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Dear Bunmi,
My girlfriend is an official member of a leading Pentecostal church and she takes her religion seriously – so much so that she always recoils at the idea of having sex. She says it’s against the teachings of the Bible. This makes me sad. I am a Christian myself and I go to a reputable orthodox church from time to time. My girlfriend’s attitude is really upsetting me. I know a lot of our religious friends who are happy in fulfilling sexual relationships, why should our situation be different? At times I even wonder if she’s not hiding something more sinister from me. I’ve asked her to reach some sort of compromise by giving me MouthAction but she says nothing can be done sexually until we are married. It seems as if she is using her religion as a bait for us to get married. What can I do? If she turns out to be a pig-in-a-poke after we get married, what could I do? Do you think there’s anything I can say to change her views? I want her so much.
Funsho by e-mail.

- Source: http://www.vanguardngr.com/2015/08/relationships-my-fiancee-is-religious-denies-me-oral-sex/#sthash.tpnf8Usp.dpuf

My fiancée is religious, denies me MouthAction

So what do you want us to do?

So how can we help?

starlingslimnet:
So what do you want us to do?

Hey! console the guy I guess

Anoda Nollywood in the Making..

U no get sense.....

If you want her so much, then marry her.

Smart girl.
The fool wants to bite out of the apple before paying for it.

Mouth Gig kor, bombcareer nii

AwesomelyMade:
If you want her so much, then marry her.

even if he marries her, she won't be able to gv him as much as he wants. Sex seems to be d guys 'thing' but nt for d girl.

lol..kinda funi....d nigga's testosterone dey boil...ahhhhyaahh....calm dwn bro..jst tie d knot nd u'll av more dan u desire...

Vince77:
even if he marries her, she won't be able to gv him as much as he wants. Sex seems to be d guys 'thing' but nt for d girl.

u might be wrng....it luks more lyk d lady's religious conviction is d barrier....if dat's outta d way.....it'll be a diff story...

Vince77:
even if he marries her, she won't be able to gv him as much as he wants. Sex seems to be d guys 'thing' but nt for d girl.

Yea, you are right.

Oyind17:
Hey! console the guy I guess

Hi,

Its good to know that there are still such girls out there.