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Susan has been weeping so bitterly. She so wept that you will almost think she had lost a very close relative. Her eye balls were almost falling off her eyes. For days she has not eaten. She has been indoor confused and dejected. The only thing her brain could interpret was the trauma she was going through and to think that her foolishness had lead her into this made her torture unbearable. Am sure she must have contemplated suicide. What have I done to myself? She exclaimed. How could this be happening to me? She questioned herself.

At that point she concluded it was all over for her. There was no future. The beautiful one she seem to have has been jeopardized just like that. She remembered all the sweet moments, the fun, the outings, the ecstasies, the pleasures and all that characterized her recent past. They are only painful memories now. Susan is two months pregnant, HIV positive and her lover boy is no where to be found.

Six months ago, she was at the mall with her friends to shop for a few things. Suddenly, she heard a voice behind her, hello! The voice was sweet and masculine. This must be an angel she assumed. She turned around; it was a tall, dark and handsome guy. He was so cute and well looking. An average lady would fall for him almost at first sight. Hi, she answered with a smile. They got talking, exchanged contacts as expected and went about their shopping.

She got home soon enough after she was done shopping. It was a fun filled evening for her and her friends as they gossiped about Mr handsome. Her phone rang, it was him. She picked it up all excited like a teenage girl who just had her first eagerly anticipated kiss.They agreed on a date over the phone. Oh by the way, Susan is just 25.

It was the evening of the following day and they were having dinner in one of the finest places in town. He was as expected well looking and presentable as he was the day they met. You look like a goodness, he said. His words were so accurate and calculative that it can create butterflies in a lady’s stomach. Am sure he must be a pro in turning a lady on with his sweet tongue. Anyway, they got acquainted as they talked over dinner. A scenario has been created. Impulses has been altered and conditioned. Emotions has been aroused. The euphoria was high and off course time was busy doing what it knows how to do best; ticking.

It was past 10pm already. It was late. It seemed a good idea or perhaps a better idea to go to his house. It’s already too late, he said. Maybe we should go to my place, he added innocently and politely. At that point, her brain was shut down. Her faculty to think was impaired. Her heart was in control. She had lost it. Ok then she concord. They got to his house soon enough. It was a fairly large and attractive apartment. The cushion was authentic; made of leather. The interiors were remarkably classic. Obviously he has a good sense of taste. Please make yourself comfortable, he said.

In a bit, she came to herself. Her faculty to think had been rekindled. Perhaps it was already too late to make the very choice she would have made earlier. She has just met this guy and now she is spending the night at his place. She knew it was wrong. She has realised her mistake but not the consequences. She had a choice to insist on going back on her decision to stay over at his place but she never at least made an effort. Part of her wants to stay. She likes him anyway but her conscience says NO. Unfortunately, she gave in all the same. The audibility of that part of her that wants to stay prevailed over the silent voice of her conscience. She had made a terrible mistake she could not afford.

It was morning already. They had a great night of fun, pleasure and ecstasy. Am sure you know what I mean. That was the beginning of what she called a relationship. Days became weeks, weeks became months and they went on like that for 6months. Their sex life had improved since then. She was in love or so she thought. If she had met me earlier, I would probably tell her that boyfriend should not get husband benefits and girl friend should not get wife benefit but unfortunately she didn’t. Well am sure she might have heard that a million time and in several way. None of that mattered to her for one simple reason; she thought she was in love.

Things went on fine and normal until he suddenly disappeared. He has even moved out of his apartment. He was not reachable and it seems he will never be reachable. It was obvious he didn’t want to be found. She was clueless, confused and frustrated. She didn’t know where to find him. All she knew about him was his first name and where he lived. She has been in a relationship with a total stranger. Now she is pregnant and HIV positive. Cute has become ugly in an instant.
What will become of Susan? Will she ever find her tall, dark and handsome lover boy? What will happen to the child yet unborn? These are obvious symposium discussions.

Surprisingly, a lot of young people are just like Susan and some are on their way. That’s bad enough. Some are not even aware of the consequences they will soon inflict upon themselves. That’s a huge disaster. There are so many blind dates everywhere, material inspired relationship, lust inspired love, toxic ideology, illegitimate parents just to mention a few. These issues are on the increase and every single day produces new victims with one famous cliché on their lips; “had I know” The momentary satisfaction we derive from our actions will be nothing compared to the perpetual consequences of those actions.

These issues has inspired me to teach some of the basic principle about love and relationship in an attempt to address the huge emotional deposit in our society assuming ignorance is the issue. All of these principles are base on over three years research by myself and my lieutenants. It’s part of my own social responsibility. Be alert. The story continues. Your conscience is your guide. http://www.edoborosasere.com/how-to-avoid-heart-break/

Stories that touch the heart.

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Susan has been weeping so bitterly. She so wept that you will almost think she had lost a very close relative. Her eye balls were almost falling off her eyes. For days she has not eaten. She has been indoor confused and dejected. The only thing her brain could interpret was the trauma she was going through and to think that her foolishness had lead her into this made her torture unbearable. Am sure she must have contemplated suicide. What have I done to myself? She exclaimed. How could this be happening to me? She questioned herself.

At that point she concluded it was all oo future. moments, the fun, the outings, the ecstasies, the pleasures and all that characterized her........ Click for full story http://www.edoborosasere.com/how-to-avoid-heart-break/

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@johnnoah1st thanks for the words. They are huge succor.