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Please Help They Dont Seem To Love Me by Itzjoy(op): 2:52pm On Oct 20, 2015

I'm I Really WEIRD?........

I don't seem to understand myself any longer or is it d people around me I don't understand? They feel like I'm asking for too much buh all I want is love and care. Even my family treats me just as a stranger but all I want is a little more TRUST, a little more LOVE............ Please help a friend

Re: Please Help They Dont Seem To Love Me by Paulpaulpaul(m): 3:04pm On Oct 20, 2015

If you want an angel, create a heaven. Give them the enabling ground to love n care. Don't present yourself to be needy, everybody craves for it.

In essence, go OUT of your ways to care for them and be surprise at what you get in return.

The golden rule: Do unto others....

Re: Please Help They Dont Seem To Love Me by trapQ: 3:21pm On Oct 20, 2015

okay... I love you, and I trust you too. do you feel better now??

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Re: Please Help They Dont Seem To Love Me by Itzjoy(op): 3:45pm On Oct 20, 2015

Paulpaulpaul:
If you want an angel, create a heaven. Give them the enabling ground to love n care. Don't present yourself to be needy, everybody craves for it.

In essence, go OUT of your ways to care for them and be surprise at what you get in return.

The golden rule: Do unto others....

Hmmm....every little way I have I care for dem, show dem how much dey mean to me but dey don't seem to appreciate it

Re: Please Help They Dont Seem To Love Me by Itzjoy(op): 3:47pm On Oct 20, 2015

trapQ:
okay... I love you, and I trust you too.
do you feel better now??

Re: Please Help They Dont Seem To Love Me by Paulpaulpaul(m): 4:40pm On Oct 20, 2015

Itzjoy:
Hmmm....every little way I have I care for dem, show dem how much dey mean to me but dey don't seem to appreciate it

Do more, more and more. You never can tell what they are passing through and hiding it to make you happy. Someone very close to me was had breast cancer and was hiding it just to make me feel she is and will always be there.

I'm still battling with myself for being so mean all the while.

In another way, Can I send you a pm?

Re: Please Help They Dont Seem To Love Me by Itzjoy(op): 4:47pm On Oct 20, 2015

Paulpaulpaul:
Do more, more and more. You never can tell what they are passing through and hiding it to make you happy. Someone very close to me was had breast cancer and was hiding it just to make me feel she is and will always be there.

I'm still battling with myself for being so mean all the while.

In another way, Can I send you a pm?

Oh I'm speechless........ yeah, sure

Re: Please Help They Dont Seem To Love Me by mcdokwe(m): 7:23pm On Oct 21, 2015

Itzjoy:
I'm I Really WEIRD?........

I don't seem to understand myself any longer or is it d people around me I don't understand? They feel like I'm asking for too much buh all I want is love and care. Even my family treats me just as a stranger but all I want is a little more TRUST, a little more LOVE............ Please help a friend

People like you give very little but want so much back. how much have you shown those other people that you love them in practical terms and they didn't reciprocate?

Re: Please Help They Dont Seem To Love Me by dsquare33: 7:41pm On Oct 21, 2015

Itzjoy:
I'm I Really WEIRD?........

I don't seem to understand myself any longer or is it d people around me I don't understand? They feel like I'm asking for too much buh all I want is love and care. Even my family treats me just as a stranger but all I want is a little more TRUST, a little more LOVE............ Please help a friend

Don't ever think that anybody hates you,the first thing is to love yourself.There is also the need to check yourself,are you doing things that makes people maltreat you,remember you have to do unto others what you want them to do you.

Re: Please Help They Dont Seem To Love Me by Captainswag225(m): 8:44pm On Oct 21, 2015

Itzjoy:
I'm I Really WEIRD?........

I don't seem to understand myself any longer or is it d people around me I don't understand? They feel like I'm asking for too much buh all I want is love and care. Even my family treats me just as a stranger but all I want is a little more TRUST, a little more LOVE............ Please help a friend

so how is your family treating u

Re: Please Help They Dont Seem To Love Me by socrateez(m): 9:55pm On Oct 21, 2015

You sound like a teenager to me because that's the period of life where there's both internal and external turmoil; You don't understand yourself and no one understands you. You crave for love and acceptance but your family just complains about everything you do. That's because they don't know how to relate with a teenager.

I advise you to get a teenage worker of the same sex with you, someone who understands teenage idiosyncrasies. such a person will help you to handle yourself. grin

Re: Please Help They Dont Seem To Love Me by Nobody: 10:19pm On Oct 21, 2015

Picshure of people treating u like a stranger or adonbelivit

Re: Please Help They Dont Seem To Love Me by Itzjoy(op): 10:28pm On Oct 21, 2015

socrateez:
You sound like a teenager to me because that's the period of life where there's both internal and external turmoil; You don't understand yourself and no one understands you. You crave for love and acceptance but your family just complains about everything you do. That's because they don't know how to relate with a teenager.

I advise you to get a teenage worker of the same sex with you, someone who understands teenage idiosyncrasies. such a person will help you to handle yourself.

Hmmm

socrateez:
You sound like a teenager to me because that's the period of life where there's both internal and external turmoil; You don't understand yourself and no one understands you. You crave for love and acceptance but your family just complains about everything you do. That's because they don't know how to relate with a teenager.

I advise you to get a teenage worker of the same sex with you, someone who understands teenage idiosyncrasies. such a person will help you to handle yourself.

Hmmm

Re: Please Help They Dont Seem To Love Me by chigoizie7(m): 9:07am On Oct 22, 2015

Itzjoy:
I'm I Really WEIRD?........

I don't seem to understand myself any longer or is it d people around me I don't understand? They feel like I'm asking for too much buh all I want is love and care. Even my family treats me just as a stranger but all I want is a little more TRUST, a little more LOVE............ Please help a friend

Well, since ur family is involved, then u need to ask yourself some questions. Maybe,u expect too much from people but u give little or nothing to people. If u are selfless and generally good, u really wouldn't ask to be loved even by your own family. Bottom line? U re simply weird and u know it.

Fix yourself.

Re: Please Help They Dont Seem To Love Me by chigoizie7(m): 9:12am On Oct 22, 2015

Itzjoy:
Hmmm....every little way I have I care for dem, show dem how much dey mean to me but dey don't seem to appreciate it

"Every little way" ? Have u ever tried to see if they are trying to care or love u in their own little way? Like I said earlier, u give little or nothing but expect much more from people. It can never work like that.

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