Eminya:
Help me welcome my lil prince Joshua, Jehovah overdo has really done it for my family. BS later, lemme rest

Congrats dear. Welcome lil Joshua may God bless and protect you

favoredgal:


Lucky woman. My libido disappears completely during pregnancy.... I just try make e no be say person dey punish son of man

This is how I completely feel

Congrats eminya,welcome prince j.God bless u.

Good morning e sisters.Eminya congrats.
On Sunday nite around 11pm when many were sleeping,I was been assaulted by my husband.Before now my dd has had health challenges and has been admitted on and off since middle of October.her latest admission ended just this Saturday night.Alas by 9pm on Sunday whilst sleeping she started vomited every 10mins.i gave her plain water ORS , lemon water even breast milk at seperate intervals but she vomited them all.then she started stooling.by the 8th vomit I told my husband please let us take her back the hospital he said no.my dad who has a medical background now called to say you need to take her if she had vomited more than three times.at this point it was already ten.

Wao! I love waking up to pleasant news. Congratulations Eminya. God's blessings always

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Eminya:
Help me welcome my lil prince Joshua, Jehovah overdo has really done it for my family. BS later, lemme rest

congrats ma

So I backed her and picked the bags containing clothes and diapers ready to leave.git to the back door opened it.hubby came, locked it,kept the key.did same to front door.eventually I got out because he thot he had all the keys with him.then my dad called back to say he hopes I am in the move that I had waited too long to get her proper medical care.lo and behold the beast came behind me and started dragging dd from my back and I told my dad as he was stl on d phone.i was still calm but as he kept on the bags n phone fell.he then held up my two hands and hitting and slapping me repeatedly on my head this was when I started shouting.my neighbours cqme out.then he started looking for something on the ground,I was wondering what he was looking for.then he found my phone and then smashed it repeatedly.any wayI git to the hospital that nite dd and I were both admitted.i don't want to return there is my issue now.my DD is scheduled for a surgery and d hospital is waiting for me to get a place we can both be safe.my dad's place is not conducive as there are too many allergens there that provoke my DD s illness.what next for us

blessedtwins:
So I backed her and picked the bags containing clothes and diapers ready to leave.git to the back door opened it.hubby came, locked it,kept the key.did same to front door.eventually I got out because he thot he had all the keys with him.then my dad called back to say he hopes I am in the move that I had waited too long to get her proper medical care.lo and behold the beast came behind me and started dragging dd from my back and I told my dad as he was stl on d phone.i was still calm but as he kept on the bags n phone fell.he then held up my two hands and hitting and slapping me repeatedly on my head this was when I started shouting.my neighbours cqme out.then he started looking for something on the ground,I was wondering what he was looking for.then he found my phone and then smashed it repeatedly.any wayI git to the hospital that nite dd and I were both admitted.i don't want to return there is my issue now.my DD is scheduled for a surgery and d hospital is waiting for me to get a place we can both be safe.my dad's place is not conducive as there are too many allergens there that provoke my DD s illness.what next for us

Waoh, this is serious. It is well with you dear. God will not leave you or forsake you. This phase will surely pass just don't lose hope. Do you have any sibling u can stay with and what exactly is she allergic to. Can you get even if it is a single bedroom apartment till your daughter is fine. It is well with you and your daughter and God will also touch your husband.

blessedtwins:
So I backed her and picked the bags containing clothes and diapers ready to leave.git to the back door opened it.hubby came, locked it,kept the key.did same to front door.eventually I got out because he thot he had all the keys with him.then my dad called back to say he hopes I am in the move that I had waited too long to get her proper medical care.lo and behold the beast came behind me and started dragging dd from my back and I told my dad as he was stl on d phone.i was still calm but as he kept on the bags n phone fell.he then held up my two hands and hitting and slapping me repeatedly on my head this was when I started shouting.my neighbours cqme out.then he started looking for something on the ground,I was wondering what he was looking for.then he found my phone and then smashed it repeatedly.any wayI git to the hospital that nite dd and I were both admitted.i don't want to return there is my issue now.my DD is scheduled for a surgery and d hospital is waiting for me to get a place we can both be safe.my dad's place is not conducive as there are too many allergens there that provoke my DD s illness.what next for us

@ Eminya Big Congrats to u.God bless n keep ur son.Rest well.awaiting ur glorious bs

Congrats Eminya! May Joshua forever remain blessed. Amen.



Blessedtwins.....I'm so sorry about what happened.
What exactly was his excuse for not wanting to go to the hospital for his daughter's sake?
Sorry to ask o buh was he drunk or high on something?
Maybe you should find a guest house, hotel or hostel that you can bunk in till all this dies down.
Are his parents aware of this behaviour of his?
You have decisions to make, crucial ones.
How is your daughter feeling now? What triggers her allergies? Sometimes its stress, tension around the house can stress up sensitive kids.

Take care of her and take care of you too

Fingers baawo?she is only counting her teeth.lol

zaynie:




I've seen it o!
Beautiful Zino
Make I follow her dance shakitibobo abi no be the finger she do so?

Blessedtwins don't have much to say just to give you a big hug.

It's well with you and your daughter and you are covered with the blood of Jesus.

Pls reach out to siblings or church members and stay safe. Your daughter and her safety and well being should come first in any decision you make

Big hug again

Congrats eminya welcome prince Joshua may your days be long and fruitful in Jesus name.







Blessedtwins get your hubby arrested asap! He should be the one to leave the house for you and your baby to remain safe and not the other way round! you have witnesses to back u up on the assualt aint that right?

Secondly have you informed his family? And what was their reaction?
If all things fail please move into your fathers house you and your baby will be safer their rather than going elsewhere where he might locate you and come after you(dont stay alone please) those things that triggers your babys allergy could be taken care of.

My prayers are with you dear and I pray your daughter recovers quickly
Read psalm 91 and 23.

1.Firsttymum congrats sweetie na so you leave me bah?
2. Missope
3. Eminya
4. Lightedpath
5. AwesomeGodIav
6. Chinwendym
7. Gtkay
8. Erei
9. Livelystone
10. Cynthiajay
11. Chizzy86
12. Honey86
13. Nafikowa
14. Trendy80s
15. Oriste
16. Zee10
17.Cherrymum

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Blessedtwins, I think it's high time u take a drastic action on this husband of urs.if anything bad happens to u or ur baby am certain ur hubby will move on with his life n u will be on d losing side.
Pls go to human rights n report this barbaric behavior.
Pls I would advise u don't go back to him,i knw a lot will disagree wit me but a man dat hit a woman @ every opportunity he has is hardly going to change.
I have a friend dat ws married n d husband decided to use her to practice boxing she left after 4yrs with her daughter n now she is married to someone else n had a son june dis yr.
Secondly my landlord happens to do same ffor hs wife but unfortunately for him d wife is d only lady wit 4 brothers.she decided to tell d brother dis faith day in February they storm d house n gave him beating of his life n went away wit der sis.she has not return since den
Nb
Dats why I enjoy my stay in north.all one nee to do is gv almajiri small moni n they wil beat d living daylight out of him so dat he wil knw hw it hurt.

Wow cherrymum

The Lord is your strength

@firsttymum , Congratulations. Thank God for safe delivery

@ cherrymum, thank God for ur life oooo.u are a strong woman.God wil continue to be with u.

@Eminya. Congrats. And to those still waiting for DD (Delivery date) wish you all safe, peaceful and uneventful delivery( No complications).

@blessed twins not again.@all what this woman needs is financial assistance.

missmalachi:
Blessedtwins, I think it's high time u take a drastic action on this husband of urs.if anything bad happens to u or ur baby am certain ur hubby will move on with his life n u will be on d losing side.
Pls go to human rights n report this barbaric behavior.
Pls I would advise u don't go back to him,i knw a lot will disagree wit me but a man dat hit a woman @ every opportunity he has is hardly going to change.
I have a friend dat ws married n d husband decided to use her to practice boxing she left after 4yrs with her daughter n now she is married to someone else n had a son june dis yr.
Secondly my landlord happens to do same ffor hs wife but unfortunately for him d wife is d only lady wit 4 brothers.she decided to tell d brother dis faith day in February they storm d house n gave him beating of his life n went away wit der sis.she has not return since den
Nb
Dats why I enjoy my stay in north.all one nee to do is gv almajiri small moni n they wil beat d living daylight out of him so dat he wil knw hw it hurt.

thats why i lov those dan iska(s)

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My dear men are 'wonderful' beings and what can we do but 'thank' God for creating them.

During my ttc days, I thought I had one of the most wonderful men in the world walking with me. I was always thanking God for giving me such a great man. Only for me to wake up a few months ago to policemen in the house arresting my very own 'gentleman' for raping his gf's sister. He also had six other kids from other women outside. That I didn't die that day is the grace of God.

I'm back to my parent's house o. Patiently waiting to receive my LO in a few weeks. Praying for my child always. Family is truly the greatest gift of all.

My dear, go the your dad's house clear one room and keep your child safe. Pray for her always. When she's better you can discuss going back to your matrimonial home.

As for me, I no dey go anywhere sha o. I don tanda for here gidigba. Can't live with a monster.

Team November for sexy delivery mehn!
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i'm totally awed by this thread, just read the last page and i'm tempted to start from page 1. Honestly wish i saw this thread before now.

Blessedtwins..... big hugs to you, the Lord is your strength.

Get him ARRESTEd..sweettie,this z 9ja o.her husband evacuatin the house for her..iffahear say the ab.oki remove.some naija men nor dey do like that.what she needs now is financial backin...lets help,no marra how meagre the amt is.

Chinwendym:
Congrats eminya welcome prince Joshua may your days be long and fruitful in Jesus name.







Blessedtwins get your hubby arrested asap! He should be the one to leave the house for you and your baby to remain safe and not the other way round! you have witnesses to back u up on the assualt aint that right?

Secondly have you informed his family? And what was their reaction?
If all things fail please move into your fathers house you and your baby will be safer their rather than going elsewhere where he might locate you and come after you(dont stay alone please) those things that triggers your babys allergy could be taken care of.

My prayers are with you dear and I pray your daughter recovers quickly
Read psalm 91 and 23.

Seriously ooooo it wont cost u #500 to gv d man manual correction.i cant remember seeing any man beating up his wife continously in north.cos even if d wife did not organize almajiri's, all d dan wewe n guys dat tak solution in d neighborhood will fight for her.

@ blessedtwins - is this his first time of hitting you or this has been happening repeatedly? Was he aware your dad was the one advising you to go to the hospital? Does he have good relationship with your dad or your family in general? Is he broke or something?

I am asking you these stupid questions cuz it looks like the violence meted out to you emanated from ego, hatred and fear, not really for you but unfortunately, the violence was directed at you. I cant understand why he would go ahead and smash the phone to utter pieces for instance? To cut off communication with your dad? Or tell you not to take your daughter to the hospital even when it's glaring she needs urgent medical attention just because it's your dad that advised you to? I suspect there are deeper issues.

Anyways, what is important NOW is the safety and good health of you and your baby. You know best if your dad's place is secure or not and since you say it's not secure, I respect that. Pls find a friend, another close family or church member that can take you in till you are able to sort things out. Do you have a job or business to keep you going? Do you have sufficient funds for the surgery and other living expenses for your baby or do you have someone who can take care of these expenses? These are immediate concerns that need to be addressed asap.

Once these issues are well taken care of, please have your dad call him if he still respect your dad, if not, let your dad call his parents and other family members and let him explain why he beat you or has been beating you if it's not the first time. Take your next steps from the outcome of any meeting or discussion both families may have.

But the priority again, is the safety and good health of you and your baby. Pls do not compromise this and don't hesitate to tell mamas here if you need any help whatsoever. We never know....

Hugz

Blessedtwins how is it gonna be like?what are your plans?

Wallai ki bani dar'ya.

missmalachi:
Seriously ooooo it wont cost u #500 to gv d man manual correction.i cant remember seeing any man beating up his wife continously in north.cos even if d wife did not organize almajiri's, all d dan wewe n guys dat tak solution in d neighborhood will fight for her.

ahnie:
Just imagine.when my husband was turnin me into his punchbag,i complained,some mamas from this thread,sent hate mails to me abusin the daylight outta me.80%of marriage suffers this same assault things

My dear anyone dat message u on why u cry out on asult on u is definitely drinking asult as garri.marriage is meant to be enjoyed.there are issues wc we all knw.wat happen to talkin abt it or shouting out ur anger if needed but beating a grown up woman is just absurd.