds who know nothing, but are victims of sexual molestation

Yes. We have also heard and no case of rape is ever taken lightly. It has been elevated to the status of murder. It will become a capital crime like robbery some day but for the reason of wide spread banditry we have gone cashless, employed security guards, gadgets and gone low profile, a whole lot of lifestyle changes. The subject of debate is not whether there is robbery or how bad the robbers are but wgat can be done to lessen the likelihood of an attack.

What are ladies doing to protect themselves both in attitude and in act. What most of you are saying and doing is to flaunt more and more cash in the face of hoodlums. Is this excusable.

otiigba1:
seriously! I don't get it.

Now what happens when a woman visit me expecting sex, and didn't get it and she resorts to saying that i am a weak man, i am a jew man, even to the extent of saying i must be gay just because i was a gentleman enough not to take advantage of her or refuse to take engage in sex with her.

This has happened to me numerous times.

I understand that plight...

Tallesty1:
Thank you op for this wonderful post.

Y'see sometimes we humans like tempting the devil and the people around us and are always ready to put the blame on whoever is unfortunate enough to be used by the devil.

I remember a man that slapped his wife for pising him off all the time.

As usual, everyone around was blaming the man for not "being man enough" to walk away. Some even suggested that he go for "anger management program".

It was then that one man asked the people why they don't tell the woman to also go for a "stop pising him off program"

Something similar also happened at the place I stay, a lady wore a tiny skirt that was meant for a 10yr old girl. The skirt tore when she was trying to climb bike.

As usual, instead of blaming herself for wearing a tight skirt, she blamed the okada guy for not bending the bike well enough.

I am not supporting rapist, in fact I abhor them seriously but what have you as a lady done to protect yourself?

Sometimes I read some childish stories online about people that allow kissing and romancing but no sex! Like seriously?

So if the man should loose control and bleep heavens out of her, she will scream rape and win the always available sympathy of the society.

Guys, you people should learn to control yourselves, I know it is hard but it is possible. Also make your intentions know.

If you are inviting a girl over, please make sure she knows what she's coming for.

Finally, get one girlfriend and stay faithful. It is hard but it is possible and the best way to build yourself for marriage, staying faithful there nah must.

Also remember that some girls are taking advantage of this rape "thingy" to get on guys.

They will enjoy sex with you and claim rape afterwards.

Another thing is, stop dating underaged girls.

They always say "rape" when their parents find out that something is going and you can't blame them because they gotta give excuse.


Happy Sunday 2 y'all.

I was tryin to explain this in a unilag lecturer suppose rape post bt no the bash alis came ranting like a diacharged current

BabyDaddy20:
Excluding minors.
99% of rape victims are at fault.
I'm not in support of rape tho.

mumu dey your blood

hadura29:
Greed greed greed on the part of girls.... If you know you won't do, don't chop the guys 50kobo, but to them, every guy na client..


Our African morals of dressing we should imbibe it on our ladies.. Hmmmm


I don talk my own..

I need Alomo Abeg...

God bless you

MadCow1:
Good write up..

But I will give you some real life happenstances that you may wish to tell me how your rape logic works;

1. A Girl raped by a male friend or uncle or someone really close to home whom she felt comfortable with until the assault.

2. A girl drugged and raped.

3. Robbers raping females.

Etc.

There are no ways to avoid being raped in my opinion because these rapists are creatures of evil. They stalk their prey in some cases and in others they just grab an opportunity and pounce.

A Good Christian girl with no provocative outfit on, who does not live a reckless lifestyle either would still get raped the day she enters the crosshair of a rapist.

Your write up is more like a precaution and not in any way a fail safe method of avoiding rape.

Thanks.

Pastor MadCow.

Ur first excuse wasnt sexxx education taught dat a girl shd never feel comfortable wiv the opposite sexxxx


The oda one like criosly avnt ladies been told never to take drinks from the opposite sex


The last one damn ow many is are d percentage of rape report from dis angle

MadCow1:
Good write up..

But I will give you some real life happenstances that you may wish to tell me how your rape logic works;

1. A Girl raped by a male friend or uncle or someone really close to home whom she felt comfortable with until the assault.

2. A girl drugged and raped.

3. Robbers raping females.

Etc.

There are no ways to avoid being raped in my opinion because these rapists are creatures of evil. They stalk their prey in some cases and in others they just grab an opportunity and pounce.

A Good Christian girl with no provocative outfit on, who does not live a reckless lifestyle either would still get raped the day she enters the crosshair of a rapist.

Your write up is more like a precaution and not in any way a fail safe method of avoiding rape.

Thanks.

Pastor MadCow.

Ur first excuse wasnt sexxx education taught dat a girl shd never feel comfortable wiv the opposite sexxxx


The oda one like criosly avnt ladies been told never to take drinks from the opposite sex


The last one damn wat is d percentage of rape report from dis angle

Folksyharry:
thanks OP. God has given us the wisdom to take certain steps to avoid putting ourselves in position of harm or misfortune but we sometimes ignore it. I have a cousin who doesn't allow any female in order to control konji except his girlfriend and some really close ones that know and understand his stand on abstinence. This is not also ruling out the fact that there are some cases where there was nothing the victims could've done about it
It is also very pertinent to pray not fall into any misfortune

God bless you

Aderiade:
This is very good one from u. But the truth remains, many victims of RAPE are also part of the cause. Be contented with whatever you have, what your parents can afford you and most especially what your BF can afford. 'Greediness is the root of all evil' as they say. #SayNoToRape

God bless you

Amazo:
Do you have any idea how many decently dressed women have been raped? Even women, in extremely culturally strict societies, who wear full-cover veiling clothing have been raped sometimes. Rapë isn't about what a woman wears or doesn't wear. Rapë is about shameless men who are mentally sïck and have no self control! Stop deceiving yourself with the dressing issue - it's not the underlying cause of rapë.

Uncladness is everyone wen d guilty are involved In a case even the innocent are dragged along wiv d case
Niggas see half unclad girls erryday they can vent their pleasure on any girl weda she was d unclad girl or not
No smoke wivout a fire

Reference:
The same thing over and over again. Now you have turned the message over the head of the messenger and he now looks insensitive and excuse seeking. Why do some of you ladies never face the facts that the sinking ship of morality contains both rape and indecent exposure (nudity) and his advise (extortion) as well. You are always apt to condemn one and excuse the other, why. One is not saying that nudity causes all rape but it contributes to some so why don't the womenfolk give it a benefit of doubt.

Using your example. If you stand at a busy road long enough you will eventually get knocked down. That is one of the reasons why people build houses. It is simply silly to live a life totally reactionary and always at the mercy of the actions or inactions of others. A lady will only elicit my sympathy if she lives and acts proactively and yes my relations will get the caution of their lives if they behave irresponsibly. This is the subject being discussed.

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250 LIKES...Some ladies are unrealistic.
Before there is a PRODUCT, REACTANTS are required. Funny, in the ratio sometimes, some girls contribute more like 85%-15%. The man should only withdraw his 15% to prevent it from getting to 100% (RAPE)

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That is not what he is saying so don't twist things into a superiority context. We know that you are highly rated at wooing women but the contests, battles and standards you folks set is responsible for the rush amongst the women folk for the basement.

Just like what the banks are doing to the women folk purely out of greed is what women do to themselves for the same reason, more and more money and what he is saying that these aggravated contests blow back into incidents of rape. I don't totally agree but I am of the school that says 'prevention is better than cure' and I am always an advocate of women seeking to 'develop themselves' mentally, morally and financially in order to make better choices and ultimately cut down on cases of self induced violence.

God really bless u was sayin d same thing on a unilag lecturer rape case and people said i am a disgrace to d female gender

kandiikane:
You are a ra.pist. She said no and you continued? Do you think every individual has the energy to continue saying no, most times victims end up giving in. I am quite certain you used some form of force to get what you want.
Your azz will one day be a temptation for one big man like that. Say Amen!

sorry for you. i cannot force myself on anyone dude and i don't have the time to trade words with you. i only expressed my opinion wc i'm entitled to. back off!