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| Nairalanders Please Save My Wedding/marriage by ademate(op): 12:44pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
Greeting to all Nigerians, I am a native of Ogun State from Abeokuta, I graduated from Lagos State Polytechnic, HND holder, some years back; am working with small scale printing company at Mushin which I was employed as graphics and marketer. I am more than thirty years of ages. There is a challenge which it has turned into a problem for me over the years that is marriage, wedding precisely. I have dated three different ladies which I failed to settle down with them not that I don’t want to marry them but I was financially incapable to do so. I lost my first love in 2005 to Ekiti man. I lost the second in 2013 to Ekiti man also while the third one decided to quit because am delaying her. All the experiences were so much bitter to bear but I don’t have option than to let them go. It is not that I don’t have a job then or now but, it is not guaranteed my wedding expenses. All the jobs I have secured since I graduated have not given me financial capacity to actualize this dream. My first employment, the owner of the business despite he is a Pastor always deliberately hold or delayed my salary of N25, 000 for three or four months until I beg him to pay (I try to secured job elsewhere but I hope you understand the situation of employment saga in Nigeria) I went through this for two years, hoping things will works out. I left the company when I realized that things are getting out of hands. Am not putting up this to give excuses to have pity on me, this is my life experience. This is the period I lost the second lady because I failed to arrange the wedding. My family member wants me to take up 60-70% of all expenses before the can suppose me. My highest payment salary now was N35, 000 which I just got the job three months ago. This has been my challenges all this while. Now, good people of Nigeria, God has giving me another lady who is from Edo State, ready to marry me but am avoiding not to lose this one, this is why I come to you Nigerians to help me secured this one in quick time. I am avoiding that if I don’t do something as urgently as possible (God fobbing) history may repeat itself. Nairalanders, my reader I need your help, this is the situation I found myself. Help to marry this one without delay anymore. I NEED YOUR FINANCIAL support. Please support me with any amount of money you have to complete my budget for this wedding. I have N200, 000 (two hundred thousand naira) in my entire life. The wedding date is already been picked, The total wedding expenses is N550, 000 (Five hundred and Fifty thousand naira) if I want to raised this money on my own I will lose her because it would take me another years to complete it based on my present salary. Nigerians help me to pay my Dowry, Nigerians help out, it is so painful for me to take this step but this is only way out, my brothers, sisters, uncles, Daddy, Mums and all Nigerians please help solve my problem. Please send your support to this account details Account Name: Ademola Adegbite Account Number: 3332076593 Bank Name: Diamond Bank God will not let you down, In time of your need please help me For contact: 08062701017 |
| Re: Nairalanders Please Save My Wedding/marriage by agarawu23(m): 12:46pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
you need a harsh comment so that you go get sense if truly your story is true. you are one of the biggest fooool I have seen so yu wanna spend 550k on ordinary wedding that ppl will eat and clean their asses without giving u a single present ?must you do a lousy wedding? with your 200k, you can marry two wives with it if you are marrying from your tribe. if your new Edo chick truly loves you, she would budget and cut your coat according to your size. Are we ganna still donate for you when you finally marry your dream wife and start having kids? olodo, invest that 200k and do a silent wedding with any lady that's ready to drink garri with u. |
| Re: Nairalanders Please Save My Wedding/marriage by falconey(m): 12:46pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
oh boy!√ |
| Re: Nairalanders Please Save My Wedding/marriage by chymystique(f): 12:54pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
Nairalanders, my reader I need your help, this is the situation I found myself. Help to marry this one without delay anymore.Like seriously?? Since when did marriage become an achievement?? So after your wedding is being paid by strangers, Who will feed your wife and future children?? To bring forth children to live in penury?? Instead of you to think of ways to make a better livelihood for yourself, you came here begging and expecting help. Go and learn a handiwork and use that your last 200,000 naira and start up your own business first before marriage. Sorry to say this but You a lazy man. |
| Re: Nairalanders Please Save My Wedding/marriage by Nobody: 12:55pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
You should be ashamed of yourself for coming up with this lame idea. What happen to indoor traditional marriage? most u invite your whole village to the wedding ? No lady in her right senses will marry a dumbass like you. Mumu |
| Re: Nairalanders Please Save My Wedding/marriage by ronald4lif(m): 12:58pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
Why are you so eager to get married? You're more interested in getting married than life after nuptials. Do you think your present wage can sustain yourself, wife and the kids when they start coming? Sorry but I don't seem to understand why people mount unnecessary pressure on themselves in regards to marriage. I think I'd just hold my thoughts about this before I begin to sound like a spoiler. Good luck to your fund raising venture. |
| Re: Nairalanders Please Save My Wedding/marriage by Mnewton(m): 12:59pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
Edit your work properly before posting,your write up is embedded with series of mistakes and vocabulary epilepsy. read more books and apply for a better job its not time for you to get married.. |
| Re: Nairalanders Please Save My Wedding/marriage by Nobody: 1:03pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
A girl that stays with you in troubled times, will stay with you in good times, and also vice versa. You must not be like those kano people that used 1 million people to vote.... here is what I mean, asking for alms on the internet like this exposes you to absolute ridicule from people. A small wedding, friends and well wishers is enough. Afterall na wife you wan marry no be house. Stop making people look at you like a complete idiot. |
| Re: Nairalanders Please Save My Wedding/marriage by vizkiz: 1:04pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
[b]a fool at 30 is forever a fool! ![]() You are not yet capable of feeding yourself, you want to introduce a lady to a world of your poverty. God wouldn't forgive you for this thought! Wait, are you so obsessed about getting married or you just wanna hook this lady so you wouldn't loss her to another ekiti man? Mr mumu, What you are suppose to do now is gather enough cash (the one you wanna waste on your useless wedding), start your own business, pray very hard. Then check out what happens in 5years time(I bet your hundreds of thousands will be multiplied). You are still young my brother,a man has a lot of time unlike women... don't let your kids suffer for your stupidity. You think marriage is an easy task? Ok, let's say you spend 15k on feeding(which is a number one piority in life) when you were single, get ready to spend 45k when you get married. You think say na paper them dey take feed family abi? Well, I feel the Op is just an upcoming yahoo guy, I have them as friends and I know what they are capable of. Maybe you need to try this stunt to the white or on 2go like you use to do. Maga might pay... ODE! ![]() [/b] |
| Re: Nairalanders Please Save My Wedding/marriage by jashar(f): 1:08pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
Op bia. Don't live beyond your means. You have 200 000k, you don't have to spend it all sef. Wetin sef. Na only you don marry? Last year,my friend did a simple court wedding. Afterwards, we went to their compound, ate food, listened to music and left. We weren't up to 100 that were there. |
| Re: Nairalanders Please Save My Wedding/marriage by Gboliwe: 1:13pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
ademate:This is as funny as it is disgusting ![]() |
| Re: Nairalanders Please Save My Wedding/marriage by nobosaba(m): 1:38pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
Guy sorry say I wo insult you oh. Op you be idiot, big mumu. You never fit feed, take care of yourself na another person you wo carry for head? Who tell you say na only the Man dey bring money for marriage? If your so called girl can't contribute abeg make una go seat down. In fact you can do a wedding with less than 150k Op if i catch you en, na beat I go beat you |
| Re: Nairalanders Please Save My Wedding/marriage by agrovick(m): 1:51pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
Nkan be |
| Re: Nairalanders Please Save My Wedding/marriage by jaymichael(m): 1:54pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
@op, Agarawo has said all you need to know o. my younger brother own no even reach That 200k you have now. No go borrow money do wedding come dey drink garri (that is if you even see the garri drink) If she loves you, she will arrange with her family to manage and arrange the wedding with the little you have. Once bride price has been paid, The wedding ceremony is small, marriage is the koko. |
| Re: Nairalanders Please Save My Wedding/marriage by Nobody: 2:09pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
My goodness! Op you can lie eeeh, in the first place your vocabs are out of place to think you claimed to be an hnd holder.. Secondly,your story is full of loopholes,@30 any rational thinking man would knw that after wedding, life will still continue,so you want a flambouyant wedding uuh?when you dnt have the resource,what happen to a small court wedding or even traditional marriage?anyways, you are lying so no need.. See young man,dedicate your time to something worthwhile, save some money and start a small business,yahoo is lucrative but people are getting wiser now, no body wan fall for your scam... To think i have seen that acct no before.... Mtheeew |
| Re: Nairalanders Please Save My Wedding/marriage by WebSurfer(m): 2:15pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
Some1 needs to be denoted some amount of sense |
| Re: Nairalanders Please Save My Wedding/marriage by datyrone(m): 2:28pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
all i see is professional begging ![]() |
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so yu wanna spend 550k on ordinary wedding that ppl will eat and clean their asses without giving u a single present ?