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ronald4lif:
All true. Whenever a lady calls one a gentleman there's a need to be worried and have a reflection of their disposition in dealing with her. Like the OP rightly pointed out a gentleman is a stooge and one they can control and manipulate to do their bidding always.

The flip side is that they detest these 'gentlemen' and find them unappealing but rather are attracted to ignoble men.

emusmith:
Guys, watch this lady! Since she is sincere enough to say this, she is a wife material... Follow her up

Cutehector:
Well in my university days I used to be a gentleman, buh nw, aint no murrafvckn lady gona tell me shitt and expect me to fall for it...


U feell me?

quiinnBee:
Lol.
Laughing Cause Its So True

profojah:
Well, I pray and hope to be a gentleman when I get to the university. ..

PS: I don get admission into Umaru Musa YarAdua University to study Social therapy and Human PsychoAnalysis. Pls wish me well. I can't wait to finish with a First Class Upper Credit.

flawlessT:
Hahahahaha,u like dis will just run within 2days

RichieF27:
Nah I don't start what I can't finish ... Would like to be your friend..possible ?

flawlessT:
Very possible

RichieF27:
Give me a call can you ?

flawlessT:
Shey ur own gentleman,na me go call abi?

RichieF27:
Hahahahaha no that's not it ..what's your digit so I can call

flawlessT:
Dnt worry,will send it to u

RichieF27:
I know you wouldn't want to let lose your number on here that was why I suggested you do the calling .. Call me 08132040483 just say it's flawless and hang up

4C2215131:
Really? Careful grasshopper, it just might be her own formula to 'mumunise' you.

RichieF27:
I know you wouldn't want to let lose your number on here that was why I suggested you do the calling .. Call me 08132040483 just say it's flawless and hang up

emusmith:
Guys dey vex

RichieF27:
LolZ

profojah:
Well, I pray and hope to be a gentleman when I get to the university. ..

PS: I don get admission into Umaru Musa YarAdua University to study Social therapy and Human PsychoAnalysis. Pls wish me well. I can't wait to finish with a First Class Upper Credit.

A gentleman, if I'm up to date, is simply a man who is gentle and not a man who is "simple" or naive. Simply put, a maga; Nah.

It's amazing and sounds unscrupulous and asinine how SOME today's 21st Century Ladies have tilted it towards their own advantage even from a guy who isn't theirs yet...

Hmm, if you don't do this or that towards satisfying her desire, then you're not a "Gentleman". How delusional!

The rhetorical question then is, "Are you a Gentleman" from our Ladies' standpoint?

The compound word "Gentleman" has been soiled and spoiled by most ladies, especially ours.

Now, from their view, as implanted into most of them, from an early age, perhaps; A gentleman is a guy who:

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1. Willingly Fall For Their "Friendzone" Trap

Have you ever been friend zoned before? It's a scalar quantity, guy. You're deluded because you think something might still happen when nothing is ever gonna happen. Why? She sees you as a Gentleman. A friend. A brother. Accepting this seat, makes you look like a Perfect Gentleman to her.


2. Lets Her Play A 'Free Rolec Concerning His Money

Haha! Her main and first definition for a Gentle man is the guy who let's her control his 'world bank'. Some will be forming what I don't understand here on NL but...I tell you, you are not a complete gentleman until you make her No. 10 of your wallet. Forget theories.


3. Stands For them to sit in a fixed situation

Whether in a bus or an eatery, stand for her to sit and in her mind, "this guy is such a gentleman". Don't think that's enough green card o. Visit No. 2 for more details.


4. Who doesn't tell them the truth

Why did Eve believe Satan, Father of lies? There is something about most ladies: they love to lied to. Tell them the truth: You're so immature, insensitive and inexperienced. Lie to them: He may be a jerk at times but he's kinda sweet and a perfect Gentleman. :p


5. Who loves the errand boy position.

This reminds me of Uni; so many errand boys. She needs to charge her phone, you put on your gen. Her assignment, it's you she falls on. And ladies like such guys! To her, he is such a Gentleman. A good guy too. Not like these rough guys, she said. It's good to just keep him as a good friend. As they said, "Keep him close under close scrutiny". You need one of such Errand Boys around.


6. Who gives and doesn't expect in return

Don't crucify me saying, "Must guys expect something in return after doing something nice?" No, I don't BUT we are not all the same. Most guys know the truly sincere girls and won't really expect. For the few rest, he sees her opening her legs for little gifts and maybe, as a 'good neighbour', he's been helping her with bigger, more expensive gifts. Hate it or like it, he maybe tempted to expect a 'return'.
Solution: If you're serious, Avoid scenarios that warrant such situations. What you don't have, you don't need. Hurry to ask a guy you're not friends with is asking him for "Two things".Taking things from a guy you barely trust or know and EXPECTING he'll be a Gentleman in return is an EXPENSIVE JOKE, plain childishness and irresponsibility on your part.



7. Swallows their suggestions hook, line and sinker.

I've met a handful of girls who get cranky when there is kinda a "heated" misunderstanding that needs logical explanation. Well, married couples argue, how much singles. She doesn't like you reasoning out her opinions FOR the reason that she's hot-tempered and lack enough reasons venturing into such deals. All you're there for is to help o. But, refusing to swallow blindly and choosing to be logical excludes your name from the list of Gentlemen. Hmm!



With all these, can you call yourself a Gentleman?
Ladies could open up who they really term a "Gentleman".

Cheers!

ronald4lif:
All true. Whenever a lady calls one a gentleman there's a need to be worried and have a reflection of their disposition in dealing with her. Like the OP rightly pointed out a gentleman is a stooge and one they can control and manipulate to do their bidding always.

The flip side is that they detest these 'gentlemen' and find them unappealing but rather are attracted to ignoble men.

Grundig:
I'm never going to forget in a hurry what tgis half Ghanaian- half Bajan girl did to me back in university. This girl toyed with my soul.

The number of times I had to pick her up from the train station at odd times of the night. . .punching the air and thanking my lucky stars only for the knuckle head to cook up some fib. And then I have to drive about 35minutes to her house to drop her off. And then same trip back home. Yours sincerely never got a kiss on the cheek for one day.

For whatever reason thhis girls' birthday happened twice every year. I never really knew how she did it but On each occassion I'd go to selfridges for her shopping andspend nothing less than £500 on flipping designer gearsm . Heck! I never even shopped for myself in bloody selfridges. Smh. . .All I got were hugs!

The list is endless. That girl dealt with me big time.

When I remember those days, i smile at my stupidity. Great lessons learnt though

4C2215131:
Good girls like Bad guys (ever wondered why the suave cultists in school always end up dating the cute chicks despite all their claims to 'hating' cultists) . It's a reality they don't understand themseles. Women love curiosity. Arouse it in her and she's yours (of course there's always the exception to to the rule).