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Everyone wants to be in a relationship but no one wants to be responsible for one. What people do not understand is that you have to put in the same amount of energy that you put in every other aspect of your life in your relationship too.
One minute you love someone and feel like you cannot live without the person and the next minute,you are plotting and looking for means to get rid of the person.
The point is,the magic is not in getting a relationship but in staying in one. The magic is in the ability to fall in love with that one special person over and over again.
Many relationships fail because people do not put extra efforts anymore. They move onto the next available person,yet they are never satisfied. At a point when they can no longer find satisfaction in anyone,they become stranded and tag all men or women as the same.
The simple truth is that if you do not maintain your relationship and nurture it,you might find yourself in no relationship at all.
Here are basic steps to maintaining a healthy relationship
1). Please do not demand for or recieve what you cannot give. If you need love,you have to give love. If you need not to be cheated on,you need to be faithful too. You cannot go around asking people to do what you cannot do.
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Problem is dat most people duno what to do to make thr partners fall in love wit dem evryday.... Love isn't a one time thing... It has to be renewed

Some people just stop putting any kind of effort once they have gotten you. They feel the work has been done. Thats not how it is suppose be.

Cutehector:
Problem is dat most people duno what to do to make thr partners fall in love wit dem evryday.... Love isn't a one time thing... It has to be renewed

pinkpebbles:
Some people just stop putting any kind of effort once they have gotten you. They feel the work has been done. Thats not how it is suppose be.

buh dnt u think d society has made it so? Sometimes we dnt even knw wat makes d oda one happy anymore.. Eachtime we try to show we care, it seems as if we are buggn ourselves....

The society is a major contributing factor. There are so many distractions.

Cutehector:
buh dnt u think d society has made it so? Sometimes we dnt even knw wat makes d oda one happy anymore.. Eachtime we try to show we care, it seems as if we are buggn ourselves....

pinkpebbles:
The society is a major contributing factor. There are so many distractions.

I can't be too distracted not to want to spend at least a minute wit my partner.... Nobody is busy, its just d level of ur priority in dr lives dat makes dem say so.... There are calls dat we just immediately pick in a jiffy witout even allowin it to enta misscall, there are also calls which we couldn't pick, buh will definitely return d call, also, calls that we see, and be like why is dis person disturbin me, abegi... (Note: all ds calls came in at d receiver's "busy" moment)

By distractions,i am mostly refering to social media,everywhere you look,there is someone somwhere trying to distract your partner and entice them. If you do not or cannot put efforts to keep and maintain your relationship,it mite slip away

Cutehector:
I can't be too distracted not to want to spend at least a minute wit my partner.... Nobody is busy, its just d level of ur priority in dr lives dat makes dem say so.... There are calls dat we just immediately pick in a jiffy witout even allowin it to enta misscall, there are also calls which we couldn't pick, buh will definitely return d call, also, calls that we see, and be like why is dis person disturbin me, abegi... (Note: all ds calls came in at d receiver's "busy" moment)

pinkpebbles:
By distractions,i am mostly refering to social media,everywhere you look,there is someone somwhere trying to distract your partner and entice them. If you do not or cannot put efforts to keep and maintain your relationship,it mite slip away

tru that....... So that means the social media has an effect on relationships.... I guess I might put dat up as a topic to discuss.... Dis is d reason why I like havn conversations wit ppo like u....

Wow. Am honoured. I wud write on that. Am getting it ready

Cutehector:
tru that....... So that means the social media has an effect on relationships.... I guess I might put dat up as a topic to discuss.... Dis is d reason why I like havn conversations wit ppo like u....

pinkpebbles:
Wow. Am honoured. I wud write on that. Am getting it ready

pls put my name in dat write up... Lol u knw I'm d one dat sparked d idea up

I surely would. Thanks

Cutehector:
pls put my name in dat write up... Lol u knw I'm d one dat sparked d idea up