rainyday:
Olosho...u still dey talk!!! Ur parents just wasted their money sending u to higher institution, u for go learn saloon work. Block head. U never jam, quote me again. Na ur type no dey fit talk for husband house. Karuwa

trapQ:
You should have said this long ago, other than trailing someone who was probably right. Why did you have to wait so long to be "frank"?

daretodiffer:


And married women lust insatiably over and men still ask them out...go figure

You are stuck in 12th century. I like reasonable men unfortunately you are not.

You like people who share the same view as you ..... Don't we all

daretodiffer:


I am a little disappointed in you for failing to read through the thread.

babygirlfl:
I have no problem with women who decide to stay with a cheating husband. It's her choice. What I have a problem with is when people try to make women feel that they all have to stay with a cheating man. When people make such women an example for all women to follow. Also it is very annoying the way everybody thinks they are in the position to give married women advice. Men quit advising women and start advising yourselves. Start telling your fellow men to save their marriage by not cheating or better still, give them manual on how to act maturely and keep a cheating wife.

daretodiffer:


How did she curb it?

She didn't say anything yet you went ahead to marry her. Did you ask yourself/her why she didn't say anything? It does not follow neither does it make any sense to conclude that she curbed it by not saying anything.

Her decision not to do or say anything did not stop you. Iyou stopped because you knew better. You are a logical and reasonable man.

daretodiffer:


I find the title and your post really insulting to women. You used the words 'mature and learn'. Do you assume that we are stupid or what? I do not understand what you are trying to achieve?

Did you try asking your aunty if she had any toasters and admirers after marriage? Ask her what stopped her? She is going to tell that she did and it was respect for her husband and their marriage that stopped her. But her husband does not the same respect for her and their marriage yet you will come tomorrow and insult a woman who cheats on her husband. Some men think that it is their birthright to cheat and he does not need to have respect for women. He goes ahead to do so and the world expects the woman to maturely deal with him. Yet you won't stop calling us petty or gold-diggers or less intelligent beings, How can you expect a specie with all that characteristics to be wiser and more mature than you are?


Why should women be wiser and more matured than man? I thought you were supposed to be the leader and the smarter one . Don't you think that the lack of those qualities make it unfit to be in a relationship not to mention lead a family?

The happy ending your uncle told you about rarely happen. You need to be mature to be able to learn that it is just a case out of many.


Moral of my rant:
Don't dish what you can take.
Respect is reciprocal
Every action has its unforeseen consequences

These apply to males and females. Treat people, most especially your partner the way you want to be treated. If they don't mind you treating them like garbage then good for you.

If you were in my location. We would go to Jevenik and eat 1big plate of afang soup and pounded yam!

Pheeewww. Who dey supple your weed? I need ten wraps abeg...
Imagine that one talking 'bout state of emergency, no be only state of emergency_ na hurricane Katrina.

I agree that humans err, but when a man advertently becomes a serial cheat and expects the wife to put up with it. Then something is wrong somewhere. In those 3mths she kept quiet, he could have easily shared some STDs with her.

Crystalclara:







I tink ur FOOL here... sori I no ur d FOOL

Omotayor123:

Aminat508 come and read this!

shaboti:
God punish you where ever you are. Keep your stùpid advice to your sisters and daughters only.

GOAT

rexkexmilan:
You like people who share the same view as you ..... Don't we all

daretodiffer:


You are a witch

Kazrem:

I still stylishly did it after our wedding but the day she mentioned it was the day I finally signed out from the shameful act. She is enough for me.

Aminat508 before my second and only Omotayo will call your attention please come and read yourself.

Kachisbarbie:


If you were in my location. We would go to Jevenik and eat 1big plate of afang soup and pounded yam!

Pheeewww. Who dey supple your weed? I need ten wraps abeg...
Imagine that one talking 'bout state of emergency, no be only state of emergency_ na hurricane Katrina.

I agree that humans err, but when a man advertently becomes a serial cheat and expects the wife to put up with it. Then something is wrong somewhere. In those 3mths she kept quiet, he could have easily shared some STDs with her.

DorisK:
Mature? taaaah I hear! There are various ways but keeping quiet and CALMLY pleading wit him later is not one of dem. Like u don't know men

CoCoLav:


I know
I get that all the time

Kazrem:
she knew already. Lolzz. She's even her namesake.

lezz:
I do not advocate cheating in marriage from either partners.

But when it does happen , if it ever does, it serves no purpose running for the exit door. What's the point?

The balance of a home is always in the hands of the woman as is the power to rail her straying husband in.


And yes, women should be meek, it is their only undisputed strength.


90 % of women are guilty of emotional affairs as men are guilty of physical affairs.

Are we advocating mass divorce ?

Coolabbie:
sorry I don't exchange words with newbies. Especially those that can hardly spell.
Look for those who also registered this year and try your luck.

Omotayor123:

I see!

Kazrem:
Hope you saw her pix?

daretodiffer:


No I don't

I like people who use their brain

Pheeeww !!!

Good to know.

daretodiffer:


I didn't know she was dead. Learn to look at the cause instead of misquoting somebody

He uses his aunt as a case study. If you are a student or better still a lawyer, you should know that you attacking/assassinating the evidence yo win the argument. In this case it was his aunt.

Don't quote me again please, if you are biased.

I like objective minds

daretodiffer:


Lol

Interesting signature by the way

Have you started your programme?

jhuzcoyle:


you didn't know she was dead? you self lie pas Ameachi wey neva collect bribe before.

I know u ain't blind, that means u didn't read the OP's story to learn something rather u just wanted to o attack the OP.

BTW all liars will go to hell

CoCoLav:


Yes I have
So I take it you have completed your papers and exams
And you now have time for the Association of Nairaland Hypocrites
I'm sure they missed you

PunkyVeer:


Well, maybe you need to focus more on breaking down her defenses then so she can join your other "darlings", because this chic right here, yeah that's me, don't do no harems. I'll leave you to it. Put your back into it & maybe she'll yield.

Johnnoah1st:
what is d name of d movie? shey na comedy or tragedy

Omotayor123:

@where