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I met this girl last year November and we have been dating am in late 20's and she in her mid 20's... Am a kinda of guy that hardly calls, it just my person. While we were dating I try calling/communicating in order not to lose her.

We had sex, in fact I abstain from other girls even when they were hitting on me. I loved her but didn't show it just to know if she was really for me.. I planned on getting an apartment where we both move in together which I discussed with her.

Guess what? She called me yesterday to inform me she would be getting married next month......
I have been devastated.......

Cc: lalacastical

[b][/b]"I planned on getting an apartment where we both move in together which I discussed with her"

Move together to the apartment as married or Couple or Jst for the sexual satisfaction?


Why do people reason like this!!!


STENON is typing...

It is call Nothing Putting all Egg in one Basket
That is why it is advisable to have
Enough Back_up
If She fvcks-up
U Relagate her ..Upgrade the next chick
That is why it is hard for ladies to come up with such Thread kus Bfss yapa
Imagine you got them in excess..
U no go even think am too much
Don't dull Bro..
All is Well

Wow....datz heartless.sorry op

STENON:
[b][/b]"I planned on getting an apartment where we both move in together which I discussed with her"

Move together to the apartment as married or Couple or Jst for the sexual satisfaction?


Why do people reason like this!!!


STENON is typing...

Did you read it properly? We both planned on moving in together and start planning from there. Why are you so scared of sex?

Sunnypar:
Did you read it properly? We both planned on moving in together and start planning from there. Why are you so scared of sex?

Try to read through my post and comprehend it very well. The statement made above is totally out my post, but Why can'nt you follow the normal procedure before planning to live together?


I love that Girl for the action taken by her.

and so?
dem ditch you
move on!!!!!!!

op take that shitt easy bro that's women for you, if it was a guy that did it to a girl now these nl roaches will start waving their antennas everywhere, cursing the guy and stuff but now that it's a guy just watch their reactions.

STENON:
[b][/b]"I planned on getting an apartment where we both move in together which I discussed with her"

Move together to the apartment as married or Couple or Jst for the sexual satisfaction?


Why do people reason like this!!!


STENON is typing...

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Girls and their half brain, is that what to be discussed?

just move on jare.....get rich but don't be wicked

Hmmmm had sex and she moved to meet an innocent broda. What a girl

Hehehehe.... I cant laff alone o

I'm in full support of the girl.

I loved her but didn't show it just to know if she was really for me

You did not show her that you loved her so maybe she was hanging with the guy that showed her the love

Even if you showed her love, I'm still in full support. She should invite me to the wedding

STENON:
I love that Girl for the action taken by her.

Nor mind the guy jawe. He wants to eat his cake and have it and in the process, He the hunter became the hunted.

ehyaaaa

STENON:
Try to read through my post and comprehend it very well. The statement made above is totally out my post, but Why can'nt you follow the normal procedure before planning to live together?


I love that Girl for the action taken by her.

how u no go like her? Afori



E go soon jam you too

You were just a second option to her. Move on with life, erase all heart-broken thoughts from your mind. Don't let a few bad memories stop you from living a good life. Life is too short to weep over a guy/lady.



Btw, someone up there needs a brain transplant.

kagari:
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Girls and their half brain, is that what to be discussed?

Stenon is on point. Why should you plan to move in before marriage? Things should be done in dignity!

Sorry, Op. I understand how you feel. So, I advise you give yourself sometime to make your decision. Make the decision based on your self conviction and not because someone compelled you to. That way, it is easier to accept the outcome.

take heart Yet no one answer the op's question.

Sunnypar:
I met this girl last year November and we have been dating am in late 20's and she in her mid 20's... Am a kinda of guy that hardly calls, it just my person. While we were dating I try calling/communicating in order not to lose her.

We had sex, in fact I abstain from other girls even when they were hitting on me. I loved her but didn't show it just to know if she was really for me.. I planned on getting an apartment where we both move in together which I discussed with her.

Guess what? She called me yesterday to inform me she would be getting married next month......
I have been devastated.......

Cc: lalacastical

Oga Ade if i was that girl i would have dumped your as$ tey tey..who does the bolded,you dnt call,you dnt communicate with her,is she a log of wood...those are things you will do when you marry her so to avoid stories that touch d heart the babe smartup,so mr man.....GERARAHIA JOR

lol, some niggas tho...were u married tu her dat u wantd movin in with her, or rather movin in wit her pucee to bang fr a living..swerve pls

xtervaganza:
how u no go like her? Afori



E go soon jam you too

*Mumu*, Your sisters and Daughters will move into an apartment with their Boyfriends before marriage, Say amen to that Prayer.

Sunnypar:
I met this girl last year November and we have been dating am in late 20's and she in her mid 20's... Am a kinda of guy that hardly calls, it just my person. While we were dating I try calling/communicating in order not to lose her.

We had sex, in fact I abstain from other girls even when they were hitting on me. I loved her but didn't show it just to know if she was really for me.. I planned on getting an apartment where we both move in together which I discussed with her.

Guess what? She called me yesterday to inform me she would be getting married next month......
I have been devastated.......

Cc: lalacastical

Hehehehe....thank ur God ooo
At least u r not get married to an unfaithful b*t*h ko?
GIRLS PLENTY JORR...MAKE SHE MARRY WE GO COME D RECEPTION

kagari:
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Girls and their half brain, is that what to be discussed?

Some Boys with their empty skulls, Abeg, Park well and pray to get that half brain for thinking.

STENON:
*Mumu*, Your sisters and Daughters will move into an apartment with their Boyfriends before marriage, Say amen to that Prayer.

what is wrong with this one? What has my comment got to do with my sisters and daughters?



If I place curse wey go affect your unborn pikin now dem go say we Ijebu people wicked




And btw my sisters are happily married

xtervaganza:
what is wrong with this one? What has my comment got to do with my sisters and daughters?
If I place curse wey go affect your unborn pikin now dem go say we Ijebu people wicked
And btw my sisters are happily married

xtervaganza:
how u no go like her? Afori



E go soon jam you too

Read your comment again.


My conclusion is jst that you should Stop wishing other Ladies, what you don't wish for your daughters and sisters.

lgboks:

wow
The kind of response I see here surprise me.
For the ladies who blames the op just cus he says he didn't show how he cares,heres my thought concerning the way you think-
I onced listened to an audio message, I think by pastor bimbo (forgotten her name)
She talked about defining a relationship.
Now for those ladies, there's nothing wrong with asking a guy what plans he has for your relationship (especially if you guys do have sex,hang out together and do other close and intimate stuffs) it's called defining the relationship and it goes to show how your level of thinking and maturity his.
If it was the op that left the girl now and got married to another girl, a good majority of this ladies would come raining abusive words.
Let's be realistic what she did wasn't wrong (the op admitted his short comings in his post,he harldy calls. There's nothing wrong if the girl cover his short comings with her own strengths or since the op was skeptical about how she felt towards him and was hiding his feelings just to see if she really cared or was the right one for him(obviously because he was scared of being hurt etc-of which d babe don do now) why did she not try to show how much she care for him (abi na only guys go convince una)
Let's face it
I think she has some1 else before or was only using the op just for what she could get from him cus when another option come,she take am.
Most girls do this always
Na only when men do am we take be bad ppl
Smmmmmmmmm
@Mhizkel wow you said my mind
Never thought reasonable girls like you still exist here
Make I stop now....before I start dey crush on nairaland girl

To be honest, those ladies above aren't sincere. One should think deeply before making any comment.

STENON:
Read your comment again.


My conclusion is jst that you should Stop wishing other Ladies, what you don't wish for your daughters and sisters.

how about you highlight where I mentioned anything relating to your family?



I doubt you'll have the spine to talk crap about my family right in from of me



Thank Internet

I hardly comments on post like this, but let me drop a few hints.
Sunnypar, you were wrong for not defining the relationship from the onset. We have had ladies move in with their guys and at the end of the day, they get their hearts broken.
So, the young lady was trying to be on a safe side, yes you have been hurt in the past or trying to be safe, let me bring you up to speed, most Nigerian girls have options/ alternatives except the desperate ones. Your shortcomings were your inability to communicate but I exepect the girl to reciprocate but not my niaja girls* "they" flash, you call*, although there are exception but very rare.


The truth is bitter but I will tell you, you are a PLAYER!!! yes, you are, because if not you would have allowed your family members to meet and interact with her and vice versa so that if anything happens they know who to hold responsible, thereby allowing her unfettered access to your house and property.
Sunny boy, No one is perfect we make mistakes. Learn from it.
I'll suggest you attend the wedding.

Advise to contributors: Please desist from name calling or insult it just show how immature you reason.