The level of insecurity amongst most men is on the increase especially with some Nigerian men, which explains why they assume a woman is after money and puts it first before other things follow, just because she works so hard to be successful.

Does this mindset apply to all men or just the lazy ones?


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jamallusty:
Please help me out I need to start posting topics online and I donnt knw how to go about it

Esthersblog:
The level of insecurity amongst most men is on the increase especially with some Nigerian men, which explains why they assume a woman is after money and puts it first before other things follow, just because she works so hard to be successful.

Does this mindset apply to all men or just the lazy ones?


www.esther.com.ng

...are u lightskin?

Esthersblog:
The level of insecurity amongst most men is on the increase especially with some Nigerian men, which explains why they assume a woman is after money and puts it first before other things follow, just because she works so hard to be successful.

Does this mindset apply to all men or just the lazy ones?


www.esther.com.ng

Maybe it's because most Nigerian women feel men are only after their honey pot

Come , I will continue to say this over again




Lots of women are after a man"s money! There is no denying dat fact!

Because u see a guy who is very well to do, u turn him into ur financial lord and personal savior...


Imajine one lady told me "she wanted to try her luck on me wen she askd me for a loan"



So dat means, her even wantin a frndship from me was just on a "trying of luck basis"

Cutehector........ Iffa slap u ehnehn u can't judge based on wat u've experienced....... Guys keep thinking girls are only after ur money o,even the ones dah doesn't av money are also saying girls after their money..nonsense!!


Girls,letz stp making guys av this crazy mentality dah we can be bought with money....it hurts!!

Harbosede02:
Cutehector........ Iffa slap u ehnehn u can't judge based on wat u've experienced....... Guys keep thinking girls are only after ur money o,even the ones dah doesn't av money are also saying girls after their money..nonsense!!


Girls,letz stp making guys av this crazy mentality dah we can be bought with money....it hurts!!

babe see u dnt need to slap me... Its d fact.. Alryt... Deal with it...

Cutehector:
babe see u dnt need to slap me... Its d fact.. Alryt... Deal with it...

No, i'm not.

MrCork:



...are u lightskin?

Out of 100 guys, 99% will say, if a guy does not have money, just go look for a lady who lives in maybe Epe or Okoko, for those who know Lagos or other states like Jigawa, Benue and the likes.
Forgetting that there are women who work very hard to be successful, asking a guy for money does not mean the girl is after money, its possible she really needs it at that time. Generalising it, aint cool.

Cutehector:
Come , I will continue to say this over again




Lots of women are after a man"s money! There is no denying dat fact!

Because u see a guy who is very well to do, u turn him into ur financial lord and personal savior...


Imajine one lady told me "she wanted to try her luck on me wen she askd me for a loan"



So dat means, her even wantin a frndship from me was just on a "trying of luck basis"

Yeah, it really hurts. When almost all guys say the same thing including those who don't have money that ladies are after money just like you said.

Harbosede02:
Cutehector........ Iffa slap u ehnehn u can't judge based on wat u've experienced....... Guys keep thinking girls are only after ur money o,even the ones dah doesn't av money are also saying girls after their money..nonsense!!


Girls,letz stp making guys av this crazy mentality dah we can be bought with money....it hurts!!

Hmmm... but it seems true.

IamMrNoble:


Maybe it's because most Nigerian women feel men are only after their honey pot

Food ! my thought.

Harbosede02:

yes. Dats hw bad it is. Cuz ryt nw I am so pissed off at females.. Nonsense.. I was just so annoyed wen she told me "she just wanted to try her luck" on me...

Any lady dat needs money should work for it. So yall knw hw hard it is to get money in dis life... Afterall so many females r out thr hustlin becomin independent and not dumpin dr financial problems on men.. And if dey can't get d money at dat moment dey should chill for God's time and stop lookin for easy ways out.. Most of these monies dey be askin for is to do hair, fizx nails, rubbish... Its not dat d money dey ask for is for good thing...

Esthersblog:
Out of 100 guys, 99% will say, if a guy does not have money, just go look for a lady who lives in maybe Epe or Okoko, for those who know Lagos or other states like Jigawa, Benue and the likes.
Forgetting that there are women who work very hard to be successful, asking a guy for money does not mean the girl is after money, its possible she really needs it at that time. Generalising it, aint cool.

yes its very obvious..... The ladies dat work for thr money do dey hav two heads? Is it not d same brain dat God gave averyone? Anyone dat mentions me sayn crap nw I will totlay finish dat person's life wit words.. If she can't hav it den she should wait for God's time instead of lookin for easy ways out... If a girl needs money, she has her father, uncles.. If she has a rich boyfrnd den she should ask.. Dats not a crime, d crime is wen she does dat all d time.. Or wants to turn someone into her personal financial redeemer... God will just punish her lazy life!

Cutehector:
yes. Dats hw bad it is. Cuz ryt nw I am so pissed off at females.. Nonsense.. I was just so annoyed wen she told me "she just wanted to try her luck" on me...

Any lady dat needs money should work for it. So yall knw hw hard it is to get money in dis life... Afterall so many females r out thr hustlin becomin independent and not dumpin dr financial problems on men.. And if dey can't get d money at dat moment dey should chill for God's time and stop lookin for easy ways out.. Most of these monies dey be askin for is to do hair, fizx nails, rubbish... Its not dat d money dey ask for is for good thing...

many females......who work are independent!! don't let the lazy jobless onces change dah view.

Harbosede02:
many females......who work are independent!! don't let the lazy jobless onces change dah view.

too bad the jobless ones r too plenty.. Infact, am not datin any jobless lady eva again.

Cutehector:
too bad the jobless ones r too plenty.. Infact, am not datin any jobless lady eva again.

am nt jobless u know

Please were is maa angel @ "prettyhausagirl"

Harbosede02:
am nt jobless u know

dats very goood..

gab264:
Please were is maa angel @ "prettyhausagirl"

Lol am here oo sweetie

PrettyHausaGirl:


Lol am here oo sweetie

STFUareyouGod:

He's just sweetie na...you U are "Sweetheart"
Or you don't share?

PrettyHausaGirl:


Lol am here oo sweetie

Uhhh!! "mawneen sweetie" were ave u been

STFUareyouGod:

"why evils?

PrettyHausaGirl:


He's just sweetie na...you U are "Sweetheart"

Or you don't share?

why should I share? Are you material?

gab264:

"why evils?

Yeah, I also agree with you on the fact that some of the ladies use these monies for hair and the likes, but you do not have to pissed off at females generally...
This is where the problem comes from, when a lady or guy does something wrong or act funny to the other party especially in a relationship, we tend to generalize it which affects the next relationship and our perception about either the males or females, and that is how it spreads, forgetting the fact that people are different.
There are a lot of hard working females out there....

Cutehector:
yes. Dats hw bad it is. Cuz ryt nw I am so pissed off at females.. Nonsense.. I was just so annoyed wen she told me "she just wanted to try her luck" on me...

Any lady dat needs money should work for it. So yall knw hw hard it is to get money in dis life... Afterall so many females r out thr hustlin becomin independent and not dumpin dr financial problems on men.. And if dey can't get d money at dat moment dey should chill for God's time and stop lookin for easy ways out.. Most of these monies dey be askin for is to do hair, fizx nails, rubbish... Its not dat d money dey ask for is for good thing...

Esthersblog:
Yeah, I also agree with you on the fact that some of the ladies use these monies for hair and the likes, but you do not have to pissed off at females generally...
This is where the problem comes from, when a lady or guy does something wrong or act funny to the other party especially in a relationship, we tend to generalize it which affects the next relationship and our perception about either the males or females, and that is how it spreads, forgetting the fact that people are different.
There are a lot of hard working females out there....

so its now left for u ladies to advise urselves... If u'v got sisters, advice dem to be hardworkin and not rely on any man for help... That way, ladies will become equal with men.u can hardly see men beggin ladies for money.. Even if he is broke, he will go and do smth to get d money..

gab264:
Uhhh!! "mawneen sweetie" were ave u been

I've been around oo..just that I don't comment a lot..prefer reading and laughing.

STFUareyouGod:
why should I share? Are you material?

Lmao @material....true talk sha...I'm not and you shouldn't