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Eureka123:
Prevention is best. Which is not allowing it happen at all. He ACTED on what he saw. That's my main point of focus. I'm just so pained that even the women who keep themselves dignified and the innocent children today, are getting raped as well. I will not support the immorality of our young girls who won't roll with a crowd of their level. I won't support the girls who would intentionally feed off men either. All I'm trying to establish is the fact that RAPE is bad, no matter how the situation was. It's inhumane.

yeah its bad bt can u stop the earth from inhabiting rapists?
Hell no
Mind u if u are protectin ur sef and get raped d protection wasnt enof
there is a sayin which says one wud tink his or her fadas land is d biggest till he or she meets anoda persons fada land
Acquire more knowledge on rape case equip ursef
More like u are preparin for an interview u read everytin possible to equip ur sef cos u kno in wat form or wayur question may come in
Same wiv rape case as a girl get more knowledge on d cases equip ursef teach fellow girls cos u surely cant stop racist from being born

Reference:
Yes. In the context of this topic. There are several other topics dedicated to the act and the perpetuator. This topic seeks to deal with the role of the victim in prevention and avoidance. It is a 'how to use seatbelt discourse'. It wouldn't put an end to accidents or deaths but it will help. There is a general moral decay out there. Hyper sexualisation of life. Both men and women are guilty. It is up to the victim to take precaution. Women should cut the fuel of greed and slut as their own contribution to putting out the fire. Simple. This is the topic.

Why i will agree with the latter part of your comment, i still maintain my stand that the culprits are to be blamed entirely for rape and not the girls. A man should be wise enough to know when he is being used by a girl. Not to go and forcefully have sex with her because she has been making you spend. They re so many girls out there that can give you all round sexual pleasure for little feel. We should stop condemning the victims of rape, that is my position

Eureka123:
I guess that's true. There will always be the good and the bad. We can at least try to keep it at the barest minimum.

Wat am saying keeping it minimum is by protecting ur sef first they say change starts wiv an individual den a home den community den society so on like dat
Protect ursef first seek Gods help den u see ow it reduces

With what I've understood and gathered from the post and comments, they're rape cases that're avoidable and cases that aren't

If what a guy really wants from a girl is sex, before you start spending on her that intention should be made known to her. And that's why it should be an adult that you're dealing with an not an underage girl

For the greedy girls, they should understand that nothing-comes-for-nothing, when he's not the Good Samaritan. Don't try to be clever with others people's money

You're dress code matters, even when it isn't your intention to pass any form of invitation of any sort - that dumb head would not understand that. Your body language, the subtle touches (especially from a relative), yes! Some people are inherently perverts and all of these may not apply in some cases but we shouldn't give them more reason to be pervasive. And let's do what we can save ourselves

In others cases where the victim can do little to nothing about; the minor, senior citizens, fathers to children, uncles and aunt cases, we pray and make sure the culprits suffer the full force the law

Larryfly:
That a girl doesnt have self dignity doesnt give anybody the right to rape her. No matter how loose a girl easy, she has the free will to choose who she wants to have sex with it. Dont you get it?? There is no justification for rape and sexual violence!!! The darned thing is on the increase cos people keep condemning the victims!!!!!!!!!!

Let girls get decent first then if rape continues with a high rate den we kno wat to do next bt for now let girls be decent period
An idle man is a devils tool
The devil wiv a little crack in ones life can destroy d life
The rate of uncladnesss is increasin d rate of demons on earth thus posseing men remember d fallen angels case

halfrica:
Wat am saying keeping it minimum is by protecting ur sef first they say change starts wiv an individual den a home den community den society so on like dat
Protect ursef first seek Gods help den u see ow it reduces

Word. God help us all.

Thoniameek:
With what I've understood and gathered from the post and comments, they're rape cases that're avoidable and cases that aren't

If what a guy really wants from a girl is sex, before you start spending on her that intention should be made known to her. And that's why it should be an adult that you're dealing with an not an underage girl

For the greedy girls, they should understand that nothing-comes-for-nothing, when he's not the Good Samaritan. Don't try to be clever with others people's money

You're dress code matters, even when it isn't your intention to pass any form of invitation of any sort - that dumb head would not understand that. Your body language, the subtle touches (especially from a relative), yes! Some people are inherently perverts and all of these may not apply in some cases but we shouldn't give them more reason to be pervasive. And let's do what we can save ourselves

In others cases where the victim can do little to nothing about; the minor, senior citizens, fathers to children, uncles and aunt cases, we pray and make sure the culprits suffer the full force the law

I believe this is what most of the dudes formerly commenting failed to understand. God bless you.

Eureka123:
Word. God help us all.

Amen i av lived wiv girls and some wit wat i see dem do i dont feel pity wen they say they are raped mayb dats why my tinkin is different

halfrica:
Let girls get decent first then if rape continues with a high rate den we kno wat to do next bt for now let girls be decent period
An idle man is a devils tool
The devil wiv a little crack in ones life can destroy d life
The rate of uncladnesss is increasin d rate of demons on earth thus posseing men remember d fallen angels case

I've always known that there was loads of wisdom and intelligence behind the crazy facade that you try to project

halfrica:
Amen i av lived wiv girls and some wit wat i see dem do i dont feel pity wen they say they are raped mayb dats why my tinkin is different

I understand that, lol. Sometimes I have similar sentiments. Morality has really taken a deep plunge down the drain. I may be young, but I have an old spirit. But they won't listen. I see them everyday on Instagram and social network. The need to feel all desired and sexy. Overdo kills. "Runzing" kills.

halfrica:
Let girls get decent first then if rape continues with a high rate den we kno wat to do next bt for now let girls be decent period
An idle man is a devils tool
The devil wiv a little crack in ones life can destroy d life
The rate of uncladnesss is increasin d rate of demons on earth thus posseing men remember d fallen angels case

So what do we say about the increasing rape of minors?? The kids seduced the men? What of maids that get raped by their bosses?? Or policemen that rapes some females in custody?? What of this UNILAG trending story You think she dressed seductively from her fathers house to go and seduce the lecturer in School by 4am?? Are you sure you are a female??

Freemanan:
BOTH

ok infect ur sef with ebola hiv std cancer den go on start lookin for d cure
Den u will tesify ow prevention is better dan cure
Wat bou d pain u go tru before u get cured?
U cant cure sometin and expect it to be normal like before

Even bible in d case of d 10 lepers wen one came back to tank jesus he made a statement ur faith has made u WHOLE jesus healed d 10 bt dat didint mean their body was d same as before dey had d sickness
So u see cure wud never put ur body in d same position as it used to be
Why not just prevent to save d stress ?

Amazo:
Do you have any idea how many decently dressed women have been raped? Even women, in extremely culturally strict societies, who wear full-cover veiling clothing have been raped sometimes. Rapë isn't about what a woman wears or doesn't wear. Rapë is about shameless men who are mentally sïck and have no self control! Stop deceiving yourself with the dressing issue - it's not the underlying cause of rapë.

I dnt duspute dat fact my dear. But u wl bear wif me lately dat da victims of rape esp those who claim wer raped by rich mrn or celebrities dress in a way dat u wonder in ur mind if they wanted it.

Larryfly:
So what do we say about the increasing rape of minors?? The kids seduced the men? What of maids that get raped by their bosses?? Or policemen that rapes some females in custody?? What of this UNILAG trending story You think she dressed seductively from her fathers house to go and seduce the lecturer in School by 4am?? Are you sure you are a female??

Hmmm truth be told avnt u seen d sex tape of a 12yrs old porn star Wat are u tellin me who wud see dat tape and assume there are innocent young kids dis days av u ever monitored any of ur young relatives wit wat dey do wen no one is around dem u wud be amazed back to wat u sayin
A man sees an unclad woman wud be moved can vent his pleasure on eida d main unclad girl or anoda girl was rape rate high in d previous generations whr women and ladies cover up every part of their bodies?

Sex education shd be tot to kids can u stop d world from evil?
Is ur ryt nt to protect ursef and love ones from d evil?
If u cant beat them aviod them ok

halfrica:
ok infect ur sef with ebola hiv std cancer den go on start lookin for d cure
Den u will tesify ow prevention is better dan cure
Wat bou d pain u go tru before u get cured?
U cant cure sometin and expect it to be normal like before

Even bible in d case of d 10 lepers wen one came back to tank jesus he made a statement ur faith has made u WHOLE jesus healed d 10 bt dat didint mean their body was d same as before dey had d sickness
So u see cure wud never put ur body in d same position as it used to be
Why not just prevent to save d stress ?

Point taken and digested. But cure is a necessity also because there is always a loophole. When preventing, We can never be too careful. so what happens then... Because you haven't made arrangements for cure you are fvcked... So I think both can be given priority..

Larryfly:
So what do we say about the increasing rape of minors?? The kids seduced the men? What of maids that get raped by their bosses?? Or policemen that rapes some females in custody?? What of this UNILAG trending story You think she dressed seductively from her fathers house to go and seduce the lecturer in School by 4am?? Are you sure you are a female??

Let's do something about the ones we can ourselves as ladies and gentlemen, then others cases like the one mentioned above can then be cupped however possible

Eureka123:
I understand that, lol. Sometimes I have similar sentiments. Morality has really taken a deep plunge down the drain. I may be young, but I have an old spirit. But they won't listen. I see them everyday on Instagram and social network. The need to feel all desired and sexy. Overdo kills. "Runzing" kills.

Its like we see things in a similar way instagram and some social network shd be called UPGRADED PORN SITES

halfrica:
Hmmm truth be told avnt u seen d sex tape of a 12yrs old porn star Wat are u tellin me who wud see dat tape and assume there are innocent young kids dis days av u ever monitored any of ur young relatives wit wat dey do wen no one is around dem u wud be amazed back to wat u sayin
A man sees an unclad woman wud be moved can vent his pleasure on eida d main unclad girl or anoda girl was rape rate high in d previous generations whr women and ladies cover up every part of their bodies?

Sex education shd be tot to kids can u stop d world from evil?
Is ur ryt nt to protect ursef and love ones from d evil?
If u cant beat them aviod them ok

I am seriously trying to understnd you but i keep falling. Guess from your point of view its ok if a man rapes a 10yrs old because he just saw a 12yr old get banged on TV. Your reasoning is fine. Keep creating more reasons for men to rape. Thats the world we live in today.

Hizzy:
sorry na where way de plane go crash. Plane na people way get enof money de enter amm so if I enter plane it crashed na only me de inside ammm see evil you are praying to happen in Nigeria

Read well so u understand

Thoniameek:
Let's do something about the ones we can ourselves as ladies and gentlemen, then others cases like the one mentioned above can then be cupped however possible

What we can do is to come all out and condemn the act. Not creating excuses for the rapist. There is no justification. Stop condemning the victim please. Tons of girls are raped everytime and they cant speak out because we condemn them first. Its wrong

halfrica:
Hmmm truth be told avnt u seen d sex tape of a 12yrs old porn star Wat are u tellin me who wud see dat tape and assume there are innocent young kids dis days av u ever monitored any of ur young relatives wit wat dey do wen no one is around dem u wud be amazed back to wat u sayin
A man sees an unclad woman wud be moved can vent his pleasure on eida d main unclad girl or anoda girl was rape rate high in d previous generations whr women and ladies cover up every part of their bodies?

Sex education shd be tot to kids can u stop d world from evil?
Is ur ryt nt to protect ursef and love ones from d evil?
If u cant beat them aviod them ok

There's a certain video of a Jss student being raped it was so so disgusting!!!! Such young kids....

1miccza:
There's a certain video of a Jss student being raped it was so so disgusting!!!! Such young kids....

too bad for the child bt immorality is high in dis generation
The bad ones av allowed the good ones suffer for nuffin o

Larryfly:
I am seriously trying to understnd you but i keep falling. Guess from your point of view its ok if a man rapes a 10yrs old because he just saw a 12yr old get banged on TV. Your reasoning is fine. Keep creating more reasons for men to rape. Thats the world we live in today.

What am sayin is d young ones are been exposed dis days i heard an 11years old talkin sex due to wat she has heard people arond her say it
or wasnt there a post of a young girl and boy avin sex little kids like dat on a thread wud u call dat dey raped each oda?
Bt they were caught avin sex so wat are u now sayin dey werent up to 11yrs sef
The earlier u kno ow smart and exposed this young kids are d better for everyone
All am sayin is proper sex education shd be givin to d kids to avoid touchin stories

halfrica:
too bad for the child bt immorality is high in dis generation
The bad ones av allowed the good ones suffer for nuffin o

Honestly it's annoying and alarming at the same time .. What do we do to curb this??

halfrica:
What am sayin is d young ones are been exposed dis days i heard an 11years old talkin sex due to wat she has heard people arond her say it
or wasnt there a post of a young girl and boy avin sex little kids like dat on a thread wud u call dat dey raped each oda?
Bt they were caught avin sex so wat are u now sayin dey werent up to 11yrs sef
The earlier u kno ow smart and exposed this young kids are d better for everyone
All am sayin is proper sex education shd be givin to d kids to avoid touchin stories

So because of this they can be raped by their uncle? Ok, if they get proper sex education, they ll stop being raped? Where are you from my dear

Larryfly:
What we can do is to come all out and condemn the act. Not creating excuses for the rapist. There is no justification. Stop condemning the victim please. Tons of girls are raped everytime and they cant speak out because we condemn them first. Its wrong

Guy, I would never create an excuse for any rapist

THERE'S NO EXCUSE FOR RAPPING!

But I won't ignore preventable measures and rely on perpetuators to have some sense and be humane

Lilyomi:
I dnt duspute dat fact my dear. But u wl bear wif me lately dat da victims of rape esp those who claim wer raped by rich mrn or celebrities dress in a way dat u wonder in ur mind if they wanted it.

Even if a woman decides to go out nakëd in public, it still doesn't justify rapë. It might justify her arrest by the police who are constitutionally empowered to enforce the laws, since being nakëd in public is a crime in the law (misdemeanor category). This is what civilization is about! People who can't live in a civilized manner should relocate to the jungle or we will incarcerate you for your barbarism for a long time.

1miccza:
Honestly it's annoying and alarming at the same time .. What do we do to curb this??

sex education

Teach kids no matter ow young they are to be careful of where they go to
Like i kno of a woman her 3yrs old daughter she teaches her dat if any one boy or girl shd touch her mouth chest and legs she shd bite d hand and cum report to her unbelivable even as a girl i dare nt touch her in those areas i wud be nursing d hand for days
Teach d kids never to trust any opposite sex wen ever a guy tells me to cum and help him do sometin wen i was young dat he wud give me biskit all say is do i look ur house girl and run away
Never collect gifts from opposite sex
Let dem stay away from d opposite sex
Wen i was younger wen i heard bou a rape case at a street omo i dey always find anoda route ni o never will i step d street alone
Wen a guy keeps talkin to me wen i was younger i always close topic and run away
When a stranger walks up to me i always scream and run away
I was labelled mentally sick den but most of my frnds callin me names den are now baby mamas and rape victims true talk
My childhood days na to run away ni o
And till now avnt been raped

shawnfamous:
U mk brains! I didnt ve d opportunity 2 reply 2 d girl that talked abt girls visiting guys at home.... Well she said it all BUT note... rape is d unrightful way to forcing one's self on someone else..
If a girl comes 2 my house nd i tell her close ur eyes and we....u knw.. Or touching her seductively so she can fall prey does dat signify rape?? We made bargain ko ni?? pls evry1 dis is not Rape... Those that are in the bush raping,would they have to tell d victim oya close ur eyes,oya kiss me?? That girl i hope u understnd

u shd ve said visiting people u dnt knw 4 d first time in their home is bad not say they shdnt cm at all...
Like we all knw that video captioned ''2go girl rape'' she went to c dem 4 d first tym.. Not even 1;2;3;4 guys were having time with her
I know rape is a disaster we need to curb.. For sure, rapist need 2 b jailed 4 life

as far as am concerned ,rapists should be executed.

Larryfly:
So because of this they can be raped by their uncle? Ok, if they get proper sex education, they ll stop being raped? Where are you from my dear

Sex education entails nevr u get comforyable wiv d opposite sex go get lessons from those proud modas whose own daughter hasnt be raped they kno berra

....Rape,rape rape!!!!...I can see most Nigerian males serving jail terms for rape in Europe and America with their lame excuses citing the dress code of females and love for money as one the reasons why women are raped.

..You all are lucky you are in a lawless soceity like Nigeria..try such nonsense in the western world by citing indecent dressing,money and being led on..and you will find yourselves locked up in the prison for a very long time perhaps with the keys thrown away.

Reading most comments here it is safe to say 75% of nigerian men are rapists or potential rapists. Disgusting!
Blaming rape on the victims! Smh
Our women also blame other women for getting raped, just look at them on NL. This life ehn!








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