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@all happy weekend. D rate at which this thread is moving, very hard to catch up. @Venuss ok, I may go with my doc then, that's why I've been waiting for others to give testimony @alwaystrue really liked those words and testimony. Mompurity2 & the other faint positive mama, congrats in advance. I don't know why you'll wait for a whole week, progesterone usually doubles every 48hrs if you're pregi and keeps increasing. Unless you're waiting to do scan, assuming you should be at least 5wks by then, but IMO why not do beta to confirm and see if its increasing or reducing? Cd 35 for how many days cycle? 48hrs is enough to confirm everything being equal. @Legendsmother stay away from depression, it reduces your chances. I know its not easy, but remember God gave you life, a caring dh, etc. Wouldn't he also bless your home when he pleases? I always say, do the ones you can and leave the rest for God. @Happymummy God bless you dear @rainyday dearie thanks for the mention, may God shower more blessings on your home @mumihaja you won't kill me with laughter ooh. @mamas complaining of unanswered questions, would you rather get wrong answer? It happens sometimes, just post a reminder and you may be lucky a sabi mama will see it on the reminder. Let's be our brother's keeper in helping and receiving help. @Amhappy so good reading from you. It is well. @BlessedDiva have you resumed ttc? @ginababy and havefaith222 congrats dear, have H&H 9M and beyond. @Jumayin how far? Have you done the Beta test? Pls let your doctor monitor you well. You are blessed.

semanami:
Hi

Mr Oduduwa Ajakaye is a scammer. He scammed me $630 promising to send me his herbal medicane. Do not fall for his trap. I have all the transactions carried by him and for more infortmation you can contact me.

How could u fall for a scammer that uses machine to post rubbish on Nairaland

May God deliver all my sisters from desperation. I mean the fact that he was a scammer was so damn obvious!!!!!!!

If someone can fall for ajakaiye imagine how easy it is to fall for fake doctors, fake herbalist, fake protocols. Pls before you contact anyone here offline take the pains to click on their profile, see their history, see when they joined Nairaland, see the kind of things they post about, try and decipher if they are marketers. We have all sort of people masquerading on this thread


May God grant us discerning spirits iJn

It is well

miraclebaby:
@all happy weekend. D rate at which this thread is moving, very hard to catch up. @Venuss ok, I may go with my doc then, that's why I've been waiting for others to give testimony @alwaystrue really liked those words and testimony. Mompurity2 & the other faint positive mama, congrats in advance. I don't know why you'll wait for a whole week, progesterone usually doubles every 48hrs if you're pregi and keeps increasing. Unless you're waiting to do scan, assuming you should be at least 5wks by then, but IMO why not do beta to confirm and see if its increasing or reducing? Cd 35 for how many days cycle? 48hrs is enough to confirm everything being equal. @Legendsmother stay away from depression, it reduces your chances. I know its not easy, but remember God gave you life, a caring dh, etc. Wouldn't he also bless your home when he pleases? I always say, do the ones you can and leave the rest for God. @Happymummy God bless you dear @rainyday dearie thanks for the mention, may God shower more blessings on your home @mumihaja you won't kill me with laughter ooh. @mamas complaining of unanswered questions, would you rather get wrong answer? It happens sometimes, just post a reminder and you may be lucky a sabi mama will see it on the reminder. Let's be our brother's keeper in helping and receiving help. @Amhappy so good reading from you. It is well. @BlessedDiva have you resumed ttc? @ginababy and havefaith222 congrats dear, have H&H 9M and beyond. @Jumayin how far? Have you done the Beta test? Pls let your doctor monitor you well. You are blessed.

amen,thanks for the mention

@miraclebaby @All, I did another BPT today and it was BFN. AF is yet to show up either. Dunno what to do next. Thanks for ur well wishes. We are all mothers by faith. All hope is not lost.

@legendmother, God will wipe away your tears and grant your heart desires sooner than you think in Jess name. Legend is on his way, please encourage yourself in the Lord. I'm not so good with names so forgive me if I don't mention you all. You're all in my prayers and I know God will visit us all in His time.

Thank God for the bfp announcements. May God grant all our belle full mamas a stressfree, healthy and happy 9 months.

@Alwaystrue this testimony is so touching. Thanks for sharing.

I'm so grateful to be part of this wonderful efamily. Its been a source of support to me. In spite of ttc I'm learning to count my blessings daily. I normally have cd23-25 but it's now cd29 & af hasn't showed even though it feels like it's coming but when I check there's nothing (tmi...sorry). HPT on Wednesday was negative but I'm encouraged by all the testimonies. God will grant our heart desires. Love you all!

Baby dust

Af show its ugly face yesterday's night .God when will all this depression n humiliation end? am beginning to wonder if GOD ve 4gotten me.it is well

@ habike , been offline. thanks, i will try it

stina4u:
Af show its ugly face yesterday's night .God when will all this depression n humiliation end? am beginning to wonder if GOD ve 4gotten me.it is well

Hey dear God hasn't forgoten U
Just praise God He is too faithful

@ I noticed that my milk factory secrets fluid yday night Wen I pressed it
Maybe that Was y my flow came out quite scanty
Thank God for I knw all dis wld end soon
For many are the affliction of the righteous for the Lord delivers me from them all
Mamas Wanna use the eWedu therapy for how long shld I take it before e go stop

Happy weekend to all of us

@havefaith congrats and have stress free 9 months

@stina4u pls don't be depressed God will surely wipe your tears away

@alwaystrue Amen and the testimony shiws that our God is a miracle working God

@legendmother do not give room to depression for our God will crown you soon with Bfp. Just believe and trust Him.

@mompurity I still believe that you are pregnant don't loose hope and have faith.

@all we should always trust in God no matter if we see Af or not. Even for us to be alive is a miraclem what I know is that all of us must surely testify In Jesus name Amen. Baby dust to us

stina4u:
Af show its ugly face yesterday's night .God when will all this depression n humiliation end? am beginning to wonder if GOD ve 4gotten me.it is well

God hasnt forgotten u
relax babes, we still have 2 months left in this year God will make tge bfp happen for u in Jesus name Amen

consciously refuse,reject depression its satan's strategy to keep u down

like we advice ourselves, keep praising God for what He has done because definitely he will make u joyful mothers of children

q

@stina4u and poppop, u guys almost put tears in my eyes. Ryt nw I'm short of words.
Just knw dat all of dis will b ova soon.

poppop:
Hello people, just feel like chatting. AF came some days back and I just smiled. It was a bit disappointing I guess but I didn't sweat it. I had a fibroid removed earlier this year and the doc advised to have another HSG in 3 months time. Now that's not something I'm looking forward to. My HSG was okay then. A tube was great but it seemed the other was blocked cos of the fibroid. Question: is it best to do another HSG or flushing?

Meanwhile, when I did my HSG then, hubby did his SFA. Alas when his results came, it was not so smashing. We sha focused on my fibroid cos it was long overdue, big and starting to show when I dress up. Thankfully surgery went well.

Well the belle never show since that time and I'm not ready to do another HSG. I am softly advising the hubby 2do another SFA and this time follow through by seeing (he didn't do that the first time since my surgery was imminent and focus was on me) a doctor.

It is such a battle advising him to do these things or even agreeing his result was not great and could be better. Anytime I advise, its like a dark cloud has seeped into my home. I swear I hate this stage in my life...

hello sis, you are welcome may your heart desire be met soonest, concerning your dh issue you need apply wisdom, no man would easily agreed that he is the reason for the delay in child bearing, it's a blow to their ego.
If you are a Christian and believe in the power of prayer you can go on 3days fasting and prayer tender the matter before God, I can guarantee you that when next you raise the issue he will agree with you willingly.

MyPeace:
hahaha l heard it too plus using your legs to ride bicycle to fasten the swimming process   May God hear our prayers.   l am in my 2weeks wait.  Wishing myself plenty Baby Dust and u too

i love you post and will want you to contact for more info.

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poppop:
So you can imagine the shock from his end too once his result came out. The worse thing was when we showed the result to my
Gynecologist, he gave it a quick glance and said "this is fine. Madam, let's deal with this fibroid issue first, that is the most important thing for now"

That statement by that doc led hubby to say the result is okay and he won't take vitamins or tigernut drink. I was crushed cos that doc's statement set me back 10 steps. Before we showed doc that result, we both had doubts about it. I've researched extensively online and I knew his result could be better. Is it fair I subject myself to another painful HSG when hubby can do something first?

Anyway, I have heard you. I will take this up with prayers and fast. I know things will change, just needed somewhere to vent but I feel better now. Thank you...

Bleep

poppop:
God bless you for this. My dear, I know how such issues can be for a man so I am very careful when it comes up. All the while, it seemed the delay was mine and mine alone. I accepted this and kept praying to God for strength to have the boldness to do the myomectomy.

So you can imagine the shock from his end too once his result came out. The worse thing was when we showed the result to my
Gynecologist, he gave it a quick glance and said "this is fine. Madam, let's deal with this fibroid issue first, that is the most important thing for now"

That statement by that doc led hubby to say the result is okay and he won't take vitamins or tigernut drink. I was crushed cos that doc's statement set me back 10 steps. Before we showed doc that result, we both had doubts about it. I've researched extensively online and I knew his result could be better. Is it fair I subject myself to another painful HSG when hubby can do something first?

Anyway, I have heard you. I will take this up with prayers and fast. I know things will change, just needed somewhere to vent but I feel better now. Thank you...

Honestly I understand u,cos it's same as my hubby too, but I will have to subject myself to hsg too, but I have finally made him do a second test o,so that once I go in for the hsg,he will be talking to a doctor too, he says am embarrassing him by telling him to go for sperm analysis, but its not me,its nature and the doctor, anyway this will be our last hsg ijn
U know, at a point in our marriage it really seems am the only default of us not getting pregnant, but when his first test showed 4million counts,while we have read that anything short of 20million is low,that was when he calmed down, am really looking forward to this recent result.

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Alwaystrue:
I saw this testimony and thought to share an extract of it to let us know faith is substance of what we have hoped for...it is walking in the reality of the desire and not just seeing the desire as an occurence at some future time:


 I got married in 2012 and had been trusting God for the fruit of the womb. Then my menstrual periods became irregular. Sometimes, it will show up once in 6 months. I was advised to run fertility tests by my gynecologist and to my amazement, the results were terrible. I was diagnosed of blocked fallopian tube, PCOS(ovarian cysts) and annovulation( meaning I was not ovulating). I was so depressed and I wondered how on earth I would conceive without menstruating not to talk of ovulating. So we commenced treatment and I had to use many drugs, we spent so much yet there were no changes, infact the monthly periods stopped totally.

We moved from hospital to hospital and from pillar to post.One fateful day in church (Daystar Christian Centre), I came across an invite to baby showers by Joyful mothers and fathers forum.My attendance at the program marked a turning point in my life. I discovered that the forum was for couples that were trusting God for the fruit of the womb and couples that were already pregnant who were trusting God for safe carriage and delivery. That day was awesome. I heard so many testimonies and I realized I wasn't alone. I learnt meetings were held every saturday so I made up my mind to start attending.The very 1st saturday I attended, I was presented a book titled God's waiting room written by Yewande Zaccheus. Then a spirit filled teacher revealed so many scriptures to us concerning what God had said about conception and I was extremely blessed that day. That book took my breath away, I devoured it in a day as soon as I read the first page.

The teachings at the meetings every week and that book multiplied my faith. I went to the bookshop and realized the book even had other parts so I bought more copies and sowed them into the lives of other waiting couples.My husband and I kept on attending JMJF forum in church and usually got inspired through the uncountable testimonies that were shared and the teachings and our faith was strengthened by them all.

At the end of that year, we still had not conceived and my younger sister had her baby. Pressure started mounting from all sides but I won't stop thanking God for the encouragements he brought our way and for not letting us fall into depression. Our thinking had changed and our faith had been renewed. So many scriptures kept me going when I felt low especially Gen 1:28 and Ps 128:3. I and my hubby used to feel bad before whenever we heard someone had conceived or had a baby and we would avoid the naming ceremonies so that I would not start crying as usual. I can't begin to say all the trauma, insults and embarrassments I experienced from various people just because I wasn't yet pregnant.

In 2014,We kept on attending JMJF, observed the fasts, and in faith, we obeyed the instructions to buy our baby things, we put our baby's bed permanently on our bed and I remember friends used to giggle at the sight of our empty baby's bed when they had the chance to enter our room. They wondered what had come over us.We prepared a list of our baby's name and put it on the bed,someone once gave us money for our kids so we put the money in the bed too. We had a prayer meeting at the forum and an instruction was given to us all that we should not doubt God by trying to help God and that we should put our total trust in him. So we keyed in and started declaring that we want all the glory to be to God when our prayers get answered. We didn't want any doctor or drug to share God's glory. Why would we have to pay for what God gives free of charge?

2014 was our year of enlargement and we had many testimonies of people conceiving and having their children at the forum. We intensified our faith and joined service units in church because we knew that if we worked for God, he would reward us. We read our pregnancy confessions every morning before leaving the house and we wore customized shirts with our baby's names. In my service unit, we use code names rather than real names and I chose fruity as my name so that I will be called by what God called me. God had called me fruitful and not barren. So people called me fruity though they didn't know why and I used to say amen on the inside. On bbm, I changed my name to a long list of my baby names and people wondered why. Our mindset had changed. We attended many baby namings and rejoiced with all we heard had babies and gave them gifts.

As it is written in God's word that we should give thanks in all things, we started thanking God over our situation and stopped complaining and we rejoiced with those rejoicing. We refused to focus on what we didn't have but on all what God had given us. We started attending service at the church annex where couples with babies sat even though we did not have any physical baby. I used to take communion twice there, one for me and for my baby in faith.Over time, people said all sorts, some advised us to go to prayer warrior churches because they felt our church prayers were not spiritual enough. Some gave us addresses of some so-called excellent hospitals, some people even suggested spiritualists and traditional midwives. Others advised different types of herbs but we stood on God's word that promised us conception and the fact that we would not help God.

When it was Dec 31st, I was a bit discouraged that my prayer did not look like it had been answered because I had made a pledge to God which I promised to redeem if I could conceive in 2014. But then, I still glorified God and danced like never before at the watchnight service because I still had my life. Meanwhile, the last time I went for a pregnancy test was in April 2014 and it came out negative. When we got home that day, I took my biro, cancelled the negative result and wrote positive. I remember my husband smiled and said Amen o and he prayed that the next test I would do would be positive so he stapled that result to the wall in our room. I made up my mind not to go to the hospital again till it will be time for antenatal in faith so I substituted hospital visitations with JMJF meetings and substituted drugs with holy communion. Pastor Kenny declared in church one day that the money we were supposed to spend in the hospital will be used to buy clothes and to enjoy ourselves and I keyed in. I drained my account and went to shop for more baby things, then I went to family first bookshop in church and bought many pregnancy books based on healing by faith.I kept on sowing, I gave out more copies of God's waiting room book and September baby shower JMJF DVDs.

In 2015, our year of promotion, on the 24th of January, on our way to JMJF meeting, I had to attend to some issues so my husband got there before me. On my way back, I called him to find out which class he was in and he said he was in expectant class( for those yet to get pregnant) and I replied him that we were pregnant already in faith and pleaded with him to move to pregnancy class. The meeting had ended by the time I got there so I just knelt in the pregnancy class and prayed to God to put me there in this year 2015.

On the 26th of January which was a Monday, I felt so sick and my hubby suggested anti malaria drugs but I just insisted on paracetamol . When there were no changes he dragged me to the hospital and everything happened in a flash, I was confirmed pregnant in the same hospital that had told me it would not be possible if I did not undergo treatment. Me that I had no menses,i did a scan and did another test to confirm and all came back positive. Joy overflowed in our hearts and tears of joy filled my eyes. At last! God had answered our prayers. My husband then took that result and placed it beside the one that had been on the wall in 2014 and we realized that it was exactly the same 26th, 9 months ago that I cancelled that negative result with my pen.

Truly, God is awesome because the scan revealed that I conceived in 2014 so God answered my prayers afterall in our year of enlargement and I went to redeem my pledge. My pregnancy journey was wonderful and God blessed me with extra ordinary strength. I didn't experience most of the negative predictions by experienced mothers, infact I was glowing. God was faithful till the end and he blessed us with a bouncing baby boy in September 2015. God truly makes everything beautiful in his time because in this same 2015, he bIessed us all round and opened greater doors to us miraculously.I thank God for giving me a very wonderful and supportive husband who never made life miserable for me because I couldn't conceive on time.


...Don't compare yourself with others, we all have our individual races to run. At the end, only God will do what only he can do. He is the one that can do all things. He makes a way where there seems to be no way and he honors our faith.Part of the pledge I made to God if he answered my prayer was to proclaim his goodness far and wide and to testify to his faithfulness which is what I am doing. Please don't hesitate to help me spread this message to encourage a soul. There is a beautiful future for all those who put their total trust in God. Don't let that negative report depress you. It is what God says that is final not what that negative situation says. God still answers prayers so don't give up. Just believe! I and my husband did a lot of fasting and praying and God did not let all be in vain. We even prayed for our son all the time when we had not yet conceived.


What would we have done if nothing happened after everything? Many people have been trusting God for one thing or the other for decades and they are still waiting. God will have compassion on who he will have compassion on. It has not been by our power or might. Please praise the Lord on our behalf for his faithfulness. I pray that whatever it is you are trusting God for will be given unto you. God will honor your faith and you will not wait in vain. You will have a reason to testify in Jesus name. Please join me in praising the Lord of Hosts! The God that changed my name, the Father that took away my reproach, the one that disgraced my negative medical report by giving me a wonderful son without any man's intervention, Awimayehun, Alagbada ina, Asoromatase, the King of kings, Lion of Judah, Rose of Sharon, Balm in Gilead. Oba awon Oba, Oyigiyigi Glory! Halleluyah. God that turn impossibility to possibility, may ur name be praise!

Fruitful mama, thanks for sharing this deep testimony, as u keep watering this thread with words that gives glory to God, may God Almighty make u keep ur home and be a joyful mother of children. ((((hugs))))

ginababy:
@stina4u and poppop, u guys almost put tears in my eyes. Ryt nw I'm short of words.
Just knw dat all of dis will b ova soon.

Amen and Amen

stina4u:
Af show its ugly face yesterday's night .God when will all this depression n humiliation end? am beginning to wonder if GOD ve 4gotten me.it is well

My fruitful sis, cheer up and begin to thank God for the gift of life n gud health. God has nt forgotten u and he will never forget you. That depression comes from d pit of hell so u nid to send it back to where it is comin from by prayers n thanksgiving. Pls change all negative confessions u'v made in d past to positive ones.......... God loves n adores u, He jst want to give u d best.... smile sis

Hello sabi mamas, just joined dis forum days ago,AF suppose show 2mao but I Av been feeling dis metallic taste in my mouth for a week now,so I decided to test 5am 2day and it cme bk to be a very faint BFP....going for blood test on Monday. I just hope dis is my BFP true true.av been imagining tins since morning. May God answer us all.

@brownsmoothie congratulations. I told you you will end up having the shortest stay.

Dazzle86 tanx so much, I claim it in jesus name...and ur BFP too soonest ijn

Nice !!!!!! @ Brownsmoothie, Congratulations jare ..... Whether na faint line abi na bold one, BFP na im e be ooooo.
Am so happy for you.

Brownsmoothie:
Hello sabi mamas, just joined dis forum days ago,AF suppose show 2mao but I Av been feeling dis metallic taste in my mouth for a week now,so I decided to test 5am 2day and it cme bk to be a very faint BFP....going for blood test on Monday. I just hope dis is my BFP true true.av been imagining tins since morning. May God answer us all.

Wow!!! Congrats sis d only thing u r permitted to imagine is ur healthy baby(ies) growin in ur womb and u bringing forth with Joy . What the Lord has done shall remain permanent in ur home.. enjoy ur pregnancy fruitful sis.

I am nxt in line for a BFP in JESUS name, AMEN!!!!

Hmmm! Brownsmoothie that's obviously a bfp. Congrat dear.

@Brownslothie another Bfp congratulation you shall carry to term. Whether faint Bfp, Bfp na Bfp. I am so happy for you.

@all hmm our God is showing us His mercies with lots of Bfp this october. I am nextooo to collect my own Bfp in Jesus name Amen

enoqueen:
Pls is eating ginger and garlic safe during pregnancy Answer pls

I did not in any way in the post say they are good for preggers o. I post for ttc cos that is where l posted it.

I have cut down on ginger and garlic since I took in. I haven't even used scent leaf since I conceived.

When I post here I post for ttc not preggers o.

Preggers can still come here to post referring or laying emphasis on what they used which helped them during their trying times but not necessarily what they presently use.

I hope I can still be posting here without a misconception of my post sha o.

Hello mamas, I have large intramural fibroids and I don't want to have a myomectomy. Please any suggestions on what I can do? Thank you all

Jubrilla:
Hello mamas, I have large intramural fibroids and I don't want to have a myomectomy. Please any suggestions on what I can do? Thank you all

What is the exact size? You can try the castor oil therapy

@Jubrilla mama the only sure and fast way to get rid of fibroids especially large ones fast is myomectomy. I am yet to see a sure herbal treatment. so many claim to shrink fibroids. even if they do I don't think they work on large broids. I suggest you do your homework, find a good consulant obgyn,one with experience, who does myomectomy often,commit it to God and you will be fine.

I am currently 6weeks post myo,I had, intramural, submucosal and subserosal broids. can't wait to start TTC. the sooner you do it and get it out of the way the better. Else you end up spending a lot on herbs and wasting precious time.