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To the married couples in this forum. Within the couple, who is supposed to initiate sex? And why?




Please if you are still on girlfriend, boyfriend, extra marital affairs, please don't comment.

Depends on who wants it more

Op.....get a life..
U are just bored..

bugzbunny:
Op.....get a life..
U are just bored..

I am not bored this is an issued currently going on in a seminar I am in now.
You are the one that needs to get a life

acenazt:
Depends on who wants it more

How is that measured or determined

The one who is hornier.

nnamdibig:
The one who is hornier.

Who is the one who is hornier?

Both men and women are honier though that body make up is different

Is it a job now?

free2ryhme:
I am not bored this is an issued currently going on in a seminar I am in now.
You are the one that needs to get a life

Its a useless seminar for boring peeps

Mindfulness:
Is it a job now?

Forget the language. It's was meant to stimulate discussion. Do you have anything to contribute?

Mindfulness:
Is it a job now?

Help me ask oo

bugzbunny:
Its a useless seminar for boring peeps

Point of correction the peeps in the seminar you are not worth their shoelace. Sorry to say. You can't measure up to their high standard in society and in workplace

free2ryhme:
Who is the one who is hornier?

Both men and women are honier though that body make up is different

Both of you can't feel like having sex at the same time. Anyone that feels like having it at a particular time should initiate it.

nnamdibig:
Both of you can't feel like having sex at the same time. Anyone that feels like having it at a particular time should initiate it.

Most of the women are of the opinion that the man must initiate it

free2ryhme:
Most of the women are of the opinion that the man must initiate it

It's true, but when living as hubby & wife, it doesn't matter anymore.

free2ryhme:
Most of the women are of the opinion that the man must initiate it

It's true, but when living as hubby & wife, it doesn't matter anymore.
If you are living freely with ur man, you should be able to eat his carrot whenever you feel like.

If u want ur answer. Go and watch a hen and a cock closely.

Either of them can... You just have to put the other in the mood!

free2ryhme:
Forget the language. It's was meant to stimulate discussion. Do you have anything to contribute?

Yes, the title of the thread needs a correction from who's to whose.

Question

Because of how hypocrisy has eaten up the minds of most Nigerians, especially the religious fanatics, we think that when a woman initiates sex, she must be a very loose or spoilt woman. Initiating sex is not one person's job for crying out loud. Gosh! See why I love my woman

xynerise:
Because of how hypocrisy has eaten up the minds of most Nigerians, especially the religious fanatics, we think that when a woman initiates sex, she must be a very loose or spoilt woman. Initiating sex is not one person's job for crying out loud. Gosh! See why I love my woman

Yes ooo. Pls say that again.

I trust you.

cococandy:
Yes ooo. Pls say that again.

I trust you.

Some people sef . Everything na sin. They will start telling you only missionary style is approved by God.

xynerise:
Some people sef . Everything na sin. They will start telling you only missionary style is approved by God.

Lol. Hahaha

I can't date/marry a lady who even though she's so Hot, still pretends not to, and wants me to always 'beg' for sex. Lubbis!

Dear future wife, please, I beg you in the name of the Almighty, if you ever do shakara with 'that thing' for me, you're a gonner! I don't phucking care. Please, tell me to give it to you. Don't pretend. Don't assume. Even if I'm tired, just tell me first. If I'm really tired, then I'll see how to make it up to you. Baby, sho gbo mi?

It's always so romantic when ladies do the initiating...

the person that has the maximum kongy.

JoeCutie:
I can't date/marry a lady who even though she's so Hot, still pretends not to, and wants me to always 'beg' for sex. Lubbis!

Dear future wife, please, I beg you in the name of the Almighty, if you ever do shakara with 'that thing' for me, you're a gonner! I don't phucking care. Please, tell me to give it to you. Don't pretend. Don't assume. Even if I'm tired, just tell me first. If I'm really tired, then I'll see how to make it up to you. Baby, sho gbo mi?

It's always so romantic when ladies do the initiating...

So funny!

xynerise:
Because of how hypocrisy has eaten up the minds of most Nigerians, especially the religious fanatics, we think that when a woman initiates sex, she must be a very loose or spoilt woman. Initiating sex is not one person's job for crying out loud. Gosh! See why I love my woman

I don't think it is religion; I think it is the conservative nature of our society.

A woman is supposed to be innocent on such matters. I am sure that as the society becomes more liberal, such things will be past tense.

Any idea if Calabar women feel free initiating? I know they used to teach their young women/wives the art of love making.

Cc: cococandy

bukatyne:
So funny!

So...are you a giver or a receiver?

Your profile picture is so so sexy. I'm hungry.

both sides can initiate sex, it shouldnt always be the job of the men to make the first move. We all know women are the best when it comes to luring men for sex.

JoeCutie:
I can't date/marry a lady who even though she's so Hot, still pretends not to, and wants me to always 'beg' for sex. Lubbis!

Dear future wife, please, I beg you in the name of the Almighty, if you ever do shakara with 'that thing' for me, you're a gonner! I don't phucking care. Please, tell me to give it to you. Don't pretend. Don't assume. Even if I'm tired, just tell me first. If I'm really tired, then I'll see how to make it up to you. Baby, sho gbo mi?

It's always so romantic when ladies do the initiating...

Say that aloud! you don't disappoint me! *come here*