Kimoni:

I join my faith with yours and every other person saying, It will end in praise. Amen.

Virtuouswife:

It shall end in praise 4 d family, no eyes of d enemy or evil one shall see dem. Baby will be strong and shall not develop any problem, mother will live 2 testify and 2 declare God's work. Amen. It shall be well with dem

Amen and Amen and Amen!!!

Ok

tyconcepts:
@Ahnie...Don't really know what to say but my prayers are with you.


By the way....Am Warri based.

please help me send d book to "ifesexylady@gmail.com"

ahnie:
@all that mentioned..when i was 7months preg,he brought a 12yrs old son of his friend.i told him not to bring the boy to our home,reason being that,wheneva we want to purchase anything,he wil go to onitsha and bring the boy to our home,and squander part of the money on him.i was on my way to the church for wednesdays mfm prayers,when my husband commanded me that i shudn't go,that he was on his way wit the boy.i told him sinc he has his own key,he shud tend to the boy,but for where.i had to stay aback.fast4ward to april 5th(Easter day)this man so much battered me,because i told him that the boy is untrained,and uses negative words always.i started bleedin,he used his teeth to bite off my dreadlock,and i started cryin for help.it took the effort of our landlord n his wife to save me that day.

u mean while u were pregnant? I'm just short of words

URGENT!!!
Pls sabi mamas how many hours does it take for baby to arrive after water breaks without contraction?

Ok

kendrallmai:
Hello mamas
I'm new here been following this thread for for sometime though I discovered d thread quite late but I like to introduce myself ftm, 34 weeks gone, edd October.

Welcome my team mate. Your baby is preparing for his/her grand arrival

The lord z your strenght.

Deezou:
URGENT!!!
Pls sabi mamas how many hours does it take for baby to arrive after water breaks without contraction?

zaynie:

Ozycy, see customer here for you o, oya put her name for register.
#ProudlyTeamOctober.
My eversplunphyk teamies hope una don dey pack small small o, by next week now I will start inspection of bags.
#GingerupTeamOctober!

Noted, her name have entered my register. #latecomers#

Iffffffy:
please help me send d book to "ifesexylady@gmail.com"

Pls send to me too. fatimabwaje@gmail.com

ahnie dear, the lord is your strength.

Sorry everyone. Silent reader since. yet to introduce myself or join officially but I had to answer her.

Water broke without contractions, they need to induce labour or bring d baby out because d water protecting d baby is out. Also baby's heartbeat needs to be monitored closely and continuously. Pele dear. It will surely end in praise

Deezou:
URGENT!!!
Pls sabi mamas how many hours does it take for baby to arrive after water breaks without contraction?

ahnie:
i have lended him out to any woman that needs husband.

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@all
I greet you all.
I don't want to take the shine off ahnie 's plight but I am passing through the same thing.the verbal and physical abuse,public humiliation,economic deprivation(every job or money making opportunity squashed) even the baby snatching.
We had a meeting at my dad's and it almost escalated to a fracas btw him and my dad.
He was insisting that nobody would come and help for the omugwo.dt he will do it ....pls imagine that!!
On a serious note if anyone has a single relative dt needs a husband.mine is for total hire.i cant continue

toparie:
@bismick @blessedtwins you could also try getting pregnacare max. It has everything you need for you and baby at the required doses too.#teamoctober

Madam, come back and introduce yourself well, abi you don't want us to notice you are a newbie here in order to dodge paying your dues. see as you just jump into the thread like say we know you b4 even dou I know you from d oda thread, abi is this not your first comment here? Do the needful so I can register your name asap.

zaynie:

Ozycy, another customer for you o
#TeamOctoberrocks

Noted. Let her pay her dues first. I don't take bribe

blessedtwins:
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@all
I greet you all.
I don't want to take the shine off ahnie 's plight but I am passing through the same thing.the verbal and physical abuse,public humiliation,economic deprivation(every job or money making opportunity squashed) even the baby snatching.
We had a meeting at my dad's and it almost escalated to a fracas btw him and my dad.
He was insisting that nobody would come and help for the omugwo.dt he will do it ....pls imagine that!!
On a serious note if anyone has a single relative dt needs a husband.mine is for total hire.i cant continue

it is well

ahnie:
Alex said,i no longer cares for him again sinc the arrival of the baby.whenever he's in asaba,he leaves the house by 5am.most times i get up to dish his food into his flask by 3am,and go back to bed.he also complain that i no longer see him off to the gate.i wil still clean and take care of the house.hahaa i be super Bae?untop say pikin dey for my hand,and sleep sometimes is a rare commodity.even the food i served him he didnt touch it,and the laundry i intended doing,he washed the clothes himself.the Baby is not even comfy around him,bcus wheneva he carries her,she always scream and reach for me.i think she knows what agwan.All i just need now is for him to go back to his base in Benin,and leave us alone.till i sort myself out.i have lended him out to any woman that needs husband.he's sleepin quietly now like a beaded Calabash.

my dear,don't you tink you need to give yourself a short break.I'm sorry to say dis but he might kill you one day or abandon you when its already late for you to plan yourself well.my depression now is a result of my dads childishness, wickedness and selfishness.he abandoned my mom with four children after leaving scars and low self esteem as his everlasting gift to her.I am not saying you should leave him,but you need to give yourself a vacation to reflect on your life and know d next step to take.

@tyconcepts I would also appreciate a copy forwarded to me sarahsoyemi@gmail.com as I looked around but don't get to see any
Thanks

Iffffffy:
please help me send d book to "ifesexylady@gmail.com"

Chai, all these pathetic stories here, I don't even know what to say. @ ahnie, pls try and do as much as you can to please him for the time he will be around since he doesn't stay with you permanently. Don't really know what to say, I can't even imagine. GOD is your strength @ ahnie and blessedtwins. I pray it gets better

Deezou:
URGENT!!!
Pls sabi mamas how many hours does it take for baby to arrive after water breaks without contraction?

Hi, it ranges btw hours to days. if your water has broken pls find your way to the hosp. The longer you stay the more the risk of infection for baby and the more the chances of your baby spending time in SCBU.

chinma414:
my dear,don't you tink you need to give yourself a short break.I'm sorry to say dis but he might kill you one day or abandon you when its already late for you to plan yourself well.my depression now is a result of my dads childishness, wickedness and selfishness.he abandoned my mom with four children after leaving scars and low self esteem as his everlasting gift to her.I am not saying you should leave him,but you need to give yourself a vacation to reflect on your life and know d next step to take.

totally agree with you, its really getting out of hands... @ahnie, are u working?

Deezou, you need to be in the hospital abeg.
It will be easy and swift for you In Sha Allah. Amin.



Ahnie, did you make your findings about that man before you married him?
How long did the courtship last?
Who introduced you to him?
Are you his first and only wife?
If no, what was the cause of separation/ reason for marrying you.
If yes, how sure are you?
I ask these questions because for a man of 46 to marry a girl of 25 get as e be. In a typical Nigerian setting the man for don marry born at least a 16years old girl. If he has never been married, now you know why......the ladies see his violent tendencies and run for their lives.

Dont be surprised if that son is his.
Just try to avoid him and prevent his violent outbursts till you figure out what to do.
You could try talking to him when he is calm. Try to reach out and find out the root of his anger and see if there is a way you can work around it.

Do you work? If you dont, now is the time to get financially independent.
If you do, now is not the time to slack off or take a time off. Its the time to start keeping a little money aside for rainy days.

WarmHugss

Deezou:
URGENT!!!
Pls sabi mamas how many hours does it take for baby to arrive after water breaks without contraction?

find ur way to hospital ASAP

zaynie:
Dont be surprised if that son is his.

my exact thought

@ ahnie, pls be careful. I think you need to speak out. Talk to your parents before we hear stories that touch. That boy may be his child o! Do you work? May God see you through.
@ blessedtwins, what can i say. Do be careful too. How can your husband do omugwo for you. Pls revisit the matter some other time and in a calmer way. It is well

Nita2013,ahnie,soonest,zaynie and iffffffy thanks all for ur input,but am @ d hospital since past.will keep updating u if possible.

Deezou:
Nita2013,ahnie,soonest,zaynie and iffffffy thanks all for ur input,but am @ d hospital since past.will keep updating u if possible.

We are rooting for you!!!!!
Whoop!!! Whoop!!! Go Deezou!!!

Deezou:
Nita2013,ahnie,soonest,zaynie and iffffffy thanks all for ur input,but am @ d hospital since past.will keep updating u if possible.

it is well by God's grace, it shall be easy, safe and quick.

Lol

zaynie:
Deezou, you need to be in the hospital abeg.
It will be easy and swift for you In Sha Allah. Amin.

You ve spoken well my able team mate.
Imagining squandering money on a friend's child against his family wish, who does that?

soonest:
@tyconcepts, pls can you send me the book. Soonesstt@gmail.com

Sent.

sarilo4lif:
@tyconcepts I would also appreciate a copy forwarded to me sarahsoyemi@gmail.com as I looked around but don't get to see any
Thanks

Done.