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Re: I Love Her So Much But Just This One Terrible Flaw by RaDaZaBaNa(op): 6:07pm On Nov 09, 2015
McWhillion:
Stewpid... She's already cheating on you... does it make it better that it was with a lady??
What are you saying huh?
Re: I Love Her So Much But Just This One Terrible Flaw by RaDaZaBaNa(op): 6:07pm On Nov 09, 2015
tartarus:
She's bisexual, nothing wrong with that.
She cheated/cheats on you with women then there's something wrong!
Do u even know d meaning of bisexual at all huh?
Re: I Love Her So Much But Just This One Terrible Flaw by Youngpo413: 6:38pm On Nov 09, 2015
iceberylin:
Ever had sex with bisexualhuh

Life time opportunity.
you may without knowing...
Re: I Love Her So Much But Just This One Terrible Flaw by tartarus(m): 6:53pm On Nov 09, 2015
RaDaZaBaNa:
Do u even know d meaning of bisexual at all huh?
Yes I do!
Re: I Love Her So Much But Just This One Terrible Flaw by McWhillion(m): 9:05am On Nov 10, 2015
Cheating is when you re having an affair with any other person apart from your gf/bf/spouse.If a girl claims she's bisexual and is having an affair with another girl, she's already cheating on her bf. Its funny when the dude says he is unsettled if the girl will cheat on him with a guy. There is no difference if she's doing it with a guy or a girl. She's already cheating, even if it is with an inanimate object, cheating has no two names. Repeat after me "SHE IS ALREADY CHEATING"
RaDaZaBaNa:
What are you saying huh?
Re: I Love Her So Much But Just This One Terrible Flaw by Nobody: 10:05am On Nov 10, 2015
Ioannes:
nobody is born with such feelings. she must have been abused as a minor by a same sex sex offender.

anyway, help her get serious help. I am thinking psychologist or something and lots of prayer.

truth is if you marry her, you are starting your family under a serious handicap. marriage is tough enough already, why add another burden to it.

everybody has a weakness, she should try to manage hers.

sleeping with the same sex is an abomination that attracts curses in the bible, you don't want to go that way.
You just typed rubbish from 1st to 5th paragraph angry

i wish e-slapping existed
Re: I Love Her So Much But Just This One Terrible Flaw by Nobody: 10:10am On Nov 10, 2015
Being bisexual is not a flaw but any bisexual woman gettin married must drop feelings for ladies.

Weda she cheats wit ladies or men. All is cheating. And if she is nt ready to give herself to only you, then simply forget bout her.
Re: I Love Her So Much But Just This One Terrible Flaw by Nobody: 10:54am On Nov 10, 2015
Durenttt:
You just typed rubbish from 1st to 5th paragraph angry

i wish e-slapping existed
oh ye f*ool. have you heard of the phrase "personal opinion" before?

you can go ahead and give yourself a dirty slap, you deserve it. happy slapping a*as wipe.
Re: I Love Her So Much But Just This One Terrible Flaw by IceDude(m): 11:01am On Nov 10, 2015
If u aint comfortable with it why wasting ur time trying to change her huh
Re: I Love Her So Much But Just This One Terrible Flaw by Nobody: 11:21am On Nov 10, 2015
Ioannes:
oh ye f*ool. have you heard of the phrase "personal opinion" before?

you can go ahead and give yourself a dirty slap, you deserve it. happy slapping a*as wipe.
wat sort of stupiid opinion angry

Nigerians nd their lame mentality .
Everytin thing now needs psychology help nd prayers shey?? Idiat
Re: I Love Her So Much But Just This One Terrible Flaw by shona2487(f): 11:25am On Nov 10, 2015
A lot of us ask for advices nd we still end up doing what our heart wnts to do. No matter how well u describe her better features we still Cnt get d real picture coz u r d one with her. It's a good thing she opened up to u tho, @least it's better than acting straight nd doing it bhind u, u myt wanna talk to her about a compromise @least dts one of the constant features in a relationship. If she ain't ready to stop sleeping with her girl friends u'll av to ask urself if u'll stay bcoz of her better features or leave bcoz of the *flaw*. PS some says it's a genetic issh nd if dts true, u myt wanna leave if u dnt want a bisexual daughter.
Re: I Love Her So Much But Just This One Terrible Flaw by Nobody: 11:29am On Nov 10, 2015
Durenttt:
wat sort of stupiid opinion angry

Nigerians nd their lame mentality .
Everytin thing now needs psychology help nd prayers shey?? Idiat
se iwo girl yi o ya were sahuh

are you well? must you quote me?

that is my opinion and if you don't like it take the nearest exit out of this life.

e-diot like you. when you gave your own asinine opinion who called you out for it. see frustration dogging your footsteps. I think you will find solace in the romance section. didirin.
Re: I Love Her So Much But Just This One Terrible Flaw by Nobody: 11:53am On Nov 10, 2015
Ioannes:
se iwo girl yi o ya were sahuh

are you well? must you quote me?

that is my opinion and if you don't like it take the nearest exit out of this life.

e-diot like you. when you gave your own asinine opinion who called you out for it. see frustration dogging your footsteps. I think you will find solace in the romance section. didirin.
fooool, see ur life lik porn movie. Idiat, u beta wise-up
Re: I Love Her So Much But Just This One Terrible Flaw by 400billionman: 12:41pm On Nov 10, 2015
RaDaZaBaNa:
A Friend of mine shared this
.

I am currently in a relationship with a young beautiful lady and we are working towards marriage.However.my fiancee possess one very terrible feature....She is bisexual.

Though she is very discreet and coded with the act,She told me this right from the start of the relationship and claimed she use to get advances from a lot of ladies at work and while in school and that is the only way she can stop herself from cheating with other guys and satisfy her so called " OTHER urges.
.
I continued with her thinking I will be able to change her but it almost a year and 3 months now and no change.This has resulted in my cold behaviour towards most of her female friends and co workers even though if they don't engage in the act together

.Am tired and frustrated but she keeps hammering that she does it for fun not money and it prevents her from cheating with men.She claims it in her nature,and besides she can't get pregnant and neither does it reduce her love for me.

.The funniest thing is her parents know about this and said day have tried to change her to no avail hence persuading her to inform any potential suitor about it.

Am at cross roads here.She is educated,beautiful.hardworking and everything I want in a Lady but just this one flaw. Am contemplating going on with the marriage ..since She has promised not to bring anybody to my house and also satisfy me sexually
.

Am just unsettled if she would not later cheat on me with guys too.. Is it not also cheating if she sleeps with other woman.What do you advise I do..

matured advices please
Bros, are you lacking in the 3rd leg department ?

Give her 2 straight hours and her life will not remain thesame..
Re: I Love Her So Much But Just This One Terrible Flaw by Nobody: 12:53pm On Nov 10, 2015
Durenttt:
fooool, see ur life lik porn movie. Idiat, u beta wise-up
smh. girl behaving like agbero.
Re: I Love Her So Much But Just This One Terrible Flaw by Nobody: 12:56pm On Nov 10, 2015
Durenttt:
fooool, see ur life lik porn movie. Idiat, u beta wise-up
smh. girl behaving like agbero.
gender-confused one for that matterhuh
ignoring your skinny ass.
Re: I Love Her So Much But Just This One Terrible Flaw by RaDaZaBaNa(op): 7:25pm On Nov 10, 2015
McWhillion:
Cheating is when you re having an affair with any other person apart from your gf/bf/spouse.If a girl claims she's bisexual and is having an affair with another girl, she's already cheating on her bf. Its funny when the dude says he is unsettled if the girl will cheat on him with a guy. There is no difference if she's doing it with a guy or a girl. She's already cheating, even if it is with an inanimate object, cheating has no two names. Repeat after me "SHE IS ALREADY CHEATING"
ok
Re: I Love Her So Much But Just This One Terrible Flaw by RaDaZaBaNa(op): 7:26pm On Nov 10, 2015
400billionman:
Bros, are you lacking in the 3rd leg department ?
Give her 2 straight hours and her life will not remain thesame..
As if I haven't done that
Re: I Love Her So Much But Just This One Terrible Flaw by RaDaZaBaNa(op): 7:27pm On Nov 10, 2015
Cc lalasticlala
Re: I Love Her So Much But Just This One Terrible Flaw by Lovechyld101(m): 1:17am On Nov 11, 2015
RaDaZaBaNa:
A Friend of mine shared this
.

I am currently in a relationship with a young beautiful lady and we are working towards marriage.However.my fiancee possess one very terrible feature....She is bisexual.

Though she is very discreet and coded with the act,She told me this right from the start of the relationship and claimed she use to get advances from a lot of ladies at work and while in school and that is the only way she can stop herself from cheating with other guys and satisfy her so called " OTHER urges.
.
I continued with her thinking I will be able to change her but it almost a year and 3 months now and no change.This has resulted in my cold behaviour towards most of her female friends and co workers even though if they don't engage in the act together

.Am tired and frustrated but she keeps hammering that she does it for fun not money and it prevents her from cheating with men.She claims it in her nature,and besides she can't get pregnant and neither does it reduce her love for me.

.The funniest thing is her parents know about this and said day have tried to change her to no avail hence persuading her to inform any potential suitor about it.

Am at cross roads here.She is educated,beautiful.hardworking and everything I want in a Lady but just this one flaw. Am contemplating going on with the marriage ..since She has promised not to bring anybody to my house and also satisfy me sexually
.

Am just unsettled if she would not later cheat on me with guys too.. Is it not also cheating if she sleeps with other woman.What do you advise I do..

matured advices please
Simple Next time she brings a Gal home you too go out and bring a Guy home cheating is cheating my too cent!!
Re: I Love Her So Much But Just This One Terrible Flaw by RaDaZaBaNa(op): 10:55am On Jan 01, 2016
cc lalasticlala
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