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jadelyn007:
lol. Who no like free goodies, if you see someone who wants to pick up all ur bills now shey you no go follow am bumper to bumper.
There is a level you get to in a relationship that who picks the tabs wouldn't count anymore.
For example, I invited a male friend for a wedding, he said he was bored and broke so I just wanted him to have a little fun.
I offered to pay his fares to and from which I did. On returning while we were Getting close to his house he suddenly changed his mind and told me he didn't want to go home rather her wants to go hang out with a pal so I should pay the extra cab fares. I simply told him that wasn't part of our arrangement enter taxi dey go my house abeg. I am sure that if a girl did that to you, you would be very offended and come here to rant about how Nigerian girls are ungrateful.
The point is, Nigerian girls are not as bad as nairaland boys paint them to be. Or can you swear that you have never received a dime for any girl in your life.?

Lol, I have received a lot but it's because they knew that I was going to pay back the next few minutes or days and even add more than they can ever imagine.

Right now I'm about to receive some cool cash from my girlfriend to enable me go gallivant with another sweet girl.

Stop frowning your face , no be the same thing una dey do us?

jadelyn007:
yes, I said it and will continue saying it, how is feminism the problem of your economy, how is feminism the problem in your life?

Feminism is a worldwide problem. They're smashing toilets and lying about men everywhere. I'm a man and don't want to suffer the same misfortunes as men in the west. About how it affects the economy, all you need do is look at the number of men opting out of marriage. Married men statistically provide more to the economy than bachelors. You can google this claim up, outbursts such as this will be disregarded.

If you don't like the movement face your front. Or is anyone forcing you to join in?
Why should anyone take men like you serious when all you rant about all day is feminism that has nothing to do with you?

Nah, you're in no position to tell me where to face. As a rational, thinking person, what you should do is offer me your opinion and try to convince me to follow. I may rant about feminism all day but the objective is lost on you. The reason anyone should take me serious when I rant about feminism is that everything I have said about it happens to be true. If men in countries where feminism reigns supreme tell me it is a dangerous, anti-man, anti-family movement. I think I have the right as a man and an aspiring family man and community vanguard to spread the word and resist its ills as fastidiously as I can. Ranting about feminism is more honourable than you could imagine, but that's my opinion of course. Men like me are prized. Women with class and grace know that.

Men who became great didn't sit around whining about feminism and bullshait .Anyway keep whining about feminism if it makes you feel better about your self esteem.

You don't know squat about how men become great. If you did you would be anti-feminist with everything you have. It is men like me who are the pillar of society. The men in those countries you so adore wish they had done what I now do.

Timbuktou:
Feminism is a worldwide problem. They're smashing toilets and lying about men everywhere. I'm a man and don't want to suffer the same misfortunes as men in the west. About how it affects the economy, all you need do is look at the number of men opting out of marriage. Married men statistically provide more to the economy than bachelors. You can google this claim up, outbursts such as this will be disregarded.



Nah, you're in no position to tell me where to face. As a rational, thinking person, what you should do is offer me your opinion and try to convince me to follow. I may rant about feminism all day but the objective is lost on you. The reason anyone should take me serious when I rant about feminism is that everything I have said about it happens to be true. If men in countries where feminism reigns supreme tell me it is a dangerous, anti-man, anti-family movement. I think I have the right as a man and an aspiring family man and community vanguard to spread the word and resist its ills as fastidiously as I can. Ranting about feminism is more honourable than you could imagine, but that's my opinion of course. Men like me are prized. Women with class and grace know that.


You don't know squat about how men become great. If you did you would be anti-feminist with everything you have. It is men like me who are the pillar of society. The men in those countries you so adore wish they had done what I now do.

Are you seriously saying that men in the West are less satisfied than men in Nigeria? Seriously?

Mindfulness:
Are you seriously saying that men in the West are less satisfied than men in Nigeria? Seriously?

You are free to not believe me. But I would advise you to google that up before you do. CNN, Fox, these guys don't speak for the average man. Find out how the average man feels about his situation, and what he's doing about it

Timbuktou:
You are free to not believe me. But I would advise you to google that up before you do. CNN, Fox, these guys don't speak for the average man. Find out how the average man feels and what he's doing to bette his lot.

I live in the West. I have lived in several European countries. I don't need google. Life is MUCH BETTER in the West, for MEN and WOMEN!

Timbuktou:
Feminism is a worldwide problem. They're smashing toilets and lying about men everywhere. I'm a man and don't want to suffer the same misfortunes as men in the west. About how it affects the economy, all you need do is look at the number of men opting out of marriage. Married men statistically provide more to the economy than bachelors. You can google this claim up, outbursts such as this will be disregarded.



Nah, you're in no position to tell me where to face. As a rational, thinking person, what you should do is offer me your opinion and try to convince me to follow. I may rant about feminism all day but the objective is lost on you. The reason anyone should take me serious when I rant about feminism is that everything I have said about it happens to be true. If men in countries where feminism reigns supreme tell me it is a dangerous, anti-man, anti-family movement. I think I have the right as a man and an aspiring family man and community vanguard to spread the word and resist its ills as fastidiously as I can. Ranting about feminism is more honourable than you could imagine, but that's my opinion of course. Men like me are prized. Women with class and grace know that.


You don't know squat about how men become great. If you did you would be anti-feminist with everything you have. It is men like me who are the pillar of society. The men in those countries you so adore wish they had done what I now do.

Mr man that knows so much, so
1. feminism is the reason why you don't have steady power supply even after 55yrs of independence,
2. feminism is the reason why all your politicians are carting away funds meant for the society,
3. feminism is the reason why the educational and Healthcare sector is in dumps,
4. feminism is the reason why even the security officials who are supposed to protect you are the ones who destroy you,
5. feminism is the reason why good roads are alien to Nigeria,
6. feminism is the cause of naira devaluation.
7.feminism is the cause of high rates of unemployment
I can see how feminism has destroyed your economy

So smashing toilets and lying against men is a world issue, lame!
How honorable of you to spend your precious time fighting feminism while your economy degenerates to a deplorable mess.
You should even call for for a UN meeting to discuss how threatening this feminism is after all that is what great men do
Keep living in a fools paradise my brother, it's is allowed

Mindfulness:
I live in the West. I have lived in several European countries. I don't need google. Life is MUCH BETTER in the West, for MEN and WOMEN!

please tell him, maybe he is speaking for the blacks in the West not these whites that I know of

Truckpusher:
Lol, I have received a lot but it's because they knew that I was going to pay back the next few minutes or days and even add more than they can ever imagine.

Right now I'm about to receive some cool cash from my girlfriend to enable me go gallivant with another sweet girl.

Stop frowning your face , no be the same thing una dey do us?

See your life.

Truckpusher:
Lol, I have received a lot but it's because they knew that I was going to pay back the next few minutes or days and even add more than they can ever imagine.

Right now I'm about to receive some cool cash from my girlfriend to enable me go gallivant with another sweet girl.

Stop frowning your face , no be the same thing una dey do us?

lmao, @gallivanting end time boyfriend Not everyone one of them is expecting something in return, some give because they truly want to, just like not all guys that give want to get in a girls pants.

jadelyn007:
Mr man that knows so much, so
1. feminism is the reason why you don't have steady power supply even after 55yrs of independence,
2. feminism is the reason why all your politicians are carting away funds meant for the society,
3. feminism is the reason why the educational and Healthcare sector is in dumps,
4. feminism is the reason why even the security officials who are supposed to protect you are the ones who destroy you,
5. feminism is the reason why good roads are alien to Nigeria,
6. feminism is the cause of naira devaluation.
7.feminism is the cause of high rates of unemployment
I can't see how feminism has destroyed your economy

So smashing toilets and lying against men is a world issue, lame!
How honorable of you to spend your precious time fight feminism while your economy degenerates to a deplorable mess.
You should even call for for a UN meeting to discuss how threatening this feminism is after all that is what great men do
Keep living in a fools paradise my brother, it's is allowed

I realise that it might difficult for you to comprehend but one can do more than one thing at a point in time, or have different activities running concurrently.

Your point is difficult to understand. Are you saying feminism should be ignored because there are other ills in the society? If so, I'd say thanks for your time. You may open a thread to that effect. In this thread, we're talking about feminism not equating equality. Whether it is a negligible pursuit to advocate against it isn't relevant in this discourse.

Let me help you: a video was posted in which a young woman explains why she doesn't identify as feminist. She listed her reasons, do you think her reasons have any merit or not? There, that's a simplification.

jadelyn007:
please tell him, maybe he is speaking for the blacks in the West not these whites that I know of

Except for Great Britain, where there are some crazy cases of radical feminism stories circling in the media, feminism is not a priority topic in MOST European countries. Millions of men marry and even re-marry EVERY YEAR. Those who don't, don't marry for many different reasons other than feminism. And yet, their level of development and their economies are 100 years ahead of what you will encounter in Nigeria. And Nigeria does not seem to be catching up. Chances are extremely low they will catch up in the next 100 years.

Timbuktou:
I realise that it might difficult for you to comprehend but one can do more than one thing at a point in time, or have different activities running concurrently.

And you chose to focus on feminism when your energy is needed much more elsewhere. Why?
Because you think that men in the West suffer even though Nigerian men suffer MUCH MORE but definitely not because of feminism.

Mindfulness:
I live in the West. I have lived in several European countries. I don't need google. Life is MUCH BETTER in the West, for MEN and WOMEN!

You have conducted polls or have a means of knowing how men view their situation? . Now, you're just being funny. Therefore, I can conclude that Nigerian women are happy in their marriages because millions marry every weekend?

You know, I told 5Mins a few days ago that arriving at a logical conclusion in this section is more difficult than a camel going through the eye of a needle. S+nthe girl in the video has an opinion, different from yours but I should go with yours because you live in the west and she lives in Botswana?

Please don't quote me if you cannot back up your arguments with fact. Thank you.

Smh, i pirry your girlfriend

Truckpusher:
Lol, I have received a lot but it's because they knew that I was going to pay back the next few minutes or days and even add more than they can ever imagine.

Right now I'm about to receive some cool cash from my girlfriend to enable me go gallivant with another sweet girl.

Stop frowning your face , no be the same thing una dey do us?

Mindfulness:
And you chose to focus on feminism when your energy is needed much more elsewhere.

Now, you're talking like one of those blind men that were asked to describe an elephant.

Why?

Even if that were true, you have proven you don't deserve an explanation.

Because you think that men in the West suffer even though Nigerian men suffer MUCH MORE but definitely not because of feminism.

Ah, face palm. Seriously, I can't help with your conflation of issues. And definitely not when you're condescending in your tone.

Timbuktou:
You have conducted polls or have a means of knowing how men view their situation? . Now, you're just being funny. Therefore, I can conclude that Nigerian women are happy in their marriages because millions marry every weekend?

You know, I told 5Mins a few days ago that arriving at a logical conclusion in this section is more difficult than a camel going through the eye of a needle. S+nthe girl in the video has an opinion, different from yours but I should go with yours because you live in the west and she lives in Botswana?

Please don't quote me if you cannot back up your arguments with fact. Thank you.

No, I have not conducted a poll but I have lived in several European countries whereas you have nothing but (one-sided) google search results.
You have not even been outside Africa, not even met more than a handful of Western men, right? And yet you think that you know enough to argue about the level of satisfaction of Western men. Where is the logic in this?

When I tell you that men in Europe are MUCH MORE satisfied with life than Nigerian men, I am the more reliable source because I have lived here for a long time now. No need to take polls. Just try and travel a bit and you will see how your life sucks. Trust me, feminism is not your problem and never will be.

There are almost 750 million people who currently populate Europe, more than 350 million of them are men. You take a few isolated cases that you decided to focus on to prove your point without considering the whole picture and you think you know enough and that these cases are representative.

Timbuktou:
Now, you're talking like one of those blind men that were asked to describe an elephant.

Even if that were true, you have proven you don't deserve an explanation.

Ah, face palm. Seriously, I can't help with your conflation of issues. And definitely not when you're condescending in your tone.

Sorry if my tone came across as condescending. I didn't mean to insult you. I just think that you have a wrong picture of what life is like in the West.

I met a Nigerian family a few days ago who have been in Europe for a few months now. They have two daughters and a son. I was talking to their son about school and how he likes it and then I asked him if he misses Nigeria and would like to go there on the next holiday. You know what he said? A child! That he doesn't feel like visiting Nigeria AT ALL. And you are here telling us that men in the West are not satisfied with their life because of feminism? When even a child can see how their countries ARE MUCH BETTER than Nigeria?

Timbuktou:
I realise that it might difficult for you to comprehend but one can do more than one thing at a point in time, or have different activities running concurrently.

Your point is difficult to understand. Are you saying feminism should be ignored because there are other ills in the society? If so, I'd say thanks for your time. You may open a thread to that effect. In this thread, we're talking about feminism not equating equality. Whether it is a negligible pursuit to advocate against it isn't relevant in this discourse.

Let me help you: a video was posted in which a young woman explains why she doesn't identify as feminist. She listed her reasons, do you think her reasons have any merit or not? There, that's a simplification.

Blah blah blah

Mindfulness:
Except for Great Britain, where there are some crazy cases of radical feminism stories circling in the media, feminism is not a priority topic in MOST European countries. Millions of men marry and even re-marry EVERY YEAR. Those who don't, don't marry for many different reasons other than feminism. And yet, their level of development and their economies are 100 years ahead of what you will encounter in Nigeria. And Nigeria does not seem to be catching up. Chances are extremely low they will catch up in the next 100 years.

don't mind him joor. I saw him make a reference to how feminism is a world problem and even a problem of his cause he stated how scared he was that women far away West were breaking toilet sits. Now story has changed

jadelyn007:
don't mind him joor.

I have no problem with him. I don't even know him. I am only here to have civil discussions with people on different topics.
I don't even have a problem with his opinion, it is just an opinion and it is easy to prove that it is fallible in many ways.
If feminism was responsible for failing economies, the West would by now be much worse off than Nigeria and other African countries. But FACT is that the West is FAR BETTER developed than Africa.

Mindfulness:
And you chose to focus on feminism when your energy is needed much more elsewhere. Why?
Because you think that men in the West suffer even though Nigerian men suffer MUCH MORE but definitely not because of feminism.

imagine the number of women bashing threads on front page every day and threads created by boys giving women rules on how to treat men. How many females have they seen creating threads to give men rules?

How won't they be broke continually

It is completely false when people say femimism and it's effect have no bearing on men in this country. They are oblivious to the fact that the current wave of feminism is creating a world where men are immediately presumed culpable if not responsible for all of society's failings. The blanket sexism and stereotype it levels against men EVERYWHERE coupled with its push for special privileges for women is what many people, men and women, have against the movement.

The denigration of men (and traditional marriage structures) in the West which feminism inadvertently champions is cause for concern for men everywhere seeing as the movement and it's ideology gradually seeps into this part of the world under the guise of progressiveness.

Mindfulness:
Sorry if my tone came across as condescending. I didn't mean to insult you. I just think that you have a wrong picture of what life is like in the West.

I met a Nigerian family a few days ago who have been in Europe for a few months now. They have two daughters and a son. I was talking to their son about school and how he likes it and then I asked him if he misses Nigeria and would like to go there on the next holiday. You know what he said? A child! That he doesn't feel like visiting Nigeria AT ALL. And you are here telling us that men in the West are not satisfied with their life because of feminism? When even a child can see how their countries ARE MUCH BETTER than Nigeria?

Apology accepted. And I am telling you that western men are sick of feminism. They won't openly admit to it because of the negative implications of doing so, but you're free to read what men are posting under anonymous names The internet is literally bursting with stories and line of action of these men. There are seminars being held that cater to men, do you know of any such conventions since you live in the west? Well, since you know the thoughts of all men and don't need google, I must be reading from men in mars.

The generality of Nigerians would leave the country if given the chance, but that is not the crux of this thread. I have not said that they hate their lives as men, all they are dissatisfied with is the influence feminism has on their lives. You should read my comments again

In all these ad homenim and straw woman diversions the OP's claim in that video remains un-refuted.

Just saying.

ApexTitan:
It is completely false when people say femimism and it's effect have no bearing on men in this country. They are oblivious to the fact that the current wave of feminism is creating a world where men are immediately presumed culpable if not responsible for all of society's failings. The blanket sexism and stereotype it levels against men EVERYWHERE coupled with its push for special privileges for women is what many people, men and women, have against the movement.

The denigration of men (and traditional marriage structures) in the West which feminism inadvertently champions is cause for concern for men everywhere seeing as the movement and it's ideology gradually seeps into this part of the world under the guise of progressiveness.

Please! Stop taking the West as an example to prove how feminism has made their lives unbearable. Despite feminism, men in the West are MUCH MORE satisfied with their lives than Nigerian men. As a matter of fact, in MANY Western countries feminism is not even being discussed any longer. Men and women feel that they have reached a level of equality they are satisfied with. Men in the West do not suffer like Nigerian men. Why is that so?

Mindfulness:
1. No, I have not conducted a poll but I have lived in several European countries whereas you have nothing but (one-sided) google search results.
You have not even been outside Africa, not even met more than a handful of Western men, right? And yet you think that you know enough to argue about the level of satisfaction of Western men. Where is the logic in this?

2. When I tell you that men in Europe are MUCH MORE satisfied with life than Nigerian men, I am the more reliable source because I have lived here for a long time now. No need to take polls. Just try and travel a bit and you will see how your life sucks. Trust me, feminism is not your problem and never will be.

3. There are almost 750 million people who currently populate Europe, more than 350 million of them are men. You take a few isolated cases that you decided to focus on to prove your point without considering the whole picture and you think you know enough and that these cases are representative.

1. Perhaps you should conduct a poll then, or find out from other men on the other side. I, myself, would like to hear what these men's opinions are. By the way, do you know Mike Buchanan? I would say google him but you don't need google, let's see if you use youtube.

2. There's nobody here saying men in Europe aren't more satisfied with life. The rate of drug smuggling out of Nigeria alone can provide some insight into how desperate people are here. That's not the crux of my argument. Seriously, you need to read my comments again.

3. Oh, bloody hell.

ApexTitan:
In all these ad homenim and straw woman diversions the OP's claim in that video remains un-refuted.

Just saying.

You have to understand that for these women it's not about a logical conclusion. They must have their way whatever the consequences.

Timbuktou:
Apology accepted. And I am telling you that western men are sick of feminism. They won't openly admit to it because of the negative implications of doing so, but you're free to read what men are posting under anonymous names The internet is literally bursting with stories and line of action of these men. There are seminars being held that cater to men, do you know of any such conventions since you live in the west? Well, since you know the thoughts of all men and don't need google, I must be reading from men in mars.

The generality of Nigerians would leave the country if given the chance, but that is not the crux of this thread. I have not said that they hate their lives as men, all they are dissatisfied with is the influence feminism has on their lives. You should read my comments again

So what about the comments of women who feel treated in an unfair way? They are not there?
You focus on what you want to focus.

Bottom line is that feminism has not destroyed their countries. They are still MUCH BETTER and they will continue to be better for at least 50 years.

If you have a problem with feminism, fine but don't argue that men in the West are less satisfied with life than men in Nigeria. This is NOT true.

Timbuktou:
1. Perhaps you should conduct a poll then, or find out from other men on the other side. I, myself, would like to hear what these men's opinions are. By the way, do you know Mike Buchanan? I would say google him but you don't need google, let's see if you use youtube.

Mike Buchanan is British. Like I said, I am aware that Britain is a different story altogether. Crazy things happen there because of feminism. BUT BRITAIN IS NOT THE WEST. It is one part of it. In other parts, feminism has done many good things for women and the society as a whole and stopped where it needed to stop.

2. There's nobody here saying men in Europe aren't more satisfied with life. The rate of drug smuggling out of Nigeria alone can provide some insight into how desperate people are here. That's not the crux of my argument. Seriously, you need to read my comments again.

Ok, would you say that women in Nigeria are treated in a fair way? Would you say they get the respect EVERY HUMAN deserves?

3. Oh, bloody hell.

Please, do consider that THE WEST is not a single country.

Mindfulness:
So what about the comments of women who feel treated in an unfair way? They are not there?
You focus on what you want to focus.

Bottom line is that feminism has not destroyed their countries. They are still MUCH BETTER and they will continue to be better for at least 50 years.

If you have a problem with feminism, fine but don't argue that men in the West are less satisfied with life than men in Nigeria. This is NOT true.

This is the third and last time I'm going to say this. While men in the west are relatively satisfied with their lives, they are very unsatisfied with the nuisance that feminism has become to them.

Whether or not they remain better in fifty years will be plain in fifty years, won't it?

Mindfulness:
Please! Stop taking the West as an example to prove how feminism has made their lives unbearable. Despite feminism, men in the West are MUCH MORE satisfied with their lives than Nigerian men. As a matter of fact, in MANY Western countries feminism is not even being discussed any longer. Men and women feel that they have reached a level of equality they are satisfied with. Men in the West do not suffer like Nigerian men. Why is that so?

Feminism is no longer discussed in many Western countries? Men and women there have reached a level of equality they are satisfied with? Wow. This is news to me. I wonder why protests like slut walks are organised yearly in several cities of many of these western countries. I wonder why they still bother with Free The Nïpple parades. I also wonder why there is also a rise in the Men's Right Movements activities in the west. Those men in the manosphere nko, what are they talking about then?

Men are satisfied with their lives in the west yet the number of men who are willing to consider marriage - something which has been de-incentivised for men by feminism - is dropping annually.

Men are satisfied with their lives in the West even when they stand a higher chance of having the state take away their children and strip them (the men) of their wealth in the event that their marriages collapses?

It's funny that you presume to speak for the satisfaction of men in the West. It's also expected as has been asserted earlier that you would conflate the effects of feminism with the travails of a third world economy and fail to see that we are discussing about two completely different issues.

Try again.

Mindfulness:
Mike Buchanan is British. Like I said, I am aware that Britain is a different story altogether. Crazy things happen there because of feminism. BUT BRITAIN IS NOT THE WEST. It is one part of it. In other parts, feminism has done many good things for women and the society as a whole and stopped where it needed to stop.



Ok, would you say that women in Nigeria are treated in a fair way? Would you say they get the respect EVERY HUMAN deserves?



Please, do consider that THE WEST is not a single country.

1a. It is just the sort of madness that Buchanan advocates against that I do also. Are you suggesting I wait till it gets that bad before I raise alarm about it? I've heard about the benefits of stitching in time.

1b. Perhaps, the other countries in the west are waiting till the shiit gets to Britain levels before they react? I'd rather not be in that position if I can help it.

2. I don't understand the point and purpose of this question. Would you say Nigerian men get the respect every human deserves?

3. Oh, thanks for the geography lesson.