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Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by Nobody: 12:27pm On Sep 06, 2015 |
Demigods:Hypocrite... Smh Her choice, your headache. Chilax dude |
Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by Nobody: 12:36pm On Sep 06, 2015 |
Pamelayoung: Unnecessary evil |
Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by Pamelayoung: 12:39pm On Sep 06, 2015 |
Axeurdaddy: You don't just wake up n have sexual feelings, now see dis 'evry man is tempted wen he is drawn away of his own lust n enticed. Then wen lust hath conceived it bringeth 4th sin n sin wen finished brngeth 4th death. Am only suggesting that such feelings shldn't be entertained wen onces partner isn't arnd, this can be achieved by keeping d mind busy. |
Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by Nobody: 12:47pm On Sep 06, 2015 |
Pamelayoung: These urges are perfectly natural and were not put into humans by the devil. Its good to keep the mind busy but be honest to yourself. Can you keep your mind busy ALL THE TIME When those lonely and cold nights hit you and you suddenly wish you were with your spouse?? |
Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by Pamelayoung: 12:56pm On Sep 06, 2015 |
Axeurdaddy: I ain't disputing ur 1st paragraph. Thats was my humble opinion tho. |
Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by iliyande(m): 12:58pm On Sep 06, 2015 |
teemy: The only help a Christian can render in such situation is prayers. Our Lord's prayer Jesus thought his disciples that they should say "lead us not into temptation" he knew that such temptation is inevitable in our daily activities as we continue in our Christian life. |
Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by LatestTrend: 12:58pm On Sep 06, 2015 |
No it's not but should still have limit. joehis2013: |
Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by Nobody: 12:58pm On Sep 06, 2015 |
Pamelayoung: Its alright . Everyone is entitled to an opinion |
Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by GodblessNig247(m): 1:01pm On Sep 06, 2015 |
[quote author=GlorifiedTunde post=3 u are not more righteous than her. if u know u have not done anything that is immoral be the first to cast a stone 1 Like |
Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by Jasperwhizz(m): 1:07pm On Sep 06, 2015 |
raayah:self servicing is a sin Rnman 1:26. it is contrary to nature. 1 Like |
Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by raayah(f): 1:09pm On Sep 06, 2015 |
Jasperwhizz: Then pray for me, Oh holy one without sin. |
Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by Jasperwhizz(m): 1:16pm On Sep 06, 2015 |
raayah:Dnt call me 'holy one' i am only working to be one. but to be sincere self servicing is a sin. |
Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by castro316: 1:28pm On Sep 06, 2015 |
If it's not a sin why can't you talk to u friends about it. If it's not a sin why do you do it in sercret places If it's not a sin why does ur conscience tell u its wrong. If it's not a sin why watch porn along with it Sin is a sin regardless of how you put it or how often u do it There are different kinds of sin which are 1. Sin against God 2. Sin against ur neighbour 3. Sin against urself This 3rd one is where masturbation come in. As far ar it's not the right way to have sex, it's a sin I used to do it before and my life was in shambles. I used to have problems with relating with women and didn't give them time because I had a solution of satisfying myself. It took me many years of trying and failing before I could conquer this satanic act. But now I am repentant and two years sober. My life is much better with my new relationship with God to whom deserves my praise. Thanks be to God. 1 Like |
Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by uzolexis(f): 1:40pm On Sep 06, 2015 |
Tjayjosh: For me there is no if,it is not a sin IMO period. If you have sexual urges n ur spouse is far away, call him/her, talk dirty, have phone/video sex, touch urself while doing it. Problem solved, reading bible will not stop the conji. We really need 2 be realistic even as Christians, we should not forget that we r humans as well. |
Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by Fearcom(m): 1:45pm On Sep 06, 2015 |
AheadMarket: Wrong! You can SIN against your OWN BODY! 1 Cor 6:18 That's why a person who commit suicide will be judged because he has no right to take his/her own life. Why? God owns his life. He has KILLED someone. HIMSELF! That your sin doesn't affect another person isn't an excuse |
Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by GlorifiedTunde(m): 1:53pm On Sep 06, 2015 |
GodblessNig247: I didn't say I was never in sin, check post below However I do not empathize with sin! |
Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by GlorifiedTunde(m): 1:55pm On Sep 06, 2015 |
GlorifiedTunde: |
Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by LushGreenz: 1:59pm On Sep 06, 2015 |
Joniboi: The Scripture disagrees beloved brother.Yes,there are some biblical principles that can be applied to the issue of masturbation. Ephesians 5:3 declares, “Among you there must not be even a hint of sexual immorality, or of any kind of impurity.” It is hard to see how masturbating can pass that particular test. The Bible teaches us, “So whether you eat or drink or whatever you do, do it all for the glory of God” (1 Corinthians 10:31). If you cannot give God glory for something, you should not do it. If a person is not fully convinced that an activity is pleasing to God, then it is a sin: “Everything that does not come from faith is sin” (Romans 14:23). Further, we need to remember that our bodies have been redeemed and belong to God. |
Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by GodblessNig247(m): 2:04pm On Sep 06, 2015 |
[quote author=GlorifiedTunde post=37730445][/quote] ok. cleared. Thanks |
Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by teemy(m): 2:18pm On Sep 06, 2015 |
is lust sinful? yes. when madam grabs oga or the other way round in an expression of lust is it sin? no and we all know this. there is the place of permitted sexual expression of lust and masturbation in marriage within the area of christian beliefs. |
Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by deedondavi(m): 2:30pm On Sep 06, 2015 |
Uh mm...... All this biblical stuffs against maturbation..... That's why innocent girls are being raped daily.....because most guys don't wanna go fucking prostitutes and they hear all this ill stuffs about maturbation from fanatics.... And they belive......that's why we blacks dont move forward we so backward... 1 Like |
Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by Obaf16(f): 3:50pm On Sep 06, 2015 |
chichriso:Couples should stay together at all time,how possible because i don't understand wot u mean,r u saying each of them shd not travel ? |
Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by gbaskiphylle: 4:08pm On Sep 06, 2015 |
Why can't we just face the reality of the question and give suggestions that are helpful that quoting scriptures that might not help matters. For me,it is better to feel your body in the absense of your partner than falling into the temptation of cheating.... 1 Like |
Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by chantoebi: 6:46pm On Sep 06, 2015 |
As a Christian self servicing is a sin or call it mastubation it still sin. sex is for procreation even though partners involve derive pleasure in it. but mastubation is just to satisfy the flesh because of lust and its selfish apart from God its a sin to your soul and your partner if your married 1 Like |
Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by belcom10(m): 7:09pm On Sep 06, 2015 |
demon in action, run away frm masturbation,is a terrible sin 1 Like |
Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by Jexyme(f): 7:18pm On Sep 06, 2015 |
rallymento: Na lie.......! Sex (rough) one damages V or P with same probability as the other. 1 Like |
Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by ayodejiadetoro(m): 7:19pm On Sep 06, 2015 |
Joniboi: 92% of sexually healthy men masturbate. The remaining 8% are most likely lying. |
Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by Danyl(m): 8:11pm On Sep 06, 2015 |
if u call it a sin, what about someone who lied or just gossiped sin is still.sin however we shouldn't be too quick to judge matters as this when it involves couples. I guess y it is called sin is because you are lusting after a sexual figure in your mind. if that figure is your wife or husband it may not be outrightly categorized as sin because you definitely cant be lusting after your spouse it sounds crazy. Jesus said in the scriptures & I quote if you lust after a woman (not your spouse in this context) you already are an adulterer or adulteress(which ever ones your gender suppose). if you are having intimacy you n ur spouse part of pre-intimacy exercise is mutual frolicking which you will.definitely referred to as mutual masturbati** so we need to have a balanced views before tagging anything sin. Or is it adultery that's good for such people? you wouldn't try that I guess so y r we sounding too holy when we r not actually? |
Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by STEVENcrack(m): 8:11pm On Sep 06, 2015 |
raayah:No wonder you left deeperlife that you were borned into. I pray God brings u back to repentance because one day we will find a time to die. Give ur life to Christ my sister. Worldly pleasures is vain and doesn't last. |
Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by Danyl(m): 8:15pm On Sep 06, 2015 |
Jasperwhizz:how is it contrary to nature? so is digging another that doesnt belong to you thats natural. we cant seize to be humans except we become like God n I wonder how that could be possible. |
Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by Nobody: 8:28pm On Sep 06, 2015 |
Fearcom:mchew |
Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by iguita: 8:51pm On Sep 06, 2015 |
Fidio or adonbilif raayah: |
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