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obiorathesubtle:
Lol. We just have to be friends. I'm obi, what's your name?

See mumu ...sour milk @ work

zaragal:
See mumu ...sour milk @ work

okbye. I'm not doing this with minors

Ginaz:
try to let her be for now, that's just the best. marriage is once in a life time of happiness or regrets, the choice is yours!

so you get scope like this? i'm quite impressed

Well you wasted 5 years of her life, if you were sure marriage wasn't going to be an option while date that long she's taking the smarter option because you might just equally waste her time more.

obiorathesubtle:
Op, my advice. You from the north, stay and marry in the north, because all this Biafra protest going on in the east ehn, her people might cut off your d/ck and e-mail it to buhari the next time you visit them without your parents consent or knowledge, you loved her. Move on! There are better women out there

U funny ooo.

I can't really say weda her parents have direct influence negatively on this situation. for now am sure my next trip to d east will be on official assignment from my office of which chances are very slim but not on love voyage.

Sufdavinci:
U funny ooo.

I can't really say weda her parents have direct influence negatively on this situation. for now am sure my next trip to d east will be on official assignment from my office of which chances are very slim but not on love voyage.

well, whatever kind of influence her parents have! I still stand on my opinion

And you going to the east on an assignment from the office. That is good! Focus more on your career man! Women are like air, they'll always be around.

zaragal:
Una no dey judge well ooo....u guys forgot the op treated her unfairly.....we aren't meant to judge this way, no body heard from the lady in question and we are already throwing stones...Btw the op treated her badly. For breaking up with the poor lady after so many pleads simply because he wants to hook up with his parents match-mak, Wasn't he emotionally unstable too??...Where the heck was his love the first time he broke up wit her....do u hav an idea the heart break from her part?? No! Perhaps this new guy loved her when the op threw her out, and now she is finding a hard tym deciding to pick a prodigal boyfriend over a guy who stayed with her all the way. I mean dat enough to make u super confused.

My problem with this op is so much impatient and pride...jst a few days of "attitude" and u are calling it a quit??..you don't hav to idea wat u really want in life dude because marriage is not really want we watch in the movies everything is played perfectly...u can never and will never get a perfect woman....any woman will wrong u one way or the other some might cheat on u for years without ur knowledge...dis is the devil u knw for 5 years so better dan the angel u don't know. Ur woman whoever will annoy u and do lots and lots of crazy stuff I hope u file her a divorce papers few days later....mtcheew... imagine the texts over few days turn up "it's too late".....i don't think u knw wat love is about maybe you should use ur bible 1cor 13:4-7... read it through...love is patient if u really love that lady wen she was emotional indecisive the perfect timing for u to be perfect and prove her dat u hav err in the past but now u come to stay not saying "am moving on" "it's too late"...pple calling her a cheat accuse her wrongly actually she was honest enough to tell she is liking someone else and u don't appreciate that??...Wat if she kept it from you and then break up few days to ur wedding dat would serve u right...@ less she was honest the more reason u should hav appreciated her and prove to be a better man..instead u are still claiming to be right over ur own wrongs...u broke the pitcher dude...u've got to fix it! Or better still move on but don't take ur impatience and pride along

Btw....i really blamed her for threatening u with knife...dat is the only reason I can say u shouldn't marry her because of her poor anger management.....but for any other reason u are the mess

Nairaland stop judging people pple..

Seems u don't understand me. I have been supportive all d years in her academics and am not in any way trying to put in her bad light either.

I have seen enuf example of divorce stories for me 2 learn from. The question is why would she inform d other guy that she is getting married to me? all of a sudden d guy just woke up from slumber and decided to hit nails left, right and centre. That he even told her of all d pastors he visited, they told him she is his wife and he will do watever it takes to make sure am not married to her. Am not saying d guy is lying or saying d truth but Wat if I told her d same story nko? I have been praying but for God sake I can't fabricate lies to build my marriage on.

I've done everything possible within dis period to make her understand this is a distraction. love is forgiveness. I admire her courage for telling me d truth but I believe my God made dat possible to guide me in decision making.

She threatened me with knife and i still went ahead to say I will marry her but u find it hard to think I've forgiven and humbled myself to ask for her forgiveness. Nobody its perfect and I've gone extra miles.

zaragal:
Good bless you my brother, dis op is looking for ways to rubbish the gurl and feel like he is the perfect one jst hear him " I know I wrong her esp the break "but then no one is perfect " as he still claim right over his wrong and still feels he is alright to sin..jat I hate folks like dis...very self righteous and judgemental...why is he telling us all dis thrash no. So we can judge the the gal or wat??...this op is a very wicked person..honestly he don't worth my tym...

I respect her culture but then should dat be a priority at this point? Nobody knows who will die first and if she eventually passed on before me I will not do anything contrary to what her family will demand. D priority should be on how to build a loving family together. of course I wouldn't hesitate to pay my wife her last respect by granting her wish.

Sufdavinci:
I respect her culture but then should dat be a priority at this point? Nobody knows who will die first and if she eventually passed on before me I will not do anything contrary to what her family will demand. D priority should be on how to build a loving family together. of course I wouldn't hesitate to pay my wife her last respect by granting her wish.

It's okk...I see where u are coming from now...just move on

zaragal:
It's okk...I see where u are coming from now...just move on

zarabaybee

obiorathesubtle:
zarabaybee

Who be dis one?? ....mbok daka ku song (c'mon for road)

zaragal:
Who be dis one?? ....mbok daka ku song (c'mon for road)

hey!

What of the other guy she mentioned ?

Is he Hausa or Igbo ?

This may be the source of her dilenma. Since she says North is far for her, yet the guy stays in same state with you as you mentioned.

400billionman:
What of the other guy she mentioned ?

Is he Hausa or Igbo ?

This may be the source of her dilenma. Since she says North is far for her, yet the guy stays in same state with you as you mentioned.

The other guy is Igbo ooo.

Sufdavinci:
The other guy is Igbo ooo.

If a lady is punishing a guy emotionally, she is loving someone else. Or her love for you is divided.

I have been the victim, i have also been the benefactor in this circle of love. A woman who loves you wholeheartedly is never in a dilenma.

She cries and begs you to marry her. She even kneels and promises to honor you if only you can say I DO.

For the sake of that KNIFE threat, bros QUIT.

400billionman:
If a lady is punishing a guy emotionally, she is loving someone else. Or her love for you is divided.

I have been the victim, i have also been the benefactor in this circle of love. A woman who loves you wholeheartedly is never in a dilenma.

She cries and begs you to marry her. She even kneels and promises to honor you if only you can say I DO.

For the sake of that KNIFE threat, bros QUIT.

thanks for d advice

@OP, why would a northerner marry an igbo in d first place? wen it obvious to even d blind dat an average hausa man is mentally unstable, senseless, illeterate and always behave like an animal, she is d was probably conviced by friends and family dat she shouldn't marry from dat silly tribe, even if its my sister i be d one to stand against d marriage, hausa? *spit*

obiorathesubtle:
ehena? Its our culture jor! She's important to her family. she demanded you should return her corpse. Na bad thing she talk? With boko haram jumping up and down like flies on poo in the north. She made a good and sensible request

you no well .which peoples culture?

zaragal:
Good bless you my brother, dis op is looking for ways to rubbish the gurl and feel like he is the perfect one jst hear him " I know I wrong her esp the break "but then no one is perfect " as he still claim right over his wrong and still feels he is alright to sin..jat I hate folks like dis...very self righteous and judgemental...why is he telling us all dis thrash no. So we can judge the the gal or wat??...this op is a very wicked person..honestly he don't worth my tym...

may be you are the girl.trash

Scarcity234:
may be you are the girl.trash

Lol

the choice is yours