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What Is The Most Acceptable Way To End A Relationship? by deeprof123(op): 8:45am On Oct 13, 2015

Relationships are easier to start than to end, various forms of sacrifice and commitments would surely have gone in.

But, there comes a time when the going becomes not so good, reality dawn on either of the partners that he/she would consider opting out.

Breaking up is not so easy, not everyone can really take it lightly. Sometimes it goes dirty.

But, is there a way to part without a fight?

Re: What Is The Most Acceptable Way To End A Relationship? by Tallesty1(m): 8:46am On Oct 13, 2015

Yes

Re: What Is The Most Acceptable Way To End A Relationship? by braine(m): 8:47am On Oct 13, 2015

Theres really no easy way to break up. Its even worse for the type that does not let go easily. Just tell them you're fuc'king someone else or say something that would get them pissed and leave you alone. It works.

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Re: What Is The Most Acceptable Way To End A Relationship? by vani86: 8:57am On Oct 13, 2015

just tweet it.

Re: What Is The Most Acceptable Way To End A Relationship? by djeezy(m): 9:07am On Oct 13, 2015

Yes there's a way.

Re: What Is The Most Acceptable Way To End A Relationship? by yorex2011: 9:30am On Oct 13, 2015

braine:
Theres really no easy way to break up. Its even worse for the type that does not let go easily. Just tell them you're fuc'king someone else or say something that would get them pissed and leave you alone. It works.

Childish method

Re: What Is The Most Acceptable Way To End A Relationship? by braine(m): 9:31am On Oct 13, 2015

yorex2011:
Childish method

So what is your adultish method?

Re: What Is The Most Acceptable Way To End A Relationship? by yorex2011: 9:36am On Oct 13, 2015

braine:
So what is your adultish method?

There's never a good method.. Someone must get hurt... Buh urs is just plain wicked

Re: What Is The Most Acceptable Way To End A Relationship? by braine(m): 9:38am On Oct 13, 2015

yorex2011:
There's never a good method.. Someone must get hurt... Buh urs is just plain wicked

Yes. But then, what happens when you really have to go?

Re: What Is The Most Acceptable Way To End A Relationship? by lurlah2014(f): 9:40am On Oct 13, 2015

face to face discussion

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Re: What Is The Most Acceptable Way To End A Relationship? by braine(m): 9:43am On Oct 13, 2015

lurlah2014:
face to face discussion

It always ends in one party begging and convincing trial.

Re: What Is The Most Acceptable Way To End A Relationship? by lurlah2014(f): 9:51am On Oct 13, 2015

when the love is not there i see no need to beg the other party.
well me i cant beg you when u intend quieting cos i believe relationship is not a do or die affair but a friendly interaction that can last for eternity

braine:
It always ends in one party begging and convincing trial.

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Re: What Is The Most Acceptable Way To End A Relationship? by RedCard1(m): 9:52am On Oct 13, 2015

I think the best way is with fight. Someone needs to get hurt. Without a fight, it won't be easy to let go.
Tell your partner what's on your mind.

Re: What Is The Most Acceptable Way To End A Relationship? by braine(m): 9:52am On Oct 13, 2015

lurlah2014:
when the love is not there i see no need to beg the other party.
well me i cant beg you when u intend quieting cos i believe relationship is not a do or die affair but a friendly interaction that can last for eternity

Yeah, you see it that way. But then, most ladies don't. Leaving them na die. cry

Re: What Is The Most Acceptable Way To End A Relationship? by lurlah2014(f): 9:56am On Oct 13, 2015

thats because they've underestimated their dreams and life span to the person alone

braine:
Yeah, you see it that way. But then, most ladies don't. Leaving them na die.

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Re: What Is The Most Acceptable Way To End A Relationship? by PrettyHausaGirl(f): 9:59am On Oct 13, 2015

Just update it on your facebook status and tag him tongue

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Re: What Is The Most Acceptable Way To End A Relationship? by braine(m): 9:59am On Oct 13, 2015

lurlah2014:
thats because they've underestimated their dreams and life span to the person alone

Yeahhh... You seem to know about this much. I guess you've been down that road before?

Re: What Is The Most Acceptable Way To End A Relationship? by lurlah2014(f): 10:04am On Oct 13, 2015

consciously or unconsciously i have, also i try to learn from other people who have been a victim of this which makes me realize that life goes on without a certain set of people in your life who wants to turn a barrier willingly

braine:
Yeahhh... You seem to know about this much. I guess you've been down that road before?

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Re: What Is The Most Acceptable Way To End A Relationship? by braine(m): 10:07am On Oct 13, 2015

lurlah2014:
consciously or unconsciously i have, also i try to learn from other people who have been[b] a victim [/b]of this which makes me realize that life goes on without a certain set of people in your life who wants to turn a barrier willingly

Ahan.. You make it sound like the person who wants to go is doing a bad thing to other person ("victim" wink

Re: What Is The Most Acceptable Way To End A Relationship? by lurlah2014(f): 10:18am On Oct 13, 2015

victim is the common word use in qualifying people in states like this now, maybe u have another grammar sha #sayit

braine:
Ahan.. You make it sound like the person who wants to go is doing a bad thing to other person ("victim".

Re: What Is The Most Acceptable Way To End A Relationship? by braine(m): 10:23am On Oct 13, 2015

lurlah2014:
victim is the common word use in qualifying people in states like this now, maybe u have another grammar sha #sayit

The person is more like the predator while the one who wants to go is more like the victim. lipsrsealed

Re: What Is The Most Acceptable Way To End A Relationship? by Nobody: 10:49am On Oct 13, 2015

Whatsapp msg nah... For e.g;

Babe, am sorry I was just here in this pseudo-romance to smash you as much as I want and I've gotten to my brim of it. In short, I'm so tired of you right now I feel its time for me to leave for another lucky dude to step in my place.
Don't mind all the care and affections I've showered on you , they were all mimicry. They were plainly to convince you enough to open your legs for me free of charge y'know.
Don't take me for a wicked man cos na you cause this I'm doing ooh!
You remember the first time we met at Iyaganli's cafteria on campus?
How you snubbed and later disgraced me publicly saying I'm not your type in front of my friends?
It got to a level that I became the laughing stock. I got so infuriated I had to have that bet that if I could win you over for 6months , they'd take me for a boss. Consequently, I played that fast one on you by arranging with one of my guys to track u up to the ATM that fateful Monday evening in May to rob u of your hand bag that housed your House rent.

I was like a God sent angel for your mind that night when I drove up and offered to help u home in my car an offer you couldn't reject as you don't even have nothing on u as tfare backhome, off-campus.

Mind u, it was your money I stylishly refunded weeks later after I'd successfully wooed you to my side at the boutique tongue

so, that one don settle grin

I'm sorry, just to teach u never to boo a guy in public again . Bye cos six month don land and am so done with you ...

Tbh anyway, I go miss that your toto no be small . Omo, the way you do me your cow girl thing on my graduation night 3 days ago left me salivating and wanting for more but my sister , its better we move on for I'd been deceiving you all the while cos true true, no love lost from me to you and like I said just to teach u lessons grin

. Ire o!

Re: What Is The Most Acceptable Way To End A Relationship? by Chizzled06(m): 11:00am On Oct 13, 2015

Which ever method you choose, be honest.

The reality is that at least one person will be hurt afterwards.

Re: What Is The Most Acceptable Way To End A Relationship? by lurlah2014(f): 11:33am On Oct 13, 2015

That's why he or she is a victim to those that has not experience such

braine:
The person is more like the predator while the one who wants to go is more like the victim.

Re: What Is The Most Acceptable Way To End A Relationship? by braine(m): 11:36am On Oct 13, 2015

lurlah2014:
That's why he or she is a victim to those that has not experience such

Good. Its more like you're agreeing with me now. cheesy

Re: What Is The Most Acceptable Way To End A Relationship? by Mzdivacious(f): 12:02pm On Oct 13, 2015

who cares about right or wrong...i play the im busy i cant meet up card till they get tired.or if they are tooo much into me to let go.i just let their asshole acts accumulate(its inevitable with guys.they r assholes naturally)-then i count it out to them n they wud even know theyv offended me

Re: What Is The Most Acceptable Way To End A Relationship? by braine(m): 12:05pm On Oct 13, 2015

Mzdivacious:
who cares about right or wrong...i play the im busy i cant meet up card till they get tired.or if they are tooo much into me to let go.i just let their asshole acts accumulate(its inevitable with guys.they r assholes naturally)-then i count it out to them n they wud even know theyv offended me

Re: What Is The Most Acceptable Way To End A Relationship? by Mzdivacious(f): 12:09pm On Oct 13, 2015*

braine:

runs in yall s blood grin

Re: What Is The Most Acceptable Way To End A Relationship? by braine(m): 12:11pm On Oct 13, 2015

Mzdivacious:
dont dare tell me im wrong cos even at the moment im falling for d biggest fcking asshole in d history of mankind runs in yall s blood

Ahan.. What youre saying now tells me a lot about you than the "fcking asshole." kiss

Plus, You are wrong.

Re: What Is The Most Acceptable Way To End A Relationship? by Mzdivacious(f): 12:17pm On Oct 13, 2015

braine:
Ahan.. What youre saying now tells me a lot about you than the "fcking asshole."

lol what even made me type that.who asked me question grin

okbye
guys tho

Re: What Is The Most Acceptable Way To End A Relationship? by braine(m): 12:18pm On Oct 13, 2015

Mzdivacious:
lol what even made me type that.who asked me question okbye
guys tho

Yeah yeah. You can talk to me if you want someone to talk to. I'll kuku listen. tongue

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