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Why Are Nigerian Men Not Romantic After Marriage??? by kanaleke(m): 12:05am On Aug 21, 2015
During the dating phase, you could see Nigerian men taking their girlfriends to Tantalizer,Kfc,Chinese restaurants, Dubai ,Paris glued together and taking pictures...but immediately after marriage,the girls will only go out with them on occasions such as weddings,Church, companies/family get together......what could possibly be the reason??

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Re: Why Are Nigerian Men Not Romantic After Marriage??? by Cutehector(m): 12:12am On Aug 21, 2015
Becaus he is nw a family man
Re: Why Are Nigerian Men Not Romantic After Marriage??? by mekonglobal(m): 12:20am On Aug 21, 2015
Because their parents were not roman catholics.
Re: Why Are Nigerian Men Not Romantic After Marriage??? by ronald4lif(m): 12:30am On Aug 21, 2015
Not anymore. Times have changed. I see Nigerian men taking their wives to restaurants, movies, top buffets and on holiday trips every time. Perhaps not as frequent as before due to their tight calendar or kids but they do go out on dates often.

For those who don't, maybe it's because their wives have cultivated the habit of eating everything eatable so much that they've become very fat that the man might start feeling ashame attending functions together with them. You won't fault such men, would you?
Re: Why Are Nigerian Men Not Romantic After Marriage??? by Tosinville(m): 12:31am On Aug 21, 2015
Just because Nigerian Women Are Not Romantic Too, You Barely See A Nigerian Woman Buy Shirt For Her Man On Her Way Coming Back From Work, Must Of 'Em Don't Even Know Their Men's Shoe Size Or His Favourite Color.

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Re: Why Are Nigerian Men Not Romantic After Marriage??? by lilwayneme(m): 12:37am On Aug 21, 2015
brethren, have you ever seen or heard about campaign after election... undecidedundecidedundecided
cos he already won her heart, and knows he ain't competing for her with anyone else…

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Re: Why Are Nigerian Men Not Romantic After Marriage??? by Tosinville(m): 12:47am On Aug 21, 2015
lilwayneme:
brethren, have you ever seen or heard about campaign after election... undecidedundecidedundecided
cos he already won her heart, and knows he ain't competing for her with anyone else…
Nah! Dat one no stop person say make e no dey continue to dey dey romatic to his wife o!
Re: Why Are Nigerian Men Not Romantic After Marriage??? by lilwayneme(m): 12:51am On Aug 21, 2015
Tosinville:
Nah! Dat one no stop person say make e no dey continue to dey dey romatic to his wife o!
I think it might be his hustle then... what ya say?
Re: Why Are Nigerian Men Not Romantic After Marriage??? by Johnnoah1st: 12:55am On Aug 21, 2015
lilwayneme:
brethren, have you ever seen or heard about campaign after election... undecidedundecidedundecided
cos he already won her heart, and knows he ain't competing for her with anyone else…
HAHAHAHAHA, campaign after election.
Re: Why Are Nigerian Men Not Romantic After Marriage??? by Tosinville(m): 1:20am On Aug 21, 2015
lilwayneme:
I think it might be his hustle then... what ya say?
Na wood him go dey cut with axe for work, that shouldn't be an excuse.There are different ways of being romantic not until you take your wife out to kfc.
Re: Why Are Nigerian Men Not Romantic After Marriage??? by lilwayneme(m): 1:33am On Aug 21, 2015
Tosinville:
Na wood him go dey cut with axe for work, that shouldn't be an excuse.There are different ways of being romantic not until you take your wife out to kfc.
you know I don't mean cutting woods as hustle...I meant working hard like leaving home earlier and getting home late at night... he might be thinking of resting after the long day he had...but I know they could always have some nice time together during weekends but women are insatiable, they will say there is a kinda drop in the romance issue...I think they just need to understand why they sang the anthem for better for worse... wink
Re: Why Are Nigerian Men Not Romantic After Marriage??? by Nobody: 1:34am On Aug 21, 2015
The church and weddings, are they not as important as dubai and paris ?
Re: Why Are Nigerian Men Not Romantic After Marriage??? by Tosinville(m): 1:35am On Aug 21, 2015
lilwayneme:
you I don't mean cutting woods as hustle...I meant working hard like leaving home earlier and getting home late at night... he might be thinking of rest.but I know they could always have some nice time together during weekends but you know woman are insatiable, they will say there is a kinda drop in the romance issue...I think they just need to understand why they sang the anthem for better for worse... wink
if you mean it this way then you're right, bruh!
Re: Why Are Nigerian Men Not Romantic After Marriage??? by Tolzeal(m): 2:06am On Aug 21, 2015
Seh Politicians They Campaign After They've won election
Re: Why Are Nigerian Men Not Romantic After Marriage??? by Nobody: 2:08am On Aug 21, 2015
mekonglobal:
Because their parents were not roman catholics.

Hehe.
Re: Why Are Nigerian Men Not Romantic After Marriage??? by hola106(m): 3:35am On Aug 21, 2015
Dat s how it ought to be
Re: Why Are Nigerian Men Not Romantic After Marriage??? by Nobody: 3:58am On Aug 21, 2015
I disagree! My dad is still romantic. Btw @op there are more ways to be romantic than just going to kfc and tantalizer.

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Re: Why Are Nigerian Men Not Romantic After Marriage??? by cococandy(f): 4:37am On Aug 21, 2015
Depends on who you're with my dear.

It is true that some drip the wooing habit once married but it's not a general thing.
Re: Why Are Nigerian Men Not Romantic After Marriage??? by Nobody: 5:57am On Aug 21, 2015
Still trying to understand how going to KFC equates to "romantic". Ghetto love grin
Re: Why Are Nigerian Men Not Romantic After Marriage??? by Nobody: 5:58am On Aug 21, 2015
PunkyVeer:
Still trying to understand how going to KFC equates to "romantic". Ghetto love grin
What of Chicken Republic?
Re: Why Are Nigerian Men Not Romantic After Marriage??? by Nobody: 6:07am On Aug 21, 2015
CFCfan:

What of Chicken Republic?

Chicken Republic is Nando's, right? I remember your name & I think you said you live in Jozi, right? Anyway, Nando's is just a place to go eat. It's not romantic in any sense. Even the setting & ambience is not meant for romance imo. If you wanna mix food & romance, the Italian & French restaurants are the way to go. Nice romantic setting with cutlery, flowers, soft music...you name it.
Re: Why Are Nigerian Men Not Romantic After Marriage??? by Nobody: 6:15am On Aug 21, 2015
PunkyVeer:


Chicken Republic is Nando's, right? I remember your name & I think you said you live in Jozi, right? Anyway, Nando's is just a place to go eat. It's not romantic in any sense. Even the setting & ambience is not meant for romance imo. If you wanna mix food & romance, the Italian & French restaurants are the way to go. Nice romantic setting with cutlery, flowers, soft music...you name it.

Food is food... at least be grateful that he took you out.. ha females are just something.
Re: Why Are Nigerian Men Not Romantic After Marriage??? by Nobody: 6:22am On Aug 21, 2015
PunkyVeer:


Chicken Republic is Nando's, right? I remember your name & I think you said you live in Jozi, right? Anyway, Nando's is just a place to go eat. It's not romantic in any sense. Even the setting & ambience is not meant for romance imo. If you wanna mix food & romance, the Italian & French restaurants are the way to go. Nice romantic setting with cutlery, flowers, soft music...you name it.
You're mistaking me for someone else. I don't live in Jozi.
But I agree that the French, Italian and Ijaw restaurants provide the perfect romantic setting.
Re: Why Are Nigerian Men Not Romantic After Marriage??? by Nobody: 6:24am On Aug 21, 2015
aim5:


Food is food... at least be grateful that he took you out.. ha females are just something.

Aim, come on. We're talking ROMANCE & not some thug loving. If you wanna be romantic then take me out for a three course meal at La Scala grin cool I can always grab myself a bite at Chicken Republic, so no, eating a fry won't make me feel romantic lol.
Re: Why Are Nigerian Men Not Romantic After Marriage??? by Nobody: 6:27am On Aug 21, 2015
CFCfan:

You're mistaking me for someone else. I don't live in Jozi.
But I agree that the French, Italian and Ijaw restaurants provide the perfect romantic setting.

Oh, my bad. Your names are similar. Now you get it, brother.
Re: Why Are Nigerian Men Not Romantic After Marriage??? by Nobody: 6:31am On Aug 21, 2015
PunkyVeer:


Aim, come on. We're talking ROMANCE & not some thug loving. If you wanna be romantic then take me out for a three course meal at La Scala grin cool I can always grab myself a bite at Chicken Republic, so no, eating a fry won't make me feel romantic lol.

Ha to hell with romance. If you're getting DICKED down good, that can compensate for it LMAO.
Re: Why Are Nigerian Men Not Romantic After Marriage??? by donholy28(m): 6:34am On Aug 21, 2015
We are still romantic but to a minimum unless we find out that we married d wrong wife..
Re: Why Are Nigerian Men Not Romantic After Marriage??? by Nobody: 6:38am On Aug 21, 2015
aim5:


Ha to hell with romance. If you're getting DICKED down good, that can compensate for it LMAO.

Hahahaha. Whatever.
Re: Why Are Nigerian Men Not Romantic After Marriage??? by therealdeal10: 6:45am On Aug 21, 2015
Cuz wit family cums responsibilities

U knw d hustling in 9igeria is way 2much, u gats put food 4 table
Buh dere shuld a special date set aside 4 couples though

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Re: Why Are Nigerian Men Not Romantic After Marriage??? by McEwen(m): 6:46am On Aug 21, 2015
ronald4lif:
Not anymore. Times have changed. I see Nigerian men taking their wives to restaurants, movies, top buffets and on holiday trips every time. Perhaps not as frequent as before due to their tight calendar or kids but they do go out on dates often.

For those who don't, maybe it's because their wives have cultivated the habit of eating everything eatable so much that they've become very fat that the man might start feeling ashame attending functions together with them. You won't fault such men, would you?
Long epistle brother...How u been undecided

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