Have you ever wondered why all the ladies are ''in a relationship'' and all the guys are ''single''? Well, it is because men are deceiving women.

My friend once told me that he has a friend who would buy about five rings and engage five different girls at the same time, constantly deceiving each one of them that she's the queen of his heart.
According to him, it is cheaper and easier to get a woman to do what he wants once he appears serious or committed with them.
Unfortunately, he's not alone. Many men are actors. Ladies should learn how to discern a man who really care about them and those who are players.

These are 10 ways to know if a man is serious about you or not.

1. HE DOESN'T PLAY MIND GAMES WITH YOU.
If he says he will drop in to see you, he does. When he makes plans with you for the weekend, he sticks to them. He doesn't torment you by saying one thing and doing something else.
He's not cold one instant and warm and affectionate the other. If his ex-girlfriend calls him, he tells you about it for the sake of honesty and not in a way that makes you uncomfortable. When a man plays mind games, it's typically because he doesn't really care, or because the relationship is casual for him. If your man makes a special effort to be honest and open,that's a sign of his commitment to the relationship.

2. HE WANTS TO KNOW THINGS ABOUT YOU.
And it's not just the regular stuff like ''what are your hopes and dreams?'' or, ''What inspire you to paint?'' or '' What's your favorite rock band?''
He asked you questions about your childhood, your job, parents, etc.
He wants to know what it likes to be the elder sister or, he always asks you how you cope with your long stressful work hours. He is genuinely concerned about your career and asks you about your plans. Even the best actor cannot feign an interest in mundane details such as, ''What time did you wake up today?'' or ''Did you get enough sleep last night?'' If he's serious about you, he will find all the mundane details interesting.



3. HE CALLS YOU MULTIPLE TIMES EVERYDAY.
He calls you sometimes for no reason.
Even if you've met at a coffee shop an hour ago, he calls you after he reaches home, or from the elevator.
This behaviour is typically displayed in the first few weeks of the relationship, when everything is new and exciting.
However, when you realize that he still calls you just to hear your voice and it's been about a year since you started going out, you should know that he is serious about you.

4. IF HE'S ALWAYS PUNCTUAL.
If he's always punctual, he's definitely into you. When a man is serious about his girlfriend, he will ensure that she doesn't have to wait for an hour at the bus stop. He says he will pick you up for dinner and 8 p.m. and calls around 7. 55 p.m. to tell you he's stuck in traffic and will be 15 minutes late, he's respectful of your feelings.
He won't ever have you hanging around the park for half an hour before he shows up. Most girls constantly find themselves waiting for their boyfriend's phone call, or for him to pick them up. If you don't find yourself in that position, you've got yourself a winner.

5. WHEN HE LISTEN TO YOU TALK.
Several girls complain that they can't talk to their boyfriends and that they just don't listen.
When you spend time with him, he really listens to you. He's all ears about your problems at work. On the rain, he's not distrac...MORE HERE...http://www.odiongist.com/2015/06/ten-ways-to-know-if-he-is-serious-about.html

Too many relationship expert on nairaland

all dose points dat u have just listed does not still give me a clue on how 2 differentiate players from faithful boyfriends

Didn't bother reading coz I knw my Boo gat a Boo

sinaj:
Didn't bother reading coz I knw my Boo gat a Boo

LOL

Ezerbullet:
Too many relationship expert on nairaland

You free to join the team if u kind of jealous

sinaj:
Didn't bother reading coz I knw my Boo gat a Boo

I know that feeling sis

Otibho80:
all dose points dat u have just listed does not still give me a clue on how 2 differentiate players from faithful boyfriends

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danimodd:
?

Otibho80:

you an Edo girl huh?

danimodd:
you an Edo girl huh?

why did u ask?

sinaj:
Didn't bother reading coz I knw my Boo gat a Boo

eyaaaa pele dear

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Op a guy will do all those and still have a crockcroah in his cubboard,players know how to play their games well,




most of your points are void,not just ready to debunk them.

sinaj:
Didn't bother reading coz I knw my Boo gat a Boo

same way you have a bae.

Jollyjoy:
Op a guy will do all those and still have a crockcroah in his cubboard,players know how to play their games well,




most of your points are void,not just ready to debunk them.

You might read and do those things and still have a croakcroch in your cupboard doesn't mean i will, this an individual thing you don't generalize them. what work for you might not work for me and what work for me might not as well work for you, so get that to your critics head and learn how to respect other people efforts.

so wen I listen to a girl talk,it means I'm serious about her? ...........hmmmmmmm

Otibho80:
why did u ask?

cos of your name

sinaj:
Didn't bother reading coz I knw my Boo gat a Boo

so why are u still with him when you know he's gat a boo? You're just torturing yourself emotionally

staples:
so why are u still with him when you know he's gat a boo? You're just torturing yourself emotionally

Lol Mrs care taker awaz only kidin


Lol

Tanks boo

Mind games#

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Robilroy:
Mind games#

danimodd:
cos of your name

ok

sinaj:
Didn't bother reading coz I knw my Boo gat a Boo

So enjoy ursef baby boo

Otibho80:
ok

so? anyway ave gone through your profile....any other means to talk with you?

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Robilroy:
Mind games#