₦airaland Forum

Eureka123:
I don't. But c'mon, brother. Because a woman has collected gifts from you, she deserves RAPE?? Aren't there other ways to deal with such people? Nothing ever justifies rape. Rape is callous. Reverend sisters get raped, little kids get raped, Influential women can fall victim too. Even the most decent sister in your neighborhood can be victim too. I personally, if I were to be a judge and it is proven that rape was committed by a person, and I dare hear "She was indecently dressed" or "She ate my money", trust me, that person is going down. Rapists are stupid wicked beings that ought to learn self-control. Even if a woman pass you wearing only pant, brother, life is all about choices. You either decide to look away or act on your urges, nobody would force you. If you try and she says no, leave her be. Today, the matter has gone past "indecent dressing", stop deceiving yourselves.

halfrica:
sex education

Teach kids no matter ow young they are to be careful of where they go to
Like i kno of a woman her 3yrs old daughter she teaches her dat if any one boy or girl shd touch her mouth chest and legs she shd bite d hand and cum report to her unbelivable even as a girl i dare nt touch her in those areas i wud be nursing d hand for days
Teach d kids never to trust any opposite sex wen ever a guy tells me to cum and help him do sometin wen i was young dat he wud give me biskit all say is do i look ur house girl and run away
Never collect gifts from opposite sex
Let dem stay away from d opposite sex
Wen i was younger wen i heard bou a rape case at a street omo i dey always find anoda route ni o never will i step d street alone
Wen a guy keeps talkin to me wen i was younger i always close topic and run away
When a stranger walks up to me i always scream and run away
I was labelled mentally sick den but most of my frnds callin me names den are now baby mamas and rape victims true talk
My childhood days na to run away ni o
And till now avnt been raped

halfrica:
First nevet deny what some young girls are capable of doin at a young age are u talkin bou dis generation whr a 15yr old girl is a porn star
Or d previous whr a 15yr old was still innocent at heart

Never giv up on something dat as to do wiv ur survival why be a weak fellow when d world itsef preach on being a strong soul?

maiahsaiah:
For you to have such tots u re a rapist nd I'l definitely look into ur matter

[size=13pt]
You don't mean it..

If you are for real. I recommend you first come for me,cos I am of the same school of thought has him.

Tho I don't subcribe to rape,but I want you to do what you consider worst.

And be fast about it.
[/size]

1miccza:
That's from one end how can one now handle the raunchy adults who can't keep their urges and selves in check

1miccza:
That's from one end how can one now handle the raunchy adults who can't keep their urges and selves in check

1miccza:
That's from one end how can one now handle the raunchy adults who can't keep their urges and selves in check

BabyDaddy20:
Excluding minors.
99% of rape victims are at fault.
I'm not in support of rape tho.

Lilyomi:
I love this write up especially da decent dressing. Whether we like it or not, men are moved by wat they see. Unfortunately, dressing almost naked attracts mostly boys. Men are attracted to women of class. A working woman who is decently dressed.

halfrica

Amazo:
Even if a woman decides to go out nakëd in public, it still doesn't justify rapë. It might justify her arrest by the police who are constitutionally empowered to enforce the laws, since being nakëd in public is a crime in the law (misdemeanor category). This is what civilization is about! People who can't live in a civilized manner should relocate to the jungle or we will incarcerate you for your barbarism for a long time.

Reference:
Yes. We have also heard and no case of rape is ever taken lightly. It has been elevated to the status of murder. It will become a capital crime like robbery some day but for the reason of wide spread banditry we have gone cashless, employed security guards, gadgets and gone low profile, a whole lot of lifestyle changes. The subject of debate is not whether there is robbery or how bad the robbers are but wgat can be done to lessen the likelihood of an attack.

What are ladies doing to protect themselves both in attitude and in act. What most of you are saying and doing is to flaunt more and more cash in the face of hoodlums. Is this excusable.

TomPioPio:
I 'm enjoying all ur comments on rape & am not surprised d insults u are receiving. truth is most adults girls can avoid rape if they truely & sincerely swallow what OP has said.

Is it not d Bible dat says if our ways are right with God, he will make our enemies to be at peace with us?

Truth is dat most of us our SELF DECEIVERS especially among d females. what u tell them not to do is dat which they do. I am talking from experience. My mom once said when they were growing up as young girls, they were not pervert & disobedience as girls of nowadays. When d edge is broken d serpent will bite.

Today many parents & ward can't discipline their children or teach them d fear of God. Most single ladies dese days are run away. They run from parents to start living alone when still single.

I know a girl who started living alone at d age of 16. She was initially staying with her aunt but as she starts having boyfriends, her behavior changed. Eventually she ran to start living in a one room rented apartment. To cut tins short she is not any better than commercial sex workers cos no week she doesn't sleep with different men.

Oh yes she is a Christian & even do it on Sunday after service. Coincidentally I even caught them cos I leave in same house then.

This is just one in 50 tins I know causes rape among adults girls, children, & raping mad people. All in all you can still escape all these evil in a wicked & end time cruel world. Do ur own due diligence & God will do d rest.

May d grace continue guiding us all

Velocitron:
Oh come on, give men more credit. So you're saying if a man sees an attractive woman, he would pounce on her and rape her? Have old women, babies and nuns not been raped? So the 5 year old girls and boys being sexually abused were dressing too sexy

Amazo:
Do you have any idea how many decently dressed women have been raped? Even women, in extremely culturally strict societies, who wear full-cover veiling clothing have been raped sometimes. Rapë isn't about what a woman wears or doesn't wear. Rapë is about shameless men who are mentally sïck and have no self control! Stop deceiving yourself with the dressing issue - it's not the underlying cause of rapë.

Thoniameek:
It's not as if a man sees an attractive woman he pounces on her and whatever..... We shouldn't ignore the facts. Men are attracted to what they see

We don't know how much nudity that man has been seing all day, which might not be exactly from the victim, and all those things buildup in the perpetuators head to fuel his actions

You know the saying; garbage in garbage out

searching4love:
[b]You girls are fond of extorting gullible men in different forms and turn down sexual advances thinking you are wise.

A guy approaches u to woo u and instead of telling him NO u saw him as a potential MAGA due to his interest in u. He fix a date with u and u insist on meeting him at an eatry so u can spend his money and take away food to satisfy your unending hunger. When such guy have a one on one moment with u and u turn down his sexual advances how do u expect him to recover all the money u extorted from him Eventually he feels cheated and try to force his way on you and u scream rape after the deed is done without letting people know how much u extorted from him in your quest to satisfy your longer throat My point is that until Nigerian girls change their money hungry mentality and stop seeing men as a financial prey, they can never escape been molested by men seeking revenge. Nigerian girls are thieves who will stop at nothing to extort men in the disguise of fake love and at the end turn down his advances. I dont pity such girls and i never will. Note: i am not in support of men who rapes little children or fathers who molests their daughters. My opinion is strictly about Hungry Nigerian girls.

This is why i keep advocating that foreign girls are better wives/girlfriends. If u want peace of mind, go for a foreign girl.

#Team foreign girls [/b]

Chi59:
But the environmental context in which Emusmith wrote about, is about rape cases in Nigeria(even if he didn't state it explicitly), and we all know that MANY rape cases can be largely attributed to indecent dressing(i'm a lady, i know what i'm talking about) on the part of the ladies.
Also, the issue of a lady found moving about knowingly or even being stranded at night for some reasons can also lead to rape.
We ladies have our own part to play.

God bless you, op

#sayNOtorape
#bewise

Larryfly:
Why i will agree with the latter part of your comment, i still maintain my stand that the culprits are to be blamed entirely for rape and not the girls. A man should be wise enough to know when he is being used by a girl. Not to go and forcefully have sex with her because she has been making you spend. They re so many girls out there that can give you all round sexual pleasure for little feel. We should stop condemning the victims of rape, that is my position

halfrica:
God bless you

dasphinx1:
Omo mehn, that traffic na die!!! i don escape am since yesterday morning. It is well.

Back to thread, #NoToRape!!!!!

Chi59:
But the environmental context in which Emusmith wrote about, is about rape cases in Nigeria(even if he didn't state it explicitly), and we all know that MANY rape cases can be largely attributed to indecent dressing(i'm a lady, i know what i'm talking about) on the part of the ladies.
Also, the issue of a lady found moving about knowingly or even being stranded at night for some reasons can also lead to rape.
We ladies have our own part to play.

God bless you, op

#sayNOtorape
#bewise

Velocitron:
I'm also a young woman, all what you wrote is unfortunately BS. So you're saying if you happened to be outside your house at night, you deserve to be raped/killed?

People have been raped wearing pyjamas, hijabs/niquaabs, nun habits and even diapers. For goodness' sake, put yourself in a victim's shoes. Nobody deserves to be abused/assaulted.

Velocitron:
You're contradicting yourself



There's no justification for rape. That's like justifying corrupt politicians by saying "they grew up poor". No sane man, no matter how much sex he's exposed to would/should assault anybody.

What you're saying isn't fact, don't call it so.

Chi59:
I NEVER supported rape. I'm only advising that we ladies help ourselves to reduce the likelihood of getting raped.
Rape is a VERY SERIOUS crime. In my opinion, rapists should get a death sentence!

Thoniameek:
No, I'm not. I only tried to cite what you said

We shouldn't ignore the fact that we can and should do our part in our own end of the rope

Am with you sis, no cause for anyone to be raped and no excuse for whoever rapes anyone

Favolly:
But if a lady is stranded at night, doesn't it mean that anything could have led to her being at that state by that time? E.g. she got robbed of her phone and bag in a new city... Remember that if she could help it, we wouldn't be using the word 'stranded' to describe her situation. So pray, tell us how this is deserving of rape

Velocitron:
Good we can agree on something. I'm just strongly against the opinion that dressing contributes to rape, or that rape can be justified like so many of the comments here imply.

Thoniameek:
Nah....

I don't agree with you on that

There's this movie about a news caster, a very good girl that just got a job, and her friends made her dress the way she wouldn't normally do and took her out, she got drunk, lost her way and everywhere she went people mistook her for a prostitute. She faced one mishap to another till she was able to resume work that evening dressed in last night short-body-fitted-yellow-gown, even a little boy asked her to show him hers boobs in order to burrow his bike. And when she resumed work and had to do the news on - guess what? A commercial sex worker hoodlum in yellow, on herself!

People can read meaning to what you wear, especially men with such tendercies

A sex worker won't report a rape case, would she? Or could she?

Velocitron:
I'm also a young woman, all what you wrote is unfortunately BS. So you're saying if you happened to be outside your house at night, you deserve to be raped/killed?

People have been raped wearing pyjamas, hijabs/niquaabs, nun habits and even diapers. For goodness' sake, put yourself in a victim's shoes. Nobody deserves to be abused/assaulted.

Velocitron:
I'm also a young woman, all what you wrote is unfortunately BS. So you're saying if you happened to be outside your house at night, you deserve to be raped/killed?

People have been raped wearing pyjamas, hijabs/niquaabs, nun habits and even diapers. For goodness' sake, put yourself in a victim's shoes. Nobody deserves to be abused/assaulted.