blessedtwins:
ginaby I can only communicate online.phone was destroyed.how do I tell my pastor?by d way I once reported him to the church and they said I should just hide when he starts.
I just thot of selling off a brand new car.he bot it in our names.if I could get a buyer asap I would be good to go
A penny for your thots

This is not the time to fear or run to pastor, how many abused people will pastor keep under his roof? at best he will repeat his last sermon to you. The earlier you realise you have to fight for yourself, the better for you. Sell that car and go to your father's house to clear your head and plan your next step.

@ahnie, keep decieving yourself your dh is better. For how long will the hide and seek aka distant marriage be for you to sustain the peace. Is it when more kids, years have been wasted, damages accrued that you will tell yourself the truth? Anyways you will when you will.

See those sending hate mails already asking 'headless' questions to fault the woman by any means possible. Misery indeed likes company as they are in similar marriage, sourcing for company in the grave.

Evening! Pls at wat stage can i go to scan for d sex of my baby ? ( remember am in my 17/18 weeks).

Good evening mamas. So, I went for another scan today at 28 weeks and still babies sex cannot be determined. DH wasn't really cool with that. He's really eager to know the sex and he said I should ask for where I can get a 3D scan done.

Mama's, please where can I get a 3D scan done in Abeokuta, Ijebu-ode or Lagos? Please state the cost if you have the idea. Thanks.

ifyjip:
Evening! Pls at wat stage can i go to scan for d sex of my baby ? ( remember am in my 17/18 weeks).

You can now. Any 3D ultrasound center will readily determine the sex of your baby

@ modath ii tire o!
Please ladies I'm sorry to say this but if you are not doing something to add a lil income to your pocket then its really a pity. Gone are the days of stay at home mum cos its best for you baby. Yes stay at home but don't be idle. Start up some sorta skill training that will add a few coins to your pocket. Men are not smiling anymore. The day the demands will be too much he will lash out. No matter how rich a man is he would love to see his wife bring something to the table. Don't be decieved by his honey coated words.
Be wise my sisters

Why the anxiety? Baby no wan show una na! Lol.

Sharon6:
Good evening mamas. So, I went for another scan today at 28 weeks and still babies sex cannot be determined. DH wasn't really cool with that. He's really eager to know the sex and he said I should ask for where I can get a 3D scan done.

Mama's, please where can I get a 3D scan done in Abeokuta, Ijebu-ode or Lagos? Please state the cost if you have the idea. Thanks.

Sharon6:
Good evening mamas. So, I went for another scan today at 28 weeks and still babies sex cannot be determined. DH wasn't really cool with that. He's really eager to know the sex and he said I should ask for where I can get a 3D scan done.

Mama's, please where can I get a 3D scan done in Abeokuta, Ijebu-ode or Lagos? Please state the cost if you have the idea. Thanks.

In ikeja and the amoumt is 5k

I have reached out to church but they are seeking for mediation which doesn't tally.Ghojes you once pmed me but I couldn't get to the e mail I used to open nl.thanks
Kaffy4bill pls email me your maternity address .i mentioned earlier that i will patronise bu easy on me wt bills I beg you.
lovinam what about everything you pitch to himto do he says no.or him hiding ur certificate when you tell him you have an interview
Good to have you all

blessedtwins..it is well with u..I can relate with what's happening to u..
I just saw ur mail on stelladimokokorkus'blog and I will say u r on the right track. please run for ur life nd tht of ur kids I beg of u..
u might one day post a chronicle of hope but till then just stay safe. it is only u tht can mother ur kids. no one else can play ur role.. so pls stay safe and strong for them..
I pray u will get all the help u need..

*dnt forget the story of dr thomas....till date no one knows wht happened to her...and that is why happens to any woman tht remains in an abusive marriage. u get killed, ur story gets in d news, ppl pass comments nd guess what That's the end of ur biography! !!

Lets b wise!

Congrats Eminya, God bless your LO

Modath abeg nor make me laugh.@gholes you are one hell of a blunt guy.thnks for your inputs.

And they are still sending the hate mails......please n please,dont force me to mention your moniker(s)thank you. Anyways blessedtwins...haw far?

ahnie:
And they are still sending the hate mails......please n please,dont force me to mention your moniker(s)thank you. Anyways blessedtwins...haw far?

Dan allah ki fada suna su mu zage su

ahnie:
And they are still sending the hate mails......please n please,dont force me to mention your moniker(s)thank you. Anyways blessedtwins...haw far?

never mind sis, just keep being good&God's

ahnie:
Just imagine.when my husband was turnin me into his punchbag,i complained,some mamas from this thread,sent hate mails to me abusin the daylight outta me.80%of marriage suffers this same assault things

That a lot of people suffer abuse in their marriages is not normal. No form of abuse is normal no matter how long it has been going on for. A life lost cannot be replaced. Marriage is not a do or die affair.

Am shocked at all the parochial advice am reading. I reserve my comment though.
My only worries is when the chips are down ...I do hope all the advisors will be able to provide sustainable support morally,financially and otherwise for the lady in question with her kids.

@Eminya. Please get in touch.

Ki kale su.ba su da amfani

missmalachi:
Dan allah ki fada suna su mu zage su

Oniovo i sight you.

Please don't reserve your comment. Speak out! We want to hear your views.

ArabianPrince:
Am shocked at all the parochial advice am reading. I reserve my comment though.
My only worries is when the chips are down ...I do hope all the advisors will be able to provide sustainable support morally,financially and otherwise for the lady in question with her kids.

@Eminya. Please get in touch.

Women and their wahala! Do what's best for you and your children. Case closed.

ahnie:
And they are still sending the hate mails......please n please,dont force me to mention your moniker(s)thank you. Anyways blessedtwins...haw far?

Blessedtwinz so hw be thou?

I dont have children ma'am.i only have a child.

lovinam:
Women and their wahala! Do what's best for you and your children. Case closed.

Sorry child

ahnie:
I dont have children ma'am.i only have a child.

modath:


@ahnie,

I won't ask but every woman that sent you hate mails will have their female children go through ten folds of what they are angry at you for!!!!

I no agree wt dis kind prayer ooo. Every mother will pay 4 dier sins oooo nt children paying 4 dem. Does innocent n swt tender creatures r here 2 b a source of joy 2 us. In fact, any1 dat is in Christ his/her sins r forgiven both past, present n future all forgiven by d power of his resurrection. Calvary covers it all.

blessedtwins:
I have reached out to church but they are seeking for mediation which doesn't tally.Ghojes you once pmed me but I couldn't get to the e mail I used to open nl.thanks
Kaffy4bill pls email me your maternity address at lufizzkids@gmail.com.i mentioned earlier that i will patronise bu easy on me wt bills I beg you.
lovinam what about everything you pitch to himto do he says no.or him hiding ur certificate when you tell him you have an
interview
Good to have you all

Please let me know how I can assist you. You can pm me.

MiddyO pls mail me .I saw ur pm notice but unable to access that email thank you
ahnie I am fine oo.this too shall pass.thanks

Hello ozycy, how many minutes walk should one take? Also I heard Agbo, Lipton and ewedu is good for reducing baby and smooth delivery, intend using a birthing center. So I don't want to have issues during pushing and have to be transferred to a hospital which will cost so much, kindly advise if I should go ahead and take them

ozycy:

my former teamie, It's well with you and your baby. Next week Wednesday is still a long time. During my last preggy, I was scheduled for induction the next day and b4 time for the induction, my baby decides to port on her own without being induced. Infact I ve been threatened to be induced in all my preggy except this last one as I always pass due date even dou non of the induction threat never came to pass. All this baby scan weight tin ain't always correct, I also got 4.1 kg as baby's scan weight even dou she came weighing less. You are supposed to be taking long walk as often a possible, you can still start now as it's not late yet. Lastly, talk to your GOD as he will never ever fail you. My prayers are with you.

cinakin:
Hello ozycy, how many minutes walk should one take? Also I heard Agbo, Lipton and ewedu is good for reducing baby and smooth delivery, intend using a birthing center.

Walk as much as you can. I made my tea with lipton while I was preggy cos I just lost appetite for milo. You can take lipton but don't overdo it.

Chinwendym:
whoop whopp whooppers!!!! Mumihaja is in the building! Congratulations on your bfp you shall carry to term in Jesus name amen! Wow my belle sweet me for you no be small.

I pray God does it for safe06, legendsmother,mummyesther, iyeejima and co very very soon.

AMEN IN JESUS NAME. I RECEIVE MY CHILDREN.

ArabianPrince:
Am shocked at all the parochial advice am reading. I reserve my comment though.
My only worries is when the chips are down ...I do hope all the advisors will be able to provide sustainable support morally,financially and otherwise for the lady in question with her kids.

@Eminya. Please get in touch.

Pls voice our ur comment oooo.its either u are enjoying ur own share of d beating or u are melting out such to a woman cos datz d only reason u are sounding lik dis.
In this civilized world u will stil be der advising a woman to stay in an abusive marriage.i throwaway salute 4 u.

lovinam:
Why the anxiety? Baby no wan show una na! Lol.

Senior Lovinam, it's DH o, you need to hear how disappointed he sounded on the phone when I called to tell him. Me, I'm ready to take anyone that God gives to me but then shopping for baby clothes without knowing the sex is so not fun. I don buy unisex clothes tire.

Horlubunmmy:
In ikeja and the amoumt is 5k

Thanks ma'am. But then I'll appreciate the hospital name and address even phone number sef. Lol.