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Ladies!its Time To Get Ur Man Back by Nobody: 9:55pm On Sep 11, 2015

This a true life experience.Lets follow it step by step.

1.Learn to pray as a family:Involve your husband in family prayer.Find a suitable time for this. Once a day is ok.U'll see how he will turn to a good man.
2.Is time to stop Nagging: We nag alot.Either knowingly or unknowingly.U need to learn how to stop.My car was grounded on a friday,so I joined my colleagues and both were males. On our way,they were busy planning how to spend d weekend and avoid dr nagging wives. Once u push dm outside,it's had to bring them back.
3.Be their best companion:Pay attention when they complain of a particular thing don't ignore or overlook it.Or when they look for listening ears,always be there for them.
4.Learn how to Seduce Ur Hubby: Ladies this is very important. Men love to be seduced.dont leave them to those single girl out there.After all,the man married U and not them.There was a day my hubby's friend were calling him to hangout with them,guess what I did I've to UnCloth myself and suggest we bath together,after that,good sex and my hubby slept off.I just put off his phone so that they will not wake him and that is the trick I 've been using often.
5.Learn to forgive:Is very difficult to forgive and forget.Most times,we forgive but from time to time we still judge him from d past mistakes.I was once thinking of divorce but the truth is that even the holiest of all men can still cheat on U or do worst things.
6.Limit young girls visiting ur home.Except if they are related to ur hubby or the lady has a good upbringing. Most men lack self control.Help them by not leading them into temptation.
7.Limit the services of househelp.Dont let househelps cook for ur hubby,wash his boxers or make his bed or clean his room.No matter how busy u are.Do it by urself. Even if househelp will do it,let it be at their absence.
8.Avoid involving 3rd Party:If ur hubby wrong u in any way,please confront him.3rd party always worsen d whole issue.U can text him if u can't talk to him.But don't allow d issue to linger more dn a day without sorting it out.

Always pray before u take any drastic action.My 8yrs marriage was on the verge of collapsing before I started practising d listed points above. Marriage Is not a bed of roses but we can make it better.And remember that two wrongs don't make a right.

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Re: Ladies!its Time To Get Ur Man Back by ahnie: 10:02pm On Sep 11, 2015

What if she dusnt want to get the man back? grin

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Re: Ladies!its Time To Get Ur Man Back by yvelch(f): 10:07pm On Sep 11, 2015

Yes ooo

And don't forget, look Good!

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Re: Ladies!its Time To Get Ur Man Back by HyDee001(m): 10:08pm On Sep 11, 2015

ahnie:
What if she dusnt want to get the man back?

Then we would need another thread titled: Men, It's time to get your woman back grin

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Re: Ladies!its Time To Get Ur Man Back by kossyablaze(m): 10:11pm On Sep 11, 2015

Tell dem

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Re: Ladies!its Time To Get Ur Man Back by ahnie: 10:12pm On Sep 11, 2015

HyDee001:

Then we would need another thread titled: Men, It's time to get your woman back

Re: Ladies!its Time To Get Ur Man Back by ahnie: 10:14pm On Sep 11, 2015

What if He dusnt wanna get her back.

HyDee001:

Then we would need another thread titled: Men, It's time to get your woman back

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Re: Ladies!its Time To Get Ur Man Back by Nobody: 10:20pm On Sep 11, 2015

ahnie:
What if she dusnt want to get the man back?

It's time to claim what is rightfully ours grin

Re: Ladies!its Time To Get Ur Man Back by HyDee001(m): 10:23pm On Sep 11, 2015

ahnie:
What if He dusnt wanna get her back.

Okay. That's serious now.
This is the final option. If it does not work, shikena.
We would need a thread titled: kids, it's time to get your parents back together. tongue

Re: Ladies!its Time To Get Ur Man Back by lilmax(m): 10:25pm On Sep 11, 2015

ahnie:
What if she dusnt want to get the man back?

HyDee001:

Then we would need another thread titled: Men, It's time to get your woman back

ahnie:
What if He dusnt wanna get her back.

Cece23:

It's time to claim what is rightfully ours

Re: Ladies!its Time To Get Ur Man Back by ahnie: 10:26pm On Sep 11, 2015

What if the parents dusn't want to get back together?

HyDee001:

Okay. That's serious now.
This is the final option. If it does not work, shikena.
We would need a thread titled: kids, it's time to get your parents back together.

Re: Ladies!its Time To Get Ur Man Back by Nobody: 10:28pm On Sep 11, 2015

Cece23:

It's time to claim what is rightfully ours

Please [abeg] kindly vote for me here https://mobile.twitter.com/runzlord/status/639602054546255872?p=v
The link to the voting page is in that status, cos I can't post the link directly on Nairaland.

It a a palm selfie contest by samsung.

Re: Ladies!its Time To Get Ur Man Back by ahnie: 10:29pm On Sep 11, 2015

Holy' holy halleluyah...sister e je' ka gba adura oluwa ooo,oruko jesus

Cece23:

It's time to claim what is rightfully ours

Bae leave matter.

Re: Ladies!its Time To Get Ur Man Back by HyDee001(m): 10:33pm On Sep 11, 2015

ahnie:
What if the parents dusn't want to get back together?

The will of the children would often prevail. They are the proof of the bond that exists between the couple, irrespective of their separation.
If they won't come back together for the sake of their selves or for the sake of their children, then nothing can make them to.

Re: Ladies!its Time To Get Ur Man Back by ahnie: 10:35pm On Sep 11, 2015

Then that settles it.

HyDee001:

The will of the children would often prevail. They are the proof of the bond that exists between the couple, irrespective of their separation.
If they won't come back together for the sake of their selves or for the sake of their children, then nothing can make them to.

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Re: Ladies!its Time To Get Ur Man Back by nnamdibig(m): 4:35am On Sep 12, 2015

Marriage no be beans oooo
If a woman can do all these, why will the man cheat on her or even hurt her?

Re: Ladies!its Time To Get Ur Man Back by ahnie: 5:05am On Sep 12, 2015

nnamdibig:
Marriage no be beans oooo

If a woman can do all these, why will the man cheat on her or even hurt her?

because most men are born to cheat.its in dia Dna.i'ope i am not soundin like a feminist?

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Re: Ladies!its Time To Get Ur Man Back by cococandy(f): 5:23am On Sep 12, 2015

ahnie:
because most men are born to cheat.its in dia Dna.i'ope i am not soundin like a feminist?

No you're not.

Men being born to cheat and their wives putting up with bullshyt, grinding n bearing and following the steps in all these orisirisi lists to win back someone who has no respect for them is more non-feminist ideology than feminist.

It is more feminist to believe that not all men are bad hence no need to die in a relationship where your respect as a person is non existent whereas you can get such from some other good man elsewhere.

wink

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Re: Ladies!its Time To Get Ur Man Back by Nobody: 6:14am On Sep 12, 2015

cococandy:

No you're not.

Men being born to cheat and their wives putting up with bullshyt, grinding n bearing and following the steps in all these orisirisi lists to win back someone who has no respect for them is more non-feminist ideology than feminist.

It is more feminist to believe that not all men are bad hence no need to die in a relationship where your respect as a person is non existent whereas you can get such from some other good man elsewhere.

Marriage is never a bed of roses. Thats why there is a clause "For better for worse".Provided d man is not violent,he will may change.

Re: Ladies!its Time To Get Ur Man Back by Rukkydelta(f): 6:52am On Sep 12, 2015

Marriage = bed of problems

Re: Ladies!its Time To Get Ur Man Back by Nobody: 2:07pm On Sep 12, 2015

ahnie:
because most men are born to cheat.its in dia Dna.i'ope i am not soundin like a feminist?

babes ure soo correct! Dats wat I always say! Ladies shuld hav it @ d back of their minds so dey won't de of HBP wen dey find out!

Re: Ladies!its Time To Get Ur Man Back by DrObum(m): 10:59pm On Sep 12, 2015

Why is it that similar things always happen to me esp on NL.
Ok, let's see how it goes.

1. I enter Nairaland and move into the family section to see nice threads.

2. I see a thread on marriage, and I'm like 'what's it again?'

3. I read through the comments and I always see the outpourings of some bitter females.

4. Only God knows what men have done / not done to these ladies, but maybe we should apologise on behalf of the men folk cos your every thread rantings about men's alleged infidelity and so on doesn't make you look good.

5. I comment and go with my peace and somebody whom I didn't name mentions me in their comment.

6. I reply the comment and the mention and then I get a new e-friend.

grin

Re: Ladies!its Time To Get Ur Man Back by EfemenaXY: 7:23am On Sep 13, 2015

cococandy:

No you're not.

Men being born to cheat and their wives putting up with bullshyt, grinding n bearing and following the steps in all these orisirisi lists to win back someone who has no respect for them is more non-feminist ideology than feminist.

It is more feminist to believe that not all men are bad hence no need to die in a relationship where your respect as a person is non existent whereas you can get such from some other good man elsewhere.

Well said Coco. kiss

HyDee001:

Then we would need another thread titled: Men, It's time to get your woman back

Now this, I would like to see. cheesy

Re: Ladies!its Time To Get Ur Man Back by raydatluvs(m): 7:58pm On Sep 13, 2015

What the flip do ladies nowadays take men for!!! creeps me so much. Oh my!!! We are not weaklings for God's sake

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